muffin1
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Tue Aug-02-11 08:14 PM
Response to Reply #31 |
| 34. Yeah, I had a flashback just seeing those words. |
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I wish people would think before throwing out phrases like that.
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| -You don't have to spank a child in order for them to be a good person... |
cynatnite |
Aug-02-11 07:25 PM |
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k/r |
fishwax |
Aug-02-11 07:28 PM |
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Logical consequences are much more effective, with the only downside being |
pnwmom |
Aug-02-11 07:28 PM |
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exactly. hitting instills fear to get child to behave. logical conseq (i like) takes time, |
seabeyond |
Aug-02-11 07:51 PM |
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K&R |
muffin1 |
Aug-02-11 07:28 PM |
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Yeah, I still remember |
madamesilverspurs |
Aug-02-11 07:36 PM |
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I have never heard that phrase...'Adult Temper Tantrums' |
nenagh |
Aug-02-11 10:43 PM |
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delete |
Richardo |
Aug-02-11 07:37 PM |
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My parents NEVER spanked me or my brother |
Raine |
Aug-02-11 07:44 PM |
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My parent's spanked and when I grew up I decided that it was an abusive thing to do... |
Luminous Animal |
Aug-02-11 07:46 PM |
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My dad spanked, my Mom didn't |
SoutherDem |
Aug-02-11 07:45 PM |
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you are right. my sister does not have kids.... but she is a lawyer and a child advocate. |
ejpoeta |
Aug-02-11 08:11 PM |
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I'm pro-parenting |
Texasgal |
Aug-02-11 07:48 PM |
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spanked, even with a belt. and fine with it. worked for me. i didnt like and made sure |
seabeyond |
Aug-02-11 07:49 PM |
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But you wouldn't do it with your own children -- which says a lot. |
pnwmom |
Aug-02-11 07:54 PM |
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i saw with two brothers how ineffective of a parenting tool it was. not to mention |
seabeyond |
Aug-02-11 08:01 PM |
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I think I've told this story here before |
Pithlet |
Aug-02-11 08:09 PM |
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wow. that would traumatize me, not to mention the kid being walloped on. |
seabeyond |
Aug-02-11 08:49 PM |
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It just may be a part of why I'm anti-spanking. |
Pithlet |
Aug-02-11 09:10 PM |
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you know why i think it doesnt bother me. i knew, always, that my parents did it as punishment, |
seabeyond |
Aug-02-11 09:57 PM |
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I send them to their room early, they disrespect their mom? their ass is grass |
Imagevision |
Aug-02-11 07:50 PM |
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Ass is grass? |
muffin1 |
Aug-02-11 07:57 PM |
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Sounds like something a Stephen King stepfather would say. |
PassingFair |
Aug-02-11 08:12 PM |
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Yeah, I had a flashback just seeing those words. |
muffin1 |
Aug-02-11 08:14 PM |
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I remember when my oldest was a toddler. A friend insisted that we needed to spank her. |
ejpoeta |
Aug-02-11 07:55 PM |
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the most ironic, and i have seen it, is a parent spanking a child saying ... NO HITTING |
seabeyond |
Aug-02-11 08:02 PM |
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i love that. i think that is the most hilarious thing. i have seen that one myself. |
ejpoeta |
Aug-02-11 08:13 PM |
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My old man pounded us almost every day |
Zanzoobar |
Aug-02-11 07:56 PM |
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Do you think frequent spankings could have made you wilder? |
Iris |
Aug-02-11 07:59 PM |
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No clue |
Zanzoobar |
Aug-02-11 08:13 PM |
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Fellow non-spanker |
mzmolly |
Aug-02-11 07:56 PM |
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I don't think all spanking is abuse. But I do think it's wrong. |
Pithlet |
Aug-02-11 07:59 PM |
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Never took my hand to my kid, never had to |
whatchamacallit |
Aug-02-11 08:03 PM |
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No spanking here |
abelenkpe |
Aug-02-11 08:03 PM |
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I think hitting a kid with a belt or other object is child abuse, plain and simple. |
Danger Mouse |
Aug-02-11 08:04 PM |
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True. |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Aug-02-11 09:23 PM |
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I agree with you. I didn't spank my three kids. |
Avalux |
Aug-02-11 08:05 PM |
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Talk to anyone in the psychological community - they'll cite research & tell you spanking is harmful |
backscatter712 |
Aug-02-11 08:07 PM |
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Maybe not |
Philippine expat |
Aug-02-11 08:10 PM |
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Bullshit |
muffin1 |
Aug-02-11 08:12 PM |
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not ever? |
Iris |
Aug-02-11 08:28 PM |
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striking a child is no more right than an adult striking another adult.... |
cynatnite |
Aug-02-11 09:09 PM |
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i never spanked any of my kids... |
madrchsod |
Aug-02-11 08:30 PM |
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I think there is a point where a child out grows it and it just makes them hate their parents. |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Aug-02-11 09:22 PM |
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