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Mon Apr-12-10 10:57 PM
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| 16. Yes. I was hit so hard I had bruises. |
| -Is spanking a part of your family experience? |
kristopher |
Apr-12-10 10:36 PM |
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More like being smacked around with a belt. |
arcadian |
Apr-12-10 10:39 PM |
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same here..only it was with anything that happened to be at hand |
SoCalDem |
Apr-13-10 06:49 AM |
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But we did not all turn out to be violent. I didn't. nt |
Captain Hilts |
Apr-12-10 10:39 PM |
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I was spanked a couple times but do not remember it; I spanked my children out of frustration maybe |
Brickbat |
Apr-12-10 10:39 PM |
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I actually like the Super Nanny technique myself. Although I am now a |
LakeSamish706 |
Apr-12-10 10:39 PM |
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No. My mom used to flick her finger on the side of my head (if that makes any |
gateley |
Apr-12-10 10:41 PM |
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I had a teacher who would smack kids on the top of the head |
arcadian |
Apr-12-10 10:44 PM |
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I got spanked once in my life, and I'm pretty sure I deserved it! nt |
Speck Tater |
Apr-12-10 10:41 PM |
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Would not spanking lead to passive Emo kids? |
DJ13 |
Apr-12-10 10:42 PM |
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I'd be more inclined to think making toddlers sit quietly, alone, in a dark corner would lead |
KittyWampus |
Apr-13-10 08:36 AM |
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Spanked on the buttocks. Never slapped or hit by surprise. |
Lex |
Apr-12-10 10:42 PM |
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Only w/the hand.......mutually shared pain. |
southerncrone |
Apr-12-10 10:44 PM |
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the cliched defense of spanking is |
miscsoc |
Apr-12-10 10:50 PM |
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I was spanked once or twice |
abelenkpe |
Apr-12-10 10:53 PM |
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My fiance's brother was beaten as well. |
blueamy66 |
Apr-13-10 09:43 AM |
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My parents spanked. Sometime in my 30s, my mother apologized to me. |
Luminous Animal |
Apr-12-10 10:53 PM |
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I got it a couple of times,but it was rare. |
Swede |
Apr-12-10 10:55 PM |
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No one ever hit my Mom..ever. My Dad's father , a homicide detective,. |
Walk away |
Apr-12-10 10:57 PM |
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Yes. I was hit so hard I had bruises. |
Zoeisright |
Apr-12-10 10:57 PM |
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I was spanked and I believe in it |
PinkFloyd |
Apr-12-10 10:58 PM |
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I was not spanked as a child and do not spank as a parent |
Tumbulu |
Apr-12-10 11:03 PM |
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Yes. I am not violent. |
emilyg |
Apr-12-10 11:11 PM |
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I was spanked as a kid |
deoxyribonuclease |
Apr-12-10 11:12 PM |
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Spanking? Hmmm.... |
jtuck004 |
Apr-12-10 11:14 PM |
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Yes, spanking was one of the discipline tools. |
Gormy Cuss |
Apr-12-10 11:16 PM |
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My sister and I got spanked on occasion, when we were BRATS. |
kestrel91316 |
Apr-12-10 11:33 PM |
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Outside of light, firm ones to get my attention when I was little, no. |
Odin2005 |
Apr-12-10 11:48 PM |
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Yes and I deserved every one of them |
XOKCowboy |
Apr-12-10 11:48 PM |
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Why do we assume that spanking makes children aggressive? |
Codeine |
Apr-12-10 11:57 PM |
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Can you evision any alternative that might work as well or better? |
kristopher |
Apr-13-10 12:08 AM |
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For some kids yes. |
Codeine |
Apr-13-10 12:12 AM |
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wooden spaghetti spoon, belt & the sound of the barber strop stopped us in our tracks. |
Historic NY |
Apr-13-10 12:09 AM |
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As a "You just sit there and think about what's coming to you." type of thing... |
TheMadMonk |
Apr-13-10 12:18 AM |
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We were beaten |
WCIL |
Apr-13-10 12:19 AM |
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Belated welome to DU, WICL. |
EFerrari |
Apr-13-10 12:47 AM |
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We got a few well-deserved swats to our clothed bottoms. |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Apr-13-10 12:34 AM |
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Yes, and I do have some anger issues. |
Incitatus |
Apr-13-10 12:38 AM |
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We caught grief from my family for not spanking our kids... |
cynatnite |
Apr-13-10 12:39 AM |
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Yes |
Missy Vixen |
Apr-13-10 12:42 AM |
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I didn't have children either, for much the same reason. nt |
raccoon |
Apr-13-10 09:49 AM |
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No. My extended family didn't hit children. |
EFerrari |
Apr-13-10 12:44 AM |
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My mother was very abusive. |
Joe Bacon |
Apr-13-10 01:12 AM |
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I got spanked (over the knees and all that) just once by my father when I was under 3. |
no_hypocrisy |
Apr-13-10 05:41 AM |
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When I was growing up |
Dorian Gray |
Apr-13-10 06:16 AM |
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The old, "well I was spanked and I turned out ok"--how utterly stupid a defense for spanking. |
elocs |
Apr-13-10 06:23 AM |
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Yes, we were spanked. No, we didn't turn out aggressive or violent. |
Lyric |
Apr-13-10 06:34 AM |
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It wasn't part of growing up for my sister & I. Nor do my wife or I ever spank our daughter. |
Echo In Light |
Apr-13-10 06:45 AM |
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No, not once, ever |
quaker bill |
Apr-13-10 06:49 AM |
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No spanking in my home. |
katsy |
Apr-13-10 08:31 AM |
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Spanking? Is part of how I became emancipated at 14 yrs old |
bridgit |
Apr-13-10 08:36 AM |
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I had what were called "whippings" |
deutsey |
Apr-13-10 09:37 AM |
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I was spanked a few times |
blueamy66 |
Apr-13-10 09:41 AM |
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Yup. |
Iggo |
Apr-13-10 09:44 AM |
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I was spanked with yardstick, fly swatter, whatever was at hand. |
raccoon |
Apr-13-10 09:44 AM |
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Watched as my father made a paddle out of plywood |
Urban Prairie |
Apr-13-10 10:00 AM |
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I think maybe 2 times I got swatted on the butt. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-13-10 10:03 AM |
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i got swatted a time or two when i was little, but not really. |
dionysus |
Apr-13-10 10:04 AM |
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