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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:14 PM
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I just wrote this about Christopher Reeve - would love your thoughts:
Thank you, as always, in advance.



10/11/04

The Very Brave Man

By calimary

I wasn’t going to do this. I’d already sent in my assessment of the third-of-four big debates on Saturday morning and figured I’d leave it at that until the final round, midweek. But I cannot let the passing of Christopher Reeve go unmentioned.

I’m not going to belabor the finer points of the stem cell research issue, or how many accessable portals there are to someone who believes a nice, faith-based, ostrich-like, pre-Gallileo attitude toward the sciences should govern our ability to do research in the 21st Century. The fine points of that argument can be considered on another day.

All I know is – Christopher Reeve is dead.

All I know is – a ferociously courageous light is shining up in the heavens now, rather than down here on earth where we all need it.

There will be many people eulogizing Christopher Reeve in the days ahead, and it’s completely fitting and proper. But you should also know that his life-altering accident nine years ago wasn’t what motivated him to become an activist. Long ago, Reeve had put his money and his fame where his mouth was, while he was still fit and completely able. He was a founding member of the Creative Coalition – a group of actors and other artists, based in New York, who felt committed to progressive issues about which they cared deeply. Their manifesto, in part, reads as follows:

“As members of the arts and entertainment community, many of us believe that our obligations as citizens are particularly strong. Because of our role in shaping American culture – and because of our visibility – political activity and issue advocacy take on special meaning for we actors, directors, writers, artists, executives, and others who work in the creative professions. The Creative Coalition was created by us and for us to ensure that our involvement in the political and policy-making process is well informed and constructively channeled.”

“The Creative Coalition believes that those of us who help create American culture have an obligation to be involved in the political process that governs it. We are eager to explore the issues and ideas that are at the forefront of national discourse. And we are willing to seek a greater understanding of those issues before we seek to affect them.”
http://www.thecreativecoalition.org/about/presidents_letter.htm

Reeve and other celebrities took their fame and their positions of influence seriously. They believed the role they should be playing outside the studios and off the sets and stages and rehearsal halls should be undertaken with the greatest sense of obligation and responsibility. They knew they had a pulpit. They resolved not to make it a bully pulpit. They knew their power, their names, their money, and everything else their talents brought them gave them the chance to create more than just films, TV shows, plays, music, art, and literature. They could create positive change. And not just because they could get and hold an audience merely for the sake of having an audience. They always strove to study and fully understand an issue before throwing their tremendous weight behind it. Reeve was into that, bigtime. His cofounders, the dreaded Susan Sarandon (one of the wrong-wing’s favorite liberal punching bags), and Ron Silver (sincere, nice-enough fellow who’s unfortunately been lured over to the Dark Side), shared that belief. Their star power, they believed, could be turned to guiding lights. That description certainly fit Christopher Reeve.

I had the great privilege of interviewing him a few times during and after his Superman heyday. Staggeringly handsome he was, and that was the least of it. His quick mind, his deep sense of commitment, his wish to be able to help others, to improve others’ lives, and to rectify social wrongs, was immediately apparent after you began talking to him. He was a total gentleman, charming, intelligent, articulate, well-informed, and despite his MANY blessings, extremely humble. He was sweet and friendly to everyone, even a zonk-eyed reporter he hardly knew, with her heart pounding and her breath quickened at the proximity to him. The Superman character you saw in the movies was not so far removed from him as a man. He had the mild manner of a Clark Kent, and the inner power of the Man of Steel. And after his accident, we ALL assumed that if ANYONE could beat the imprisonment of almost total paralysis, it’d be him.

Toward the end, he faced even greater adversities. Besides just the physical limitations his accident clamped upon him and his family, he was forced to push uphill against an increasingly strident enemy even more powerful and insidious than his disability: the resolutely narrow mind. Scientific research should help us all leap forward, not mire us in a tar pit of pre-Gallileo “thinking.” Faith-based belief systems should be a force for liberation, allowing us to embrace our dreams and strive to make them possible, to reach for the stars rather than to stifle the creative flow and shackle us to the dirt. The most poignant aspect of Christopher Reeve’s passing, other than the realization that he never reached his goal of walking again, is the reminder that faith need not be an intellectual tourniquet.

As long as those forces remain preeminent, we’re all stuck in Christopher Reeve’s wheelchair. As long as stem cell research is discouraged and ham-strung by the panicky, near-irrational hysteria that it somehow is guaranteed to lead directly to more abortions (probably the same way Saddam led straight to the inner circle of al Qaeda and 9/11), we will remain paralyzed. Because the same mindset that condemned and demonized our greatest thinkers, centuries ago, still drags its knuckles across our land today.

This is a time, in our country, when it’s considered okay, and necessary, by far too many of our fellow Americans for at least 1050 of our troops to have died in vain (along with countless thousands of innocent Iraqis). It will be another senseless tragedy if Christopher Reeve’s death is reduced to just another one of those. He gave people hope. Our government, at present, seems more intent on taking that hope away, or snuffing it out. This administration and its loudest advocates have made a lot of hay, gained a lot of ground, and fomented a lot of misery, discord, and divisiveness, while claiming it’s closer to God. Christopher Reeve was, and now literally is, a lot closer to God than the White House and its pals will ever be.


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Richard D Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:20 PM
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My opinion . . .
Wonderful. Excellent. Words of truth.
Thank you.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:37 PM
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12. Thanks.
Hugs!
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laruemtt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:20 PM
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1. beautiful. very moving.
thank you for sharing this. we really have lost a true hero.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:38 PM
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13. Hugs.
Thank you for reading it.
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Kanary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:21 PM
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2. I don't know what you mean, last paragraph,
"just another one of those" That sounds dismissive of human beings without a recognizable name.

Maybe it's the mood I'm in today, but.......... I'm a little tired of celebrities getting the spotlight all the time, and the nameless masses in the same boat are completely overlooked. It's really bugging me greatly today.

But, that's just me, so ..........

Kanary

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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:29 PM
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6. I know what you mean, Kanary! Truly! The really lovely thing about
a guy like Christopher Reeve is that he tried to make something more of his celebrity, and use it for genuine progress and good. Paris Hilton he wasn't. But I know what you mean. The rest of our losses (in Iraq, for example), are SHAMEFULLY anonymous. DISGRACEFULLY. Mainly because THIS WHITE HOUSE MAKES IT SO. Can't even be bothered to honor them at their funerals. Keeping the media from covering them, not even allowed to show their homecoming in those nicely flag-wrapped coffins. Every last one of them should be eulogized and honored in the most glaringly bright media lights possible.

Saturday night I ran into a couple at the local video store - she was a Kerry supporter and he was a lost cause. His line of well-intentioned but infuriating blather to me: "so you don't mind if a hundred or so people are killed in Iraq so a thousand don't get killed here?" I cannot dispute or dismiss your point. It's a good one. This column was written for HIM.
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Kanary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:34 PM
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9. Well, if it's for "HIM", I hope it works, then.
The rest of us will continue to hope that someday, someone remembers us in their words.

There will be column after column after column written today about Reeve. And, very doubtful there will be ONE that speaks for those who are also in his same shoes, just without the name recognition.

I'm disappointed there isn't more room in your column for those other nameless, but....... that's the way it goes.

Kanary
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pacalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:08 PM
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25. I know where you're coming from, Kanary.
My cousin is in Reeves' shoes, except he has been a paraplegic since 1971. He had just signed a contract to play with the Los Angeles Dodgers. Before heading to Los Angeles, he unwisely dove head-first into an unfamiliar pond. A strikingly handsome young man whose father worked every day with him -- even built him a pitching machine -- lost his dreams that day.

Christopher Reeve, I'm sure, gave him hope.
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Kanary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 02:36 PM
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33. I'm glad to hear that, 4_year!
And, appreciate your words.

I would feel differently if there were more support on DU for those who have fallen through the cracks, and are on the bottom rung of this societal ladder. Given that any threads in that area sink rapidly, I just don't feel the warm fuzzies. THere's much work to be done on this.

My greetings to your cousin. May we all feel that hope!

:hi:

Kanary
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:22 PM
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3. That rocks!
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:54 PM
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21. Thanks.
Sure wish he could have seen his dream come true.
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ClassWarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:22 PM
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4. Awesome as usual, Mary.
Your talent is one of many reasons that DU shines so brightly.

24.


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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:41 PM
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14. Thanks CW!
Hey: if it weren't for DU, I wouldn't even have heard about Christopher Reeve's passing. I don't have the TV on out here, and only learned of it from the story posted in LBN - thank you whoever did so!

DU is the Neiman Marcus-class silk-and-wool yarn. I just do some knitting with a little of it.
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ClassWarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:44 PM
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15. So that'd make us a virtual knitting circle?
I call Girl Talk a 21st Century Quilting Bee.

24.


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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:05 PM
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23. Yep, something just like it.
Quilting bees were a vehicle for LOTS of the kinds of talk we do here. Or is that "we DU here"?
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Melinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:23 PM
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5. Nominated for homepage - a lovely tribute.
Thank you so very much.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:31 PM
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7. Thank you, Melinda. LOTS.
DAMN. What a way to start the week. People like you and the others here do help ease some of the heartache, though.
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classof56 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:33 PM
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8. A beautiful tribute to a truly amazing human being
I have nothing to add to what you have written. How fortunate you are to have known Chris Reeve. I confess I did not know about his involvement in the Creative Coalition activities prior to his accident. What an incredible man he was, and what a wonderful example for all of us who can only strive to rise to his level.

Words fail me. You have said it all. May Christopher Reeve rest in peace, and may all of us resolve to get out of the wheelchair. I thank you on behalf of all of us who care.

DEFEAT BUSH
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:47 PM
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18. Thanks. I WISH I could really have known Christopher Reeve.
When the interview was over, I always regretted it. Always wished I could have gotten to know him a little better for his activities with the Creative Coalition. But we tried to keep politics OUT of entertainment coverage at the AP. Always had to make it about the movie or the TV show or whatever it was he was promoting. I always tried to slip in a question about it, but it was all business, mainly. Very apolitical at the AP. Or at least the mindset was there when I worked there. Almost NEVER covered political benefits or anything, either. Not sure if it's avoidable now, though, what with the Springsteen concerts and all.
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:34 PM
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10. Reeve showed us the enduring Human Spirit , he was a Superman to me
Edited on Mon Oct-11-04 12:36 PM by proud patriot
despite all , he had hope and he was a loud and important
voice for the voiceless .

I'll never forget his courage for as long as I live.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:07 PM
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24. He was a great guy. A GREAT guy.
Standing. And standing TALL.
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ClassWarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:36 PM
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11. kickin' for a beautiful article...
:kick:

24.


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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:45 PM
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16. very good.
Christopher Reeve has been an inspiration for a lot of people with spinal injuries.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:10 PM
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26. He was a terrific spokesman for people with spinal injuries.
He used his prominence and his predicament for good. He knew he had a responsibility because of his position. But then again, he always did. Paralysis or no.
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vetwife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:46 PM
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17. Great article !
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:53 PM
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19. Thanks, vetwife!
You are doing remarkable work, too. PLUG-PLUG-PLUG:

http://groups.msn.com/UnitedVeteransofAmerica/onlineapplication.msnw
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vetwife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 02:39 PM
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34. That was sweet..Thanks ! The article was moving !
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:54 PM
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20. Lovely, wonderful words
Thanks, Calimary.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:04 PM
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22. Thanks, Ilsa
Hugs!
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pacalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:12 PM
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27. If you're not a professional writer, calimary, you should be...
And you're a Democrat through & through. Democrats don't have to wear the "compassionate" label; we show it through our hearts. :)
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:18 PM
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29. Thanks!
I have another column idea I'm kicking around now, about liberal thinking and Democrats and stuff. For now, it's the idea that The Human Heart Hangs to the LEFT. I mean, look how we're built. We're born that way. Any anatomy class or book will tell you that. Seems to me, to deny one's imbedded-in-one's-core liberal essense is to deny one's very humanity.

And I'm also EXTREMELY good at generating first-class hot air!
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:16 PM
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28. Outstanding
A fitting tribute to the man, as well as a thought-provoking article about the current government. :thumbsup:
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:20 PM
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30. Thanks.
I'm glad you wanted to read it.
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ClassWarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 02:16 PM
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31. .
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 02:20 PM
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32. Like the avatar.
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Zookeeper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 03:16 PM
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35. Wonderful tribute, Calimary!
I'm not terribly sentimental about celebrities and such, but Christopher Reeves' death feels like a personal loss to me, as I truly valued his efforts on behalf of stem cell research. As a parent of a child with Type 1 diabetes, I found him noble and courageous, but also a very important voice and influence in the struggle to find a cure for diabetes, spinal-cord injuries, Parkinson's disease and Alzheimer's.

He will be sorely missed.
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 08:34 PM
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37. I think in one way or another he touched EVERYBODY.
He put a face on a disability so extreme that many of us have never had any personal encounters with it. Thanks!
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ClassWarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 08:29 PM
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36. kick for Chris & Mary...
:kick: 24.


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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 08:35 PM
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38. Thanks, CW!
Kick for everything YOU do, too, Meme-meister!
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ClassWarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-12-04 01:21 AM
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39. .
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anarchy1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-12-04 01:39 AM
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40. A lovely essay and a beautiful tribute, thank you calimary.
Thank you and I hope you get this to the family and if they like it I'll be happy to share far and wide. Thank you, once again. Sweet, poignant and very loving.
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Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-12-04 01:52 AM
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41. A truly great person
I never had the privelege of meeting him as you did, but I observed the dignity with which he handled a situation where most people would crumble. He never wavered in his resolve to use his experience to benefit humanity. He will be missed.
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