Reply #17: Shame is what keeps a lot of families from seeking treatment for loved ones

[bleedingheart]

and it isn't just Asian families.

In my family shame has kept:

1. women in abusive relationships..."divorce is a sin", "leaving your husband makes you a harlot"...
2. My cousin's son is illiterate and is without work because she didn't want to endure the shame of putting him in special education classes.

My mom still is a bit sad about me seeking help for my son...because no one wanted to admit he might have a problem...