DU Men: What attributes are foremost in attracting you to a man?

[eyesroll]

I'm not a man, but no one else was starting these threads. Let's get some other discussions going.

I'm actually pretty curious if men look for the same things women do in men.

[skypilot]

1. I like men with long hair and...

...an earthy, slightly hippyish quality about them. Not an actual hippy, mind you, but a nice, down-to-earth kind of guy.

[Liberal Veteran]

2. Good grooming, good attitude, humor

Caring nature, left leaning.

[sniffa]

3. good hair

and a good wardrobe - i Love ravers.

and even more shaLLow... good body.

[skypilot]

5. OK Sniffa, I have to ask.

Why do you like to capitalize the L's in your posts? What is it with THAT letter?

[sniffa]

6. it's a reaLLy Long expLanation

but the short speak - L is for LiberaL. if you see it eLsewhere (beyond the LiberaL boards), know it's a shout out.

[skypilot]

10. Ahhh, yes...

...those Lovely LiberaLs. I Like them aLso.

[patriotvoice]

4. Eyes

Followed by:
* smile
* posture
* svelteness

I've only met one guy to whom I was genuinely attracted, so I'm not 100% certain of the attractive voracity of these traits.

[Deja Q]

7. "PEP". Personality, Eyes, and you can guess the other one...

O8)

(hey, someone else here wants the whole body. I just want one part of it! :D )

[Liberal Veteran]

8. Perfume?

I'm confused.

[Maestro]

9. Hey for whatever reason more gay men

find me attractive than straight women or is that they are intimidated? Oh how arrogant of me! No seriously, it's true. If my wife hadn't been so aggressive in pursuing me I'd probably still be single (and straight).

[StopThief]

11. Big screen TV, ice cold Bass on tap, season tickets, . . . .

and a wife or girlfriend with lots of hot friends.

:evilgrin:

[Guaranteed]

12. I like big boobs. nt

[xchrom]

13. there's a lot of different kinds of men

there's preppys
alternative/indie
rugged/rough
youg/twink
etc.

i like them all -- depends on my mood -- i.e. if they are alternative they might have a shaved head or if they are jock then i want 'em w/ hair.
i guess the most important quality besides looks is -- wait for it -- size!
anyone surprised?
sigh -- i didn't think so.

[Guaranteed]

14. What's

a twink?

[patriotvoice]

15. "A cute young thing with nothing upstairs"

EOM

[pagerbear]

16. Smile, humor, smarts, friendly face

Those are musts. For the rest, if I like a man, I like what he's got.

[Not Me]

17. I have gotten past physical attributes...

I am attracted to a guy who takes me for who I am, and who will be there when I need him. (btw, I am happily coupled* with just that guy!!!)

*Would like to get married, but we live in Florida.

[trof]

18. I like intelligent, liberal men

with a finely honed sense of humor and appreciation of the ridiculousness and transience of the human condition.
It's also nice if they drink Scotch and can talk flying too, but not mandatory.
Looks don't matter.
Smokers welcome.
Or non.
I'm hetero.
;-)

[TrogL]

19. young, skinny, blonde, nice butt

your typical twink

[xchrom]

20. you rascal!