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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-11-11 03:46 PM
Response to Reply #23
40. Yes, groups of children can also use this type of resolution. eom
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  -Question: Do two wrongs make a right? Arctic Dave  May-10-11 08:07 PM   #0 
  - Yes she was right  notesdev   May-10-11 08:12 PM   #1 
  - So two wrongs do make a right?  Arctic Dave   May-10-11 08:18 PM   #3 
  - I'm saying that she may not have been wrong  notesdev   May-10-11 09:25 PM   #9 
  - Nope - you're mom was right.  MedicalAdmin   May-11-11 04:42 PM   #57 
  - Exactly. Kids can have a very low threshold of "he/she started it"  alphafemale   May-10-11 09:25 PM   #10 
  - No  sorcrow   May-10-11 08:14 PM   #2 
  - Your family sounds really violent  Bluenorthwest   May-10-11 08:31 PM   #4 
  - you are interpreting wrongs. i guess one would have to first ask if there really are two wrongs  seabeyond   May-10-11 08:33 PM   #5 
  - Your mom was right. She did good. but your premise is wrong...  yawnmaster   May-10-11 08:38 PM   #6 
  - So if you find yourself in the wrong place, wrong time you should go all out?  Arctic Dave   May-10-11 09:18 PM   #8 
     - If you have that ache to go all out, it will happen eventually. Perhaps you are in the...  yawnmaster   May-11-11 11:25 AM   #15 
        - So turn the other cheek and also take the punishment?  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 02:58 PM   #19 
           - LOL This thread ain't going no where near where you wanted it  Solomon   May-11-11 03:11 PM   #25 
              - Actually, it has been very informative.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:15 PM   #28 
                 - I don't see anyone saying that. Interesting how you do.  uppityperson   May-11-11 03:45 PM   #38 
                 - LOL you didn't learn that from here. That is what you had in your mind to begin with. eom  yawnmaster   May-11-11 03:47 PM   #41 
                    - Were did I see it, let me explain.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:58 PM   #48 
                       - Wrong. You were punished for being aggressive back, not for defending yourself.  uppityperson   May-11-11 04:00 PM   #49 
  - My mother-in-law had eight children 5 sons and 3 daughters  TexasProgresive   May-10-11 09:14 PM   #7 
  - So if my accused me of taking money and started hitting me that is for me to be punished?  Arctic Dave   May-10-11 09:27 PM   #11 
     - It's a prisoners' dilemma  notesdev   May-11-11 12:35 AM   #14 
     - no you would not be justified. You can be angry. And learn to deal with anger.  yawnmaster   May-11-11 11:27 AM   #16 
        - So by not learning to deal with anger and lashing out is a flaw of character.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:02 PM   #20 
        - Yes, I would argue that not learning to deal with anger, in a society, can be ...  yawnmaster   May-11-11 03:51 PM   #45 
        - So not learning to deal with anger and lashing out is a flaw of character  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:04 PM   #22 
  - No, but two lefts do.  Marr   May-10-11 09:31 PM   #12 
  - you guys....  unkachuck   May-10-11 09:36 PM   #13 
  - Should this type of conflict resolution also go for groups too?  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:06 PM   #23 
     - Yes, groups of children can also use this type of resolution. eom  uppityperson   May-11-11 03:46 PM   #40 
  - Another Bin Laden thread?  Incitatus   May-11-11 11:28 AM   #17 
  - In a way, yes. Trying to see why some people think the way they do.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:12 PM   #26 
     - There is a difference between children and adults, between siblings and groups at war.  uppityperson   May-11-11 03:49 PM   #42 
     - The thing about seeing how other people think is that you need to try and remove from your own mind  yawnmaster   May-11-11 04:10 PM   #55 
     - This was never going to be scientific study.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 07:57 PM   #69 
     - OBL did wrong by allegedly masterminding the deaths of 3,000 people.  coalition_unwilling   May-11-11 05:33 PM   #62 
  - The 1 who started it was wrong, the 1 who responded back was wrong. A bigger question for you...  uppityperson   May-11-11 11:31 AM   #18 
  - "still getting into fights with the excuse "he started it"?" this is what stuck out for me.  seabeyond   May-11-11 03:04 PM   #21 
  - So if someone punches you, should you ignore it?  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:09 PM   #24 
     - Yes, you should ignore it if you can. Walking away can be the best thing to do. It depends  uppityperson   May-11-11 03:15 PM   #29 
     - To were? What if that is not an option?  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:17 PM   #30 
        - Part of defending yourself is walking away. Sorry that your childhood is upsetting you still  uppityperson   May-11-11 03:44 PM   #37 
     - because as a parent we have learned, it generally takes two. he punched you.... why?  seabeyond   May-11-11 03:25 PM   #32 
     - So if I am attacked for any reason I should not defend myself?  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:31 PM   #34 
        - my mom asked the three of us who did something... cant remember of course. we were pretty sure  seabeyond   May-11-11 04:01 PM   #50 
        - If you, as a child, were attacked for a reason, should you respond violently?  uppityperson   May-11-11 04:02 PM   #51 
        - Define attacked. Nt  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 07:52 PM   #68 
           - no. eom  uppityperson   May-11-11 08:06 PM   #70 
              - Ok. Thank you for your time.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 08:12 PM   #71 
        - Yes - depending on "how" you defended yourself.  MedicalAdmin   May-11-11 04:50 PM   #59 
     - Or possibly our actions could be predicated on our own judgements...  LanternWaste   May-11-11 03:30 PM   #33 
     - I felt threatened, should I not defend myself?  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:33 PM   #36 
        - Its A response, not the only response or even the most logical. eom  yawnmaster   May-11-11 04:05 PM   #54 
        - I imagine that should we think about it, we'd find many logical responses  LanternWaste   May-11-11 04:34 PM   #56 
        - Felt is not = to logic.  MedicalAdmin   May-11-11 04:50 PM   #60 
           - I take it you have never been in a fight.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 06:07 PM   #63 
           - I have been in riots.  MedicalAdmin   May-11-11 06:44 PM   #65 
           - Felt = input. Fighting = output.  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 07:49 PM   #67 
              - Sun Tzu said...  MedicalAdmin   May-12-11 12:47 PM   #72 
     - Walking away from a punch is not ignoring it. If the punch is so insignificant that it can...  yawnmaster   May-11-11 04:03 PM   #52 
     - Rule one in martial arts.  MedicalAdmin   May-11-11 04:48 PM   #58 
  - Your mother will trump whatever you say  lunatica   May-11-11 03:14 PM   #27 
  - Not always. It's complicated.  MrScorpio   May-11-11 03:22 PM   #31 
  - Thank you MrS  Arctic Dave   May-11-11 03:50 PM   #43 
  - Simple, don't break your Mom's stuff.  Ikonoklast   May-11-11 03:31 PM   #35 
  - Why would your Mom care what a bunch of strangers on the  sufrommich   May-11-11 03:45 PM   #39 
  - No, but self defense isn't "a wrong". n/t  lumberjack_jeff   May-11-11 03:50 PM   #44 
  - You mean she hit you? Where I come from, that's called child abuse and not only is it wrong...  Shagbark Hickory   May-11-11 03:52 PM   #46 
  - Two "wrongs" can prevent additional "wrongs".  LoZoccolo   May-11-11 03:52 PM   #47 
  - I was going to post something similar. Thanks!  RegieRocker   May-11-11 04:05 PM   #53 
  - No, but two rights make a U turn  Motown_Johnny   May-11-11 05:10 PM   #61 
  - I raised twins  drpepper67   May-11-11 06:36 PM   #64 
  - I don't consider it wrong if you were defending yourself...  Lucian   May-11-11 06:45 PM   #66 
 

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