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Sat Aug-27-11 01:46 PM
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| 16. Well, being a white man is a higher status than being gay. |
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As a woman I've found that men will always use their male privilege to prove they are "better" than women.
I was the only woman in a week long technical class taught by a disabled man who had MS. He had some difficulty walking and speaking. Nevertheless he managed to prove his "machismo" in the class by poking fun at me and trying to make me look stupid in front of all the men. It was really kind of sexist and pathetic but I figured his ego must really get kicked around a lot because of the disease.
So a nondisabled female is still lower than a male with MS. Go figure.
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| -My boyfriend's racist best friend... a dilemma. |
David__77 |
Aug-27-11 01:15 PM |
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Dennis Donovan |
Aug-27-11 01:17 PM |
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I'm with you. I wouldn't want somebody like that in my home. |
yardwork |
Aug-27-11 01:17 PM |
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You'd think that being gay would give this guy some sensitivity toward |
no_hypocrisy |
Aug-27-11 01:21 PM |
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No, sadly, some oppressed people just look around |
Warpy |
Aug-27-11 01:26 PM |
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nope. look at bully Israel, for one example. |
Whisp |
Aug-27-11 01:31 PM |
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thats a really stupid comparison |
Mosby |
Aug-27-11 04:45 PM |
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Any excuse eh? Even in a thread about racists. |
sellitman |
Aug-27-11 05:39 PM |
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It doesn't.... |
ingac70 |
Aug-27-11 01:43 PM |
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To me its always a surprise when someone who is themselves |
undeterred |
Aug-27-11 01:21 PM |
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It seems like gay white men are first and foremost white men. |
David__77 |
Aug-27-11 01:28 PM |
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Well, that's a pretty broad brush. Gay people support Obama and Democrats at much higher rates |
yardwork |
Aug-27-11 01:33 PM |
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You're right. I was speaking out of anger and retract that. |
David__77 |
Aug-27-11 01:48 PM |
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Completely in agreement with you there. Thank you for retracting. |
yardwork |
Aug-27-11 04:07 PM |
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Well, being a white man is a higher status than being gay. |
undeterred |
Aug-27-11 01:46 PM |
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I'm with you on that. |
whathehell |
Aug-27-11 05:35 PM |
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My guess is this happens because people believe their own bigotries are actually |
ZombieHorde |
Aug-27-11 01:45 PM |
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I think you're right. |
undeterred |
Aug-27-11 04:14 PM |
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Aug-27-11 05:38 PM |
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"black Americans' attitudes towards gay" |
marmar |
Aug-27-11 07:20 PM |
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No you are not. I wouldn't want him in my home either and I might tell him "I'd no sooner entertain |
Happyhippychick |
Aug-27-11 01:25 PM |
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What did your boyfriend say about it? I don't know what I'd do. nt |
gateley |
Aug-27-11 01:27 PM |
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I would cancel the visit. |
chillspike |
Aug-27-11 01:29 PM |
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I'm sorry about your dilemma |
Cirque du So-What |
Aug-27-11 01:31 PM |
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Your boyfriend's racist friend is nothing more than a ill-informed moron |
MrScorpio |
Aug-27-11 01:34 PM |
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Spend the entire weekend showing him how the decedents of slaves have been |
Motown_Johnny |
Aug-27-11 01:47 PM |
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you have already had someone with that belief in your home |
hfojvt |
Aug-27-11 01:50 PM |
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And what is the point? And I never said he's "subhuman." |
David__77 |
Aug-27-11 01:52 PM |
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And it gets WORSE! |
David__77 |
Aug-27-11 01:50 PM |
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Yeah, this is just pure old-fashioned racism. I don't think that reason or logic will make a dent. |
yardwork |
Aug-27-11 04:09 PM |
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Tell him he's part Neanderthal |
a simple pattern |
Aug-27-11 07:25 PM |
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You are not overreacting. |
tosh |
Aug-27-11 01:53 PM |
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Tell your boyfriend now, that his friend has crossed the line. |
riderinthestorm |
Aug-27-11 01:54 PM |
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If this guy doesn't understand why... |
GoCubsGo |
Aug-27-11 02:01 PM |
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Tell your boyfriend, "No sex for you until your friend changes his mind." |
LastLiberal in PalmSprings |
Aug-27-11 02:12 PM |
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Best response by far - "it's me or him, and you've got a week to choose" |
saras |
Aug-27-11 02:58 PM |
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You aren't overreacting at all. I wouldn't have him in my house. |
Vinca |
Aug-27-11 02:32 PM |
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Maybe he just needs a little education. Most bigotry is based in ignorance. |
Arkansas Granny |
Aug-27-11 02:47 PM |
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Aug-27-11 03:22 PM |
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The difference between the merely ignorant and racists |
EFerrari |
Aug-27-11 04:14 PM |
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You are overreacting. |
Honeycombe8 |
Aug-27-11 04:29 PM |
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Maybe he can stay at your place... |
unapatriciated |
Aug-27-11 04:31 PM |
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I'm used to it. I'm from the deep south with rightwingnuts in the family. No prob. |
Honeycombe8 |
Aug-27-11 04:37 PM |
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I just read your add'l posts where you post more of his quotes. I changed my mind. |
Honeycombe8 |
Aug-27-11 04:33 PM |
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Family might be different |
JustAnotherGen |
Aug-27-11 05:48 PM |
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True. But...as I said...I suspect the boyfriend is totally okay w/his friend's viewpoint. They are |
Honeycombe8 |
Aug-28-11 10:19 AM |
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One thing about Facebook is that it really reveals some people's true colors. |
Initech |
Aug-27-11 04:49 PM |
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Of course, there were also thousands who died during the Civil War to keep black people in slavery |
fishwax |
Aug-27-11 04:56 PM |
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Many fighting for the union didn't want blacks freed, or didn't care. They were more or less |
Honeycombe8 |
Aug-29-11 01:21 PM |
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Not trying to excuse racism |
Dokkie |
Aug-27-11 04:57 PM |
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But his specific comments don't indicate his reaction is based on that..... |
marmar |
Aug-27-11 07:24 PM |
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I would play devil's advocate ALL OVER that |
XemaSab |
Aug-27-11 04:59 PM |
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What a complete jackass, not to mention the fact that he clearly failed |
JanMichael |
Aug-27-11 05:00 PM |
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I would |
vercetti2021 |
Aug-27-11 05:24 PM |
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My fiance |
JustAnotherGen |
Aug-27-11 05:43 PM |
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He spoke his mind. Perhaps on facebook or in person you should speak yours. |
aikoaiko |
Aug-27-11 05:48 PM |
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What does your partner say? |
carolinayellowdog |
Aug-27-11 07:14 PM |
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I think you are overreacting a little. |
Zax2me |
Aug-28-11 10:30 AM |
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