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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-27-11 01:46 PM
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16. Well, being a white man is a higher status than being gay.
As a woman I've found that men will always use their male privilege to prove they are "better" than women.

I was the only woman in a week long technical class taught by a disabled man who had MS. He had some difficulty walking and speaking. Nevertheless he managed to prove his "machismo" in the class by poking fun at me and trying to make me look stupid in front of all the men. It was really kind of sexist and pathetic but I figured his ego must really get kicked around a lot because of the disease.

So a nondisabled female is still lower than a male with MS. Go figure.
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  -My boyfriend's racist best friend... a dilemma. David__77  Aug-27-11 01:15 PM   #0 
  - .  Dennis Donovan   Aug-27-11 01:17 PM   #1 
  - I'm with you. I wouldn't want somebody like that in my home.  yardwork   Aug-27-11 01:17 PM   #2 
  - You'd think that being gay would give this guy some sensitivity toward  no_hypocrisy   Aug-27-11 01:21 PM   #3 
  - No, sadly, some oppressed people just look around  Warpy   Aug-27-11 01:26 PM   #6 
  - nope. look at bully Israel, for one example.  Whisp   Aug-27-11 01:31 PM   #11 
  - thats a really stupid comparison  Mosby   Aug-27-11 04:45 PM   #38 
  - Any excuse eh? Even in a thread about racists.  sellitman   Aug-27-11 05:39 PM   #47 
  - It doesn't....  ingac70   Aug-27-11 01:43 PM   #14 
  - To me its always a surprise when someone who is themselves  undeterred   Aug-27-11 01:21 PM   #4 
  - It seems like gay white men are first and foremost white men.  David__77   Aug-27-11 01:28 PM   #8 
  - Well, that's a pretty broad brush. Gay people support Obama and Democrats at much higher rates  yardwork   Aug-27-11 01:33 PM   #12 
  - You're right. I was speaking out of anger and retract that.  David__77   Aug-27-11 01:48 PM   #18 
     - Completely in agreement with you there. Thank you for retracting.  yardwork   Aug-27-11 04:07 PM   #30 
  - Well, being a white man is a higher status than being gay.  undeterred   Aug-27-11 01:46 PM   #16 
     - I'm with you on that.  whathehell   Aug-27-11 05:35 PM   #45 
  - My guess is this happens because people believe their own bigotries are actually  ZombieHorde   Aug-27-11 01:45 PM   #15 
  - I think you're right.  undeterred   Aug-27-11 04:14 PM   #32 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Aug-27-11 05:38 PM   #46 
     - "black Americans' attitudes towards gay"  marmar   Aug-27-11 07:20 PM   #52 
  - No you are not. I wouldn't want him in my home either and I might tell him "I'd no sooner entertain  Happyhippychick   Aug-27-11 01:25 PM   #5 
  - What did your boyfriend say about it? I don't know what I'd do. nt  gateley   Aug-27-11 01:27 PM   #7 
  - I would cancel the visit.  chillspike   Aug-27-11 01:29 PM   #9 
  - I'm sorry about your dilemma  Cirque du So-What   Aug-27-11 01:31 PM   #10 
  - Your boyfriend's racist friend is nothing more than a ill-informed moron  MrScorpio   Aug-27-11 01:34 PM   #13 
  - Spend the entire weekend showing him how the decedents of slaves have been  Motown_Johnny   Aug-27-11 01:47 PM   #17 
  - you have already had someone with that belief in your home  hfojvt   Aug-27-11 01:50 PM   #19 
  - And what is the point? And I never said he's "subhuman."  David__77   Aug-27-11 01:52 PM   #21 
  - And it gets WORSE!  David__77   Aug-27-11 01:50 PM   #20 
  - Yeah, this is just pure old-fashioned racism. I don't think that reason or logic will make a dent.  yardwork   Aug-27-11 04:09 PM   #31 
  - Tell him he's part Neanderthal  a simple pattern   Aug-27-11 07:25 PM   #54 
  - You are not overreacting.  tosh   Aug-27-11 01:53 PM   #22 
  - Tell your boyfriend now, that his friend has crossed the line.  riderinthestorm   Aug-27-11 01:54 PM   #23 
  - If this guy doesn't understand why...  GoCubsGo   Aug-27-11 02:01 PM   #24 
  - Tell your boyfriend, "No sex for you until your friend changes his mind."  LastLiberal in PalmSprings   Aug-27-11 02:12 PM   #25 
  - Best response by far - "it's me or him, and you've got a week to choose"  saras   Aug-27-11 02:58 PM   #28 
  - You aren't overreacting at all. I wouldn't have him in my house.  Vinca   Aug-27-11 02:32 PM   #26 
  - Maybe he just needs a little education. Most bigotry is based in ignorance.  Arkansas Granny   Aug-27-11 02:47 PM   #27 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Aug-27-11 03:22 PM   #29 
  - The difference between the merely ignorant and racists  EFerrari   Aug-27-11 04:14 PM   #33 
  - You are overreacting.  Honeycombe8   Aug-27-11 04:29 PM   #34 
  - Maybe he can stay at your place...  unapatriciated   Aug-27-11 04:31 PM   #35 
  - I'm used to it. I'm from the deep south with rightwingnuts in the family. No prob.  Honeycombe8   Aug-27-11 04:37 PM   #37 
  - I just read your add'l posts where you post more of his quotes. I changed my mind.  Honeycombe8   Aug-27-11 04:33 PM   #36 
  - Family might be different  JustAnotherGen   Aug-27-11 05:48 PM   #50 
     - True. But...as I said...I suspect the boyfriend is totally okay w/his friend's viewpoint. They are  Honeycombe8   Aug-28-11 10:19 AM   #55 
  - One thing about Facebook is that it really reveals some people's true colors.  Initech   Aug-27-11 04:49 PM   #39 
  - Of course, there were also thousands who died during the Civil War to keep black people in slavery  fishwax   Aug-27-11 04:56 PM   #40 
  - Many fighting for the union didn't want blacks freed, or didn't care. They were more or less  Honeycombe8   Aug-29-11 01:21 PM   #57 
  - Not trying to excuse racism  Dokkie   Aug-27-11 04:57 PM   #41 
  - But his specific comments don't indicate his reaction is based on that.....  marmar   Aug-27-11 07:24 PM   #53 
  - I would play devil's advocate ALL OVER that  XemaSab   Aug-27-11 04:59 PM   #42 
  - What a complete jackass, not to mention the fact that he clearly failed  JanMichael   Aug-27-11 05:00 PM   #43 
  - I would  vercetti2021   Aug-27-11 05:24 PM   #44 
  - My fiance  JustAnotherGen   Aug-27-11 05:43 PM   #48 
  - He spoke his mind. Perhaps on facebook or in person you should speak yours.  aikoaiko   Aug-27-11 05:48 PM   #49 
  - What does your partner say?  carolinayellowdog   Aug-27-11 07:14 PM   #51 
  - I think you are overreacting a little.  Zax2me   Aug-28-11 10:30 AM   #56 
 

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