shanti
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Fri Jul-01-11 11:38 AM
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i make it clear where i stand politically and spiritually in the beginning. at 55, i have no time to waste 
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| -Do you subject potential romantic partners to a litmus test? |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 08:51 AM |
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As long as she doesn't have crabs, all is well. |
rug |
Jul-01-11 08:52 AM |
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And a torso attached to the head. That's important... n/t |
pipi_k |
Jul-01-11 08:56 AM |
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Getting up off the floor |
malaise |
Jul-01-11 10:22 AM |
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any potential mate is immediately disqualified for using the phrase "litmus test". |
Vinnie From Indy |
Jul-01-11 08:55 AM |
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Hah! Good thing I'm already married! |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 08:56 AM |
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Hear hear! |
Mulhane |
Jul-01-11 09:45 AM |
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no kidding -- screams of control issues, doesn't it? |
Donnachaidh |
Jul-01-11 12:49 PM |
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When I still dated I wanted... |
Deep13 |
Jul-01-11 08:55 AM |
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Jul-01-11 08:56 AM |
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At my age and lack of aesthetic qualities I'd settle for a pulse |
The Velveteen Ocelot |
Jul-01-11 08:57 AM |
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you didn't mention a sense of humor |
hfojvt |
Jul-01-11 04:41 PM |
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Oh, that goes without saying. |
The Velveteen Ocelot |
Jul-01-11 07:50 PM |
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Yes, on everyone, not just those I kind of flirt with. n/t |
nebenaube |
Jul-01-11 08:57 AM |
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If a potential partner has kids and they treat their kids badly or neglectfully |
nc4bo |
Jul-01-11 09:02 AM |
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They must have 3 things |
notadmblnd |
Jul-01-11 09:05 AM |
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Jul-01-11 09:49 AM |
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Thank you for those kind words |
notadmblnd |
Jul-01-11 11:08 AM |
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Well I didn't used to until my third marriage |
pipi_k |
Jul-01-11 09:09 AM |
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I think I had one, but it was subconscious. |
PassingFair |
Jul-01-11 09:12 AM |
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LOL. The family litmus test was discovered by my oldest sister. |
gkhouston |
Jul-01-11 09:14 AM |
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LOL, what sold my step-sons on me |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 09:19 AM |
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LOL, wish I'd been there. I seem to remember one boyfriend |
gkhouston |
Jul-01-11 11:29 AM |
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I did |
JustAnotherGen |
Jul-01-11 09:21 AM |
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Stages of life... |
Javaman |
Jul-01-11 09:22 AM |
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I love your answer, javaman |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 09:25 AM |
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Well it's all good as long as |
pipi_k |
Jul-01-11 09:28 AM |
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LOL! nt |
Javaman |
Jul-01-11 09:29 AM |
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What are you doing in my ex-husband's bathroom? |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 09:32 AM |
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LOL.... you described me to a "T" |
w8liftinglady |
Jul-01-11 09:52 AM |
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You are very lucky, then... |
Dappleganger |
Jul-01-11 09:29 AM |
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Even if you meet all the other requirements |
Mulhane |
Jul-01-11 09:32 AM |
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For some reason, custodians love me. |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 09:57 AM |
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Going to Asia or Latin America for partners also means |
flamingdem |
Jul-01-11 10:21 AM |
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That has varied with time |
ProgressiveProfessor |
Jul-01-11 09:46 AM |
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Not really. Chemistry can happen between the oddest couples. |
closeupready |
Jul-01-11 09:50 AM |
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yes. I have to in Texas |
w8liftinglady |
Jul-01-11 09:51 AM |
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If they turn red, I know they're an acid! |
Johonny |
Jul-01-11 09:53 AM |
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To answer your question - Absolutely. |
RC |
Jul-01-11 10:05 AM |
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Yay, you |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 10:13 AM |
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Yeah, but nobody's passed it in almost fifteen years. |
yella_dawg |
Jul-01-11 10:09 AM |
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yes, and #1 is whatt their political stipe is. |
ElsewheresDaughter |
Jul-01-11 10:15 AM |
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I have a story and I need some advice |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 10:23 AM |
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One good turn, Sarah! |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 10:31 AM |
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Ay ay! I can't stand anyone's over-religiosity either. Drives me crazy. |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 11:05 AM |
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believe it or not,I met my partner on one of those websites |
w8liftinglady |
Jul-01-11 11:14 AM |
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I know! I want to know why it's so difficult to find liberal men. Where are they all?? |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 11:25 AM |
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a few suggestions |
w8liftinglady |
Jul-01-11 11:34 AM |
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Yes we do! Thank you! I'm going to look into all those. nt |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 11:43 AM |
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I found my guy at a Unitarian Universalist church. |
Manifestor_of_Light |
Jul-01-11 04:23 PM |
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I may have got the last good one. |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 11:55 AM |
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Right wingers are like ants, they're an infestation lol I only want one lib guy. |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 12:16 PM |
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I K & R'd this - excellent discussion of love. Hope others K & R it nt |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 10:24 AM |
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I never dated a man who didn't share my four loves |
malaise |
Jul-01-11 10:28 AM |
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Hell yes. |
Hell Hath No Fury |
Jul-01-11 11:28 AM |
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absolutely |
shanti |
Jul-01-11 11:38 AM |
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Agree. n/t |
kiranon |
Jul-01-11 11:41 AM |
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It is very important for my romantic partners to have a neutral pH. |
sudopod |
Jul-01-11 11:40 AM |
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Congrats on finding your DUer husband! |
Kermitt Gribble |
Jul-01-11 12:11 PM |
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That's an excellent idea! I'll bet it would attract a lot of people, too. nt |
Sarah Ibarruri |
Jul-01-11 12:16 PM |
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I think it would, too. |
Kermitt Gribble |
Jul-01-11 07:51 PM |
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He's a lurker and a linker |
lapislzi |
Jul-01-11 12:33 PM |
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Not disgusting, kinda cute, actually.. |
Kermitt Gribble |
Jul-01-11 08:02 PM |
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i've always wondered why it hasn't had one |
shanti |
Jul-01-11 01:30 PM |
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No republicans, no smoking |
The Second Stone |
Jul-01-11 12:24 PM |
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I carry litmus paper with me everywhere and regularly try to test random strangers |
struggle4progress |
Jul-01-11 01:05 PM |
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No rightwingers, no bigots, no fools |
Liberal_in_LA |
Jul-01-11 03:17 PM |
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I've dated women who were republicans |
geardaddy |
Jul-01-11 03:22 PM |
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Not really. Either we 'click' or we don't. Just about everything is negotiable |
Edweird |
Jul-01-11 04:20 PM |
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Yes, if only to prevent both of us a lot of headaches. |
JackDragna |
Jul-01-11 04:33 PM |
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Absolutely after two failed marriages |
lunatica |
Jul-01-11 04:36 PM |
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"Breathing" is high on my list, but I'm not a real stickler about it... nt |
Buns_of_Fire |
Jul-01-11 04:44 PM |
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45+ years ago I wouldn’t have married |
frogmarch |
Jul-01-11 05:00 PM |
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Background check + attendance at a Progressive event.. |
HipChick |
Jul-01-11 05:02 PM |
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