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Thu Jun-03-10 02:14 PM
Response to Reply #27 |
| 46. Better advice: Don't teach your sons to drink and party and rape. |
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EVERYBODY should be careful and responsible. PERIOD.
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| -Young ladies, safety tip: Don't get wasted 'til the wee hours of the morning |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 01:28 PM |
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not every country had that shit blaring 24/7 |
mikelgb |
Jun-03-10 01:31 PM |
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That's true. But getting wasted and going back to the hotel room |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 01:33 PM |
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I guess that means the dumb bitch had it coming. |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 01:43 PM |
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What a complete fail of a response. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:23 PM |
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+1000. nt |
awoke_in_2003 |
Jun-03-10 02:49 PM |
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Indeed! |
arcane1 |
Jun-03-10 01:40 PM |
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Her cousin was interviewed earlier today |
theHandpuppet |
Jun-03-10 02:08 PM |
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I heard an interview with her father this morning. She knew who Joran was. |
EOTE |
Jun-03-10 02:12 PM |
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...when she met him, Betcha 20 she met him and then mentioned him to Dad. |
elehhhhna |
Jun-03-10 03:32 PM |
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She had a right to go out and get bombed |
Warpy |
Jun-03-10 01:33 PM |
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She has that right. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 01:34 PM |
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She doesn't need to do anything |
Dorian Gray |
Jun-03-10 02:14 PM |
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Why, yes, indeed! Can't even trust NBA or World Boxing Champions! |
WinkyDink |
Jun-03-10 02:15 PM |
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Yes and no. |
texastoast |
Jun-03-10 01:39 PM |
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No. Just Yes. nt |
LaydeeBug |
Jun-03-10 01:44 PM |
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I'm doing the shark story with my beloveds |
texastoast |
Jun-03-10 01:49 PM |
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there's legal blame, ethical blame and real world "blame". As a woman I learned a long time ago |
KittyWampus |
Jun-03-10 02:10 PM |
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Those of us who stayed safe learned to mistrust men at a young age. |
Warpy |
Jun-03-10 02:22 PM |
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No one is saying it's her fault. |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:49 PM |
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Yes, it is his fault. BUT she could have avoided that situation and didn't. BIG WHOOP! |
KittyWampus |
Jun-03-10 03:05 PM |
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Jun-03-10 02:27 PM |
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Your sad attempts at bullying me aren't working. In the Real World, which you seem impervious to, |
KittyWampus |
Jun-03-10 03:05 PM |
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+++ |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 03:21 PM |
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Better safety tip: "Don't get wasted til the wee hours of the morning. Period." Not only |
GreenPartyVoter |
Jun-03-10 01:34 PM |
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Especially with some guy you don't know. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 01:35 PM |
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Was it okay for the guy to invite a woman he didn't know and planned to murder? Just askin'. |
WinkyDink |
Jun-03-10 02:19 PM |
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Straw man? |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:31 PM |
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Um, it's what the OP is about maybe? |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 02:35 PM |
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There is no blaming the victim going on except what you are |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:40 PM |
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"even the classier" stripclub strippers get raped by cops after closing time. |
elehhhhna |
Jun-03-10 03:47 PM |
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Jun-03-10 02:40 PM |
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maybe they'd been dating. i wonder how long he was there. |
elehhhhna |
Jun-03-10 03:46 PM |
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I suspect he wont be doing any more clubbing. |
Lost4words |
Jun-03-10 01:35 PM |
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Date rape drugs were found at the scene |
Quantess |
Jun-03-10 01:35 PM |
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thank you for mentioning that. now... |
elehhhhna |
Jun-03-10 03:43 PM |
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Um, nope; that's blaming the victim. |
Brickbat |
Jun-03-10 01:36 PM |
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+ 5,000. nt |
LaydeeBug |
Jun-03-10 01:42 PM |
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For all we know, she might not have known who he was. He might've said his name was John Smith.nt |
raccoon |
Jun-03-10 01:36 PM |
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One article says that date rape drugs were found in her car. It's quite possible that |
Arkansas Granny |
Jun-03-10 01:40 PM |
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Oh now why do you have to go and interrupt a good slut shaming session? eom |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 01:41 PM |
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+1 |
Luminous Animal |
Jun-03-10 01:42 PM |
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+ 5,000. nt |
LaydeeBug |
Jun-03-10 01:43 PM |
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I guess I'm just an old spoilsport. Shame on me. ;-) |
Arkansas Granny |
Jun-03-10 01:47 PM |
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Funny how many people are choosing to ignore that. |
redqueen |
Jun-03-10 02:34 PM |
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How about don't be a serial rapist murderer sociopathic piece of shit? |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 01:41 PM |
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Sounds like you ARE blaming the victim. |
Jokerman |
Jun-03-10 01:41 PM |
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Well, my mom told me never to pick up strangers, not only because it |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 01:43 PM |
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Too bad those Slutty McSlutterson rape and murder victims didn't have a mom like yours! |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 01:46 PM |
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Don't get uppity. Young women need to be told to be very careful and young men too. |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 01:58 PM |
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Good post - I don't get some of these people who won't even let you say "be careful" |
cbdo2007 |
Jun-03-10 02:08 PM |
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No, of course not. Telling people to "be careful" is sexist and it's blaming |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:39 PM |
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You forget your sarcasm emoticon. |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:58 PM |
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Yep. I don't see it as a blame the victim either, but more like |
GreenPartyVoter |
Jun-03-10 02:19 PM |
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I'm sorry to hear that. College should not be a place you have to be fearful but |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:27 PM |
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3 of my assaults happened in my dorm, and two of them were by guys who lived there. Nobody should |
GreenPartyVoter |
Jun-03-10 02:43 PM |
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"Uppity"?? |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 02:21 PM |
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Really? Educate me. |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:32 PM |
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You can't be serious. You just can't be. |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 02:37 PM |
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Apparently, there is some regional slang I don't know. |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:57 PM |
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"Uppity" is just as bad as "niggardly". |
Nye Bevan |
Jun-03-10 02:45 PM |
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Really? In whose universe? |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:55 PM |
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I guess you're not savvy. Google and become savvy, for your own sake. eom |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 03:30 PM |
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So how many other words are off limits? |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 03:35 PM |
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Personally, I think it's good advice. My college gave it to every incoming freshman and |
GreenPartyVoter |
Jun-03-10 02:04 PM |
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And you might STILL get raped and murdered someday, despite all your precautions. |
Berry Cool |
Jun-03-10 02:12 PM |
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Oh brother, I know something bad can happen to me every day. |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 02:22 PM |
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And you STILL can minimize risks. |
KittyWampus |
Jun-03-10 02:23 PM |
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I see your point. Yes, the murder victim has every right to get wasted |
snappyturtle |
Jun-03-10 01:44 PM |
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The assumption that somehow this poor girl knew who this asshole was is outrageous |
slutticus |
Jun-03-10 01:44 PM |
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i couldnt believe the same guy, different woman. i had to do a double take and let brain |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 01:44 PM |
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So, you agree with the OP? |
Commie Pinko Dirtbag |
Jun-03-10 02:23 PM |
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my post is ALL about being surprised this guy popped up again, and murdered another. |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 02:53 PM |
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Better advice: |
Coyote_Bandit |
Jun-03-10 01:47 PM |
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Yes, let's put the onus on the girls. |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 01:48 PM |
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Generally, it is boys |
texastoast |
Jun-03-10 01:51 PM |
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ah, come on. there is some personal responsibility in our chosing to drink. |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 01:52 PM |
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"i know my responsibility in that behavior" |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 01:54 PM |
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there is no implication i am fair game, but YOU implying that. we teach our girls |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 01:58 PM |
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We're also teaching things to our young men |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 02:19 PM |
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i talk frankly and openly with sons and nieces. i dont pull punches. i dont mince words. |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 02:37 PM |
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No Hellokitty The REALITY is that when you engage in risky behavior you might end up getting |
KittyWampus |
Jun-03-10 02:15 PM |
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Jun-03-10 02:24 PM |
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oh yes yes yes. this is the one that bothers me about our culture. |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 01:49 PM |
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I used to joke with the now-21 yr old... |
Iggo |
Jun-03-10 01:50 PM |
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Better advice: Don't teach your sons to drink and party and rape. |
Berry Cool |
Jun-03-10 02:14 PM |
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But...but...Seth Rogen did it with that drunk chick in the movie and she liked it! |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 02:30 PM |
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btw kitty, i was on that thread. i have already talk to both boys 12 and 15 about that thread |
seabeyond |
Jun-03-10 02:40 PM |
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I'm sure that's something Joran could have learned on his own. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:30 PM |
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+1,000,000,000,000 |
Odin2005 |
Jun-03-10 03:09 PM |
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You're assuming everyone knows his name |
Lone_Star_Dem |
Jun-03-10 01:47 PM |
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Yeah, because obviously he was wearing a placard to tell everyone this. |
Berry Cool |
Jun-03-10 02:05 PM |
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Perhaps Peruvians don't fixate on US news stories 24/7? |
hlthe2b |
Jun-03-10 02:20 PM |
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Does it apply to young men? Certainly. But in this case (and in the |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:28 PM |
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Interesting OP and those who agree. Apparently, they are saying MEN CANNOT BE TRUSTED. |
WinkyDink |
Jun-03-10 02:21 PM |
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No, actually. We're saying that drinking and picking up strange men is risky behavior |
KittyWampus |
Jun-03-10 02:25 PM |
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Certain men, no. Especially drunk partiers who are clubbing at 5:30 a.m. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:25 PM |
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Yep. The real "misandrists". eom |
Hello_Kitty |
Jun-03-10 03:34 PM |
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Don't get wasted in the wee hours of the morning carrying cash. |
blondeatlast |
Jun-03-10 02:29 PM |
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So, you believe no one should EVER use common sense or caution? |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:33 PM |
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Better advice... Aruban authorities don't be swayed by money, opinion, |
ScreamingMeemie |
Jun-03-10 02:34 PM |
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If Aruba'd been able to put him away, they would have. |
elehhhhna |
Jun-03-10 03:55 PM |
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Jun-03-10 02:41 PM |
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Vile |
Occulus |
Jun-03-10 02:47 PM |
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Yes, because it's vile to suggest that people should THINK before they ACT. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 02:53 PM |
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The OP is offensive as written. Perhaps the intent was to be |
cate94 |
Jun-03-10 03:48 PM |
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My son is autistic and has the mental capacity of a 1-year old. |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 03:55 PM |
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An even better safety tip |
Missy Vixen |
Jun-03-10 02:57 PM |
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Well, why not just send an invitation to every serial murderer out there |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 03:00 PM |
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There seems to be two sets of rules for acceptable behavior |
Missy Vixen |
Jun-03-10 03:07 PM |
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What century are you living in? |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 03:20 PM |
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Do you understand that common sense does not often follow inebriation? |
Heidi |
Jun-03-10 03:07 PM |
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We both know the answer to that. |
blondeatlast |
Jun-03-10 03:13 PM |
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You can get inebriated. You just have to make sure you are among friends |
Cleita |
Jun-03-10 03:25 PM |
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Victim-Blaming FAIL!!! |
Odin2005 |
Jun-03-10 03:07 PM |
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Lame |
devilgrrl |
Jun-03-10 03:09 PM |
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In my 20s... |
Rebubula |
Jun-03-10 03:10 PM |
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Good for you! You didn't rape or murder any of your one night stands? |
Common Sense Party |
Jun-03-10 03:21 PM |
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'I'm not trying to blame the victim here' - You may not be trying but you certainly are. |
Bluebear |
Jun-03-10 03:38 PM |
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To be fair, the victim probably had no idea who Van der Sloot was. |
WeDidIt |
Jun-03-10 03:40 PM |
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But for you young gentlemen, no rules. |
Gormy Cuss |
Jun-03-10 03:41 PM |
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Wow - I haven't read an insulting, blame the victim post on DU all day until now. |
myrna minx |
Jun-03-10 03:49 PM |
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But it's common sense! |
Bluebear |
Jun-03-10 03:53 PM |
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I'm so grateful that a poster on DU has passed along such wisdom to we damsels. |
myrna minx |
Jun-03-10 03:56 PM |
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Locking |
Broken_Hero |
Jun-03-10 03:59 PM |
#124 |
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