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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:14 PM Original message |
"Covenant" Marriage-Good or Bad? |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
1. Let's go back to the bad old days |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:19 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. That's what I thought too |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:21 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. No, they need low paid workers |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
2. Stupid idea...... |
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varun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
3. I think Louisiana |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
5. The word "mandatory" in this context is misleading |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:24 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Personally, I think anyone stupid enough to get one of these.... |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:35 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. I can imagine certain churches pressuring their member to get one |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:42 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. In other words, it's slavery, not marriage. |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:11 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. You are right |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:11 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. In that case, most if not all marriages are "slavery" |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:32 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. If you don't like what I said, feel free to ignore me. |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:38 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Fat chance |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:52 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. I am hostile to the notion because I feel it would detrimental... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:13 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. And so you called it "slavery"??? |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:47 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. A person is able to extricate themselves from a "normal" marriage... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
60. And people can extricate themselves from convenant marriages too |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:38 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Leave it alone. I disagree with your position wholeheartedly |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:15 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. Do you really think there's any chance I will obey your orders? |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:00 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. That's what the article said |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Which underscores the point that if you can be pressured into... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:12 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. Yes, and we know no one has EVER been pressured into getting married |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:20 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I didn't say that they hadn't.... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:23 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. True, you just criticized one for something that applies to the other also |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:26 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Um, did you even read where I replied exactly to someone... |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:32 PM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Of course they would be pressured |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:38 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. I don't think pressure is ALWAYS going to be a factor. |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:40 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Pressure is a factor in traditional marriages also |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:55 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. It is easier to get a divorce than it is for a slave to buy their freedom |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:16 PM Response to Reply #38 |
44. I agree with most of that |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:53 PM Response to Reply #44 |
55. Of course you totally leave out the factor of pressure... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:22 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. That's because the law takes coercion into account |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:32 PM Response to Reply #59 |
64. Yeah, imagine trying to prove social coercion? |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:37 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. You'd have to define it first |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:00 PM Response to Reply #34 |
41. Perhaps it's because "non-covenant" marriages... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:21 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Well, that's the first time you've said that |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:49 PM Response to Reply #45 |
54. I wouldn't have had to had you not jumped to rash conclusions... |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:26 PM Response to Reply #54 |
61. So now I imagined you calling it "slavery"?? |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:30 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. No you imagined me calling ALL marriage slavery... |
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Salviati (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:16 PM Response to Reply #7 |
23. Exactly, what's wrong with all those red staters*... |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:43 PM Response to Reply #23 |
36. The Repugs want to keep gov't out of business |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
8. That has to be the stupidest thing I ever heard of. |
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BattyDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
9. Why would anyone enter into this contract? |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:37 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. On the flip side, it would be a good sign.... |
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BattyDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:58 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Exactly! If a guy suggests this contract ... |
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SharonAnn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
11. To protect marriage, just outlaw divorce and be done with it. |
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neebob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
13. Well, I suppose if they're going to create a special class of people |
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BR_Parkway (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
18. I can't beleive they are going to monkey around with Marriage |
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cornermouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
21. Tell your daughter that getting married is NOT a good thing. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
27. What's the point of "convenant" marriages? |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:37 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. To make it more difficult to get a divorce |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:41 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. But it's not mandatory..per the info given |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:34 PM Response to Reply #35 |
49. No more pointless than banning something that doesn't exist |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:06 PM Response to Reply #49 |
58. Exactly...is there any NEED for this kind of variation? |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:40 PM Response to Reply #49 |
91. so it's a standard of measure as well as being pointless |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:58 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. It's super-duper marriage. For Mormons, it extends beyond death, etc. |
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doni_georgia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
30. James Dobson, Don Wildmon, et al have been endorsing these |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 02:57 PM Response to Reply #30 |
39. And this is exactly the sort of coercion I meant |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:23 PM Response to Reply #39 |
47. That's misleading |
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BrewerJohn (499 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
42. It's another instance of religion |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
46. The main problem I have with these |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:41 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. If marriage is simply a contract |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:56 PM Response to Reply #50 |
56. the problem with interjecting a religious view |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:30 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. I think we mean different things by the "public domain" |
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Kingshakabobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
68. Does the "why" of this law have any bearing on its merit? |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:17 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Very good question |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:24 PM Response to Reply #62 |
73. Though I don't wish to limit the freedoms of consenting adults |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:44 PM Response to Reply #73 |
77. I still am wary of coercion and social/religious/emotional pressure... |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:57 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. Oh I completely agree |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:54 PM Response to Reply #73 |
79. And I share those concerns, particularly your 2nd point |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:06 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. No, these will not cause a sudden merging of state and church |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:13 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. My thoughts on possible constitutional objections |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:19 PM Response to Reply #82 |
83. Well, I'm certainly no legal or constitutional expert |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:25 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. Then we're at basically the same point |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:29 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. Let's hope so! n/t |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
48. This was true in NY ....... |
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Lexingtonian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
51. painfully stupid |
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barbaraann (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
52. Both Lynne Cheney and Laura Bush had to threaten their husbands |
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NicoleM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
57. Here's an idea |
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enki23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
67. what the fuck is wrong with the fundies? |
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sangh0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:21 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. To put it crudely, they can't stop their daughters from fucking |
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regnaD kciN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
72. I think it's a GREAT idea... |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
74. Another good argument for getting the state OUT of marriage. |
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Kingshakabobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
75. Petition to outlaw divorce. |
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fnottr (365 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:22 PM Response to Reply #75 |
84. yeah, I heard those ideas too |
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jmowreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
76. I think all Republicans should be required to get these marriages |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 05:46 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. Speaking of full faith and credit clauses.... |
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jmowreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:24 PM Response to Reply #78 |
86. Not at all. |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:35 PM Response to Reply #86 |
90. Exactly, so would we be able to make their divorces unbinding... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
85. While I think plain marriage is enough |
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Delphinus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
89. Jeez - no freaking way! |
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progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
92. Ok, this is a good thing in a backward way. |
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oneighty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-05-04 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
93. Huckabee and his ilk |
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