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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-30-09 06:36 PM
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42. K&R'd, we do allot of driving...
Some of our stops take us into idyllic small town settings up in the Sierras; tall Redwood & pine stands beside ferns lining pretty little sparkling rivers

And the occasional waterfall

One day, in one such setting, I was in the ladies room. When I closed the door on the stall there were 2-3 posters and informationals directing women experiencing domestic violence to services where their identities would be secured, along with notes from other women that provided their own numbers and experiences scrawled with pencils, pens, and lipstick

In the parking lot I mentioned it to my husband and asked why he thought the information was placed where it was - he began shaking his head and when I asked him why that he swept with his hand through this idyllic postcard-like High Sierra landscape saying it was a grand sadness part of the great lie that idyllic settings come, as a natural-given: with peace of mind for all

The informationals were placed where even crying women freshly abused could look up from tear filled palms and see others reaching into her with help and options where her abuser has no intention of offering either

Some, being exponentially explosive and violent; they were placed where their abusers would least likely see them

End Domestic Violence
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  -Family Violence H2O Man  Nov-29-09 09:02 PM   #0 
  - K&R  varelse   Nov-29-09 09:07 PM   #1 
  - Thank you.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:12 AM   #13 
  - K&R. Men, women, children, the elderly. Abuse and neglect are not exclusive.  NYC_SKP   Nov-29-09 09:18 PM   #2 
  - Right.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:21 AM   #15 
     - J. Edgar Hoover borrows from Malcom X. It doesn't get much better than that.  NYC_SKP   Nov-30-09 09:52 AM   #22 
  - sometimes I tend to think I am the great know-it-all.....  BlancheSplanchnik   Nov-29-09 09:50 PM   #3 
  - Probably even my  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:27 AM   #16 
  - What I have found is that "progressives" consider themselves so aware, and preach peace,  bobbolink   Nov-29-09 09:55 PM   #4 
  - A perfect and empathetic answer!  CaliforniaPeggy   Nov-29-09 11:41 PM   #6 
  - Thank you! As you know, most people can't hear that simple statement.  bobbolink   Nov-30-09 11:52 AM   #32 
  - Lessons are best taught  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:30 AM   #18 
     - I used to think that, also.  bobbolink   Nov-30-09 11:54 AM   #33 
  - I Have No Opinion On The Woods Matter  Me.   Nov-29-09 11:35 PM   #5 
  - I agree. Too much air time. He owes no explanation. nt  live love laugh   Nov-30-09 12:09 AM   #8 
  - if a crime was committed  Celebration   Nov-30-09 08:36 AM   #11 
  - What do you get when  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:43 AM   #20 
     - Feasting  Me.   Nov-30-09 10:20 AM   #24 
  - I think the economy will bring more people together under one roof and the consequences  live love laugh   Nov-30-09 12:07 AM   #7 
  - Domestic violence  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:50 AM   #21 
     - With enough stress and anxiety, EVERYONE will react. In some way.  bobbolink   Nov-30-09 12:07 PM   #34 
  - A large factor in violence goes unsaid by most people  zeemike   Nov-30-09 05:09 AM   #9 
  - I agree.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:53 AM   #23 
     - I'm inclined to think that this promotion of violence has been a deliberate policy  Joe Chi Minh   Nov-30-09 05:54 PM   #41 
        - Absolutely.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 07:26 PM   #44 
           - Easier to divide and rule, where there is already violence and division.  Joe Chi Minh   Dec-01-09 09:23 AM   #51 
  - Thank you for this, H20 Man  democrank   Nov-30-09 06:10 AM   #10 
  - I agree.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 11:14 AM   #26 
     - "Poverty is indeed a form of violence." WHEN will "progressives" GET this????  bobbolink   Nov-30-09 12:47 PM   #36 
  - Violence begets violence  azul   Nov-30-09 09:11 AM   #12 
  - I agree, 100%  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 11:19 AM   #27 
  - Maybe FRANCE should invade the USA and keep us honest - not unlike we're doing in Afghanistan? eom  ShortnFiery   Nov-30-09 09:14 AM   #14 
  - No "Freedom Fries" for you!  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 11:20 AM   #28 
  - A question to you that I formed listening to this on the way into work:  Kalyke   Nov-30-09 09:28 AM   #17 
  - Interesting question.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 09:35 AM   #19 
  - I agree with you.  Kalyke   Nov-30-09 11:24 AM   #30 
  - Any betrayal is an act ot violence.  bobbolink   Nov-30-09 01:13 PM   #37 
  - "non-violence should unite us"  redqueen   Nov-30-09 10:22 AM   #25 
  - It should,  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 11:22 AM   #29 
  - All I wanted to know wa whether or not Mr. Woods was okay  blogslut   Nov-30-09 11:41 AM   #31 
  - That was my reaction as well  varelse   Nov-30-09 06:44 PM   #43 
  - Emotional abuse in many ways is not only equivalent to physical abuse but in many  AuntPatsy   Nov-30-09 12:39 PM   #35 
  - I agree.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 07:55 PM   #45 
  - Kick  democrank   Nov-30-09 01:58 PM   #38 
  - An interesting article on domestic violence by Patrick Stewart  intaglio   Nov-30-09 01:58 PM   #39 
  - Very good.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 07:56 PM   #46 
  - Well said  maxpower   Nov-30-09 03:52 PM   #40 
  - Thanks!  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 07:57 PM   #47 
     - I am glad to hear you are doing well.  maxpower   Dec-01-09 08:12 AM   #50 
  - K&R'd, we do allot of driving...  bridgit   Nov-30-09 06:36 PM   #42 
  - Right.  H2O Man   Nov-30-09 07:58 PM   #48 
  - so true  G_j   Nov-30-09 08:21 PM   #49 
 

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