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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 02:36 PM Original message |
When a friend turns fundie,it's like they are dead. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
1. Sounds like he joined a cult/was brainwashed. |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 07:51 PM Response to Reply #1 |
35. Actually, most fundy sects think this way. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 08:02 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. I agree. |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 08:43 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Hi Lars...you da bomb! :D |
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calico1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. Two things: |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
3. I've had similar experiences. |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
21. I know what you mean |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 10:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
53. I had a friend that happened to-she became unrecognizable |
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pres2032 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
4. i'm so sorry to hear that and i know where you're coming from |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:38 PM Response to Reply #4 |
22. That is so sad |
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Lexingtonian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 05:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
30. that strategy has a name- "lovebombing" |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 07:57 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. Someone recently tried to lovebomb me. |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 07:50 PM Response to Reply #4 |
34. I was exposed to some anti-catholicism as a fundy. |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
5. My husband's family members are fundamentalists fruitcakes |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
6. Who said "Imitation is suicide" pegged it. When you give over your |
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Pharaoh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:09 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. I've seen this happen too |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 11:54 PM Response to Reply #6 |
59. Ralph Waldo Emerson said it |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. If a group makes you break off with your old friends, it's a cult. |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:41 PM Response to Reply #7 |
23. I do remember hearing |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 12:39 PM Response to Reply #7 |
71. "Depressed people can be vulnerable..." |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
9. If he is unwilling to walk among the ordinary people of the earth |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:42 PM Response to Reply #9 |
25. His whole birth |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
10. my best friend for many years was evangelical (not fundy) and liberal |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 03:57 AM Response to Reply #10 |
64. What is a liberal evangelical that discriminates against gays? |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
11. yes. This is what nonchristians at this site don't realize... |
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gorbal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:08 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Their are plenty of non-brainwashed that would be easier sells. |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #11 |
27. "demand left christians like myself to convert the "christian" right wing" |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 08:53 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. The fundies won't listen to me because I'm an atheist. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 10:46 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. They don't listen to liberal Christians, either |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 03:15 AM Response to Reply #54 |
62. Sigh...I guess they have to want to be reached. |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 09:31 AM Response to Reply #62 |
69. its sad. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 04:01 AM Response to Reply #27 |
65. I guess I finally understand the Christian left... |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 09:24 AM Response to Reply #65 |
68. correct. we can yell all we want to deaf people.... |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 12:46 PM Response to Reply #68 |
72. I'm sorry, Lerkfish...for all of us. |
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Extend a Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
12. How incredibly sad |
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bobbieinok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
13. one of my son's best friends in high school attended a conservative |
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mcar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:52 PM Response to Reply #13 |
26. My son had a similar experience |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. You have done a magnificiant job as a parent. You are to be commended. |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
14. I think it's the sensitive soul syndrome - some people are just too frail |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
44. I'm re-reading Elaine Aron's The Highly Sensitive Person... |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:23 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Very interesting site and article, thanks for posting. I hope you didn't |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 10:30 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. Of course, you're right. |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 11:08 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. I felt no disrespect! Also, just love to discuss the issues, too. |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 01:58 AM Response to Reply #55 |
60. Indeed, it would be an interesting study. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
15. I am so sorry |
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geekgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
17. I know how you feel- I still miss some people I lost to fundementalism- |
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Proud2BAmurkin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. His soul dried up and cracked when he joined his FAKE Christian cult |
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qwghlmian (768 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
19. Kinda reminds you of all the DUers who brag |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 05:53 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. To approach this from another angle |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:14 PM Response to Reply #19 |
45. I cut off my relationship with my parents, but there were other... |
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qwghlmian (768 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:30 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. if so, why do you not accept that that |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 10:06 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. It was a combination of factors that made the relationship toxic. |
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qwghlmian (768 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 10:14 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Your case seems to be completely and |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 10:34 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Yes. I am trying very hard not to fall into that trap. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 04:13 AM Response to Reply #19 |
66. Some of us don't want to be abused by people that have |
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FreedomAngel82 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
20. That is so sad |
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slybacon9 (848 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 04:41 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. me too... |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
29. If any of my friends turn fundie, I'm looking out for pods. - n/t |
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Lexingtonian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
32. it's what they do |
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rox63 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
33. I still maintain some contact with my fundie friend |
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Dr Fate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
36. I have a story that mirrors yours- down to minute details, in fact. |
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secular_warrior (705 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
41. A few years ago I dated a girl who was mildy religious, |
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MadisonProgressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
42. Same thing happened too me |
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s1rkull (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
43. Sad isn't it? |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 09:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. Welcome to DU, s1rkull. |
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s1rkull (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 11:30 PM Response to Reply #48 |
56. Thanks, Ladyhawk |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
57. I just about drove myself psychotic with that stuff |
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depakid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-05 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
58. That is a very typical cult story |
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joefree1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 02:23 AM Response to Original message |
61. Having been a fundie in my early teens |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 03:53 AM Response to Original message |
63. aw, panth |
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neonplaque (204 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 07:18 AM Response to Original message |
67. Been there, done that... |
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Jackie97 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
70. I am so sorry. |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-05 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
73. Reading this great post I decided to step back 11 years back to highschool |
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