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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-22-10 11:30 AM
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64. i am a mother of 2 sons and though sons and i have discussion on how
Edited on Thu Apr-22-10 11:31 AM by seabeyond
it is not only males, the very strong majority are ergo, we have to factor that into conversation as a reality. and what their responsibility is as a gender as a whole. just as i feel they have a responsibility as a white person even though they themselves arent bigots.
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  -"A young drunk girl out club-hopping is fair game." brentspeak  Apr-21-10 08:02 PM   #0 
  - Good Lord.  DavidDvorkin   Apr-21-10 08:03 PM   #1 
  - The laws protect the stupid, too. nt  Captain Hilts   Apr-21-10 08:08 PM   #2 
  - It is precisely the stupid that need the protection of the law. nt  bemildred   Apr-21-10 08:34 PM   #5 
     - That's right. We need to protect the weak from the strong, the stupid from the smart. nt  Captain Hilts   Apr-21-10 08:45 PM   #7 
        - The thing is, the weak become strong, and the stupid smart, over time.  bemildred   Apr-21-10 09:38 PM   #16 
  - people make stupid statements like that until they have a daughter or neice or granddaughter who is  dugaresa   Apr-21-10 08:11 PM   #3 
  - Saved a few of those girls from those guys. They usually want to fight.  Gman2   Apr-21-10 08:23 PM   #4 
  - "game"?? as in "prey"? like some animal?  mzteris   Apr-21-10 08:45 PM   #6 
  - Those knuckles must be pretty scarred up.  flvegan   Apr-21-10 09:11 PM   #8 
  - i just keep remembering  seabeyond   Apr-21-10 09:22 PM   #10 
     - I can tell you  flvegan   Apr-21-10 09:29 PM   #11 
        - well, see.... lol, this is what i am saying. nt  seabeyond   Apr-21-10 10:21 PM   #22 
           - He's not bad, he's willing to cause trouble for the right reasons.  LeftyMom   Apr-21-10 11:00 PM   #28 
              - yup.  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 06:17 AM   #37 
  - This person probably really believes this  Catherine Vincent   Apr-21-10 09:17 PM   #9 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Apr-21-10 09:32 PM   #13 
     - My comment wasn't directed toward this multi-million dollar famous sports star nt  Catherine Vincent   Apr-21-10 09:40 PM   #17 
     - right, cause commenting on a man talking about a drunk girl free game = male hating. nt  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 07:17 AM   #42 
     - Rape is not about "getting laid"  Crystal Clarity   Apr-22-10 09:54 AM   #53 
     - Rapists rape for all kinds of different reasons.  EOTE   Apr-22-10 11:53 AM   #75 
     - If he had "more ass than a toilet seat"  Missy Vixen   Apr-22-10 01:15 PM   #84 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Apr-21-10 09:31 PM   #12 
  - I doubt that ANY  Berserker   Apr-21-10 10:26 PM   #23 
     - No, several posters here have openly stated that drunk women are fair game.  Odin2005   Apr-21-10 10:32 PM   #24 
        - Fair game  Berserker   Apr-21-10 10:39 PM   #25 
        - A year ago there was a thread about a date-rape scene in the movie "Observe and Report".  Odin2005   Apr-21-10 10:44 PM   #26 
        - And there was similar thread  muffin1   Apr-22-10 06:21 AM   #39 
           - Argh  redqueen   Apr-22-10 09:43 AM   #50 
        - Odin is correct - DU'ers have indeed excused rape - up to and including forcible child rape.  Maru Kitteh   Apr-21-10 10:54 PM   #27 
           - Please  Berserker   Apr-21-10 11:11 PM   #30 
           - Remember the Roman Polanski threads?  Odin2005   Apr-21-10 11:12 PM   #31 
              - *crickets*  redqueen   Apr-22-10 09:43 AM   #51 
           - Deleted message  Name removed   Apr-22-10 11:31 AM   #65 
              - Google Search Is Your Friend  NashVegas   Apr-22-10 11:43 AM   #71 
                 - posters have done this for deniers in the past. once effort put in, ignored....  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 11:44 AM   #72 
                    - That's Why I Refuse To Go Digging  NashVegas   Apr-22-10 11:51 AM   #74 
                       - me too. and i am really bad at searching.  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 12:22 PM   #79 
        - Deleted message  Name removed   Apr-22-10 11:55 AM   #76 
           - Deleted message  Name removed   Apr-22-10 12:20 PM   #78 
           - There are different levels of drunkenness.  redqueen   Apr-22-10 12:29 PM   #81 
              - or passed out. that is what odin was refering to with the movie. the woman  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 12:39 PM   #82 
  - That's pretty much the attitude that our entire culture has.  chrisa   Apr-21-10 09:33 PM   #14 
  - Lovely. Just lovely. People like that everywhere probably.  Shell Beau   Apr-21-10 09:33 PM   #15 
  - She had boobs and a vag. She was ASKING for it! Sheesh, people!  REP   Apr-21-10 09:43 PM   #18 
  - I don't even know how to respond to something that barbaric  devilgrrl   Apr-21-10 10:06 PM   #19 
  - Deleted sub-thread  Name removed   Apr-21-10 10:08 PM   #20 
  - And the rich get richer.  Xenotime   Apr-21-10 10:10 PM   #21 
  - If she can be talked out of her panties, she may be fair game...  hughee99   Apr-21-10 11:07 PM   #29 
  - If that is true  Berserker   Apr-21-10 11:15 PM   #32 
     - If the woman were willing to cooperate with the DA  hughee99   Apr-21-10 11:21 PM   #34 
  - How dare a woman be drunk in a bar????  LeftyMom   Apr-21-10 11:16 PM   #33 
  - Reality challenges an awful lot of people. n/t  Toucano   Apr-21-10 11:23 PM   #35 
  - We don't claim it's OK to rob a man of his wallet just because he's drunk  Berry Cool   Apr-21-10 11:39 PM   #36 
  - "When there is an inequality of power, there can be no consent!"  DailyGrind51   Apr-22-10 06:20 AM   #38 
  - Does that mean nobody ever really consents to a car search,  Lance_Boyle   Apr-22-10 12:41 PM   #83 
  - I will automatically confront anyone I hear speak this way.  RadiationTherapy   Apr-22-10 06:23 AM   #40 
  - this is the really important part of what males, especially males, have got to do  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 06:31 AM   #41 
     - So, men practicing violence on men=good  TransitJohn   Apr-22-10 07:20 AM   #44 
     - ah, the word challenge ='s violence to you, does it. i was thinking more, speak up, speak out  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 07:26 AM   #45 
     - I mention that it would not be violent.  RadiationTherapy   Apr-22-10 09:40 AM   #49 
        - ha ha. yes. you said non violent. and i said "talk". and the poster took to violence  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 10:10 AM   #54 
        - Confront is a fine word.  Caliman73   Apr-22-10 12:00 PM   #77 
     - I took the time to specifically indicate it would not be violent.  RadiationTherapy   Apr-22-10 09:37 AM   #48 
     - i took the time to specifically give examples of how to communicate  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 10:13 AM   #55 
     - "men listen to men way more than women"  lukasahero   Apr-22-10 10:47 AM   # 
        - men do everything and so much for other males. it can also be said, that women  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 11:29 AM   #63 
  - It's another twist on the Kobe Bryant defense  marshall   Apr-22-10 07:18 AM   #43 
  - Sad to say, many people believe this, so a young woman drinking heavily should either  raccoon   Apr-22-10 07:49 AM   #46 
  - How dare a woman refuse a man sex under any circumstances? Especially if she's drunk.  BlueIris   Apr-22-10 07:53 AM   #47 
  - I used to barhop a lot when I was young...a question  w8liftinglady   Apr-22-10 09:46 AM   #52 
  - It qualifies as long as there is not a possibility for mutual consent.  RadiationTherapy   Apr-22-10 10:20 AM   #56 
  - which is my point-is this an "equal" law?  w8liftinglady   Apr-22-10 11:26 AM   #62 
     - i am a mother of 2 sons and though sons and i have discussion on how  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 11:30 AM   #64 
        - reported assault-I agree-some stats from RAINN  w8liftinglady   Apr-22-10 11:37 AM   #68 
           - ah. come on w8. i am not going to get into this petty argument. anyone fucking anyone against  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 11:39 AM   #70 
              - I wonder how many are raped by women.  redqueen   Apr-22-10 11:45 AM   #73 
                 - exactly redqueen. nt  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 12:25 PM   #80 
  - Is 'groping' the same as forced penetration?  Bunny   Apr-22-10 10:21 AM   #57 
     - exactly. and just so the obvious is said out loud. if a woman is groping a man that does NOT  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 10:23 AM   #58 
     - That jumped out at me, too.  redqueen   Apr-22-10 10:24 AM   #59 
     - I'll refer you to this DU thread-you tell me- is it sexual violence to shove your hand  w8liftinglady   Apr-22-10 11:32 AM   #66 
        - Any of that can be considered sexual assault. But you used the word 'rape'.  Bunny   Apr-22-10 11:37 AM   #69 
  - I can't believe one anonymous idiots post can get people so worked up.  cbdo2007   Apr-22-10 10:47 AM   #60 
     - Well, thanks for the tip sonny, but I've seen comments like this  Bunny   Apr-22-10 11:10 AM   #61 
     - except it isnt just one comment and it is a discussion on a discussion board.  seabeyond   Apr-22-10 11:34 AM   #67 

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