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I'm pretty upset right now, and I need an explanation

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I'm pretty upset right now, and I need an explanation
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:09 PM by WilliamPitt
As you all know, I was one of the people who took point on raising money for Andy. I wrote about it for truthout two or three times, and convinced the crew at Progressive Democrats of America as well that we needed to raise a call for help.

This is what I wrote for truthout on May 3rd:

"A few weeks ago, Andy was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, one of the more dangerous varieties of the disease. His doctors told him he needed a Whipple procedure to get at the tumor, and only a few hospitals in America can perform this complicated procedure with the required competence. To compound the problem, Andy shares the plight of millions of others in our disgusting for-profit health care system and does not have health insurance."

This is what I wrote on the PDA blog, in our call for help, on April 29th:

"Several weeks ago, Andy was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He was recently told that he must undergo what is called a Whipple Procedure. This is a very serious surgery that few hospitals in America are skilled enough to perform well, and requires significant time for recovery. Fortunately, some friends managed to get Andy a slot at Johns Hopkins Medical Center, one of the premier hospitals for this type of procedure. He is slated for the procedure in the second week of May. Unfortunately, the hospital requires a $25,000 down-payment before they assent to doing the Whipple, and requires another $25,000 once the procedure is done. They are expecting the down-payment immediately."

The basis for this started way back in February. On the 29th, I posted this truthout blog entry, which I reposted here on the first and fifteenth of every month to help raise money:

"For the last several weeks, Andy has been suffering through a bout of Hepatitis. The word came down yesterday, however, that his situation is far more serious. 'I apparently have a tumor growing around the bile duct where it passes through my pancreas," he wrote. "The tissue sample was consistent with malignancy; it could be benign but I am planning for the worst.'"

Note that here it says 'tumor.' In subsequent weeks I was told that it was pancreatic cancer requiring a Whipple. Note also that the fundraising for Andy did not start a week or so ago, but started three months ago.

I woke up today to this DU thread, in which it was reported:

"fyi: it is a tumour on the duct, not the pancreas themselves. it looks to not have spread at all. it is not pancreatic cancer as others have posted, but if it was not caught early enough, it would have certainly spread there."

"...as others have posted..."

I am one of those "others" who posted it was pancreatic cancer, requiring a Whipple. I posted it here, on truthout, and on PDA. I did so because that is what I was told was the diagnosis, repeatedly, by both Andy and others.

Now that it turns out not to be the case, I have some questions:

1. If it was not the very serious pancreatic cancer, why did the surgery need to be done at Johns Hopkins?

2. If a Whipple was not required, why was $25,000 and then $50,000 needed for this surgery? Andy could have gotten this far-less-serious procedure done back in Seattle for a hell of a lot less money.

3. Why was I personally told this was pancreatic cancer? Why was I allowed to repeat this now-inaccurate diagnosis many times without anyone correcting me?

Understand: I believe Andy has a tumor of some kind, and this requires medical attention. I do not think this entire situation was fabricated from nothing.

But the 400 people who will come into this thread with "Andy doesn't need this stress" can hold your water. Andy is apparently a hell of a lot less ill than I and others were led to believe, and I need some answers. I put my reputation, the reputation of truthout, the reputation of PDA, and the reputations of all the people who work for those organizations on the line not once, not twice, but every day for weeks on this. I have a huge, huge responsibility here, and I am not going to just let that drop.

I have a personal reason for asking these questions over and above everything else. A great and good friend of PDA, activist Damu Smith, was recently diagnosed with advanced colon cancer. There is no ambiguity about this diagnosis. But because I was told Andy had pancreatic cancer requiring a $50,000 Whipple in the best hospital on the Eastern seaboard, I talked PDA into diverting time and resources towards Andy. This wound up diverting time and resources away from Damu.

I would like some answers. No wait and see. I have spent time with Andy, worked with him, thought I knew him well enough to vouch for him in a time of crisis. I am feeling personally betrayed right now, and furthermore I have put far more than my own feelings and standing on the line here.

If you think I'm a bastard for asking, I will live with that. But if this is not explained to a degree I find satisfactory, there is going to be hell to pay.
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   Thank you.  Goldmund   May-17-05 01:05 PM   #1 
   There is nothing wrong or offensive in anything you said.  Stand and Fight   May-17-05 01:06 PM   #2 
   Question though  ET Awful   May-17-05 01:06 PM   #3 
   That was February  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:08 PM   #6 
   seems like  Bluerthanblue   May-17-05 01:27 PM   #36 
      that was a beautiful post.  Willy Lee   May-17-05 01:44 PM   # 
      I just found out in this thread that our friend Damu is sick  qanda   May-17-05 01:53 PM   #81 
   Close but not quite the same, description and picture here  uppityperson   May-17-05 02:06 PM   #112 
      you just described  Bluerthanblue   May-17-05 02:31 PM   #184 
         Same thing happened to my MIL  GreenPartyVoter   May-17-05 03:16 PM   #286 
   Well, I have no clue what's going on. I trust both of you and to see  GreenPartyVoter   May-17-05 01:06 PM   #4 
   I'll assume that you've already asked these questions directly of Andy.  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 01:08 PM   #5 
   Us too, Misuderestimator. Will, we're with you as well.  anarchy1999   May-17-05 01:54 PM   #83 
   Just curious  OldLeftieLawyer   May-17-05 01:09 PM   #7 
   Ditto  bruin303   May-17-05 02:14 PM   #144 
   Perhaps you need to talk to Andy  MadHound   May-17-05 01:09 PM   #8 
   He's not relying on an anonymous chat board.  Goldmund   May-17-05 01:11 PM   #12 
   I second this  supernova   May-17-05 01:12 PM   #14 
   Exactly. Why air a concern publicly before giving a "friend" an  fooj   May-17-05 01:20 PM   #22 
      It was the source  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:23 PM   #29 
         especially since the "proof"  knowbody0   May-17-05 01:38 PM   #59 
         Could be they found it wasn't CA when they got in. nt  emcguffie   May-17-05 01:50 PM   #76 
            Could also be a "pre-cancerous" condition  emcguffie   May-17-05 01:56 PM   # 
   A lot of cases doctors don't know 100% if it's cancer until they perform  cat_girl25   May-17-05 01:10 PM   #9 
   Or if it has spread  supernova   May-17-05 01:13 PM   #15 
   Fair and honest questions about something which seems fuzzy  havocmom   May-17-05 01:11 PM   #10 
   I don't think you are a bastard for asking  ultraist   May-17-05 01:11 PM   #11 
   Take Nothing on Faith Alone  Coyote_Bandit   May-17-05 01:12 PM   #13 
   Will, it wasn't Andy that posted  missb   May-17-05 01:14 PM   #16 
   I agree.  Goldmund   May-17-05 01:16 PM   #17 
   me too. (nt)  goodboy   May-17-05 01:16 PM   #18 
   Well  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:17 PM   #19 
   It is kinda like that game of telephone  missb   May-17-05 01:20 PM   #23 
   Deleted message  Name removed   May-17-05 01:21 PM   #26 
   I think that the important thing is that we got him to JH,  Maat   May-17-05 01:28 PM   #40 
   As someone said earlier, you often don't know the diagnosis  Willy Lee   May-17-05 01:51 PM   #78 
   Sound like an episode of "House"  question everything   May-17-05 03:04 PM   #265 
      I don't know what that is-  Willy Lee   May-17-05 03:37 PM   #319 
   Maybe everyone is a little right  Im with Rosey   May-17-05 03:02 PM   #261 
   Will, could you please check your inbox?  arnheim   May-17-05 03:15 PM   #283 
   Exactly  salvorhardin   May-17-05 01:20 PM   #24 
   Exactly  BattyDem   May-17-05 01:29 PM   #41 
   Why not take the direct approach?  Jacobin   May-17-05 01:19 PM   #20 
   It appears that horse has left the barn  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:22 PM   #28 
   re: being a trusting friend  VelmaD   May-17-05 01:25 PM   #34 
   Yes, it's easy to do  ultraist   May-17-05 01:55 PM   #87 
   I was going to post a similiar thread  belladonna   May-17-05 01:19 PM   #21 
   No flames here...  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 01:30 PM   #45 
   Thank you and Excellent Post  TornadoTN   May-17-05 01:21 PM   #25 
   Same surgery required?  sandnsea   May-17-05 01:21 PM   #27 
   .  merh   May-17-05 01:24 PM   #31 
   You're asking very good questions  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 01:24 PM   #30 
   I'm not in the medical field  ultraist   May-17-05 02:10 PM   # 
      My aunt died of pancreatic cancer  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 02:16 PM   #152 
         So sorry to hear about your Aunt  ultraist   May-17-05 03:16 PM   #288 
   Will, you've already had to post one public apology to Andy.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 01:25 PM   #32 
   Don't you think it's Will who is owed the apology  qanda   May-17-05 01:31 PM   #46 
      In a word. No. Will is a smart person and he knows how to get  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 01:35 PM   #54 
         Was bettyellen wrong?  Goldmund   May-17-05 01:37 PM   #58 
         If I remember what she said, yes.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:07 PM   #116 
            Thank you.  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:09 PM   #124 
            To my knowledge, that is the DX he got in Seattle.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:26 PM   #171 
               The essential question is what "this thing" is.  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:31 PM   #185 
                  True. But I don't know why Johns Hopkins would schedule Andy  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:35 PM   #191 
                     Beth, here is one thing I do not understand...  Debbi801   May-17-05 03:01 PM   #260 
                        Sure. Good question.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:24 PM   #302 
            Where do you get this information?  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:11 PM   #137 
            From Andy and from MissWaverly. And if you ever have another  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:13 PM   #143 
            But how could they  XemaSab   May-17-05 02:33 PM   #187 
         Will really put himself out there, publicly on DU  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 01:41 PM   #64 
         Yes, he did. So did many of us who are public figures.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:04 PM   #104 
            I believe you're mistaken  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 02:10 PM   #130 
               Me, too! Skinner said that when Andy checks into the hospital.,  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:16 PM   #153 
         Sorry, but it seems to me that those reliable sources failed him  belladonna   May-17-05 01:41 PM   #65 
            You might want to reread my post. I didn't say he owed anyone  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:02 PM   #100 
               Then I'm confused  belladonna   May-17-05 02:04 PM   #105 
               Self-delete  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:07 PM   #115 
               See my reply above. n/t  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:08 PM   #121 
                  Sorry, didn't see it  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:09 PM   #126 
               Self Delete  qanda   May-17-05 02:14 PM   #145 
   He needed help. I helped him. That's enough for me.  Just Me   May-17-05 01:25 PM   #33 
   About 150 people  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:28 PM   #38 
   Understandable, but  TornadoTN   May-17-05 01:30 PM   #43 
   i lied by ommission giving this money to andi  seabeyond   May-17-05 01:46 PM   #73 
   I only wish you would've talked to Andy before posting this. (nt)  goodboy   May-17-05 01:26 PM   #35 
   I'll second that sentiment, goodboy.  meganmonkey   May-17-05 01:41 PM   #66 
   "Andy is apparently a hell of a lot less ill than ... led to believe."  Zenlitened   May-17-05 01:27 PM   #37 
   This is what I am seeking  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:29 PM   #42 
      So, have you asked him for further documentation?  merh   May-17-05 01:34 PM   #51 
         I slept like a baby last night  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:40 PM   #62 
            Glad to hear it  merh   May-17-05 01:42 PM   #67 
   Skinner was going to get in touch with Andy and get him to give his  patricia92243   May-17-05 01:28 PM   #39 
   Last I heard it was on hold until he is admitted. nt  smartvoter   May-17-05 01:32 PM   #48 
   I hope you discussed  Mojorabbit   May-17-05 01:30 PM   #44 
   Andy said  salvorhardin   May-17-05 01:33 PM   #49 
      Not only that,  Goldmund   May-17-05 01:36 PM   #56 
         It wasn't just here  salvorhardin   May-17-05 01:42 PM   #68 
   Hopefully this will make you feel a little better, Will.  WillowTree   May-17-05 01:32 PM   #47 
   Couple of things  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:35 PM   #53 
   I thought someone said...  WillowTree   May-17-05 01:37 PM   #57 
   Who knows  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:39 PM   #60 
      Will  missb   May-17-05 01:50 PM   #75 
      I am very glad that I participated in an effort to get the correct ..  Maat   May-17-05 01:50 PM   #77 
      I'm going to ask the bad question here then...  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 02:01 PM   #96 
      Well, I was scared speechless right after Bad Doc gave me ..  Maat   May-17-05 02:12 PM   #139 
         I don't disagree... I would still have donated no matter what the  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 02:26 PM   #170 
            I hear you.  Maat   May-17-05 02:40 PM   #200 
      That's why medicine isn't an exact science  Horse with no Name   May-17-05 02:08 PM   #119 
      Hold up.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:11 PM   #136 
         "The whole diagnosis has not changed."  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:13 PM   #140 
            Which medical professional gave you the latter? n/t  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:15 PM   # 
               So it isn't pancreatitis?  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:18 PM   #158 
                  Will, I gave you the infomation I have.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:23 PM   #164 
                     Wait  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:27 PM   #172 
                        Yes, Will, I am.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:31 PM   #183 
                           Excuse me, but a CAT scan by its very nature is 3D  salvorhardin   May-17-05 02:45 PM   #216 
                           Good to know. You might pass this on to the guys at JH  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:46 PM   #222 
                              ...but a CAT scan was done in Seattle  salvorhardin   May-17-05 02:54 PM   #245 
                                 Yes. And they did a different kind of scan on Thursday  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:57 PM   #252 
                           Sfexpat2000 .... I believe everything you say ...  Maat   May-17-05 02:51 PM   # 
                              Thank you. Let's get our champagne ready.  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:54 PM   #246 
                                 I have it on ice!  Maat   May-17-05 02:57 PM   #253 
                                    Me, too! One would think we'd all be. I've got to run  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:00 PM   #258 
                                       Good luck on the errand!  Maat   May-17-05 03:17 PM   #292 
   From what you have read, 3rd hand on a message board?  merh   May-17-05 01:39 PM   #61 
   I donated because of what I read, third hand  belladonna   May-17-05 02:02 PM   #101 
      Not thirdhand, only secondhand, lol  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:28 PM   #178 
   Son had cancer. TIME is of the essence. Hurry, hurry, hurry. No  patricia92243   May-17-05 01:52 PM   #79 
   I just don't get this.  Willy Lee   May-17-05 01:58 PM   #90 
   I don't think Will is worried about his own money  lukasahero   May-17-05 02:08 PM   #122 
      OH- so he wants all 50 thousand back because he has found a BETTER cause?  Willy Lee   May-17-05 02:13 PM   #141 
      Way to twist words!  comsymp   May-17-05 02:15 PM   #150 
      Where did I ask for any money back?  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:15 PM   #151 
      Will- not your words.  Willy Lee   May-17-05 02:22 PM   #163 
      No, he is concerned that the cause was misrepresented.  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 02:17 PM   #156 
         exactly, skinner and this site third donation  seabeyond   May-17-05 02:44 PM   #214 
            to clarify...  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 02:56 PM   #251 
               i agree with you  seabeyond   May-17-05 03:09 PM   #270 
                  I saw your other post about that after this one...  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 03:16 PM   #285 
      Well this is no way to bolster his reputation, IMHO.  im10ashus   May-17-05 02:17 PM   #154 
         Did you just escape from the 7th circle of right wing hell?  displacedtexan   May-17-05 03:32 PM   #316 
   This is something that I was wondering, too  question everything   May-17-05 03:28 PM   #307 
   But such surgery could easily be performed in Seattle...  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 01:35 PM   #55 
   Really Disturbing  TornadoTN   May-17-05 01:42 PM   #69 
   Just an FYI  Horse with no Name   May-17-05 01:33 PM   #50 
   You deserve answers  silverlib   May-17-05 01:34 PM   #52 
   I'm not a Dr. and did donate, and don't know a lot -- however in these  KaliTracy   May-17-05 01:40 PM   #63 
   I'm going to step out on a limb here  undeterred   May-17-05 01:43 PM   #70 
   Next time, get the facts before you start a fund drive  The_Casual_Observer   May-17-05 01:44 PM   #71 
   FWIW, when I had cancer surgery in 1985  Lerkfish   May-17-05 01:46 PM   #72 
   Thanks for your post.  cruadin   May-17-05 01:59 PM   #93 
      thanks, I'm a cancer survivor (knocks wood)  Lerkfish   May-17-05 02:10 PM   #133 
   It is possible  MuseRider   May-17-05 01:47 PM   #74 
   Thank you for considering this logically, looking at the time line.  merh   May-17-05 01:55 PM   #84 
      I don't think that is the case  MuseRider   May-17-05 02:01 PM   #97 
         As Will is a journalist. he knows how to go about investigating  merh   May-17-05 02:06 PM   #113 
            I'll support them both.  MuseRider   May-17-05 02:14 PM   #146 
               But, Will also knows Andy.  merh   May-17-05 02:17 PM   #155 
                  I really do not want to argue  MuseRider   May-17-05 02:27 PM   #173 
                     Then don't argue.  merh   May-17-05 02:31 PM   #182 
                        Well  MuseRider   May-17-05 02:38 PM   #196 
                           Deleted message  Name removed   May-17-05 02:48 PM   #231 
   This thread is fodder for the dark side at CU.  cat_girl25   May-17-05 01:53 PM   #80 
   Please.  Goldmund   May-17-05 01:55 PM   #85 
   Pizza sounds like a great idea  comsymp   May-17-05 02:11 PM   #138 
   Oh Geeze....  benburch   May-17-05 02:45 PM   #215 
   Who gives a damn  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:56 PM   #88 
   I agree. And I don't give a damn either.  cat_girl25   May-17-05 02:06 PM   #111 
   And it's his fault that this has become fodder for CU???  belladonna   May-17-05 01:59 PM   #92 
      No need to get protective of Will.  cat_girl25   May-17-05 02:04 PM   #107 
         Protective of Will?  belladonna   May-17-05 02:09 PM   #127 
   Then why did *I* know from the beginning where the tumor was?  SmokingJacket   May-17-05 01:54 PM   #82 
   You weren't on the phone with him and others  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 01:57 PM   #89 
      I see that what you're upset about is your reputation.  SmokingJacket   May-17-05 02:10 PM   #129 
   Will, I guess I understand...  Green Mountain Dem   May-17-05 01:55 PM   #86 
   That's great!  qanda   May-17-05 02:01 PM   #99 
   Agreed  TornadoTN   May-17-05 02:04 PM   #108 
   Yes. I agree with you.  Maat   May-17-05 02:07 PM   #118 
   I must agree with GMD  acmejack   May-17-05 02:09 PM   #123 
   My assumption was that it is still at the 'treatable' stage  Mairead   May-17-05 01:59 PM   #91 
   The point  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:00 PM   #95 
      Then how do you plan on solving this?  merh   May-17-05 02:05 PM   #109 
      Where is Andy?  XanaDUer   May-17-05 02:10 PM   #131 
      "I was told...this was an immediate life-or-death situation"  Mairead   May-17-05 02:15 PM   #147 
      Will....."the point"....  Green Mountain Dem   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #229 
   I am just glad you didn't put being a 'good friend' anywhere  Spazito   May-17-05 01:59 PM   #94 
   Yup.  Zenlitened   May-17-05 02:01 PM   #98 
   Good Point!  im10ashus   May-17-05 02:03 PM   #103 
   amen. surely, there is another way to deal with this  noiretblu   May-17-05 02:11 PM   #135 
   Why is Will Pitt being made out as the villain?  qanda   May-17-05 02:30 PM   #181 
      No shit.  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:35 PM   #190 
      FWIW, many were instrumental in raising money. This was crossposted  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 02:37 PM   #193 
      I understand your point  qanda   May-17-05 02:45 PM   #219 
         I reserve my right to criticize. I've seen nothing posted to raise a flag.  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 02:46 PM   #224 
      My point was 'good friends' don't handle issues like this  Spazito   May-17-05 02:44 PM   #212 
      Well, good friends also notify their friends  qanda   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #228 
         Wow!  Spazito   May-17-05 02:53 PM   #241 
            I don't know why you just said wow, but I will add...  qanda   May-17-05 02:59 PM   #257 
               Would you take out a full page ad that reaches thousands  Spazito   May-17-05 03:12 PM   #278 
                  I get what you're saying  qanda   May-17-05 03:17 PM   #289 
      Well, I'll admit to having the nerve to ask Will to talk to his friend  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:51 PM   #235 
   I gave money, not a lot, and I'd do it again. I'm not sorry I crossposted  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 02:03 PM   #102 
   ditto that "walk a mile" MrsGrumpy.  Willy Lee   May-17-05 02:04 PM   #106 
   Good grief.  Dee625   May-17-05 02:05 PM   #110 
   I just can't believe you posted this.  meganmonkey   May-17-05 02:07 PM   #114 
   Why?  erichzann   May-17-05 02:08 PM   #120 
   To make a long story short  meganmonkey   May-17-05 02:11 PM   #134 
   I'll take that rap  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:10 PM   #128 
   I'm not referring to whether or not your suspicions are correct  meganmonkey   May-17-05 02:15 PM   #149 
   So, better to assume the worst, without checking for facts?  Bunny   May-17-05 02:18 PM   #157 
   The middle ground would be to go to people you do trust  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:19 PM   #161 
      Trust is a funny thing  belladonna   May-17-05 02:28 PM   #174 
         You may want to read my post again. I suggested that Will go  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:33 PM   #186 
            I test pretty high on reading comprehension  belladonna   May-17-05 02:38 PM   #195 
               I agree. A simple solution. n/t  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:40 PM   #201 
                  Since you agree, I'll assume that this is what you're going to do?  belladonna   May-17-05 03:03 PM   #263 
                     I have no access to Andy's records. And if Will needs more  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:17 PM   #290 
   Hey Megan  Dee625   May-17-05 02:55 PM   #248 
      Hey - it's good to see you!  meganmonkey   May-17-05 03:11 PM   #271 
   No matter what the truth turns out to be  yvr girl   May-17-05 02:07 PM   #117 
   "don't let it make you cynical"  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:10 PM   #132 
   Andy, you can put this to rest Right Now! Step up to the keyboard.  spanone   May-17-05 02:09 PM   #125 
   Andy doesn't need people on his case. So pipe down, please.  Mairead   May-17-05 02:19 PM   #162 
   "I'm pretty upset right now, and I need an explanation"WP  hiley   May-17-05 02:13 PM   #142 
   Exactly!  Bunny   May-17-05 02:26 PM   #168 
   look the deed is done  ooglymoogly   May-17-05 02:52 PM   #238 
   Oh shit  ohio_liberal   May-17-05 02:15 PM   #148 
   A lot  comsymp   May-17-05 02:18 PM   #159 
   It's less considerably less deadly, for one  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 02:18 PM   #160 
   Yes, that much I know  ohio_liberal   May-17-05 02:26 PM   #167 
   Yep, and I donated to help Andy when we could do something.  Maat   May-17-05 02:28 PM   #176 
   fyi  merh   May-17-05 02:26 PM   #169 
   With pancreatic cancer the prognosis is generally not good at all.  Amaya   May-17-05 02:28 PM   #177 
   Hi! Umm...  benburch   May-17-05 02:25 PM   #165 
   You missed the big question  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 02:29 PM   #180 
   You don't seem to want to talk to Andy but he's the only one who can  yvr girl   May-17-05 02:34 PM   #189 
   Will, you have to remember Andy was dealing with different doctors.  cat_girl25   May-17-05 02:39 PM   #198 
   Have you seen ANY of the posts written by folks who have gone through  Willy Lee   May-17-05 02:41 PM   #205 
   My father had several "definitive diagnoses" when he was critically  grace0418   May-17-05 02:42 PM   #207 
   I agree, Will.  benburch   May-17-05 02:50 PM   #233 
   thanks for falling on the sword for DU, Will  seventythree   May-17-05 02:54 PM   #243 
   thanks for falling on the sword for DU, Will  seventythree   May-17-05 02:54 PM   #244 
   I think those are reasonable questions  ultraist   May-17-05 02:51 PM   #234 
   Truly not to be confrontational about this Will  Horse with no Name   May-17-05 02:25 PM   #166 
   Damn...Damn..Damn..  lalajohns   May-17-05 02:28 PM   #175 
   I agree.  Maat   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #226 
   Deleted message  Name removed   May-17-05 02:29 PM   #179 
   this show of unearned self-importance  hiley   May-17-05 02:34 PM   #188 
   selfdelete  libnnc   May-17-05 02:42 PM   #208 
   why didn't he take this up with ANDY in PRIVATE  bpilgrim   May-17-05 02:38 PM   #194 
   Thank you!  Bunny   May-17-05 02:44 PM   #213 
   Amen sister!  bicentennial_baby   May-17-05 03:04 PM   #264 
   Will, talk to Andy directly  supernova   May-17-05 02:37 PM   #192 
   Who is William Pitt?  im10ashus   May-17-05 02:41 PM   #204 
      Yes, he's a journalist  supernova   May-17-05 02:43 PM   #210 
         talented, but prickly. . . . . . eom  annabanana   May-17-05 03:00 PM   #259 
         Subscribes to Code of Ethics of the Society of Professional Journalists?  Melinda   May-17-05 03:04 PM   #266 
   I don't get this HASTE!  mogster   May-17-05 02:39 PM   #197 
   Look, talk to people who know something. Why do this on the board?  Plaid Adder   May-17-05 02:40 PM   #199 
   Amen.  Maat   May-17-05 02:41 PM   #203 
   Thank you, Plaid Adder. n/t  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 02:41 PM   #206 
   amen, again. *nt*  goodboy   May-17-05 02:43 PM   #209 
   Thank you!  Bunny   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #227 
   Hear, hear!  notsodumbhillbilly   May-17-05 02:53 PM   #242 
   Well said, Plaid Adder. Why invite the trolls to screw with us again?  katinmn   May-17-05 02:57 PM   #255 
   Plaid, It's called being a standup guy. You can't have it both ways.  King Coal   May-17-05 03:12 PM   #277 
      This is not being stand-up, it is refusing to consider consequences.  Plaid Adder   May-17-05 03:19 PM   #295 
   Sorry your phone is broken, so you can't speak to Andy  Notorious Bohemian   May-17-05 02:41 PM   #202 
   Deleted message  Name removed   May-17-05 02:44 PM   #211 
   Your point is, Ass?  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 02:45 PM   #217 
   he's from "see you" fuck him..alert that fucker.  goodboy   May-17-05 02:46 PM   #221 
   Freeperland has a thread devoted to Will's post:  janx   May-17-05 03:38 PM   #321 
   Read his name backwards MG  ET Awful   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #225 
   FUCK YOU TROLL!  goodboy   May-17-05 02:45 PM   #218 
   Pat-pat-pat-pat on the back  Goldmund   May-17-05 02:46 PM   #223 
   his name is "bush won" backward...  goodboy   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #230 
      One would really wish they would get a hobby other than hanging on  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 02:49 PM   #232 
      He's violating imageshack's terms of service  ohio_liberal   May-17-05 02:55 PM   #249 
   This REEKS of...  im10ashus   May-17-05 02:51 PM   #236 
   I couldn't be more calm.  patcox2   May-17-05 03:15 PM   #284 
   jesus god  libnnc   May-17-05 02:46 PM   #220 
   Sorry for your suffering and the suffering of your partner. You  merh   May-17-05 02:57 PM   #256 
   I'm so sorry to hear that, libnnc.  Maat   May-17-05 03:31 PM   #312 
   OK...I've avoided posting as long as I can...  VelmaD   May-17-05 02:52 PM   #237 
   It'll be okay, Velma. We're all a little edgy. Maybe to be expected  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:02 PM   #262 
   whoa  DemBeans   May-17-05 02:52 PM   #239 
   The benefit of the doubt  question everything   May-17-05 02:52 PM   #240 
   Deleted message  Name removed   May-17-05 02:55 PM   #247 
   Tinoire  merh   May-17-05 03:11 PM   #273 
   mine as well...  leftchick   May-17-05 03:23 PM   #301 
   Amen!  Maat   May-17-05 03:25 PM   #304 
   Whaaaaat? It's not always about Will!?!?!?!?  Melinda   May-17-05 03:11 PM   #274 
   J'adore Tinoire  bicentennial_baby   May-17-05 03:14 PM   #281 
   I suppose we are going to have to wait until after the  Cleita   May-17-05 02:56 PM   #250 
   Yep, I do......................  nonny   May-17-05 02:57 PM   #254 
   Tax implications  OldLeftieLawyer   May-17-05 03:05 PM   #267 
   Johns Hopkins will  hiley   May-17-05 03:23 PM   #298 
      Huh?  OldLeftieLawyer   May-17-05 03:29 PM   #308 
   This may sound stupid to some. . . but  jeanarrett   May-17-05 03:06 PM   #268 
   Is this some kind of parody?  Goldmund   May-17-05 03:08 PM   #269 
   Has this been suggested?  Kurovski   May-17-05 03:11 PM   #272 
   pass it forward, i like n/t  seabeyond   May-17-05 03:14 PM   #282 
   Sounds like a good idea, but to be honest, looks like Andy  merh   May-17-05 03:23 PM   #300 
   All I can say is that if Andy is not as sick as he thought he was  WI_DEM   May-17-05 03:12 PM   #275 
   and Karl Rove claps his hands in glee...again.  graywarrior   May-17-05 03:12 PM   #276 
   I don't slow down for Freepers.  King Coal   May-17-05 03:13 PM   #280 
   A Modest Proposal  KamaAina   May-17-05 03:13 PM   #279 
   That's a great idea  salvorhardin   May-17-05 03:17 PM   #291 
   Great idea!  im10ashus   May-17-05 03:18 PM   #293 
   Fundraising efforts for Andy have been going on for over 3 months now  qanda   May-17-05 03:23 PM   #299 
   I hope Andy really does have pancreatic cancer  MadisonProgressive   May-17-05 03:16 PM   #287 
   MadisonProgressive  hiley   May-17-05 03:18 PM   #294 
   That's garbage.  Goldmund   May-17-05 03:22 PM   #297 
      Goldmund, I don't know if you'll see humor in this, but I promise  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:30 PM   #311 
         A clarification  Goldmund   May-17-05 03:36 PM   #317 
   What a shitty thing to say  Modem Butterfly   May-17-05 03:21 PM   #296 
   Oh, give me a fucking break  belladonna   May-17-05 03:31 PM   #313 
   Nice spin, you should be proud.  DS1   May-17-05 03:31 PM   #314 
   Illegitimus non carborundum my brother.  LoZoccolo   May-17-05 03:24 PM   #303 
   I don't know if this helps, but when I was diagnosed with cancer, my  Czolgosz   May-17-05 03:26 PM   #305 
   Next time we hold the circular firing squad, could we just use water guns?  meti57b   May-17-05 03:27 PM   #306 
   New thread  WilliamPitt   May-17-05 03:29 PM   #309 
   Will, you've been given several options to get answers to your  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:32 PM   #315 
   Seattle is home to the Fred Hutchison Cancer Center  ZombyWoof   May-17-05 03:30 PM   #310 
   We had a sponsor at JH, not at Hutchison or two others that  sfexpat2000   May-17-05 03:37 PM   #318 
   With respect  EarlGAdmin   May-17-05 03:38 PM   #320 
 
Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:05 PM
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1. Thank you.
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Stand and Fight Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:06 PM
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2. There is nothing wrong or offensive in anything you said.
You want answers and you deserve them. I am certain others feel just the same way that you do. I among them.
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:06 PM
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3. Question though
and I'm not trying to discount your concern in any way . . .

What is the difference between saying "I apparently have a tumor growing around the bile duct where it passes through my pancreas" and "it is a tumour on the duct, not the pancreas themselves?"

They sound like they're describing the same thing to me.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:08 PM
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6. That was February
In the time since, I was told it was pancreatic cancer requiring a WEhipple. I was told this by Andy. I put that third quote in there to underscore the fact that fundraising for Andy didn'st start here a couple of weeks ago, but has been ongoing for three months.
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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:27 PM
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36. seems like
you need to talk to Andy HIMSELF- and address your 'legitimate' concerns- i personally don't have an 'issue' with how '....terrible' the need was,- what i gave, i gave freely-
But you have questions that need answers- You want to know your trust has not been mis-placed, and you feel responsible for 'vouching' for someone- PLEASE! don't let this discourage you from your desire to bring 'good' to others, no matter what the outcome-

If people stop trying to make this world a better place because of being mis-led ( AND THAT'S NOT AN ASSUMPTION- SIMPLY A POSSIBILITY)- we should all drink the kool-aid asap.

No act of kindness, no matter how small, or how it is recieved, or deserved is EVER wasted- it's one more step towards a 'better world'-

i respect you, and i believe the best of people even when that seems insane-

Please tell me more about your friend that is in need- i don't have much, but i'm a believer in paying it forward, without expectations of any 'return'- other than the knowledge that i am becoming who i know i want to be- (pretty selfish when you come down to it)-

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Willy Lee (925 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:44 PM
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that was a beautiful post.
Thank you.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:53 PM
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81. I just found out in this thread that our friend Damu is sick
Damu is an absolute stand-up guy!!!!!!! My husband has done work with him and Black Voices for Peace over the past few years and he is an inspiration to all. The news that he is sick is shocking and disheartening. I would hate for our side to lose someone so dedicated and valuable. My prayers go out for Damu and his family.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:06 PM
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112. Close but not quite the same, description and picture here
First tumor problem is on the bile duct, the tube leading from the gallbladder to the intestines (this is where the bile, digestive enzymes) travel. The second is on something else, perhaps the pancreas itself, perhaps other cells, maybe abdominal lining or metastisized cells from somewhere else. The end result may be the same, but the where and why and treatment are different.

Bile is made in liver, stored in gallbladder, and sent to intestine when needed for digestion. Your gallbladder is on your right, under your liver. The bile duct leads from the gallbladder to intestine, meeting with the pancreatic duct (leading from pancreas to intestines). Bile travels through this tube to the intestine

The pancreas is a very interesting organ, basically making insulin and digestive enzymes. It is behind the stomach, with a duct, a tube, leading to the intestine, which joins up with the bile duct.

You can have cancer of the pancreas or of the duct or of other stuff, like cells around the duct. Pancreatic cancer is serious, very serious, and can be very painful. Think of making digestive enzymes inside yourself and not being able to shove them off into your intestines. Yes, you digest yourself. This happens when the duct gets blocked, or the pancreas fucks up and starts making enzymes where there is no duct (think of cancer being an overgrowth of cells that aren't laid out in proper form).

So, where is the physiological problem? The end result of the tube being blocked may be the same, but where and why will determine the treatment.

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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:31 PM
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184. you just described
my beloved fathers trip through hell-

he died of necrotizing pancreatitis following a bout with 'gall stones'- they removed the gall bladder, but left his iv in for over 10 days, got a staph infection they couldn't get under control, and finally when it looked like he was on the mend, he came home and hemmoraged all over the place- the pancreas had been releasing it's nasty juices all over his interabdominal cavity-
they med-flighted him to the best nearest hosp. and he was operated on- .... they took out all his innards, .... and he lived for 10 days in surgical icu- while the MD's ....un-willing... un-able?.... what-ever the reason, still gave us 'hope' that he could survive and maintain a reasonable 'quality of life'-

it was devestating-...... something i would never wish on ANYONE- a death no one should have to endure-

these bodies of ours are fabulous machines, but when they fuck up, they can do that fabulously too-

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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:16 PM
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286. Same thing happened to my MIL
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:06 PM
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4. Well, I have no clue what's going on. I trust both of you and to see
that you aren't totally together on this, I don't know what to think. I'll wait to see what the answers are and what you make of them. *lost*
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:08 PM
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5. I'll assume that you've already asked these questions directly of Andy.
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:08 PM by Misunderestimator
It's a bit distressing to see that you have questions about it, especially if you've addressed those questions to him directly without an answer. Have you?

(On edit... it's just a question so that I can form my own opinion. I've sat back through most of this, trying to keep assuming the best.)
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anarchy1999 (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:54 PM
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83. Us too, Misuderestimator. Will, we're with you as well.
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:55 PM by anarchy1999
Been off computer since Thursday night. Back on this late morning to find this. It is most distressing to see you Will, having doubts.

We too have stayed out of the fray, we did contribute though. We did promise to send additional, but before it could go into the mail the controversy broke out. Waiting to see how this all comes out before 2nd check goes in the mail.

Will, our trust in you is unshaken. You trusted friends, nothing wrong there, it is an admirable trait.
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:09 PM
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7. Just curious
If you spent time with Andy, worked with him, and knew him on a personal level - to whatever degree - how is it that you and he never discussed his diagnosis in detail?

Or, has the diagnosis changed recently? Medicine makes errors all the time.

Johns Hopkins is a fancy place, mostly for extraordinary procedures.

(FYI - I have no idea who Andy is, nor do I know much beyond what you laid out in your post - I do know that people were generous and supportive in this matter, but it does seem that the situation has taken on a kind of complexity that seems sudden.)
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bruin303 (12 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:14 PM
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144. Ditto
I would like to hear more about who Andy is. Sorry for the ignorance.
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MadHound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:09 PM
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8. Perhaps you need to talk to Andy
After all, he would be the only one who could truly provide you with the answers you need. Besides, this is DU, after all, and shit can get flung around with great abandon, with matters being taken out of context, and people making mountains out of molehills. I'm assuming that you have a way of contacting Andy, I would suggest that you do. perhaps he can provide you with a copy of his doctor's diagnosis.

But frankly, relying on an anonymous chat board is not a good way to get such information. :shrug:
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:11 PM
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12. He's not relying on an anonymous chat board.
He is publically asking questions about a public fundraiser, in view of people who have made it possible.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:12 PM
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14. I second this
I think you need to talk to Andy directly, Will. He's the only one who can provide the answers.

It is entirely possible that after the tests he's been doing, that the situation looks a little less dire.

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fooj (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:20 PM
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22. Exactly. Why air a concern publicly before giving a "friend" an
opportunity to respond? IMO, this is a perfect example of "shit flinging"... contact Andy! Go straight to the source.

peace.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:23 PM
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29. It was the source
that got me going on pancreatic cancer, Whipples and fifty grand. I would like a public disclosure for reasons I think are clearly understandable.
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:38 PM
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59. especially since the "proof"
was the copy of the certified check, not the cancelled check
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emcguffie (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:50 PM
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76. Could be they found it wasn't CA when they got in. nt
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emcguffie (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:56 PM
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Could also be a "pre-cancerous" condition
--that they have to get out, or it will become cancer. And if the Whipple is needed for that spot, it is needed.

Pancreatic cancer is so serious I can certainly see why one would conflate pre-cancerous and cancerous. Having had a pre-cancerous condition myself. You have to get it out however it is gotten out, and be very thankful you did so early enough.
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Catherine Vincent Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:10 PM
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9. A lot of cases doctors don't know 100% if it's cancer until they perform
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:29 PM by cat_girl25
the surgery, correct?
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:13 PM
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15. Or if it has spread
to other areas besides the primary tumor.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:11 PM
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10. Fair and honest questions about something which seems fuzzy
Much as I pray for Andy's good health, I get the feeling I have missed something cuz I don't understand the nuances.
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:11 PM
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11. I don't think you are a bastard for asking
Not by any means. But why are you having to post this, to get answers? It seems that this should be able to be resolved off line. After you receive clarification, if it turns out that it is not cancer, I would expect you would publicly discuss it.

I'm sure everyone realizes that you put your personal and professional reputation on the line. It's your duty to set the record straight for your sake and the sake of your the orgs you are affiliated with. I respect that and the fact you are seeking out the truth here.

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Coyote_Bandit Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:12 PM
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13. Take Nothing on Faith Alone
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:16 PM by Coyote_Bandit
Ask to see the medical records.

Yes, that is an unfortunate thing to say. But it would be my advice to anyone in this or a similiar situation - regardless of who was or was not involved and whether or not I knew them.

Think of it as evidence that supports a persuasive argument. The argument itself may be perfectly legitimate but it remains unproven without evidence to substantiate its claims.

I expect no less of some fundy preacher who claims that people were physically healed as a result of his ministry - medical documents showing both an illness and a cure.

Edit to add: I do not know any of the parties involved and do not question the motives of any. Like others, I have merely followed this developing story here on DU.
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:14 PM
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16. Will, it wasn't Andy that posted
"fyi: it is a tumour on the duct, not the pancreas themselves. it looks to not have spread at all. it is not pancreatic cancer as others have posted, but if it was not caught early enough, it would have certainly spread there."

It was Bettyellen. :shrug: I'd think it'd be better to hear it from Andy, than from Bettyellen or anyone else.

Let's let Andy tell us about the diagnosis, rather than have a 3rd party do it. I realize why you are up in arms about this, but once again we're going to have to ask Andy to clarify the situation.

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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:16 PM
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17. I agree.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:16 PM
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18. me too. (nt)
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:17 PM
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19. Well
I was told differently several times. I find out differently buried in a thread, posted by someone who has been spending time with Andy.
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:20 PM
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23. It is kinda like that game of telephone
You really just have to hear it from the horse's mouth.

Until then, you can borrow this: :banghead:
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Maat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:28 PM
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40. I think that the important thing is that we got him to JH,
and they did diagnostic tests that perhaps wouldn't have been performed if Andy had not visited the right facility. These tests were very expensive, and, fortunately, they were interpreted by experts (that are hard to find).

I'm praying that when they go in, and operate (and they will have to operate and go in and see what it is and remove it), they WILL find out that it is not as serious as first thought.

I pray that Andy gets well quickly. I'm sure that the funds will barely cover all that needs to be done, if that.

I do not regret donating one iota; hopefully, this will focus attention on the heathcare situation in this country. Andy will get well, and we can focus attention on how important it is to get the proper healthcare in a timely fashion. I'm proud of you, me, and the rest of DU for showing that such a marvelous campaign can successfully be carried out.


Now, as for the vicitm of colon cancer ... if he needs help, please let us know, Will.

We really need to highlight (1) how important it is to get regular annual exams, (2) how important it is to get timely care, and (3) how pitiful the healthcare system is in the USA.

Bless you, Will. God bless Andy. God bless your friend with colon problems.

It will be fine.
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Willy Lee (925 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:51 PM
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78. As someone said earlier, you often don't know the diagnosis
until you've been through some pretty invasive tests at the hospital. When we went through this, first it was-

You have a bladder infection, take these antibiotics.

Then it was- OK, that didn't work, lets do a biopsy.

Then it was- the biopsy looked good, strange looking cells, though...

A week later- you have bladder cancer.

Then, after more tests- you have rhabdomyosarcoma, a soft tissue cancer.

This is not uncommon at the hospital, and this was at an NCI designated site.

Please talk to Andy. If the diagnosis has changed, which it may have, from pancreatic cancer- a very very nasty cancer with a low survival rate- to a malignant tumor located near the pancreas- I would say we all have reason to celebrate for Andy.
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:04 PM
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265. Sound like an episode of "House"
tonight, at 9:00/8:00 pm on.... Fox..
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Willy Lee (925 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:37 PM
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319. I don't know what that is-
Edited on Tue May-17-05 03:38 PM by Willy Lee
but am assuming that you are not poking fun at my family's struggle with cancer.
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Im with Rosey (619 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:02 PM
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261. Maybe everyone is a little right
and a little wrong. Sometimes when talking about things that we don't completely understand, we put it into our own words. Those words can sometimes drift into something that is not quite as accurate as we meant, but through no one's fault it has become confused and inaccurate. I, myself don't always protect the accuracy of a statement just in my own interpretation of the statement. This has nothing to do with credibility, it is simply human nature that sometimes happens. Your trust in Andy is damaged and the only way to solve that is to level with him about everything you are concerned about, leave nothing out. You, Will, are a very perseptive person, you will KNOW. You cannot let this go unchecked. There is no one here that questions your integrity, you have, all along, believed what you were being told because you trust another person. If there is a problem, BIG IF, it is not because of something you did wrong, we are not responsible for the wrongs of others.
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Jo March (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:15 PM
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283. Will, could you please check your inbox?
I PM'd you. thanks
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salvorhardin Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:20 PM
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24. Exactly
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:21 PM by salvorhardin
Will, it wasn't Andy that posted ... It was Bettyellen ... Let's let Andy tell us about the diagnosis, rather than have a 3rd party do it.


There's been a hell of a lot of noise made and a hell of a lot of changing statements from everyone including Andy. Andy himself has said it was pancreatic cancer several times. I've given three times in the past couple of months and quite frankly right now I don't know what to think.

So... Will, thank you for broaching a subject many of us have been afraid to post about and Andy, all I would like is a consistent history of what was known and when. What is the real diagnosis and do you really need a Whipple procedure?

Sorry if I sound harsh, but I'm feeling particularly disillusioned this afternoon.
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BattyDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:29 PM
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41. Exactly
Every time there's trouble or some kind of question about Andy's honesty, it's because of a third-party post.

Let's wait for Andy to say something. I don't know what the truth is, but the man deserves the opportunity to speak for himself before he's criticized - though I completely understand Will's point of view because he DID put his reputation on the line and I'd be anxious about it, too.

In any case, I just hope that Andy ends up healthy after all this is over. :-)




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Jacobin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:19 PM
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20. Why not take the direct approach?
For the life of me, I can't understand why someone in a position such as yourself would not get the patient to sign a HIPPA form and then send the form on to the hospital. There really is no need for all this public thrashing around. There is no need to wonder what is going on. The facts are readily available.

The hospital can then send you ALL his medical records. Then any doubts could be absolutely and completely resolved.

I have a HIPPA form that I use in my practice that I would be glad to email to you if you'd like to PM me. If the patient signs it, you can fax it to the hospital and they will give you his medical records. Its quite simple.

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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:22 PM
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28. It appears that horse has left the barn
Had I been a professional about this - instead of a trusting friend - I would have required that a hell of a long time ago before posting any calls for help.

I'd sure like to see one now.
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VelmaD (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:25 PM
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34. re: being a trusting friend
:hug:

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ultraist (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:55 PM
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87. Yes, it's easy to do
A couple of years ago, a close friend of mine had lung cancer. She wanted me to be able to directly talk to her doctors so she simply filled out a form and I was able to call them and/or talk to them in person.

We did this not because I needed to verify anything, we did it because I was very involved in helping her set up her treatment/care and appointments. (She was too ill to track everything and she did not want to make treatment choices on her own).

The doctors were very open and coooperative. They returned calls, set up meetings and gave me any info they would have given to immediate family.
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belladonna (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:19 PM
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21. I was going to post a similiar thread
But was waiting for the PM and e-mail that I sent to Skinner to be answered before I did. I don't really care who flames me or whether I receive a tombstone for saying this, but I've been very uncomfortable with the silence on this board when it comes to this issue and any verification of the cause I donated not just once, but twice to. Would I have donated had I known it wasn't a life threatening condition? Probably not, because we all know there are MANY DU'ers on this board with medical problems and no insurance to pay for them. If I donated to Andy, I have to donate to them all.

I dunno. I hope Andy comes along and clears this all up and that I get rid of this bad feeling I have that I've just had my pocket picked.

Flame away if ya feel the need, people.
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:30 PM
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45. No flames here...
It does "feel" odd, and has now for a couple of weeks. I would have thought by now we would have had the definitive answer, but there are just more questions.

I feel bad for feeling this way, and I would guess a lot of other people do too, which explains some of the silence. I don't want a gang after me for having a doubt after all these questions have been raised, when I sincerely want the best for Andy and want all this controversy to just go away.

I don't have regrets about the donations I've made, but the questions are piling up.

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TornadoTN (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:21 PM
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25. Thank you and Excellent Post
I'm a long-time lurker, occassional poster who followed this situation very closely. No doubt about it, Andy did have a medical situation and it most likely needed treatment.

However, there are a lot of questions on this matter and you raised the points very succinctly. I think all of us at DU need an explanation, because we all invested our time, money and our emotions to this calling. We deserve to be told the circumstances exactly as they are. No more embellishment, just the facts. If this matter wasn't handled on the straight and narrow, then someone needs to be accountable.

Regardless of the outcome, nothing can take away what we achieved as a community and it doesn't lessen the scope of our intentions in any way.I think coming from you, Will, it speaks volumes about the concern of our community and our compassion for our fellow man.
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:21 PM
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27. Same surgery required?
Whether it's pancreatic cancer or a tumor on the bile duct? This overview seems to say the surgery is done for a few conditions.

http://www.surgery.usc.edu/divisions/tumor/pancreasdise...
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:24 PM
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31. .
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:25 PM by merh
:shrug:

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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:24 PM
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30. You're asking very good questions
1) If this is simply a tumor, surely that would have been discovered when the stent was put in

2) Although Pancreatic cancer is difficult to diagnose early, there is no mistaking it for an encapsulated tumor when it is diagnosed. If this was the case, there is one HELL of a malpractice lawsuit that could be filed here. It's the difference between an almost certain death sentence and severe indigestion.


That being said, no matter what has occured and no matter what will occur, we are all on the same side here on DU. We need to remember that we are allies in a larger fight, one that is bigger than one individual.
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:10 PM
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I'm not in the medical field
But I don't think any doctor would conclusively diagnose cancer based on the appearance of a tumor. They rely on biopsies, actual scientific evidence of cancer cells present.

Biopsies don't show cancer if it's not present, since they look at the cells from the biopsy; but they sometimes show it's not present, when it actually is. (It's possible to get only good cells from a biopsy).

To qualify again, I'm not in the medical field, but I did have a lump removed. The doctors told me that it did not appear to be cancer but not until they did the biopsy or remove it, would they know for certain. (It wasn't cancer). This is the same protocol they used for both my father and best friend, who did have cancer, although in both of their cases, they told them it did appear to be cancer but could not be confirmed until they looked directly at the cells via a biopsy.
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:16 PM
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152. My aunt died of pancreatic cancer
We were pretty close when I was a kid, I even lived with her one summer when things were rough at home.

I started to post a long, rambling paragraph about my aunt, pancreatic cancer, and why I have reservations about this situation with Andy, but I decided to cut it. It's really painful for me and it doesn't add much to the discussion. Suffice to say that among bad ways to die, pancreatic cancer ranks pretty high up on the list. Anyone who doesn't have it should consider themselves damn fortunate.

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ultraist (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:16 PM
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288. So sorry to hear about your Aunt
:hug:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:25 PM
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32. Will, you've already had to post one public apology to Andy.
And it looks like you're going for number two.

Is this thread the best way to get your questions answered? How long is it going to take this board to settle down again, do you think?

The source of your information is not Andy's doctor nor Andy. You might consider that, and might have before posting. You know how to get solid information. Why not put those skills to work?
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:31 PM
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46. Don't you think it's Will who is owed the apology
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:48 PM by qanda
For even being put in this position. If the diagnosis and prognosis had changed so drastically, shouldn't you or someone else have notified Will to the new facts? Why should he have to come to you to find out or read it in a message that was buried in some obsure thread? He put *his* name on the line and this is how he gets treated. What is up with that?
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:35 PM
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54. In a word. No. Will is a smart person and he knows how to get
good information from reliable sources. :)
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:37 PM
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58. Was bettyellen wrong?
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:07 PM
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116. If I remember what she said, yes.
This is the new information: Andy's cancer has not spread to his lymphatic system and doesn't involve any blood vessels.

We found that out via a CAT scan done at Johns Hopkins late last week. And this should be good news,no?

He will still need a Whipple, although there is a possibility the doctor will go with a "mini Whipple". As I myself am not a doctor, I'm not sure what the difference is.

The cost of the surgery is the same.

And that's what I know, Goldmund
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:09 PM
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124. Thank you.
Has he ever been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer?
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:26 PM
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171. To my knowledge, that is the DX he got in Seattle.
You know, we could be feeling good right now that this thing hasn't spread. That's what the test on Thursday showed.

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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:31 PM
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185. The essential question is what "this thing" is.
Leo Strauss believed in noble lies. I don't. WE don't.

It all depends on whether or not your "To my knowledge" is correct.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:35 PM
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191. True. But I don't know why Johns Hopkins would schedule Andy
for a whipple if he didn't need one. :)
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Debbi801 (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:01 PM
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260. Beth, here is one thing I do not understand...
And I am not saying I doubt Andy, I don't.

But, I had a tumor removed from my abdomen last summer. I wasn't feeling well, had some similar syptomes as Andy, etc. I went to the doctor. I saw my regular doctor on August 10th. She immediately referred me for further tests. Saw another doctor on August 12th, which was a Thursday. They immediately scheduled my surgery for Monday, August 16th. No time for add'l tests, pre-op blood work, etc. He wanted it out and if he could have scheduled it for that day or Friday, he would have. Luckily, the tumor, while fast growing, was benign.

I would think that the doctors would have wanted to have this surgery performed on Andy just as quickly. I wouldn't think that this should have gone on as long as it has, since it would theoretically increase the odds of it spreading.

Thanks,
Debbi
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 03:24 PM
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302. Sure. Good question.
Andy has no insurance and JH lost the check. If Andy had had Blue Cross, he'd be post op by now. Sadly, it's that simple.

But I do know that the doc is doing his best to get Andy in as soon as possible.

A DUer explain JH to me as the worst human traffic jam you've ever seen.

Does that make sense?
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:11 PM
Response to Reply #116
137. Where do you get this information?
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:13 PM
Response to Reply #137
143. From Andy and from MissWaverly. And if you ever have another
question, Will, I sure hope you pm me. I'll do my best to help you find what you need, all right?
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:33 PM
Response to Reply #116
187. But how could they
even provide him with an estimate of what the surgery would cost without a diagnosis????
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:41 PM
Response to Reply #54
64. Will really put himself out there, publicly on DU
If he feels he deserves public answers, then he's earned that right. Certainly there are a number of us who would like to get all of this out in the open.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:04 PM
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104. Yes, he did. So did many of us who are public figures.

And, am I mistaken or did Skinner formulate a plan for us last week?
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:10 PM
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130. I believe you're mistaken
I don't recall Skinner telling anyone else to do anything other than remain calm and clear-headed. Which is pretty good advice in general, IMHO.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:16 PM
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153. Me, too! Skinner said that when Andy checks into the hospital.,
he will verify that and the costs of the surgery.

Skinner is a smart guy, too. :hi:
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belladonna (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:41 PM
Response to Reply #54
65. Sorry, but it seems to me that those reliable sources failed him
And frankly, I can't believe you're jumping on him and saying he owes anyone an apology. Even IF it turns out that this was on the up and up, somebody should have let Will know what was going on. He should NOT have had to find out here or at his blog. Will he owe Andy or any of you an apology if this turns out to be legit? In a word, no.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:02 PM
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100. You might want to reread my post. I didn't say he owed anyone
an apology. Yet.

I did say that he has the skills to find the information he needs to put his mind at rest.

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belladonna (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:04 PM
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105. Then I'm confused
Why does he need to use his journalism skills to find out the truth?
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:07 PM
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115. Self-delete
Edited on Tue May-17-05 02:08 PM by Goldmund
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:08 PM
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121. See my reply above. n/t
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:09 PM
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126. Sorry, didn't see it
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 02:14 PM
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145. Self Delete
Edited on Tue May-17-05 02:15 PM by qanda
I see the answers above
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Just Me (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:25 PM
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33. He needed help. I helped him. That's enough for me.
I don't understand what motivates you to post this rather than discuss your concerns about the degree of Andy's hardship with Andy.

I just don't understand.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:28 PM
Response to Reply #33
38. About 150 people
who work for organizations that made this call. It isn't as simple as you (or I) would like it to be.
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TornadoTN (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:30 PM
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43. Understandable, but
I understand the concern and I second the notion that Andy is the one that will be able to clear this all up. I hope that he will.

But coming from Will, it does raise red flags. I donated on the premise that I was helping someone in dire need. Would I have donated if it wasn't a "life or death" matter? Probably not, because there are so many people out there and in my own community for that matter, that need and deserve treatment for a variety of condition. This was sold as "life or death", and DU answered the call and should be applauded.

I guess its just the feeling of uncertainty, especially when you pour so much effort and so much of yourself into something. It becomes you, you are consumed by it. I don't blame Will for wanting some clarification on the specifics, especially since he played a crucial role in it.

Regardless, as I pointed out in my other thread, noone can take away what we accomplished here or taint our intentions. That, to me, is the essence of this matter.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:46 PM
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73. i lied by ommission giving this money to andi
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:50 PM by seabeyond
because i knew it wasnt something my husband would value or appreciate. i lied because though i thought at first was a description of a tumor that wasnt dangerous, i bought into the pancreatic cancer, and felt life was important enough to shrug hubby's voice. so i lied. i took money and spent it when i wouldnt have normally

we donated the money in different spirit.

if it was my money, i could easily let it go.

will, it is reputation more than money i would imagine.

for each person it will be different
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:26 PM
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35. I only wish you would've talked to Andy before posting this. (nt)
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meganmonkey (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:41 PM
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66. I'll second that sentiment, goodboy.
:hi:
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:27 PM
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37. "Andy is apparently a hell of a lot less ill than ... led to believe."
Apparently? Or actually? What are the facts here?

:shrug:
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:29 PM
Response to Reply #37
42. This is what I am seeking
and yes, doing it in public. The statements about pancreatic cancer, Whipples and $50k were public. I made them so.
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:34 PM
Response to Reply #42
51. So, have you asked him for further documentation?
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:34 PM by merh
You could go to the source, investigate your concerns and then report it back to DU. Isn't that what a good journalist (not to mention a friend) would do?

Will, you have to get some sleep. Your lack of sleep is impairing your judgment. This is not an attack, it is an observation and you have let all of the Lounge know you have terrible insomnia. Deal with that, for your sake and for those who trust your judgment. Right now, you aren't using any imho.



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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:40 PM
Response to Reply #51
62. I slept like a baby last night
Went to bed at 8pm, slept through the night.

I am clearer today than I have been in weeks, actually.
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:42 PM
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67. Glad to hear it
If you are so clear, why have you not asked Andy for the documentation so that you can find answers? Why not ask him the questions and then report it here?

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patricia92243 (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:28 PM
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39. Skinner was going to get in touch with Andy and get him to give his
permission to his doctors to discuss his situation.

Then he (Skinner) was going to tell us here at DU what the doctors said.

What is the status of that?

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smartvoter (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:32 PM
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48. Last I heard it was on hold until he is admitted. nt
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:32 PM by smartvoter
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Mojorabbit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:30 PM
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44. I hope you discussed
this with andy before posting here. I know from personal experience thaat you can get several diagnosis before they narrow it down to the correct one. My father had several before they finally opened him up and decided it was indeed metastatic cancer and they thought it was a benign tumor before hand with no spreading which turned out to be wrong even after several MRI's.

I had several dx myself before they hit on the correct one after more and more sophisticated tests.

So while he may have been given a dx of cancer in the beginning it may now be a encapsulated tumor which may or may not be cancerous which they will NOT know till they get in there and biopsy it.

I don't know Andy but I am a retired nurse who donated.

So I really really hope you have spoken with him first before posting this.
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salvorhardin Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:33 PM
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49. Andy said
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:35 PM by salvorhardin
it had been biopsied back in February, I believe. :shrug:

I'll try to find the link...


On edit: Sorry, my bad it was March 23.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.ph...
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:36 PM
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56. Not only that,
but I believe I remember seeing Andy reply to Will's blog post to say "thank you". Not "thank you, and by the way, I don't actually have pancreatic cancer". Let alone that there were a million posts on DU which used the words "pancreatic cancer" and they were only contradicted this morning, in a sort of offhand fashion.
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salvorhardin Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:42 PM
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68. It wasn't just here
it was all over the net. Mike Malloy, Thom Hartmann, the Al Franken message boards, the Randi Rhodes message boards, numerous other websites. Always it was posted that Andy had pancreatic cancer which has a less than 10% survival rate and not pancreatitis (or whatever it is he is supposed to have now) which has a greater than 95% survival rate.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=%22Andy+Stephe...
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WillowTree (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:32 PM
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47. Hopefully this will make you feel a little better, Will.
Edited on Tue May-17-05 01:33 PM by WillowTree
From the Johns Hopkins web site.

http://pathology2.jhu.edu/pancreas/surgery.cfm

and

http://pathology2.jhu.edu/pancreas/whipple.cfm

Looks as if what you're describing is classified as pancreatic cancer and a Whipple procedure would be appropriate if metastasis has not yet occurred.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:35 PM
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53. Couple of things
According to what I have seen, the Whipple is not going to be preformed now.

The diagnosos I was told in the last weeks was difinitive: Pancreatic cancer needing a Whipple. That was the basis of the calls for help, that it was immediate and life-and-death.

Like I said, I don't doubt that Andy has a tumor requiring treatment.

But I am not at all sure that it required $50 grand at Johns Hopkins. It could have been pretty much free at a Seattle hospital.

I need to know why I was told otherwise, why I was allowed to say otherwise.
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WillowTree (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:37 PM
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57. I thought someone said...
....that the surgery was scheduled for sometime next week. Is that in question now, too?
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:39 PM
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60. Who knows
This has been bouncing around like a ping pong ball. First it was $25k, then $50k, then the checks got lost, then Andy posts a thread about writing a 'hot check,' then he deletes his own thread, Skinner has not posted any clarifications, I don't even know what the surgery date is anymore, and now the whole diagnosis has changed.
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Tue May-17-05 01:50 PM
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75. Will
I don't see where it has been bouncing around. :shrug: From what I've gleaned (and I haven't even talked to Andy. Ever.):

It was always $50k. We all knew the $25k was the upfront cost.

Yes, the checks ended up on the someone else's desk.

Is it surprising that someone wrote a check that they didn't have money for, but knew that they'd have money for, and then freaked a bit and posted about it on a message board and then thought the better of it?

Skinner posted a clarification last week, in which he said that when Andy was admitted, we'd have more "evidence".

I'm sure I've read a thread around here that stated the surgery is scheduled for May 26 or sometime next week.

I don't know if the diagnosis has changed. You don't know if it has changed.

DU has been weirded out lately for various reasons. The tone around here isn't exactly friendly. I don't see your original post helping. Talk to Andy. It is the only way you're going to get answers. Asking around here won't help.

I get why you're bent about this. You put your reputation on the line. I can dismiss any discomfort over this issue because I just sent money that I gave freely without expectations. You have more to lose, but this isn't the way to address it.

*lecture over*
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Maat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile <