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Edited on Mon Dec-14-09 10:09 AM by JonLP24
Usually when that is said it implies I'm some kind of bad person inside when really I'm just quiet.
Truth is I don't say very much around people I don't know well because I really don't know what to talk about. When I get to know someone I learn of stuff they like or what they are in to so it makes it easier to talk to them. However being the person that I am, afraid to speak up I heard this saying a lot about me and by saying that it would make it even harder for me to say anything.
However I consider myself nicer than most people, I'm honest, fair, generous, etc.
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| -Study: Bad guys really do get the most girls |
The Straight Story |
Dec-13-09 04:50 PM |
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That's good. |
bbinacan |
Dec-13-09 05:00 PM |
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AND ME, I HAD A DOUBLE LIFE IN HIGH SCHOOL |
HowHasItComeToThis |
Dec-13-09 05:23 PM |
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My dear Straight Story! |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Dec-13-09 05:01 PM |
#2 |
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Well, I have to say something about the bad guys... |
WCGreen |
Dec-13-09 05:07 PM |
#3 |
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now now, tell the rest of the story: |
The Straight Story |
Dec-13-09 05:09 PM |
#5 |
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Nah, she said you have toilet paper on your shoe.... |
WCGreen |
Dec-13-09 05:10 PM |
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I have treid to explain this concept, but I think that the guys would rather |
Lisa0825 |
Dec-13-09 05:38 PM |
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Exactly! |
Mojorabbit |
Dec-13-09 05:46 PM |
#20 |
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Well said. I've found that insecure "nice" guys are generally more prone |
Lorien |
Dec-13-09 06:12 PM |
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YES! |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-13-09 06:46 PM |
#43 |
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How does that explain men who are attracted to women who reject them? |
Nikki Stone1 |
Dec-13-09 07:50 PM |
#60 |
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some have such low self esteem they expect this treatment as |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 08:17 PM |
#64 |
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Sorry to disagree but the reality is that danger=excitement |
ddeclue |
Dec-14-09 12:01 AM |
#112 |
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We don't settle down with that type, though.` |
Kalyke |
Dec-14-09 11:05 AM |
#142 |
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That mirrors my experience |
Mopar151 |
Dec-14-09 03:36 PM |
#189 |
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Well yeah, if you lie, decieve and have no qualms about it, you will be more sucessful in many ways |
Taverner |
Dec-13-09 05:08 PM |
#4 |
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The trick is to be bad, but have good deep inside. |
asdjrocky |
Dec-13-09 05:10 PM |
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Now see, I'm the other way around. I guess that's the problem. |
nomorenomore08 |
Dec-13-09 06:01 PM |
#27 |
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They may be good in the sack, |
Blue_In_AK |
Dec-13-09 05:12 PM |
#8 |
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Very true. They generally are only good for one thing, and it's the only |
Lorien |
Dec-13-09 06:07 PM |
#28 |
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why i switched from nice guy to good men. there in lies the difference. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 06:13 PM |
#34 |
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the "nice guy" act is slick as hell |
WillYourVoteBCounted |
Dec-14-09 12:06 AM |
#113 |
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IME some nice guys are real passive-aggressive. nt |
raccoon |
Dec-14-09 09:03 AM |
#122 |
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I hate that saying "It's the quiet ones you have to worry about" |
JonLP24 |
Dec-14-09 10:03 AM |
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ya. quiet people were tough for me to understand cause i am anything but quiet |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 10:05 AM |
#132 |
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some are. some selfish pricks which ='s not so good. but the good men, tend to good in bed too. |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 06:16 PM |
#37 |
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My wife says it's because we care... |
walldude |
Dec-13-09 06:20 PM |
#39 |
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yes. though it is an obvious, today the trend seems to be to pretend otherwise. |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 06:25 PM |
#40 |
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Yep. |
janx |
Dec-13-09 09:28 PM |
#90 |
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Probably not. |
HuckleB |
Dec-13-09 09:37 PM |
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great OP. |
cali |
Dec-13-09 05:12 PM |
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Let me also add this: |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Dec-13-09 05:12 PM |
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Well, yeah, there's that, |
Blue_In_AK |
Dec-13-09 05:20 PM |
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I think a great many women want to reform the bad guys. But then, men are attracted to "bad" girls |
KittyWampus |
Dec-13-09 07:53 PM |
#62 |
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Gee, people call me a narcissist, thrill seeking, impulsive pig... |
Deja Q |
Dec-13-09 05:15 PM |
#11 |
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only a narcissist, thrill seeking, impulsive pig would say that |
Bucky |
Dec-13-09 05:27 PM |
#16 |
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yes we do. its not fair, but it is what it is... |
1 |
Dec-13-09 05:23 PM |
#14 |
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If you're going for sheer quantity in the nookie race, yes, it helps if you're a jerk. |
Bucky |
Dec-13-09 05:24 PM |
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I gave you Rec #5. Thanks for validating what I have always known. |
elocs |
Dec-13-09 05:30 PM |
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I dunno. |
flvegan |
Dec-13-09 05:38 PM |
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You'll have to provide a link for that Ohio law |
Lorien |
Dec-13-09 05:47 PM |
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Deleted message |
Name removed |
Dec-13-09 05:51 PM |
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Stupid girls go for those guys. That leaves more nice guys for us. |
mainer |
Dec-13-09 05:53 PM |
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Teach your daughter self love and purpose - bad guy relationships are co-dependent |
debbierlus |
Dec-13-09 05:57 PM |
#26 |
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I teach my girls this: Men are like sheep..... |
PassingFair |
Dec-15-09 10:55 AM |
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ooooosh, and as a female i say baaaaad. isnt that just promoting this shit. and teach sons |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 10:58 AM |
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If all mothers were like you, perhaps.... |
PassingFair |
Dec-15-09 11:14 AM |
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You can't, IMO |
DireStrike |
Dec-13-09 06:49 PM |
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fine. that will leave those good men to the women that want them and a life that |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 05:54 PM |
#24 |
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+1 |
redqueen |
Dec-14-09 11:18 AM |
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. |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 11:21 AM |
#147 |
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Always wanted a good guy, ended up with a reformed bad guy |
debbierlus |
Dec-13-09 05:56 PM |
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I dont like the EUGENICS implication to this. If these traits can be inhereted, so can |
Gman2 |
Dec-13-09 06:07 PM |
#29 |
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it only works when making men cavemen and women accommodating to that theory |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 06:12 PM |
#33 |
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My Mama told me about bad boys like you |
Canuckistanian |
Dec-13-09 06:08 PM |
#30 |
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There's considerable pressure on girls to say they like "nice guys." |
burning rain |
Dec-13-09 06:12 PM |
#31 |
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deleted. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 06:15 PM |
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Same operative drive behind the 'in love' phenomenon that green-lights acting on sexual impulses |
Echo In Light |
Dec-14-09 11:42 AM |
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That's such a silly study. Are there bad women too? If so, I bet if you surveyed them, you would |
Liquorice |
Dec-13-09 06:15 PM |
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As a woman, I can attest that women are sometimes stupid. |
TwilightGardener |
Dec-13-09 06:18 PM |
#38 |
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ditto that |
renate |
Dec-14-09 04:30 PM |
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Dark Triad is such an interesting, mysterious way to describe males who act like Vinnie Barbarino. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-13-09 06:31 PM |
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BORN TO BE MILD...... |
AnneD |
Dec-13-09 06:44 PM |
#42 |
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sad...the human genome decends further into the cesspool |
wuushew |
Dec-13-09 06:54 PM |
#45 |
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I can never understand why twenty-something females... |
Kievan Rus |
Dec-13-09 07:17 PM |
#46 |
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I never did--not ever |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-13-09 07:32 PM |
#47 |
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For the same reason some men go for rapacious, cashing-in-on-sex, |
dustbunnie |
Dec-13-09 07:32 PM |
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You knew my ex-rommate? What a small world! |
Lisa0825 |
Dec-13-09 07:40 PM |
#54 |
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Lol, I've met a couple myself. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-13-09 07:52 PM |
#61 |
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I actually think my ex-roomate had her husband killed. |
Lisa0825 |
Dec-13-09 10:26 PM |
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Holy Jesus! I was kidding, but of course you never know about people. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 08:44 AM |
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i never have. nor have any of my friends but one. and the drama and trauma of her life... nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 07:43 PM |
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A "bad boy" doesn't even have to have tattoos, a rap sheet...etc... |
ProudToBeBlueInRhody |
Dec-13-09 10:42 PM |
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He would be so nice, if he would change for me... n/t |
Mopar151 |
Dec-14-09 03:38 PM |
#191 |
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I will never go back to Ohio. |
postulater |
Dec-13-09 07:34 PM |
#49 |
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I said that once, while living in Ridgecrest CA |
The Straight Story |
Dec-13-09 07:35 PM |
#50 |
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Well, maybe just for the Rock and Roll HOF in Cleveland. |
postulater |
Dec-13-09 07:45 PM |
#58 |
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I think it's evolutionary: a bad guy is protection against harm to the offspring by other bad guys |
Nikki Stone1 |
Dec-13-09 07:39 PM |
#51 |
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How do you think all of that plays into the RW/wars/9/11 - etc? (nt) |
The Straight Story |
Dec-13-09 07:40 PM |
#53 |
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That would be a long scholarly paper. |
Nikki Stone1 |
Dec-13-09 07:46 PM |
#59 |
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We are more than just our evolutionary heritage. |
Berry Cool |
Dec-13-09 10:12 PM |
#106 |
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Duh.. |
sendero |
Dec-13-09 07:39 PM |
#52 |
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Don't get me started. |
shadowknows69 |
Dec-13-09 07:41 PM |
#55 |
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i didn't know that was ever in dispute... |
Blue_Tires |
Dec-13-09 07:42 PM |
#56 |
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OK, I just read the article |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-13-09 07:56 PM |
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so these "bad" boys PRETEND to be nice guys to get a fuck? nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 08:22 PM |
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No, I'm talking about the men who THINK they're poor. neglected "nice guys" |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-13-09 09:04 PM |
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my husband and i were talking about this yesterday. doormats is what we called the "nice" guy |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:08 PM |
#78 |
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I think a lot of young men are going to interpret that study as saying that |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-13-09 09:15 PM |
#83 |
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I LOVE masculine. I HATE macho. this is where you are right on. and this is what is truly sad |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:17 PM |
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"Nice guys/doormats" as you call them lose their minds around women they like |
ProudToBeBlueInRhody |
Dec-14-09 01:18 PM |
#185 |
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not scoffed, sneered more at the game.... it isn't fun and hard for most |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 01:37 PM |
#186 |
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"Door mat" doesn't mean shy. Shy is actually kind of charming if it isn't tinged with self-pity |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-15-09 11:15 AM |
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That's another subject altogether, and I'm glad you mentioned it. |
janx |
Dec-13-09 09:36 PM |
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no doubt whatsoever that this is true |
paulsby |
Dec-13-09 08:24 PM |
#66 |
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your job takes you into the gutter of the very worst in people and that is what you |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 08:54 PM |
#71 |
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i see a lot of the best of people |
paulsby |
Dec-13-09 08:58 PM |
#73 |
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ah geez... so predicably "the game". nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:05 PM |
#76 |
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it's called the real world |
paulsby |
Dec-13-09 09:07 PM |
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so, bad boys arent really bad. normal guy pissed cause cant get the "hawt chick"? |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 10:31 AM |
#134 |
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Can you explain that a little better? It's hard to understand as written. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 11:32 AM |
#151 |
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when we have a post of women going out with men who are abusive and disrespectful saying |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 11:47 AM |
#158 |
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Paulsby was replying to me and what he thought constituted my definition of bad boy. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 12:01 PM |
#165 |
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well fine. thank you. i wasnt addressing you, was i? will have to go check |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 12:07 PM |
#168 |
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You seem to be talking about guys who have game. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-13-09 09:11 PM |
#79 |
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essentially yes |
paulsby |
Dec-13-09 09:37 PM |
#97 |
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Yes, it is basically. Real bad boys cause problems and even destroy people. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 08:48 AM |
#120 |
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How do you know that the "hawt girls" aren't psycho-shrews on wheels? |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 01:17 AM |
#116 |
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bad is a bit vague |
paulsby |
Dec-14-09 05:16 PM |
#207 |
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Its typical that they bring "excitement" or "adventure", which young and dumb girls cant resist. n/t |
CRF450 |
Dec-13-09 08:39 PM |
#67 |
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Modern technology will render that strategy obsolete soon |
varelse |
Dec-13-09 08:49 PM |
#68 |
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Explains why there are so many jerks |
JonQ |
Dec-13-09 08:52 PM |
#69 |
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For those who wish to "blame" women... |
sendero |
Dec-13-09 08:54 PM |
#70 |
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for you men that dont have women that want to blame it on anything but yourself |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:12 PM |
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Name removed |
Dec-13-09 09:13 PM |
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sure it is. all those millions of good men getting married, just an illusion. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:15 PM |
#82 |
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Are you really clueless.. |
sendero |
Dec-13-09 09:18 PM |
#85 |
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It's been studied and studied by whom? |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 01:21 AM |
#117 |
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Actually, in my case |
Mopar151 |
Dec-16-09 10:58 AM |
#251 |
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Deleted message |
Name removed |
Dec-13-09 09:18 PM |
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Trust me - this one thinks he's the ultimate "nice guy" |
lukasahero |
Dec-13-09 09:40 PM |
#99 |
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between just seeing a picture of the dude that did the study |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:42 PM |
#101 |
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Then logically you can't blame the men either |
JonQ |
Dec-14-09 02:58 PM |
#187 |
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My response: Then these women shouldn't complain when they get treated like shit. |
LostInAnomie |
Dec-13-09 08:54 PM |
#72 |
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Yes, I know this. |
Edweird |
Dec-13-09 08:59 PM |
#74 |
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"Jonason and his colleagues subjected 200 college students to personality tests" |
New Dawn |
Dec-13-09 09:19 PM |
#87 |
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And college students are notoriously dumb about relationships |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 01:34 AM |
#118 |
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Oh, exactly..... |
ProudToBeBlueInRhody |
Dec-14-09 03:47 PM |
#192 |
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What kinds of girls do they get? |
devilgrrl |
Dec-13-09 09:21 PM |
#88 |
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"We have some evidence that the three traits are really the same thing and may represent a |
janx |
Dec-13-09 09:27 PM |
#89 |
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that just doesnt explain why an equal number of women are fuckin around. men gotta |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:31 PM |
#91 |
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EXACTLY... |
janx |
Dec-13-09 09:37 PM |
#96 |
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And bad girls get the most guys. So? n/t |
iris27 |
Dec-13-09 09:34 PM |
#92 |
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I don't know how many times I've got laid |
Vattel |
Dec-13-09 09:36 PM |
#94 |
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And Pee Wee got.... |
smirkymonkey |
Dec-14-09 12:41 PM |
#182 |
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Professor Peter Jonason? |
wuushew |
Dec-13-09 09:38 PM |
#98 |
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OM fuckin G. what is he, 13. lol lol. ohhhhhh |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:41 PM |
#100 |
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Look at his publications! n/t |
janx |
Dec-13-09 09:42 PM |
#102 |
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that is embarrassing, for him. new science, evolutionary MAN.... let a kid tell you how. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-13-09 09:44 PM |
#104 |
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I guess in my mind I was expecting a tweed jacket |
wuushew |
Dec-13-09 09:43 PM |
#103 |
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+100 |
smirkymonkey |
Dec-14-09 12:43 PM |
#184 |
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I find this intriguing having watched a close friend struggle with relationships |
Sen. Walter Sobchak |
Dec-13-09 10:12 PM |
#105 |
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"She had a child with an englishman she knew to be gay" |
ProudToBeBlueInRhody |
Dec-13-09 10:34 PM |
#108 |
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oh yeah, that was a doozy, the guy was a bodybuilder and stuntman |
Sen. Walter Sobchak |
Dec-13-09 11:03 PM |
#110 |
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Or, maybe she's sabotaging herself because of a fear of true intimacy. |
NoodleyAppendage |
Dec-14-09 12:27 AM |
#115 |
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very insightful comment. |
KittyWampus |
Dec-14-09 09:36 AM |
#128 |
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that could be, |
Sen. Walter Sobchak |
Dec-14-09 11:16 PM |
#212 |
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I have known some girls who only seemed to be attracted to outright jerks, but... |
Marr |
Dec-13-09 11:50 PM |
#111 |
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Women like outward CONFIDENCE. This has nothing to do with their liking sociopaths. |
NoodleyAppendage |
Dec-14-09 12:24 AM |
#114 |
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I also often see truly nice guys with really mean bad tempered women |
Tailormyst |
Dec-14-09 08:56 AM |
#121 |
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One explanation of why some men think "women don't like nice guys." |
raccoon |
Dec-14-09 09:24 AM |
#123 |
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Indeed, instead of asking "why are all the guys/girls such jerks" ask yourself why you are attracted |
KittyWampus |
Dec-14-09 09:34 AM |
#125 |
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Do you really think an average looking woman is worth changing one's entire personality for? |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 09:35 AM |
#126 |
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How deep-thinking of you |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 10:21 AM |
#133 |
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LOL. Have you read this thread at all? |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 10:33 AM |
#135 |
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Here's the problem: |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 11:12 AM |
#145 |
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Speaking of the personal ads ... |
kwassa |
Dec-14-09 11:29 AM |
#150 |
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The husband of a friend of mine read through the personal ads once out of curiosity |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 11:38 AM |
#154 |
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You're posting a lot of personal, anecdotal observations. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 11:47 AM |
#159 |
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Maybe it's a generational difference |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 11:54 AM |
#163 |
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It's possible. I think the women they were talking about were between 30-40. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 12:16 PM |
#172 |
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Thanks for making this point. |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 11:41 AM |
#156 |
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absolutely. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 11:49 AM |
#161 |
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Thanks for the thoughtful response. |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 11:39 AM |
#155 |
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Well, I actually understand that I'm not what most men are looking for |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-14-09 12:03 PM |
#166 |
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Who said anything about changing one's entire personality? nt |
raccoon |
Dec-14-09 11:02 AM |
#140 |
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That's kind of the implication of "be assertive!" admonishments upthread... |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 11:34 AM |
#153 |
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if either gender is quiet and a wallflower then both genders have less opportunity |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 11:52 AM |
#162 |
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Right. If either gender doesn't conform to the respective gender stereotypes, they'll be unhappy |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 12:26 PM |
#176 |
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being quiet isnt about respective gender stereotypes. it is about making self available. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 12:32 PM |
#180 |
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Re: All That and a Bag of Chip |
NashVegas |
Dec-14-09 11:01 AM |
#139 |
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It's always easier to say, "All men/women are (fill in the blank with negative characteristic) than |
raccoon |
Dec-14-09 09:31 AM |
#124 |
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Women need to accept that THEY select for these negative traits... |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 09:35 AM |
#127 |
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dammit, accept a nontruth cause it coddles males ego. geeesh. lol. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 09:49 AM |
#129 |
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I understand about 50% of what you post. Just FYI. nt |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 09:54 AM |
#130 |
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And that's being kind. |
EOTE |
Dec-14-09 12:04 PM |
#167 |
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rollin eyes. |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 12:09 PM |
#169 |
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Yep, that was relatively comprehensible. |
EOTE |
Dec-14-09 12:16 PM |
#173 |
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there is a solution |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 12:21 PM |
#175 |
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I know you're not responding to me, but I was just kidding. |
Romulox |
Dec-14-09 12:27 PM |
#178 |
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yup |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 12:33 PM |
#181 |
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Pretty laughable considering you were the one responding to me. |
EOTE |
Dec-14-09 12:30 PM |
#179 |
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SOME women might, not ALL women do. |
raccoon |
Dec-15-09 08:15 AM |
#217 |
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ONLY women do. |
Romulox |
Dec-15-09 03:00 PM |
#243 |
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SOME men are not known to connect with the mean girls? i think so. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 03:55 PM |
#247 |
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Bill Hicks: Chicks Dig Jerks |
Echo In Light |
Dec-14-09 10:37 AM |
#136 |
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REQUIRED READING for this thread: |
lildreamer316 |
Dec-14-09 10:48 AM |
#137 |
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I Know a Nice Guy / Bad Guy Who Has No Trouble Getting Laid |
NashVegas |
Dec-14-09 10:56 AM |
#138 |
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This deserves to be repeated: |
raccoon |
Dec-14-09 11:04 AM |
#141 |
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Women Who Love Psychopaths |
Z_I_Peevey |
Dec-14-09 12:27 PM |
#177 |
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Official Culture - A Natural State of Psychopathy? |
Echo In Light |
Dec-14-09 03:38 PM |
#190 |
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They key words here are "boys" and "girls." |
Kalyke |
Dec-14-09 11:08 AM |
#143 |
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So when does "youth" end? |
wuushew |
Dec-14-09 11:27 AM |
#149 |
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Some people - of both genders - never grow up. |
Kalyke |
Dec-14-09 12:12 PM |
#171 |
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It's one of those touchy subjects where, to save face, either side insists the other has it wrong |
Echo In Light |
Dec-14-09 11:10 AM |
#144 |
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it is an insult to all the millions of women that chose good men to live with and an insult |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 11:24 AM |
#148 |
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No, but she's never had any desire to assimilate to prevailing corp culture affectations |
Echo In Light |
Dec-14-09 11:33 AM |
#152 |
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hence my argument. the new fad new science of the worst of who we are |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 11:48 AM |
#160 |
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I'm not so sure how 'new' this theory is, however |
Echo In Light |
Dec-14-09 11:59 AM |
#164 |
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new science. the magazine or whatever it is. and the whole evolutionary behavior bullshit |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 12:11 PM |
#170 |
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It isn't that sinister or complicated |
NobleCynic |
Dec-14-09 04:03 PM |
#194 |
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It's DU. Many people only read headlines. Many people don't understand scientific concepts. n/t |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 04:12 PM |
#198 |
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more than one dont buy into the "scientific" of these studies. good to hear you do |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 04:34 PM |
#203 |
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I usually try to read beyond the headlines here at DU. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-14-09 04:57 PM |
#205 |
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there are always assumptions to be made |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 04:29 PM |
#201 |
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i am a mean, bad son of a _______ |
samsingh |
Dec-14-09 12:17 PM |
#174 |
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You are not bad... |
snooper2 |
Dec-14-09 12:42 PM |
#183 |
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I'll add that to my bucket list |
The Straight Story |
Dec-14-09 02:59 PM |
#188 |
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But the real badass is drivin' the ambulance! |
Mopar151 |
Dec-14-09 03:48 PM |
#193 |
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You can get that same ticket in multiple instances... |
snooper2 |
Dec-14-09 04:13 PM |
#199 |
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They call that "failing to stop for an officer" in these parts. |
Mopar151 |
Dec-14-09 05:59 PM |
#208 |
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I have RUN with scissors! |
DeltaLitProf |
Dec-14-09 04:04 PM |
#195 |
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as long as you didnt have a sucker in your mouth at the same time.... lol. nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-14-09 04:27 PM |
#200 |
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I think the bad guys only get the girls until the girls grow up into women |
mamaleah |
Dec-14-09 04:05 PM |
#196 |
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I was wondering about that yesterday while contemplating hitting on a woman in a bar |
slackmaster |
Dec-14-09 04:09 PM |
#197 |
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The best angle to work is the "poetic bad boy" angle... |
mitchum |
Dec-14-09 04:44 PM |
#204 |
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Speaking on behalf of Nice Guys everywhere... |
Oeditpus Rex |
Dec-14-09 04:58 PM |
#206 |
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kick |
wuushew |
Dec-14-09 07:38 PM |
#209 |
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such phrasing. "Get" more girls. |
noamnety |
Dec-14-09 08:01 PM |
#210 |
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In this case, "get" is a euphemism for "fuck" |
Lilith Velkor |
Dec-15-09 12:59 AM |
#214 |
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I think you've cracked the code. |
noamnety |
Dec-15-09 05:43 AM |
#215 |
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These OP's always sadden: they consistenly prove "Progressives" respect science, right up until they |
apocalypsehow |
Dec-14-09 08:04 PM |
#211 |
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I wouldn't call that great science. |
GaYellowDawg |
Dec-15-09 09:44 AM |
#219 |
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Figures that I'd manage to get my heart broken by an actual nice guy! nt |
Blasphemer |
Dec-14-09 11:44 PM |
#213 |
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but who is getting the good women? |
Scout |
Dec-15-09 07:46 AM |
#216 |
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This looks like so much bullshit to me. |
GaYellowDawg |
Dec-15-09 09:41 AM |
#218 |
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guy.... how healthy and balanced, lol. reasonable. |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 09:54 AM |
#220 |
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Kudos to you! You got that right: |
raccoon |
Dec-15-09 10:38 AM |
#223 |
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Nowhere does it say that nice guys don't get girls. They did and always will. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-15-09 10:41 AM |
#225 |
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Actually, as somebody who's been married for (several) years, I disagree with you... |
Romulox |
Dec-15-09 10:42 AM |
#226 |
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No matter what your flaws, people will love you if *you* love you |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 10:49 AM |
#228 |
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Here's the logic - |
GaYellowDawg |
Dec-15-09 05:58 PM |
#249 |
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I predict that you will not be single for life |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Dec-15-09 11:17 AM |
#239 |
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Would it surprise anyone that the conclusions presented in the article |
Cerridwen |
Dec-15-09 10:32 AM |
#221 |
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"scientific" validation for a teen-aged* boy's love affair with his penis |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 10:37 AM |
#222 |
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I think I edited as you were replying. That phrase is still there but |
Cerridwen |
Dec-15-09 10:40 AM |
#224 |
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ultimately. every one of these studies is insult to vast majority of males and raising a select few |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 10:53 AM |
#230 |
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That's because your reasoning is fallacious... |
dustbunnie |
Dec-15-09 11:07 AM |
#235 |
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I think the study sounds about right and was not needed as it's a function of common sense. |
dustbunnie |
Dec-15-09 11:00 AM |
#234 |
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Sociopathic liars have an easy time getting their way |
meow2u3 |
Dec-15-09 10:48 AM |
#227 |
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And where's the news? |
therealbarack |
Dec-15-09 10:52 AM |
#229 |
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A lot of so-called "nice guys" are shallow, passive-aggressive wankers. eom |
Hello_Kitty |
Dec-15-09 11:00 AM |
#233 |
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I am not convinced P-A personality is vastly more prevalent than simple introversion |
wuushew |
Dec-15-09 11:16 AM |
#238 |
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appreciate this. even though we may have our definition |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 11:46 AM |
#240 |
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I'm not suggesting that passive aggressiveness doesn't exist in females |
Hello_Kitty |
Dec-15-09 01:23 PM |
#241 |
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I once overheard a girl telling another girl what an asshole I was... |
yurbud |
Dec-15-09 01:46 PM |
#242 |
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did you treat her like shit for two years? nt |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 03:00 PM |
#244 |
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no. I'm actually a very nice guy and she was older. At the time though I didn't censor |
yurbud |
Dec-15-09 03:49 PM |
#246 |
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but you werent. you were the nice guy that got the girl for two years. |
seabeyond |
Dec-15-09 03:56 PM |
#248 |
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I had an overdue library book once. Does that count? |
Buns_of_Fire |
Dec-15-09 03:29 PM |
#245 |
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DUH. |
DutchLiberal |
Dec-15-09 06:27 PM |
#250 |
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