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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 06:51 PM
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Police: McNair shot dead in sleep by girlfriend
Source: AP

By LUCAS L. JOHNSON II, Associated Press Writer Lucas L. Johnson Ii, Associated Press Writer – 17 mins ago

NASHVILLE, Tenn. – Former NFL star Steve McNair was shot dead in his sleep last week by a 20-year-old girlfriend distraught about mounting financial problems and her belief that he was seeing someone else, police said Wednesday.

Sahel Kazemi "was spinning out of control" when she shot McNair four times as he dozed on a sofa early Saturday, then turned the gun on herself, Police Chief Ronal Serpas said.

Interviews with friends revealed that she was making payments on two cars, her rent was doubling and she suspected the married McNair was having a second affair with another young woman.

She told a friend on Friday that "My life is a ball of s--- and I should end it," Serpas said.

Read more: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090708/ap_on_sp_fo_ne/fbn_mcnair_killed



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JeanGrey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 06:54 PM
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1. This is how messing around can really bite your butt.
Another foolish young girl, used and tossed away, went off the deep end. This is the oldest story in the book.
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newscott Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 07:01 PM
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2. Sad but true.
Is your username an X-Men reference?
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JeanGrey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 07:33 PM
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4. yes
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Umbram Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:49 PM
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12. Yea, I really feel for that poor, poor woman.... *barf* (nt)
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:58 PM
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Sultana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 07:03 PM
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3. Adulterous folks out there, this could happen to you
just sayin'
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glinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:16 PM
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15. funny!!!!!
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angstlessk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:23 PM
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16. fuck that shit. IF man/woman were meant to be mongomous..it would be nature
NOT NUTURE! SEE BIRDS!
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Endangered Specie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 07:39 PM
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5. Well at least she saved the taxpayers money by doling out her own punishment...
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 07:41 PM
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6. Better solution: Sell one car, move to cheaper apartment, find a unmarried boyfriend your own age
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:41 PM
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9. +1
add to that: "seek the services of a mental health professional"
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Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:47 PM
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10. Not so easy when you are short of cash..
Another good reason we need single payer, if we had it both of these unfortunate people might still be alive.
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hugo_from_TN Donating Member (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:13 PM
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35. Are you serious?
If we had single payer she wouldn't have gone batshit crazy/jealous and killed him? Will the dead also rise if we get single payer?
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:13 PM
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34. Exactly! n/t
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Hulk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:04 PM
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7. I didn't know McNair was a republican?
This is a sad ending. I think there are lots of old adages to share here...."you play with fire, you're going to get burned" is one that comes to mind.
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sce56 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:06 PM
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8. Now that is a Duzy "I didn't know McNair was a republican?" n/t
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burning rain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:47 PM
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11. That's kinda how most guys want to die.
In bed with a hot chick.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 08:58 PM
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13. After she shoots them four times?
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burning rain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:03 PM
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14. Probably not....
which is why I qualified it with "kinda."
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:26 PM
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17. Remember: Don't date crazy women
You might get your ass shot.
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EndElectoral Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:47 PM
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18. Did they ever check for powder burns on her hands after she allegedly murderded him?
Edited on Wed Jul-08-09 09:48 PM by EndElectoral
I never heard this reported. Seems it would have been important since McNair was threatened publicly in a bar a week earlier by a different woman. Not saying she didn't do it, but it would seem this test should have occurred.
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Tanuki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 09:56 PM
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19. Yes, her hand was positive for powder residue.
That's why it took them 4 days to officially rule it murder/suicide, even though they suspected it from the start...they were waiting for the lab results.
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midnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 08:45 AM
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45. Good detail that should be revealed.
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tuckessee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 11:14 AM
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46. They found gunpowder residue but not a lot.
I listend to the police spokesman yesterday and he mentioned gunpowder residue was found on Kazeemi's hand but he added something to the effect that "it was not a lot".

I wish I could remember his exact words but I was half-listening and half-working at the time so I kind of missed it.

I would think that after firing five shots in a short period of time a fair amount of residue would be found.

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EndElectoral Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 11:22 AM
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48. I didn't realize it ws five shots. Does seem that would have led to significant powder residue.
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tuckessee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 11:41 AM
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49. According to the police......
McNair was asleep on the couch when Kazemi shot him once in the right temple then twice in the chest followed up with a shot to the left temple. She then sat down beside him on the couch and shot herself in the right temple.

Amazingly, with all the publicity this story has gotten, I've yet to hear what kind of firearm she used.

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Demobrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 10:02 PM
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21. I feel sorry for the wife.
What a way to find out your husband's screwing around on you.
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Blasphemer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 10:31 PM
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22. Apparently they were separated
So at least the adultery wasn't a surprise. Still, it must be very hard for her. It's one thing to deal with a broken marriage but to deal with the fact that if your marriage had remained intact then your husband (and children's father) would likely still be alive must be rough. I can't imagine what she is going through right now.
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Demeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 10:49 PM
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23. Survivor's Relief, Probably
The widow has been spared the mental, physical, emotional and economic exhaustion of divorce. The children get surviver's benefits and their inheritance is undiminished. They cannot be shamed further by their traitorous father/husband.

Since they had already been betrayed, they suffered no extra losses. Given that reconciliation didn't seem remotely possible, this is the best outcome for the innocent.
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madmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 12:24 AM
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24. Agreed
Guns and murder are always the best outcome...

In the movies.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 12:31 AM
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26. McNair wasn't about to get a divorce, according to his friend.
Edited on Thu Jul-09-09 12:44 AM by LisaL
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hugo_from_TN Donating Member (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:15 PM
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36. I went through an emotional divorce and never wanted my ex to be dead.
Anyone that wishes death on an ex needs some psychiatric work.
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pipoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 06:32 AM
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43. Jeezuz, what filth...sickening filth bounces around somepeople's
empty heads hereabouts.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 12:27 AM
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25. Whatever makes you think they were separated?
The reason they had a house for sale is apparently because they were looking to buy another house close to a lake.
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Blasphemer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 02:51 PM
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29. I got that from ESPN
Edited on Thu Jul-09-09 03:12 PM by Blasphemer
They also claimed he was going to break it off with the young lady. If they were indeed separated, perhaps they were going to try and reconcile? Or maybe it wasn't an official separation but more a matter of his being thrown out when his infidelities were found out? Who knows but my basic point was that his wife was not surprised about the adultery.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 07:36 PM
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40. His wife didn't know about Kazemi.

There is no record about any divorce plans.
http://www.ajc.com/services/content/2009/07/09/mcnair0709.html
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tuckessee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 11:21 AM
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47. One is because he hadn't spoken to his wife for at least two days before the murder.
This was widely reported on local media as the story was breaking. Many people think Steve had not seen his wife for some time since he was in Nashville and she in Maryland.
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 02:07 AM
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27. Live by the Ho die by the Ho.
RIP to the both of them.
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Blandocyte Donating Member (830 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:02 PM
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31. Gun Ho
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-10-09 06:51 AM
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44. heh!
I bet there are a lot of semi-celebrity ex-athletes out there assessing the safety of their similar situations.
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democracy1st Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 05:54 AM
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28. So she's having financial issues and he's a multi millionaire
I'm not going to criticize you Steve just RIP case closed!
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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 02:53 PM
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30. This is why I have decided to stay away from crazy women from now on
The problem is finding ones who are both sane and available. They seem to be few and far between.

:argh:
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Blandocyte Donating Member (830 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:03 PM
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32. If only someone wouldn't have sold her that GUN
jus' messin' wicha :evilgrin:
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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:29 PM
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37. You can bet that person regrets the sale
There is little doubt about that.
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Baclava Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 08:40 PM
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42. Stay far away from Aquarius chicks
Yea, and verily - for I have seen.

THEY ARE THE SPAWN OF EVIL

So sayethe the sellereth of 2 houses and 2 cars.

...and they dress funny.
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:11 PM
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33. "Never sleep with a woman whose troubles are worse than your own”
Nelson Algren
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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:29 PM
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38. My gawd, if I follow that I'll be sleeping alone for the rest of my life
I have yet to meet a woman whose troubles were not worse than mine.
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Carl Skan Donating Member (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 03:59 PM
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39. Nelson Algren missed on some great sex then.
The crazies are the bestest.
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Baclava Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-09-09 08:28 PM
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41. All you millionaires suck
Edited on Thu Jul-09-09 08:34 PM by Baclava
I will guarantee you free rides to any dance club and any hookers you may want for later.

I will drive. Give me mileage and per diem. No more DUI's for you, it's in the contract.

Give me $10,000 a month and I will guarantee you a free and happy life without distractions from the man.


Hire me now. I am a veteran.


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{edit} yes - I take PayPal
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