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Mon Dec-20-10 11:41 AM
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A lesbian has now hit on you!  |
| -Straight DUers: has a "homo-sexual" ever made advances toward you? |
jmowreader |
Dec-20-10 01:34 AM |
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I'm a straight female, and as far as I know, no lesbian has ever done that. |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Dec-20-10 01:36 AM |
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How you doin'? |
justiceischeap |
Dec-20-10 11:41 AM |
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I'm good, thanks! |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Dec-20-10 01:11 PM |
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Honestly, I'd be a little disappointed if none ever had. |
Warren DeMontague |
Dec-20-10 01:38 AM |
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Seriously |
Dorian Gray |
Dec-20-10 09:15 AM |
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It happened to me |
Mojorabbit |
Dec-20-10 01:39 AM |
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A few times. I was actually rather flattered, to be honest. |
Marr |
Dec-20-10 01:43 AM |
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Same here. I took some women's studies classes in college so |
TBF |
Dec-20-10 07:04 AM |
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You'd be surprised. The misconception that all 'homo-sexual' |
Amonester |
Dec-20-10 01:46 AM |
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If a misconception is real |
verges |
Dec-20-10 12:32 PM |
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I'm not about to see any segment of our society in those terms. |
Skip Intro |
Dec-20-10 01:56 AM |
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yes |
hfojvt |
Dec-20-10 01:56 AM |
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I'm an older straight female who has always had lots of gay and lesbian |
JDPriestly |
Dec-20-10 01:57 AM |
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This episode makes me wonder just how tolerant gay people would be to to straight people if |
Bobbieo |
Dec-20-10 05:08 AM |
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That was a person in a closet protecting herself from harm |
Bluenorthwest |
Dec-20-10 09:14 AM |
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define advances |
Skittles |
Dec-20-10 02:04 AM |
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No, but my gay girl friend |
blueamy66 |
Dec-20-10 02:07 AM |
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I've had a gay co-worker ask me out. Does that count? nt. |
LawnLover |
Dec-20-10 02:07 AM |
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Yes, a lesbian once did and I felt flattered. |
Lost-in-FL |
Dec-20-10 02:08 AM |
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a simple "no" has always been sufficient, atleast when they were sober |
Sen. Walter Sobchak |
Dec-20-10 02:14 AM |
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So true, and, wow, how about that, it works the same for straight people |
stevenleser |
Dec-20-10 10:46 AM |
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Yes. I also went out with a pre-op tranny unknowingly. |
Edweird |
Dec-20-10 02:14 AM |
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No, no woman ever has |
Raine |
Dec-20-10 02:15 AM |
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No but I remember in HS making a move on a girl who wasn't into guys |
tularetom |
Dec-20-10 02:15 AM |
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I am gay and have had straight men hit on me. |
Behind the Aegis |
Dec-20-10 02:19 AM |
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Me Too!! |
stillwaiting |
Dec-20-10 07:15 AM |
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+1 |
meegbear |
Dec-20-10 09:48 AM |
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Years ago, I had the chance to go to bed with a straight guy. |
terrya |
Dec-20-10 04:49 PM |
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Gots to love that! |
Behind the Aegis |
Dec-20-10 05:29 PM |
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No, I'm not getting any action from either team. |
MilesColtrane |
Dec-20-10 02:23 AM |
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I'm a straight female who hasn't, but in my experiences there are a lot of men who |
pacalo |
Dec-20-10 02:28 AM |
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Yes, I've been "hit" on numerous times... |
Dappleganger |
Dec-20-10 02:29 AM |
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detect gayness? |
DemocratAholic |
Dec-20-10 02:30 AM |
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I Think |
RobinA |
Dec-20-10 07:30 AM |
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Yes, twice. |
Vickers |
Dec-20-10 02:35 AM |
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Many times in my life. |
MrSlayer |
Dec-20-10 02:43 AM |
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Yes, and I was very flattered! n/t |
Pushed To The Left |
Dec-20-10 02:54 AM |
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Yes, more than once... |
LooseWilly |
Dec-20-10 03:08 AM |
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yes,many times....but I am secure enough with my own sexuality |
HipChick |
Dec-20-10 03:20 AM |
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Yes, and I can say "No, thank you" as easily to a woman as I can to a man. |
Heidi |
Dec-20-10 03:27 AM |
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back before I realized I'm bi |
lazarus |
Dec-20-10 03:28 AM |
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I voted yes because |
Crystal Clarity |
Dec-20-10 03:40 AM |
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Other human beings have expressed a sexual interest in me |
etherealtruth |
Dec-20-10 03:52 AM |
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Gay or Straight... to know me is to want me. |
cherokeeprogressive |
Dec-20-10 03:54 AM |
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LOL!! |
JuniperLea |
Dec-20-10 03:05 PM |
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Quagmire, is that you? |
Arkana |
Dec-20-10 05:58 PM |
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"yes" - but it was not a big deal |
DrDan |
Dec-20-10 03:57 AM |
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I would have taken the "I'm not sure" option. |
CLANG |
Dec-20-10 04:14 AM |
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a lot of years ago |
barbtries |
Dec-20-10 05:13 AM |
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yes but she had mistaken me for another lesbian |
eShirl |
Dec-20-10 05:24 AM |
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Once, but I was in a gay bar at the time. n/t |
rucky |
Dec-20-10 05:26 AM |
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56 yrs, never |
Uben |
Dec-20-10 05:29 AM |
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I worked with gays at a university and we all just did our work and hated our boss! |
DailyGrind51 |
Dec-20-10 05:43 AM |
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I let a gay man buy me drinks once.... |
howard112211 |
Dec-20-10 05:47 AM |
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Sure. |
Le Taz Hot |
Dec-20-10 05:51 AM |
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Yes. Many times. Some even knew I was straight. |
RadiationTherapy |
Dec-20-10 06:44 AM |
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Given that da gays have da gaydar if you got hit on you are da gay. |
Warren Stupidity |
Dec-20-10 06:47 AM |
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you know |
d_r |
Dec-20-10 06:57 AM |
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exactly my point |
Warren Stupidity |
Dec-20-10 06:59 AM |
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Very silly. It also treats the mythical 'Gay' as someone who is more attuned to |
RadiationTherapy |
Dec-20-10 06:59 AM |
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Detecting gayness? Is there a checklist? |
stray cat |
Dec-20-10 06:48 AM |
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Once but a polite "no...I'm straight" was all it took for him to just be a friend. |
BlueJazz |
Dec-20-10 06:49 AM |
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Well... |
Chorophyll |
Dec-20-10 06:51 AM |
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it's happened. Not everybody who is gay has gaydar. |
Codeine |
Dec-20-10 06:52 AM |
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yes |
d_r |
Dec-20-10 06:55 AM |
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Is the implication that no GLB person has the right to ask? |
Yo_Mama |
Dec-20-10 07:00 AM |
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When I was young and in the Navy and in San Diego |
panzerfaust |
Dec-20-10 07:06 AM |
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Once in a hotel bar |
The Wizard |
Dec-20-10 07:35 AM |
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Yes......and so what? |
marmar |
Dec-20-10 07:41 AM |
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I haven't ever had anyone make advances towards me. Man or woman |
NNN0LHI |
Dec-20-10 07:42 AM |
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Wow that sucks...how about non-humans? |
pipi_k |
Dec-20-10 10:33 AM |
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Dogs love me...... |
DainBramaged |
Dec-20-10 07:45 AM |
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Deleted sub-thread |
Name removed |
Dec-20-10 07:51 AM |
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No, and I have many lesbian friends and associates. I have also had two lesbian |
CTyankee |
Dec-20-10 07:56 AM |
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Yes, but it was not much different than being hit on by a man. |
OnionPatch |
Dec-20-10 08:05 AM |
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I've been flirted with by other women, but it was always when I was |
Arkansas Granny |
Dec-20-10 08:07 AM |
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Straight female hit on by more women than men |
lukasahero |
Dec-20-10 08:08 AM |
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Does it count if I happened to be in a gay bar when it happened? |
bullwinkle428 |
Dec-20-10 08:10 AM |
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Yes. |
H2O Man |
Dec-20-10 08:11 AM |
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Happened to me several times when I was younger. |
NightHawk63 |
Dec-20-10 08:15 AM |
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Oh yes, numerous times. |
flvegan |
Dec-20-10 08:20 AM |
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Yes, a couple of times. No big deal. |
MineralMan |
Dec-20-10 08:25 AM |
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A few times. |
JoePhilly |
Dec-20-10 08:29 AM |
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yes |
sweetapogee |
Dec-20-10 08:29 AM |
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Important article on this issue here |
AngryAmish |
Dec-20-10 08:41 AM |
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Yes |
GiveMeFreedom |
Dec-20-10 08:43 AM |
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Many times, even when they knew I was straight. Only one ever bothered me. |
HopeHoops |
Dec-20-10 08:48 AM |
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Yes, a lesbian made it known to me that she would be interested if I was |
distantearlywarning |
Dec-20-10 08:52 AM |
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Him: What time is it? Me: About 2 am. Him: When you gonna let me suck you off? |
aikoaiko |
Dec-20-10 08:57 AM |
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I accidently clicked "NO" |
itsrobert |
Dec-20-10 09:05 AM |
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I have been hit on by lesbians several times |
Nikia |
Dec-20-10 09:05 AM |
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Sure, many times. It happened a whole lot more often when I was 16-20 |
slackmaster |
Dec-20-10 09:07 AM |
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Only when I was in the Army. |
Ron Green |
Dec-20-10 09:11 AM |
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Yes, several times. |
montanto |
Dec-20-10 09:20 AM |
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A few stray times, sure. I think the "gaydar" thing exists but is far from certain |
TheKentuckian |
Dec-20-10 09:36 AM |
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I wouldn't say actual advances, just subtle hints, |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-20-10 09:39 AM |
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Other: I don't label myself one way or the other. I vastly prefer men, but have |
blondeatlast |
Dec-20-10 09:42 AM |
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I think tolerance sometimes throws the "gaydar" off. |
Motown_Johnny |
Dec-20-10 09:43 AM |
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That's interesting. |
lumberjack_jeff |
Dec-20-10 11:13 AM |
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Yes, but only under the influence :) and never repeatedly after being turned down, which is more |
uncommon |
Dec-20-10 09:43 AM |
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If you say "No" you're just not paying attention. |
Graybeard |
Dec-20-10 09:46 AM |
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A gay man made a pass at my husband |
shrike |
Dec-20-10 09:47 AM |
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As a 16 yr old hitch hiking to work |
Kingofalldems |
Dec-20-10 09:47 AM |
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A couple of times. Sort of a compliment, I suppose. |
bemildred |
Dec-20-10 10:10 AM |
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No. But if someone makes an unwanted pass, |
LWolf |
Dec-20-10 10:24 AM |
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Yes, and I found it flattering |
Rob H. |
Dec-20-10 10:26 AM |
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Yes, I have always told them |
laylah |
Dec-20-10 10:28 AM |
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Does it count... |
pipi_k |
Dec-20-10 10:31 AM |
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Yes. |
GreenStormCloud |
Dec-20-10 10:40 AM |
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Yes, but so what? I really don't see what the big deal is. |
stevenleser |
Dec-20-10 10:43 AM |
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Yep, but I was parked in a gay bar's parking lot |
social_critic |
Dec-20-10 10:52 AM |
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Yes. And regarding your thinking ... almost exclusively where anti-gay bigotry prevails. |
ieoeja |
Dec-20-10 10:53 AM |
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Yes, and that was AFTER I got married. |
MoonRiver |
Dec-20-10 10:54 AM |
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Yes. But not since 8th grade. |
lumberjack_jeff |
Dec-20-10 11:01 AM |
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it has happened to me |
SwampG8r |
Dec-20-10 11:01 AM |
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Actually yes. |
mmonk |
Dec-20-10 11:06 AM |
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I had a lesbian roommate in the college dorm |
cherish44 |
Dec-20-10 11:10 AM |
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Yes. I declined but told him I was flattered that he found |
alfredo |
Dec-20-10 11:34 AM |
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Also should be asked... |
thecrow |
Dec-20-10 11:40 AM |
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I've been asked out by gay guys before. Not a big deal. n/t |
backscatter712 |
Dec-20-10 11:43 AM |
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I think a lot of homos go out of their way not to hit on people that they think are str8t |
justiceischeap |
Dec-20-10 11:47 AM |
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Yes, and I always take it as a compliment. Most people like feeling attractive. nt |
ZombieHorde |
Dec-20-10 12:01 PM |
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sure i've been hit on by another woman, don't see the big deal about it tho |
pitohui |
Dec-20-10 12:08 PM |
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Many times. As a teenager it bothered me. Now I don't care. |
former9thward |
Dec-20-10 12:12 PM |
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Yup... |
JSnuffy |
Dec-20-10 12:19 PM |
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No |
Jack Rabbit |
Dec-20-10 12:24 PM |
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Twice, which was kind of flattering |
AspenRose |
Dec-20-10 01:32 PM |
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Yes, two lesbians did. One was extremely attractive, so I felt flattered |
Lorien |
Dec-20-10 01:38 PM |
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Many times when I was younger... |
Crankie Avalon |
Dec-20-10 01:40 PM |
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Yep. But I don't hate gay people, so no biggie. (n/t) |
Iggo |
Dec-20-10 01:46 PM |
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Storytime? Got a strange letter from a summer job co-worker once. Sort of did the right thing. |
DirkGently |
Dec-20-10 02:24 PM |
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I got hit on by a guy one time, but I was at a gay bar with my trans friends. |
Erose999 |
Dec-20-10 02:41 PM |
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Not that I've noticed... |
InvisibleTouch |
Dec-20-10 02:49 PM |
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Yes. Many times. Far more than straight women have. |
Pale Blue Dot |
Dec-20-10 02:54 PM |
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I have, but I bet that freeper guy has never been hit on by anybody male or female |
Hippo_Tron |
Dec-20-10 02:54 PM |
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'one of the greatest talents gays have is the ability to detect gayness in others' |
Bluebear |
Dec-20-10 02:55 PM |
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Yep... quite flattering... |
JuniperLea |
Dec-20-10 03:01 PM |
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On at least two occasions |
Rochester |
Dec-20-10 03:02 PM |
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Fairly often. It never bothers me. |
bluedigger |
Dec-20-10 05:10 PM |
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Never |
proud2BlibKansan |
Dec-20-10 05:26 PM |
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People of all races and sexual dispositions have tried to mate with me. |
Poll_Blind |
Dec-20-10 05:33 PM |
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Yes. |
Radical Activist |
Dec-20-10 05:43 PM |
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what is so interesting with paranoid straight guys is they have no |
Kali |
Dec-20-10 05:51 PM |
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No. |
Arkana |
Dec-20-10 05:57 PM |
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Yes,---for some reason, lesbians think I'm a lesbian. It never bothers me except for one ex-friend |
Heddi |
Dec-20-10 06:02 PM |
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Yes, and when it happened, I simply said I was straight. |
SalmonChantedEvening |
Dec-20-10 06:11 PM |
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"Advances" ... |
Sparkly |
Dec-20-10 06:14 PM |
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Well, they're only human. |
Forkboy |
Dec-20-10 06:30 PM |
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Not any overt advances, but I'd be flattered if they did. |
mentalsolstice |
Dec-20-10 06:34 PM |
#149 |
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Yes. So What? |
NashVegas |
Dec-20-10 06:54 PM |
#150 |
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When I was younger & "prettier", yes. I thanked them for the compliment, |
Vidar |
Dec-20-10 07:39 PM |
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Yes! And it traumitized me for lllliiiiiiiiiffee. |
Maru Kitteh |
Dec-20-10 07:48 PM |
#152 |
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Yes, but to be fair |
some guy |
Dec-20-10 07:50 PM |
#153 |
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