JerseygirlCT
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Fri Sep-10-10 07:50 PM
Response to Reply #46 |
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And it's far too prevalent.
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| -Citibank's advice to female employees. |
Swede |
Sep-10-10 12:33 PM |
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you arent going to hear me argue this. pass it to every young girl.... |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 12:40 PM |
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my thought exactly. |
nashville_brook |
Sep-10-10 06:35 PM |
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Ask permission? Apologize? Play fair? |
Crankie Avalon |
Sep-10-10 12:42 PM |
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the play fair one i would do regardless. who i am. and am still successful |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 12:44 PM |
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Check your honor at the door, I guess. |
Crankie Avalon |
Sep-10-10 03:23 PM |
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Check your honor at the door,... i have never had the need to do that |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 08:18 PM |
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It is a bank after all. |
Radical Activist |
Sep-10-10 03:24 PM |
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True dat. |
Crankie Avalon |
Sep-10-10 03:27 PM |
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I'd like to see some confirmation before I believe this. |
HiFructosePronSyrup |
Sep-10-10 12:46 PM |
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Yep. The 'stolen from Citibank' story is sketchy |
Matariki |
Sep-10-10 12:49 PM |
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Oversized letterhead is overdoing it a bit, IMO. |
HiFructosePronSyrup |
Sep-10-10 12:49 PM |
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I agree. I just can't see a corporation doing this for fear of offending. |
Pithlet |
Sep-10-10 01:02 PM |
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I believe it... |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 12:50 PM |
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99 Ways . . . |
Constance Craving |
Sep-10-10 01:22 PM |
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I'll have to check that book out too! |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 01:39 PM |
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Credited at the bottom of the whatever it is. nt |
blondeatlast |
Sep-10-10 02:03 PM |
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Agreed. Pretty damnable evidence an EEOC complaint-- |
blondeatlast |
Sep-10-10 01:41 PM |
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I was prepared to be 'outraged' |
Matariki |
Sep-10-10 12:47 PM |
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That's what I was thinking--but I still think it's a fake. nt |
blondeatlast |
Sep-10-10 01:42 PM |
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Oh most certainly a fake. |
Matariki |
Sep-10-10 03:41 PM |
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Looks like excellent advice to me... |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 12:48 PM |
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On the other hand... |
Matariki |
Sep-10-10 12:55 PM |
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True... |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 01:04 PM |
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I've been entertaining myself this morning |
Matariki |
Sep-10-10 03:30 PM |
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Oh, that is rich! |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 04:44 PM |
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Play by the rules really bothers me ( stretch the rules, don't get caught) |
Confusious |
Sep-10-10 08:23 PM |
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'Women should act like men to get ahead' makes the world more masculine. |
Mimosa |
Sep-10-10 12:50 PM |
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I couldn't disagree more! |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 12:53 PM |
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Juniper, I wasn't saying a woman can't be 'tough' |
Mimosa |
Sep-10-10 12:59 PM |
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I must have missed the rude bit... eom |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 01:38 PM |
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"Femininity" is a social creation anyway. |
uncommon |
Sep-10-10 01:01 PM |
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It may well be... |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 01:41 PM |
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Embrace your oppression - |
uncommon |
Sep-10-10 03:21 PM |
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Not even close... |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 04:45 PM |
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dupe delete |
uncommon |
Sep-10-10 12:59 PM |
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You think that weak handshakes, constantly apologizing, and being naive are naturally "womanly" |
uncommon |
Sep-10-10 01:00 PM |
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these things are about confidence, not being a man. not gender specific |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 01:09 PM |
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Not gender specific... |
JuniperLea |
Sep-10-10 01:45 PM |
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and your post... so true. right there with you. nt |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 01:46 PM |
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They are gender specific because they are taught to women. n/t |
EFerrari |
Sep-10-10 03:45 PM |
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because generally our young girls are taught, sit quiet, quiet voice, yada yada... |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 04:52 PM |
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I have two sons. n/t |
EFerrari |
Sep-10-10 08:05 PM |
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i do, too. nt |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 08:06 PM |
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Totally agree. nt |
JerseygirlCT |
Sep-10-10 02:20 PM |
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Yes, it's a particularly interesting piece of anti-feminism, too. |
EFerrari |
Sep-10-10 03:44 PM |
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i agree, there's a counter-feminist tone in this, however... |
nashville_brook |
Sep-10-10 06:45 PM |
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There's good advice there |
lukasahero |
Sep-10-10 12:52 PM |
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Fuck yeah...random blog...poor quality photo...overly sensational headline. |
tjwash |
Sep-10-10 12:52 PM |
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I think the problem is that it is advice to female employees. |
Pithlet |
Sep-10-10 12:55 PM |
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Most of that applies to me as well |
Phil The Cat |
Sep-10-10 01:53 PM |
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Some of it is accurate - it is reflective of the behavior we teach to girls |
uncommon |
Sep-10-10 12:58 PM |
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Hurray for Citi for posting this for its employees. It says, "What Not to do". |
sinkingfeeling |
Sep-10-10 01:09 PM |
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I guess I've sabotaged my career like a woman. |
qb |
Sep-10-10 01:42 PM |
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girls are generally taught.... and certainly not an absolute. males are normally taught otherwise |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 02:07 PM |
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1,4,5,6,7,8&9 apply to me, and I'm a man. |
trackfan |
Sep-10-10 02:14 PM |
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Hear, hear. |
Crankie Avalon |
Sep-10-10 03:03 PM |
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All assuming male dominance in business |
JerseygirlCT |
Sep-10-10 02:20 PM |
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Most of these tips are for dealing with poor leaders |
Radical Activist |
Sep-10-10 03:27 PM |
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That too |
JerseygirlCT |
Sep-10-10 07:50 PM |
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Poor Citi, |
madamesilverspurs |
Sep-10-10 03:19 PM |
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Nothing annoys me more than when I go to shake another woman's hand and she gives me the limp |
tammywammy |
Sep-10-10 03:28 PM |
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hate it. and then shake a mans hand and you get that wimp shake cause they are use to it from woman |
seabeyond |
Sep-10-10 04:53 PM |
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like you're supposed to kiss it or something |
WolverineDG |
Sep-10-10 08:05 PM |
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I'm a firm shake |
tammywammy |
Sep-10-10 08:12 PM |
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I would not be surprised if this is the work of a diversity effort ... |
JoePhilly |
Sep-10-10 03:32 PM |
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I work for a large company |
tammywammy |
Sep-10-10 03:39 PM |
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Yup ... |
JoePhilly |
Sep-10-10 06:30 PM |
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Interesting. I do at least half of those things, and my ex-spouse (the female) doesn't. |
jobycom |
Sep-10-10 03:38 PM |
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But really, could you just stop smacking your lips after applying your |
blondeatlast |
Sep-10-10 04:47 PM |
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I no longer say "I'm sorry" when some man bumps into me |
WolverineDG |
Sep-10-10 08:02 PM |
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I really f***ing hate language games like that. |
Confusious |
Sep-10-10 08:30 PM |
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Yup, so I do the same to those who pull that crap |
WolverineDG |
Sep-10-10 10:50 PM |
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That list should be called, "How to be a ignorant, fuckhead bully." |
Swamp Rat |
Sep-10-10 08:17 PM |
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+1 nt |
phasma ex machina |
Sep-10-10 08:44 PM |
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If you have to do that to work at a corporate office, you are completely soulless. |
alarimer |
Sep-10-10 11:13 PM |
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