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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:36 PM
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Where's the 'I am 32 & living alone - does that make me a lesbian?' thread
If anybody can tell me I would appreciate it - I wanted to read it last week but was using a freeper's PC so didn't get the opportunity...

Thanks!
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:41 PM
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1. Uhhhhh....
That's I'm 41 and not married....

I said what I said and that's all there is to it. :shrug:

Leave us boring nerdy single people alone. And leave gay people alone while you are at it.
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:44 PM
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2. Oh, that concluded. We all decided that
if you were 32, living alone, and a man, you weren't a lesbian.

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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:45 PM
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3. Oh damn, I was hoping I was . . .
I'm too old anyway, I'm 36 and living alone. :evilgrin:
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:50 PM
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9. Sorry, you are too old to be a lesbian. 32 and out. nt
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nonconformist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:47 PM
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4. But I'm 32 and married w/kids
can I be a lesbian anyway?
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:53 PM
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10. With gay marriage legal, yes.
We have to remember that being married now includes same sex marriage.
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:47 PM
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5. uh...
I just innocently want to know where that thread is, as it looked interesting - that was really the subject line!

As a woman who has always suspected she "wasn't the marrying kind", I wanted to read it!
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:48 PM
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6. Fine...
but you'll have to wait until the search feature is reactivated. There's a lot of traffic here, try a search later on today.
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Seansky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:50 PM
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7. Actually, I think it was about 41-42, and I AM 38 and responded to it
something as follows:

With the divorce rate as it is...

Female, 38 years old, wonderfully active relationship with with male partner for almost 8, not bad looking and rather a successful professional, Latin blood, and choose not to get marry 'cause, unless one plans to have kids, WHY mess up with something wonderful?

Anyway, it was a good thread.

And, if this is about Drier or Roberts, the bad thing there is that they might be too much of hypocrites...
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:50 PM
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8. I was 32 and was living alone until I moved in with my future wife.
Later we got married and much later we had two kids.

We started living together in October, 3/4 of the way through the year.

This does mean I am 3/4 lesbian? Do I lose some fraction of my lesbianism for being a man?
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:56 PM
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12. 32
and unmarried... isn't a tragedy for a man - only for a woman.
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LizMoonstar Donating Member (392 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:56 PM
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11. huh.
see, i always assumed that if you were a woman who liked to have sex with women, but not with men, then you were a lesbian, but probably not otherwise. silly me!

now i want to see this thread!
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charlie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 02:59 PM
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13. Link
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-28-05 03:03 PM
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14. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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