seabeyond
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Wed Oct-14-09 04:13 PM
Response to Reply #63 |
| 64. talking from prehistoric driving us, life span 18-25, the "old" men (what 25) |
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want the youngs ones because best for impreg, except the very young fertile isnt the best, so has to be 16, 17 which is near old age or at least middle aged for prehistoric, .... biology, that you base argument
can you not SEE the ridiculous
what? 20 over the hill for those prehistoric women?
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| -A race/gender question that I really hope doesn't turn into a war... |
otherlander |
Oct-14-09 08:42 AM |
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Women are cast aside at 40. The male movie stars of the 30s/40s got younger co-stars in the 50s and |
Captain Hilts |
Oct-14-09 08:46 AM |
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i say throw away. i see women having as big if not bigger midlife than men |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 08:49 AM |
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Same here. I'm Hell on wheels now. But not in popular culture. nt |
Captain Hilts |
Oct-14-09 08:50 AM |
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True.. the secret is coming to terms with what is..and not beating ourselves up over what |
SoCalDem |
Oct-14-09 08:53 AM |
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women: about the time society tosses them, is when they're at their best really... |
Triana |
Oct-14-09 12:49 PM |
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Our lizard-brain parts are geared to look for the fertile-young-hot (women) |
SoCalDem |
Oct-14-09 08:50 AM |
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that is so full of shit..... an illusion told by men over and over ad nauseoun |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 08:52 AM |
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What part of what you replied to is full of shit? |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 09:05 AM |
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it is ignoring fact to spout young hot girls want old, an young men want young hot,... |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 09:09 AM |
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Behavior is about tendencies and degrees, not absolutes... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 10:00 AM |
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statistically by far people marry same age range. you made my point. the unusual is a large age |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 10:24 AM |
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Marriage is different from fucking... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 10:57 AM |
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and fucking on mate hits 15% of female and 20% male. no |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 11:02 AM |
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The argument isn't about how much can change... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 11:19 AM |
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i understand was on age difference, and as i said, agreeing, no info, so no |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 11:34 AM |
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It's not like I have a pile of studies I can point to off the top... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 12:26 PM |
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why is it bothersome? it has become a fad story to be told that allows male to continue dominance |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 12:33 PM |
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How does it "allow male dominance to continue"? |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 12:50 PM |
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firstly.... there is not anything in all that you say, that says much of anything |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 12:54 PM |
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Biologically speaking, there's more reason for men... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 01:38 PM |
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and it is a cultural reason why the 20 yr old woman goes for the older male |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 02:00 PM |
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So the issue is that you consider "security" a purely cultural thing. |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 02:28 PM |
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it certainly is pretty damn important a female "weight" male age in preg. |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 02:39 PM |
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"i can also make my story as plausible as yours" |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 02:56 PM |
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by DEGREES? lol,. now your argument is by degree. |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 03:04 PM |
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My argument has been "by degree" from the start... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 03:38 PM |
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so the old 18 - 25 was to old for man and needed the "hot" (and to argue any of them hot |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 03:52 PM |
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I'll try to pick through the broken sentence structure there... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 04:10 PM |
#63 |
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talking from prehistoric driving us, life span 18-25, the "old" men (what 25) |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 04:13 PM |
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Can you try using something resembling English grammar... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 04:36 PM |
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btw... if it has nothing to do with desire to have children, kinda sorta switched direction |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 02:57 PM |
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The whole point is that we have behavioral mechanisms that separate... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 03:16 PM |
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because you ignore a part of the arguemnt, promote specifics arguments |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 03:36 PM |
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Which arguments have I ignored? |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 03:44 PM |
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you saying women in 30's "near lack" of fertility? how absurd. |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 03:48 PM |
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You pick a specific age, 30... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 03:58 PM |
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all of thirties hardly a specific age. so tell me, when is this near impossible fertilization |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 04:07 PM |
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If I get a chance to find some hard stats... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 04:24 PM |
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*sigh* again all the way around and around again. hell ya now that you are getting old you |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 04:32 PM |
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What matters is the likelihood that such an attraction is reciprocated. |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 05:59 PM |
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the general tendencies is to mate same age, and young with young. |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 06:08 PM |
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The general tendency is for males to be at least a year or two older than females. |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 06:51 PM |
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big fuckin deal. a year or two or five means squat at this age. geeesh. |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 07:18 PM |
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Whether you think "a year or two or five" means "squat" or not... |
Silent3 |
Oct-14-09 11:00 PM |
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except the old man cant defend and protect the young female so she says wtf... i will |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 11:46 PM |
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Are you capable of arguing subtleties? |
Silent3 |
Oct-15-09 04:17 AM |
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Biologically speaking, one of the reasons why younger females might be attracted to older males... |
Gwendolyn |
Oct-15-09 02:26 PM |
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depends on how much $$ is involved |
la_chupa |
Oct-14-09 01:18 PM |
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even at $ has nothing to do with attractive. but i get the humor. nt |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 01:35 PM |
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Ummm, Actually The Post Was Pretty Much Spot On And Is Established Fact. |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME |
Oct-15-09 10:33 AM |
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It's not nature, that's nurture |
Sinti |
Oct-14-09 08:58 AM |
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conditioning. old women like young men too, just not stupid or illusional enough |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 09:01 AM |
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Yes, and part of that I believe is nature |
Sinti |
Oct-14-09 09:11 AM |
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no mre so than if an older woman wanted to preg, would want young. male peaks at 19 |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 09:29 AM |
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Why would someone break that pattern? What motivates a person to act unlike a mammal? |
AlienGirl |
Oct-14-09 12:44 PM |
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No, that's social conditioning |
treestar |
Oct-14-09 12:52 PM |
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IF men were looking for fertile women, it would be ones with big hips and fat since they would |
uppityperson |
Oct-14-09 02:37 PM |
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Finally -- someone needed to make this point |
theHandpuppet |
Oct-15-09 05:11 AM |
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That is because I am on everyone's ignore list, except you. |
uppityperson |
Oct-15-09 01:31 PM |
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I'm 50 years old and you would not believe the number of young men that chase me |
notadmblnd |
Oct-14-09 04:47 PM |
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Wrong, it is our mammal-brain parts |
Thothmes |
Oct-14-09 07:12 PM |
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cause those cavechicks were so hot. another, you are so full of shit. nt |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 07:20 PM |
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gay guys are cast aside at 35 years old, the common cut off |
jonnyblitz |
Oct-14-09 09:26 AM |
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I don't think that's true anymore |
treestar |
Oct-14-09 12:48 PM |
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I don't think it's just an American thing. nt |
raccoon |
Oct-14-09 08:51 AM |
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Them's fightin' words! |
Vinnie From Indy |
Oct-14-09 08:52 AM |
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Women suck everywhere, because men have stronger upper torsos and beat us. nt |
valerief |
Oct-14-09 08:54 AM |
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only if the woman lets them...they gotta sleep sometime you know. |
winyanstaz |
Oct-14-09 01:09 PM |
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The Burning Bed comes to mind. And I don't mean the hot sex kind of bed. nt |
valerief |
Oct-14-09 03:55 PM |
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A fifty-year-old woman generally gets much more sympathy than a fifty-year-old man. |
BuyingThyme |
Oct-14-09 08:54 AM |
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old men are told to buck up. man up. but then they have been told that all their lives |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 09:00 AM |
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Yeah. |
otherlander |
Oct-14-09 09:24 AM |
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American society doesn't place much value on maturity |
lumberjack_jeff |
Oct-14-09 10:13 AM |
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here come the 'its human male nature' crowd piffle. anyway...LOVE YOURSELF |
Mari333 |
Oct-14-09 10:30 AM |
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Huge Applaud For Your Post! |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME |
Oct-15-09 10:37 AM |
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Ridiculous Theory. |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME |
Oct-14-09 11:35 AM |
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No, it's not nonsense. |
otherlander |
Oct-15-09 10:09 AM |
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It's Total Nonsense. |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME |
Oct-15-09 10:27 AM |
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Thank you for explaining my own motives to me. |
otherlander |
Oct-15-09 02:09 PM |
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I grew up in Central America. |
lunamagica |
Oct-14-09 12:34 PM |
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In the majority of Native American tribes.... |
winyanstaz |
Oct-14-09 01:07 PM |
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I'll tell you what, Girlfriend |
Karenina |
Oct-14-09 01:55 PM |
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solving sexism would solve many of "mankind's" problems... tis true. nt |
seabeyond |
Oct-14-09 02:02 PM |
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Many women complain about turning invisible when they turn older |
AngryAmish |
Oct-14-09 02:39 PM |
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Women without children are useless to society |
REP |
Oct-14-09 02:46 PM |
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They are not useless to society..they are useless as sex objects |
winyanstaz |
Oct-14-09 09:56 PM |
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What A Crock LOL |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME |
Oct-15-09 10:30 AM |
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Years ago, someone dressed up as an older woman to see what |
Thickasabrick |
Oct-14-09 04:54 PM |
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I'm able to shave 25 years off my perceived age... |
Karenina |
Oct-15-09 04:13 AM |
#79 |
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