| 23. Bona fide pedophiles excepted, no. |
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To refer that *other* thread...I think the problem was the poster's perceptions.
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| -Is it really possible for an adult to find a 10 year old sexy, regardless of what |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:19 PM |
#0 |
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Not possible for this adult. |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 01:20 PM |
#1 |
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No. No way. uh uh. Nope. |
PeaceNikki |
Apr-19-11 01:22 PM |
#2 |
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If someone's wearing clothing that says "Hey, check me out" |
XemaSab |
Apr-19-11 01:24 PM |
#3 |
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lol |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:25 PM |
#4 |
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although how a "juicy" ass is supposed to be attractive, I'm not real sure |
anarch |
Apr-19-11 01:26 PM |
#7 |
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That doesn't necessarily make the wearer sexy, does it? (nt) |
Heidi |
Apr-19-11 01:30 PM |
#10 |
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There are many ways of defining sexy |
XemaSab |
Apr-19-11 01:36 PM |
#17 |
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Just because a 10-year-old defines her/himself as sexy doesn't excuse the ADULT |
Heidi |
Apr-19-11 01:49 PM |
#32 |
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So your definition of sexy |
XemaSab |
Apr-19-11 01:56 PM |
#38 |
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Finished discussing with you. Your reading comprehension leaves much to be desired |
Heidi |
Apr-19-11 02:00 PM |
#45 |
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you are right. there is also the parents job in teaching the kids personal responsibility |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 01:57 PM |
#41 |
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Good example. |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 03:23 PM |
#117 |
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i just do not even kinda get that uncomfortable feel anymore. too many traps |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 04:41 PM |
#142 |
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I agree completely. It's just one of those things that parents have |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 06:46 PM |
#155 |
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sexy - nope ... cute I can work with .... as in cute as a button ... nt |
littlewolf |
Apr-19-11 01:26 PM |
#5 |
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It doesn't seem to me that this is the sole, or even necessarily the most significant, problem with |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 01:26 PM |
#6 |
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If they were born on Leap Day, maybe. |
Morning Dew |
Apr-19-11 01:27 PM |
#8 |
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The one person who answered "Yes" is either messin' around or indulging an illusion |
Heidi |
Apr-19-11 01:29 PM |
#9 |
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2 |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:33 PM |
#12 |
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And how about accounting for the illusion that, though one may not be one one's self, there are NO |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 01:34 PM |
#14 |
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The definition of pedophile does not hinge on "acting upon" that attraction. (nt) |
Heidi |
Apr-19-11 01:38 PM |
#19 |
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That's my point and, by implication, the definition of "acting" or how we |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 01:41 PM |
#24 |
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Exactly |
Aerows |
Apr-19-11 01:37 PM |
#18 |
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Don't ask us....ask the pedophiles out there. |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 01:33 PM |
#11 |
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because kids who dress conservatively dont get attacked by pedophiles? |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:35 PM |
#15 |
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Because dressing like a slut has direct or indirect consequences of various kinds to |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 01:39 PM |
#20 |
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so you think kids who dress conservatively dont get attacked? |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:44 PM |
#26 |
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Please quote where I said any of that and I will respond. Thanks. nt |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:06 PM |
#51 |
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I wouldn't expect you to understand it. |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 01:40 PM |
#22 |
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i think there is no way a kid could dress like a 'tramp'. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:44 PM |
#27 |
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An interesting viewpoint. |
kwassa |
Apr-19-11 01:59 PM |
#42 |
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Indeed. This thread is making me ill. nt |
blondeatlast |
Apr-19-11 02:13 PM |
#54 |
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me too... |
eowyn_of_rohan |
Apr-19-11 02:15 PM |
#59 |
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me three. i regret starting it. |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:23 PM |
#67 |
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Me, also, too. |
PeaceNikki |
Apr-19-11 02:46 PM |
#88 |
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also very victim blaming, cos you know before the advent of the bikini for little girls |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:47 PM |
#90 |
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Over-generalization: because someone says that a person is responsible for their behavior, that does |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:59 PM |
#98 |
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"provocative child". That's where you go wrong. A child is NOT provocative |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-19-11 08:07 PM |
#161 |
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P.S. The ultimate victimhood: stuff the kid can do absolutely nothing about. |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:42 PM |
#121 |
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can you put it out of its misery? |
eowyn_of_rohan |
Apr-19-11 03:01 PM |
#99 |
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wow. Not PC enough for you? hmmmm . . . nt |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:18 PM |
#112 |
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BTW, who appointed you gatekeeper for the rest of us? Kind of authoritarian, don't you think? |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:56 PM |
#128 |
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just asked |
eowyn_of_rohan |
Apr-19-11 04:23 PM |
#134 |
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don't know what you were expecting |
CreekDog |
Apr-19-11 04:35 PM |
#138 |
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perhaps you are right. i thought framing the controversy in this way |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:36 PM |
#139 |
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When I was 10 I dressed like a tramp |
AngryAmish |
Apr-19-11 02:41 PM |
#84 |
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LOL! |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 03:56 PM |
#129 |
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bwahahahahah!!!! n/t |
pipi_k |
Apr-19-11 08:27 PM |
#166 |
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I don't know |
BobbyBoring |
Apr-19-11 03:02 PM |
#101 |
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it clearly says that besides pedophiles do people find 10 year olds sexy |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:37 PM |
#140 |
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Words like "sexy" are imprecise, and can mean different things to people at different times |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 05:02 PM |
#154 |
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Only a pedophile could see a 10-year-old that way |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 01:34 PM |
#13 |
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i have been told by posters on this board, once girl hits puberty, fair game. 10? i ask |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 01:36 PM |
#16 |
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Posters who say that are just flat wrong. |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 01:47 PM |
#30 |
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Thank you for a very sensible post. nt |
blondeatlast |
Apr-19-11 02:13 PM |
#58 |
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There are some bona fide idiots who post on this board |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 02:52 PM |
#94 |
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there are certain things that have been said to me on this board, that i can. not. get. out. |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 05:00 PM |
#152 |
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Therefore, it is impossible for anyone to observe, say, that some people like mountain-oysters |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:04 PM |
#46 |
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Nice non-sequitur |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 02:49 PM |
#93 |
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Saying that doesn't make it so. You said only a pedophile can recognize pedophilia. That's the |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:53 PM |
#96 |
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What they said was only a pedophile could see a 10 year old as sexy. |
moriah |
Apr-19-11 02:56 PM |
#97 |
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I did not say that only a pedophile can recognize pedophilia |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 03:43 PM |
#122 |
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Yes, you can observe that some people are pedophiles without being one yourself. n/t |
moriah |
Apr-19-11 02:53 PM |
#95 |
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Power, dominance, control, entitlement is the turn-on for these freaks |
leftstreet |
Apr-19-11 01:39 PM |
#21 |
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Bona fide pedophiles excepted, no. |
lapislzi |
Apr-19-11 01:41 PM |
#23 |
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This may be unpopular, but it's my honest opinion: |
Hosnon |
Apr-19-11 01:43 PM |
#25 |
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The caveat I would add, though, |
woo me with science |
Apr-19-11 01:57 PM |
#40 |
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Not to mention music and movies. What do people think girls are screaming about when they see |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:30 PM |
#71 |
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Ew. |
Commie Pinko Dirtbag |
Apr-19-11 01:46 PM |
#28 |
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well said. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:05 PM |
#48 |
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Depends on what means by sexy... |
immoderate |
Apr-19-11 01:46 PM |
#29 |
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1+ |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 01:59 PM |
#44 |
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Nope. |
OhioDoink |
Apr-19-11 01:49 PM |
#31 |
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Does the OP'er think it's possible to sexualize a 10 year old girl? |
KittyWampus |
Apr-19-11 01:50 PM |
#33 |
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no. i think its possible to make a 10 year old creepy looking with excessive makeup |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:52 PM |
#34 |
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Here's a quote from the article posted in another thread indicating girls are sexualized |
KittyWampus |
Apr-19-11 01:56 PM |
#39 |
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the article quote from apa is editorialized. i believe that advertising to kids |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 01:59 PM |
#43 |
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You seem to know everything about how prostitutes and tramps dress. |
lapislzi |
Apr-19-11 02:06 PM |
#50 |
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"and whatever happens to me will be my fault"? Never would imply such a thing. |
KittyWampus |
Apr-19-11 02:13 PM |
#55 |
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Well, I never received the How to Dress Like a Tramp memo |
lapislzi |
Apr-19-11 02:21 PM |
#64 |
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Ergo, the meanings of all things are limited to what you say they are. nt |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:09 PM |
#53 |
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Deleted message |
Name removed |
Apr-19-11 01:53 PM |
#35 |
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Can anyone tell me why this whole conversation is limited to how I/you react instead of |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 01:53 PM |
#36 |
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Um...nuh-uh. |
Iggo |
Apr-19-11 01:54 PM |
#37 |
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i bet if this was stated in the context of a muslim country |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:04 PM |
#47 |
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You are sooooo bad!!! |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-19-11 08:10 PM |
#162 |
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Assuming one isn't a pedophile? |
mn9driver |
Apr-19-11 02:05 PM |
#49 |
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yes, but pedophiles find 10 years old sexy regardless of what they wear |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:07 PM |
#52 |
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So, in your opinion, child porn is not a problem. Really ALL pictures of kids are the problem. |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 02:28 PM |
#70 |
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no child porn is a problem. how is children being used as sexual objects not a problem |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:31 PM |
#73 |
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You are defending people who participate in "child porn" willingly. |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 02:40 PM |
#83 |
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no i am not, i am saying you are creating a false equivalence |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:42 PM |
#86 |
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You mean.... |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 03:04 PM |
#105 |
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Uh, you just reframed La Lioness Priyanka's response to mean something totally different |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-19-11 08:14 PM |
#163 |
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you can't use quotes, if you wont quote honestly. |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 08:32 PM |
#168 |
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1+ = Absolutists, read that authoritarians, trip over themselves all of the time. |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:39 PM |
#82 |
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bingo. It's like telling a starving person who's watching you eat an ice-cream cone to not be hungry |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:22 PM |
#65 |
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Appropriate clothing for little girls... |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 02:13 PM |
#56 |
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Works for me, if freely, as possible, chosen. The girls in this country could do worse than |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:46 PM |
#87 |
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Well, every kid is different, but parents have a lot to do with |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 03:01 PM |
#100 |
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I like your point about emphasis, too much one way or the other creates REAL problems and |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:07 PM |
#106 |
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Yeah. Raising children is a pretty complex thing. |
MineralMan |
Apr-19-11 03:15 PM |
#110 |
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"Sexy?" No... dressed too "provocatively adult" for the age... yes. |
hlthe2b |
Apr-19-11 02:13 PM |
#57 |
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AFAIK, studies show that most men can find prepubescent children attractive, |
howard112211 |
Apr-19-11 02:15 PM |
#60 |
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1+ and not wanting to admit that about "normal" people is part of what appears to be |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:25 PM |
#68 |
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OK, I get it. |
lapislzi |
Apr-19-11 02:36 PM |
#79 |
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Basically yes. Morality is defined by actions, not by thoughts or feelings. |
howard112211 |
Apr-19-11 02:48 PM |
#91 |
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the site was blocked so couldnt read, but |
seabeyond |
Apr-20-11 12:02 AM |
#191 |
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ordinarily no |
qazplm |
Apr-19-11 02:15 PM |
#61 |
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Some people find fire hydrants sexy. |
eggplant |
Apr-19-11 02:18 PM |
#62 |
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Not even the sheep are safe in some parts of the country... |
hlthe2b |
Apr-19-11 02:23 PM |
#66 |
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Maybe I'll go look it up, but I think it's generally recognized that children do have their own sexu |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:18 PM |
#63 |
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yes, children have their own sexuality. which again has nothing to do |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:32 PM |
#75 |
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Nothing? You're denying millenia of hard-wiring. You lose. nt |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:47 PM |
#89 |
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LOL |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:48 PM |
#92 |
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Please respond to my point, i.e. discount ALL of evolution. nt |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:03 PM |
#103 |
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I think she gave your point all due consideration. |
Bunny |
Apr-19-11 04:41 PM |
#143 |
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I think the CNN guy made a factual observation |
ecstatic |
Apr-19-11 02:26 PM |
#69 |
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trampy and sexy are value judgments, not simple observations. |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:33 PM |
#76 |
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the thread which speak of consequences... |
LanternWaste |
Apr-19-11 02:30 PM |
#72 |
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False dichotomies are not reality based. You're over-generalizing, otherwise I might agree with you. |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:32 PM |
#74 |
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When they're false, yes. |
LanternWaste |
Apr-19-11 02:36 PM |
#78 |
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True. I should have used a phrase something like "This possibly false dichotomy.." Tks for the catch |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 02:42 PM |
#85 |
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i agree. i think if this had been a muslim cleric writing to tell parents |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:35 PM |
#77 |
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Precisely. |
LanternWaste |
Apr-19-11 02:37 PM |
#80 |
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i almost want to pose as a muslim cleric to write an article like that |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 02:38 PM |
#81 |
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It really depends on the development rate of the child |
DireStrike |
Apr-19-11 03:02 PM |
#102 |
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Yeah. |
themadstork |
Apr-19-11 10:54 PM |
#186 |
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How? Please explain what is sexy about a ten year old! |
Rex |
Apr-19-11 03:04 PM |
#104 |
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Take a look at PsycLit or a DSM someday. It's a fact that manifests itself in various degrees in |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:12 PM |
#108 |
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It is a mental condition, common sense tells the average person |
Rex |
Apr-19-11 03:21 PM |
#115 |
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Conditioning, some of it more hardwired, some of it more arbitrary. The measure of freedom, |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:54 PM |
#127 |
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As the mother of a |
libmom74 |
Apr-19-11 03:11 PM |
#107 |
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How much of the thread have you actually read? Researched? nt |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:15 PM |
#109 |
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Enough to |
libmom74 |
Apr-19-11 03:21 PM |
#116 |
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I have no objection to that. & There are a BUNCH of stuff going on in this thread. One of |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 03:48 PM |
#124 |
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Uh, finding a 10 year old sexy defines a pedophile. |
cliffordu |
Apr-19-11 03:17 PM |
#111 |
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well |
qazplm |
Apr-19-11 03:26 PM |
#118 |
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A 10 year old? Really??? |
cliffordu |
Apr-19-11 03:29 PM |
#119 |
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well, a lot of adult males seem to like to respond to threads like this ... |
MacNfries |
Apr-19-11 03:19 PM |
#113 |
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Normal adult males have an instinct to protect children |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 03:46 PM |
#123 |
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Not only no but fuck NO. nt |
Guy Whitey Corngood |
Apr-19-11 03:19 PM |
#114 |
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No, I don't think a ten-year-old in sexy clothing....... |
frebrd |
Apr-19-11 03:41 PM |
#120 |
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I always think of the late Jon-Benet Ramsey, and how revolting I find her parents. |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 03:52 PM |
#125 |
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According to some people in this thread, those parents did nothing wrong. There was no sexuality |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 04:01 PM |
#130 |
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I have a degree in psychology, and am very well aware of what constitutes a norm |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 04:06 PM |
#131 |
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A norm is a mathematic derivation acquired from measurments that vary from very high to very low. |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 04:32 PM |
#135 |
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The point being that, though the mixed factors are more probable, it still matters a GREAT deal |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 04:40 PM |
#141 |
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In terms of criminal law and morality, overt behavior is all that matters |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 05:01 PM |
#153 |
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thank you. i too have a degree in psychology |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:35 PM |
#137 |
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Well then, one would think you'd be better acquainted with the literature on sexuality in children. |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 04:42 PM |
#145 |
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your debating style is to draw false equivalence, blame victims and |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:45 PM |
#146 |
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I have a degree in Psychology, too. |
Bunny |
Apr-19-11 04:45 PM |
#147 |
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blaming a 10 year old clothes for her potential rape or attack |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:48 PM |
#150 |
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wow. only read about 50% of the posts but have seen nowhere blame for potential rape or attack |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 07:21 PM |
#158 |
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yeah, i am not surprised you dont. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 07:42 PM |
#159 |
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really? are you stating that i think a child is asking for rape? or attack? what a disgusting |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 07:49 PM |
#160 |
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i didnt say that. you're funny. you make up an accusation, then get outraged about it. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 08:19 PM |
#165 |
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then what were you saying. i asked where someone is saying the 10 yr old is askin for rape or |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 08:32 PM |
#167 |
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i'll post only one example though there are several. i dont want to get into trouble for call outs |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 08:34 PM |
#170 |
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thank you. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-19-11 08:48 PM |
#176 |
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yeah i can agree with that in many situations. jon benet comes to mind |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:33 PM |
#136 |
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There's a famous portrait of Brooke Shields by Avedon or Scavullo |
tishaLA |
Apr-19-11 03:53 PM |
#126 |
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Brooke Shields is a shrewd, intelligent, talented woman and looks far better to me now than then |
slackmaster |
Apr-19-11 04:08 PM |
#132 |
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Thanks for that example. Well, I don't see sex there, but there is this odd troubling incongruen |
patrice |
Apr-19-11 04:11 PM |
#133 |
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Probably not. However, some a little older are about impossible to distinguish from |
TheKentuckian |
Apr-19-11 04:42 PM |
#144 |
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There is no such thing as provocation for rape |
lunatica |
Apr-19-11 04:47 PM |
#148 |
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amen. |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 04:47 PM |
#149 |
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Are you a rapist? |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 08:15 PM |
#164 |
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Sexual predators do not remember what their victims were wearing |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-19-11 08:53 PM |
#177 |
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Thank you. |
Jamastiene |
Apr-19-11 09:44 PM |
#179 |
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haha, just because they "don't remember" what their victims were wearing |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 10:03 PM |
#182 |
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You can be dressed in a burqa and raped. |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-19-11 10:43 PM |
#185 |
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what if you don't know the age of the person? what if it is an ad in a magazine |
Tuesday Afternoon |
Apr-19-11 04:56 PM |
#151 |
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10 no. But 14 definitely nt |
conspirator |
Apr-19-11 06:59 PM |
#156 |
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Boys or girls? |
ismnotwasm |
Apr-19-11 07:13 PM |
#157 |
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I see 10 year olds and even 17 year olds as children in different stages |
bluestate10 |
Apr-19-11 08:32 PM |
#169 |
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Thank goddess for responses like this one. |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 08:34 PM |
#171 |
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This is the same thing all of us have said! |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-19-11 08:45 PM |
#174 |
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LOL |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-19-11 08:45 PM |
#175 |
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I'll have to say no. |
houstonintc |
Apr-19-11 08:37 PM |
#172 |
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My partner has had more than he cares to remember that were victims of incest/rape |
w8liftinglady |
Apr-19-11 08:38 PM |
#173 |
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If you are an old fart for feeling that way about it, |
Jamastiene |
Apr-19-11 09:54 PM |
#181 |
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That's horrible. The one person I knew who told me they were sexually abused as a kid commited |
franzia99 |
Apr-19-11 11:53 PM |
#189 |
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If someone finds a 10 year old sexy, they are a pedophile, |
Jamastiene |
Apr-19-11 08:57 PM |
#178 |
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There are some kids that are developed enough that clothing |
Ilsa |
Apr-19-11 09:45 PM |
#180 |
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I would find any adult finding a 10 y/o sexy to be seriously in need of a shrink |
niyad |
Apr-19-11 10:15 PM |
#183 |
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At my age, I don't even find many 20-year-olds sexy! |
Withywindle |
Apr-19-11 10:32 PM |
#184 |
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What's the point of provocative clothing? |
lumberjack_jeff |
Apr-19-11 11:07 PM |
#187 |
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No, adult bodies are attractive in that way. Kids don't have that kind of appearance. |
franzia99 |
Apr-19-11 11:48 PM |
#188 |
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parents need to be parents |
dsc |
Apr-19-11 11:54 PM |
#190 |
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