Obviously someone -a reporter in the Times' Baghdad Bureau is named as contributing- ventured beyond the Green Zone for this accounting. Suhail Ahmad is very brave. I've tried to snip it down to the theme, but I strongly recommend reading the entire article.
Here's the thing: I don't think we've even begun to pay for this war yet.
...Bloodshed has turned Iraq into a country defined by disguise and bluff. Violence in the streets has begun to defy logic, and this is part of the fallout: A lively city where people used to butt gleefully into one another's business has degenerated into a labyrinth of disguises, a place where neighbors brush silently past one another like dancers in a macabre costume ball.
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When they talk about the loss of intimacy, many Iraqis are mournful.
Like members of most Middle Eastern societies, Iraqis have traditionally prized warmth and valued social interchange over what Westerners might regard as personal privacy. In the old Iraq, it was better to err on the side of nosiness than to appear cold or distant. It was perfectly normal to grill strangers on their marital status and the price of their possessions.
Little by little, that warmth has been bled away by war. Tension pulls on the city now. The atmosphere is thick with intrigue; it feels film noir, cloak-and-dagger. Except it is real — and deadly....
Etiquette used to require men to ask one another about their jobs;
it was a way of showing concern for a friend's livelihood and to demonstrate willingness to help a man if he had fallen on hard times....
Iraq may be the only country in the world where militia members and anti-government insurgents walk the streets with bare faces while government workers, soldiers and cops cower behind masks......
http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/world/la-fg-disguise28jun28,0,889224,print.story?coll=la-home-headlines Look what we did. The implementation of that uniquely American freedom, "Don't ask, don't tell"
2.0 seems to have lost something in the translation.
What have we done? Iraq's very culture has been altered. On an individual level -one by every one, far over and above the suffering of death and trauma for a hundred thousand? more?- they've been robbed of the ability to care for one another. Every Iraqi awakes every day and pays for our crime.
They are changedIf I were tasked with designing an appropriate karmic retribution for this shameful offense, he would probably look very much like the schmoozing fool in the WH right now. On balance, the destruction of our Constitution -the jewel, the one thing that preserves our unity more than any other, an iconic binder of our own preciously disparate society- seems almost fitting.
Did the universe figure this one out before the fact? Will this pre-emptive penance be enough? The hell it will. I can still go outside my home in the morning barefaced and wave to neighbors, ask about their kids, wash my car -I can even slap on a "Bring Them Home" bumper sticker. I can still stand in the supermarket line wearing whatever I please with a dead certainty that nothing's going to explode. I can sign my real name to a letter ridiculing a humiliating majority in Congress for asserting that something with a thread count is sacred.
For all that this crime of a war has cost -and some have paid an horrific price- I can't shake the feeling that the score isn't even close to being settled.