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whistle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 12:53 PM
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Whether this is true or not....
...this is worth reading:

When an old lady died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near Dundee, Scotland, it was believed that she had nothing left of any value. Later, when the nurses were going through her meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.

One nurse took her copy to Ireland. The old lady's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the North Ireland Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on her simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old Scottish lady, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this "anonymous" poem winging across the Internet:

Crabby Old Woman

What do you see, nurses?
What do you see?
What are you thinking
When you're looking at me?

A crabby old woman,
Not very wise,
Uncertain of habit,
With faraway eyes?

Who dribbles her food
And makes no reply
When you say in a loud voice,
"I do wish you'd try”.

Who seems not to notice
The things that you do,
And forever is losing
A stocking or shoe?

Who, resisting or not,
Lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding,
The long day to fill?

Is that what you're thinking?
Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse,
You're not looking at me.

I'll tell you who I am
As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding,
As I eat at your will.

I'm a small child of ten
With a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters,
Who love one another.

A young girl of sixteen
With wings on her feet
Dreaming that soon now
A lover she'll meet.

A bride soon at twenty,
My heart gives a leap,
Remembering the vows
That I promised to keep

At twenty-five now,
I have young of my own,
Who need me to guide
And a secure happy home.

A woman of thirty,
My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other
With ties that should last.

At forty, my young sons
Have grown and are gone,
But my man's beside me
To see I don't mourn.

At fifty once more,
Babies play round my knee,
Again we know children,
My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me,
My husband is dead,
I look at the future,
I shudder with dread.

For my young are all rearing
Young of their own,
And I think of the years
And the love that I've known.

I'm now an old woman
And nature is cruel;
'Tis jest to make old age
Look like a fool.

The body, it crumbles,
Grace and vigor depart,
There is now a stone
Where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass
A young girl still dwells,
And now and again,
My battered heart swells.

I remember the joys,
I remember the pain,
And I'm loving and living
Life over again.

I think of the years
All too few, gone too fast,
And accept the stark fact
That nothing can last.

So open your eyes, people,
Open and see,
Not a crabby old woman;
Look closer . . .see ME!

Remember this poem when you next meet an old person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within...........we will all, one day, be there, too!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 12:58 PM
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1. Thank you for posting that. n/t
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undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:18 PM
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3. Great post
This woman teaches a great lesson... also,what happened to her
is why I HATE this world. Why do we die? Why is it this way?
If there is some creator of this mess I think it is a sadistic monster to force old age ,sickness and death upon the living as it forces the living to kill living things to eat.Forces the living to give birth so it will grow old and die because deaspite the spots of good experinmces,ife is abuse. If it is evolution and selfish genes,why? why THIS way? I think there is NO reason for it.We might as well use our intellegence to stop abuses and end death and suffering.Apparently we don't evolve into better forms.Civilization the way it is hierarchical and competitive only makes for more death.

This existance sucks,the human condition sucks,it's unjust,it's crazy-making, it's sick.
I HATE it.

We as a species should have more sense than we do after all these millions of years seeing our beloved die .We should battle our real enemies which is the human condition, abuse of power,the sociopathic tendancy inside us,our lack of love and compassion,and come OUT of the cave.
I think this was the ulktimate message the old woman had.Compassion.
See something in a person different than you beyond what your ego and conditioning sees.

I wish humanity would get past it's assholiness,instead of fighting wars,,beating each other up,witholding sustience from each other,dominating one another,scrabbling over status control or money why not work together to overcome the human condition making us crazy enough to destroy one another?
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:10 PM
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2. my daughter starts her clinicals at a nursing home friday..i sent to her
this post...even though i have taught her this fact years ago she will love to print it and share with her nursing classmates at Mount St Mary's .......thank you so much
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:28 PM
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5. I worked in a nursing home during nursing school
and a policy I actively encouraged was for families to bring pictures of the patients taken when they were young and active, set in a cheap frame to place on the bedside table.

The reminder that they weren't always helpless old people was a great one, and I think it improved the care, which was already good.

Nursing homes are horribly understaffed, and the staff they have are underpaid. It's often a thankless job, with many more complaints from family than warm fuzzies from patients. Those pictures helped.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:44 PM
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8. thanks for another wonderful idea to give her...i like the way you think
:hug:
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:26 PM
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4. Thanks for the great post but
if I keep bawling at work they're going to send somebody after me with a net.
I gotta stop reading stuff like this when I'm at the office...
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:30 PM
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6. I was thinking the same thing as I sit crying at my desk again.
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whistle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 08:36 PM
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10. It shows that you are indeed alive and very human.....
...keep those tears coming, it helps the healing of your soul! As for anyone at work who questions why you are crying, show them what you have read. If they cry too, then you know it has helped them heal also. If they have no reaction, pray for them for they are no longer human and may in fact already be dead. If they fire you, they are worth your time and energy and God has something better in store for you. IMHO
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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 01:33 PM
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7. Wow!... thanks n/t
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lumpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-31-05 02:20 PM
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9. And that's the way it is....
I relate
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