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Mon Dec-20-10 10:46 AM
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| 102. So true, and, wow, how about that, it works the same for straight people |
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Both people I've observed and people who have hit on me, whether female or male. Almost everyone takes the 1st 'no' on goes on their merry way. Unless they are drunk. Then all bets are off regardless of gender or orientation.
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| -Straight DUers: has a "homo-sexual" ever made advances toward you? |
jmowreader |
Dec-20-10 01:34 AM |
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I'm a straight female, and as far as I know, no lesbian has ever done that. |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Dec-20-10 01:36 AM |
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How you doin'? |
justiceischeap |
Dec-20-10 11:41 AM |
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I'm good, thanks! |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Dec-20-10 01:11 PM |
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Honestly, I'd be a little disappointed if none ever had. |
Warren DeMontague |
Dec-20-10 01:38 AM |
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Seriously |
Dorian Gray |
Dec-20-10 09:15 AM |
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It happened to me |
Mojorabbit |
Dec-20-10 01:39 AM |
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A few times. I was actually rather flattered, to be honest. |
Marr |
Dec-20-10 01:43 AM |
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Same here. I took some women's studies classes in college so |
TBF |
Dec-20-10 07:04 AM |
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You'd be surprised. The misconception that all 'homo-sexual' |
Amonester |
Dec-20-10 01:46 AM |
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If a misconception is real |
verges |
Dec-20-10 12:32 PM |
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I'm not about to see any segment of our society in those terms. |
Skip Intro |
Dec-20-10 01:56 AM |
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yes |
hfojvt |
Dec-20-10 01:56 AM |
#7 |
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I'm an older straight female who has always had lots of gay and lesbian |
JDPriestly |
Dec-20-10 01:57 AM |
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This episode makes me wonder just how tolerant gay people would be to to straight people if |
Bobbieo |
Dec-20-10 05:08 AM |
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That was a person in a closet protecting herself from harm |
Bluenorthwest |
Dec-20-10 09:14 AM |
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define advances |
Skittles |
Dec-20-10 02:04 AM |
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No, but my gay girl friend |
blueamy66 |
Dec-20-10 02:07 AM |
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I've had a gay co-worker ask me out. Does that count? nt. |
LawnLover |
Dec-20-10 02:07 AM |
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Yes, a lesbian once did and I felt flattered. |
Lost-in-FL |
Dec-20-10 02:08 AM |
#12 |
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a simple "no" has always been sufficient, atleast when they were sober |
Sen. Walter Sobchak |
Dec-20-10 02:14 AM |
#13 |
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So true, and, wow, how about that, it works the same for straight people |
stevenleser |
Dec-20-10 10:46 AM |
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Yes. I also went out with a pre-op tranny unknowingly. |
Edweird |
Dec-20-10 02:14 AM |
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No, no woman ever has |
Raine |
Dec-20-10 02:15 AM |
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No but I remember in HS making a move on a girl who wasn't into guys |
tularetom |
Dec-20-10 02:15 AM |
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I am gay and have had straight men hit on me. |
Behind the Aegis |
Dec-20-10 02:19 AM |
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Me Too!! |
stillwaiting |
Dec-20-10 07:15 AM |
#55 |
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+1 |
meegbear |
Dec-20-10 09:48 AM |
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Years ago, I had the chance to go to bed with a straight guy. |
terrya |
Dec-20-10 04:49 PM |
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Gots to love that! |
Behind the Aegis |
Dec-20-10 05:29 PM |
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No, I'm not getting any action from either team. |
MilesColtrane |
Dec-20-10 02:23 AM |
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I'm a straight female who hasn't, but in my experiences there are a lot of men who |
pacalo |
Dec-20-10 02:28 AM |
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Yes, I've been "hit" on numerous times... |
Dappleganger |
Dec-20-10 02:29 AM |
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detect gayness? |
DemocratAholic |
Dec-20-10 02:30 AM |
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I Think |
RobinA |
Dec-20-10 07:30 AM |
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Yes, twice. |
Vickers |
Dec-20-10 02:35 AM |
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Many times in my life. |
MrSlayer |
Dec-20-10 02:43 AM |
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Yes, and I was very flattered! n/t |
Pushed To The Left |
Dec-20-10 02:54 AM |
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Yes, more than once... |
LooseWilly |
Dec-20-10 03:08 AM |
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yes,many times....but I am secure enough with my own sexuality |
HipChick |
Dec-20-10 03:20 AM |
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Yes, and I can say "No, thank you" as easily to a woman as I can to a man. |
Heidi |
Dec-20-10 03:27 AM |
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back before I realized I'm bi |
lazarus |
Dec-20-10 03:28 AM |
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I voted yes because |
Crystal Clarity |
Dec-20-10 03:40 AM |
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Other human beings have expressed a sexual interest in me |
etherealtruth |
Dec-20-10 03:52 AM |
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Gay or Straight... to know me is to want me. |
cherokeeprogressive |
Dec-20-10 03:54 AM |
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LOL!! |
JuniperLea |
Dec-20-10 03:05 PM |
#135 |
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Quagmire, is that you? |
Arkana |
Dec-20-10 05:58 PM |
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"yes" - but it was not a big deal |
DrDan |
Dec-20-10 03:57 AM |
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I would have taken the "I'm not sure" option. |
CLANG |
Dec-20-10 04:14 AM |
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a lot of years ago |
barbtries |
Dec-20-10 05:13 AM |
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yes but she had mistaken me for another lesbian |
eShirl |
Dec-20-10 05:24 AM |
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Once, but I was in a gay bar at the time. n/t |
rucky |
Dec-20-10 05:26 AM |
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56 yrs, never |
Uben |
Dec-20-10 05:29 AM |
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I worked with gays at a university and we all just did our work and hated our boss! |
DailyGrind51 |
Dec-20-10 05:43 AM |
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I let a gay man buy me drinks once.... |
howard112211 |
Dec-20-10 05:47 AM |
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Sure. |
Le Taz Hot |
Dec-20-10 05:51 AM |
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Yes. Many times. Some even knew I was straight. |
RadiationTherapy |
Dec-20-10 06:44 AM |
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Given that da gays have da gaydar if you got hit on you are da gay. |
Warren Stupidity |
Dec-20-10 06:47 AM |
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you know |
d_r |
Dec-20-10 06:57 AM |
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exactly my point |
Warren Stupidity |
Dec-20-10 06:59 AM |
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Very silly. It also treats the mythical 'Gay' as someone who is more attuned to |
RadiationTherapy |
Dec-20-10 06:59 AM |
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Detecting gayness? Is there a checklist? |
stray cat |
Dec-20-10 06:48 AM |
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Once but a polite "no...I'm straight" was all it took for him to just be a friend. |
BlueJazz |
Dec-20-10 06:49 AM |
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Well... |
Chorophyll |
Dec-20-10 06:51 AM |
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it's happened. Not everybody who is gay has gaydar. |
Codeine |
Dec-20-10 06:52 AM |
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yes |
d_r |
Dec-20-10 06:55 AM |
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Is the implication that no GLB person has the right to ask? |
Yo_Mama |
Dec-20-10 07:00 AM |
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When I was young and in the Navy and in San Diego |
panzerfaust |
Dec-20-10 07:06 AM |
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Once in a hotel bar |
The Wizard |
Dec-20-10 07:35 AM |
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Yes......and so what? |
marmar |
Dec-20-10 07:41 AM |
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I haven't ever had anyone make advances towards me. Man or woman |
NNN0LHI |
Dec-20-10 07:42 AM |
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Wow that sucks...how about non-humans? |
pipi_k |
Dec-20-10 10:33 AM |
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Dogs love me...... |
DainBramaged |
Dec-20-10 07:45 AM |
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Deleted sub-thread |
Name removed |
Dec-20-10 07:51 AM |
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No, and I have many lesbian friends and associates. I have also had two lesbian |
CTyankee |
Dec-20-10 07:56 AM |
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Yes, but it was not much different than being hit on by a man. |
OnionPatch |
Dec-20-10 08:05 AM |
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I've been flirted with by other women, but it was always when I was |
Arkansas Granny |
Dec-20-10 08:07 AM |
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Straight female hit on by more women than men |
lukasahero |
Dec-20-10 08:08 AM |
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Does it count if I happened to be in a gay bar when it happened? |
bullwinkle428 |
Dec-20-10 08:10 AM |
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Yes. |
H2O Man |
Dec-20-10 08:11 AM |
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Happened to me several times when I was younger. |
NightHawk63 |
Dec-20-10 08:15 AM |
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Oh yes, numerous times. |
flvegan |
Dec-20-10 08:20 AM |
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Yes, a couple of times. No big deal. |
MineralMan |
Dec-20-10 08:25 AM |
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A few times. |
JoePhilly |
Dec-20-10 08:29 AM |
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yes |
sweetapogee |
Dec-20-10 08:29 AM |
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Important article on this issue here |
AngryAmish |
Dec-20-10 08:41 AM |
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Yes |
GiveMeFreedom |
Dec-20-10 08:43 AM |
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Many times, even when they knew I was straight. Only one ever bothered me. |
HopeHoops |
Dec-20-10 08:48 AM |
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Yes, a lesbian made it known to me that she would be interested if I was |
distantearlywarning |
Dec-20-10 08:52 AM |
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Him: What time is it? Me: About 2 am. Him: When you gonna let me suck you off? |
aikoaiko |
Dec-20-10 08:57 AM |
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I accidently clicked "NO" |
itsrobert |
Dec-20-10 09:05 AM |
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I have been hit on by lesbians several times |
Nikia |
Dec-20-10 09:05 AM |
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Sure, many times. It happened a whole lot more often when I was 16-20 |
slackmaster |
Dec-20-10 09:07 AM |
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Only when I was in the Army. |
Ron Green |
Dec-20-10 09:11 AM |
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Yes, several times. |
montanto |
Dec-20-10 09:20 AM |
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A few stray times, sure. I think the "gaydar" thing exists but is far from certain |
TheKentuckian |
Dec-20-10 09:36 AM |
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I wouldn't say actual advances, just subtle hints, |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-20-10 09:39 AM |
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Other: I don't label myself one way or the other. I vastly prefer men, but have |
blondeatlast |
Dec-20-10 09:42 AM |
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I think tolerance sometimes throws the "gaydar" off. |
Motown_Johnny |
Dec-20-10 09:43 AM |
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That's interesting. |
lumberjack_jeff |
Dec-20-10 11:13 AM |
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Yes, but only under the influence :) and never repeatedly after being turned down, which is more |
uncommon |
Dec-20-10 09:43 AM |
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If you say "No" you're just not paying attention. |
Graybeard |
Dec-20-10 09:46 AM |
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A gay man made a pass at my husband |
shrike |
Dec-20-10 09:47 AM |
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As a 16 yr old hitch hiking to work |
Kingofalldems |
Dec-20-10 09:47 AM |
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A couple of times. Sort of a compliment, I suppose. |
bemildred |
Dec-20-10 10:10 AM |
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No. But if someone makes an unwanted pass, |
LWolf |
Dec-20-10 10:24 AM |
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Yes, and I found it flattering |
Rob H. |
Dec-20-10 10:26 AM |
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Yes, I have always told them |
laylah |
Dec-20-10 10:28 AM |
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Does it count... |
pipi_k |
Dec-20-10 10:31 AM |
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Yes. |
GreenStormCloud |
Dec-20-10 10:40 AM |
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Yes, but so what? I really don't see what the big deal is. |
stevenleser |
Dec-20-10 10:43 AM |
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Yep, but I was parked in a gay bar's parking lot |
social_critic |
Dec-20-10 10:52 AM |
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Yes. And regarding your thinking ... almost exclusively where anti-gay bigotry prevails. |
ieoeja |
Dec-20-10 10:53 AM |
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Yes, and that was AFTER I got married. |
MoonRiver |
Dec-20-10 10:54 AM |
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Yes. But not since 8th grade. |
lumberjack_jeff |
Dec-20-10 11:01 AM |
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it has happened to me |
SwampG8r |
Dec-20-10 11:01 AM |
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Actually yes. |
mmonk |
Dec-20-10 11:06 AM |
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I had a lesbian roommate in the college dorm |
cherish44 |
Dec-20-10 11:10 AM |
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Yes. I declined but told him I was flattered that he found |
alfredo |
Dec-20-10 11:34 AM |
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Also should be asked... |
thecrow |
Dec-20-10 11:40 AM |
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I've been asked out by gay guys before. Not a big deal. n/t |
backscatter712 |
Dec-20-10 11:43 AM |
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I think a lot of homos go out of their way not to hit on people that they think are str8t |
justiceischeap |
Dec-20-10 11:47 AM |
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Yes, and I always take it as a compliment. Most people like feeling attractive. nt |
ZombieHorde |
Dec-20-10 12:01 PM |
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sure i've been hit on by another woman, don't see the big deal about it tho |
pitohui |
Dec-20-10 12:08 PM |
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Many times. As a teenager it bothered me. Now I don't care. |
former9thward |
Dec-20-10 12:12 PM |
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Yup... |
JSnuffy |
Dec-20-10 12:19 PM |
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No |
Jack Rabbit |
Dec-20-10 12:24 PM |
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Twice, which was kind of flattering |
AspenRose |
Dec-20-10 01:32 PM |
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Yes, two lesbians did. One was extremely attractive, so I felt flattered |
Lorien |
Dec-20-10 01:38 PM |
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Many times when I was younger... |
Crankie Avalon |
Dec-20-10 01:40 PM |
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Yep. But I don't hate gay people, so no biggie. (n/t) |
Iggo |
Dec-20-10 01:46 PM |
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Storytime? Got a strange letter from a summer job co-worker once. Sort of did the right thing. |
DirkGently |
Dec-20-10 02:24 PM |
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I got hit on by a guy one time, but I was at a gay bar with my trans friends. |
Erose999 |
Dec-20-10 02:41 PM |
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Not that I've noticed... |
InvisibleTouch |
Dec-20-10 02:49 PM |
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Yes. Many times. Far more than straight women have. |
Pale Blue Dot |
Dec-20-10 02:54 PM |
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I have, but I bet that freeper guy has never been hit on by anybody male or female |
Hippo_Tron |
Dec-20-10 02:54 PM |
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'one of the greatest talents gays have is the ability to detect gayness in others' |
Bluebear |
Dec-20-10 02:55 PM |
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Yep... quite flattering... |
JuniperLea |
Dec-20-10 03:01 PM |
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On at least two occasions |
Rochester |
Dec-20-10 03:02 PM |
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Fairly often. It never bothers me. |
bluedigger |
Dec-20-10 05:10 PM |
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Never |
proud2BlibKansan |
Dec-20-10 05:26 PM |
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People of all races and sexual dispositions have tried to mate with me. |
Poll_Blind |
Dec-20-10 05:33 PM |
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Yes. |
Radical Activist |
Dec-20-10 05:43 PM |
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what is so interesting with paranoid straight guys is they have no |
Kali |
Dec-20-10 05:51 PM |
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No. |
Arkana |
Dec-20-10 05:57 PM |
#143 |
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Yes,---for some reason, lesbians think I'm a lesbian. It never bothers me except for one ex-friend |
Heddi |
Dec-20-10 06:02 PM |
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Yes, and when it happened, I simply said I was straight. |
SalmonChantedEvening |
Dec-20-10 06:11 PM |
#146 |
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"Advances" ... |
Sparkly |
Dec-20-10 06:14 PM |
#147 |
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Well, they're only human. |
Forkboy |
Dec-20-10 06:30 PM |
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Not any overt advances, but I'd be flattered if they did. |
mentalsolstice |
Dec-20-10 06:34 PM |
#149 |
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Yes. So What? |
NashVegas |
Dec-20-10 06:54 PM |
#150 |
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When I was younger & "prettier", yes. I thanked them for the compliment, |
Vidar |
Dec-20-10 07:39 PM |
#151 |
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Yes! And it traumitized me for lllliiiiiiiiiffee. |
Maru Kitteh |
Dec-20-10 07:48 PM |
#152 |
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Yes, but to be fair |
some guy |
Dec-20-10 07:50 PM |
#153 |
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