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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-14-09 08:52 AM
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6. that is so full of shit..... an illusion told by men over and over ad nauseoun
until one wants to vomit.... to coddle and protect the fragile male ego.... always at all cost, protect that male ego

not that i have time to get into it right now
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  -A race/gender question that I really hope doesn't turn into a war... otherlander  Oct-14-09 08:42 AM   #0 
  - Women are cast aside at 40. The male movie stars of the 30s/40s got younger co-stars in the 50s and  Captain Hilts   Oct-14-09 08:46 AM   #1 
  - i say throw away. i see women having as big if not bigger midlife than men  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 08:49 AM   #2 
  - Same here. I'm Hell on wheels now. But not in popular culture. nt  Captain Hilts   Oct-14-09 08:50 AM   #4 
  - True.. the secret is coming to terms with what is..and not beating ourselves up over what  SoCalDem   Oct-14-09 08:53 AM   #8 
  - women: about the time society tosses them, is when they're at their best really...  Triana   Oct-14-09 12:49 PM   #34 
  - Our lizard-brain parts are geared to look for the fertile-young-hot (women)  SoCalDem   Oct-14-09 08:50 AM   #3 
  - that is so full of shit..... an illusion told by men over and over ad nauseoun  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 08:52 AM   #6 
  - What part of what you replied to is full of shit?  Silent3   Oct-14-09 09:05 AM   #14 
  - it is ignoring fact to spout young hot girls want old, an young men want young hot,...  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 09:09 AM   #15 
     - Behavior is about tendencies and degrees, not absolutes...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 10:00 AM   #20 
     - statistically by far people marry same age range. you made my point. the unusual is a large age  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 10:24 AM   #22 
        - Marriage is different from fucking...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 10:57 AM   #24 
           - and fucking on mate hits 15% of female and 20% male. no  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 11:02 AM   #25 
              - The argument isn't about how much can change...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 11:19 AM   #26 
                 - i understand was on age difference, and as i said, agreeing, no info, so no  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 11:34 AM   #27 
                    - It's not like I have a pile of studies I can point to off the top...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 12:26 PM   #29 
                       - why is it bothersome? it has become a fad story to be told that allows male to continue dominance  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 12:33 PM   #30 
                          - How does it "allow male dominance to continue"?  Silent3   Oct-14-09 12:50 PM   #35 
                             - firstly.... there is not anything in all that you say, that says much of anything  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 12:54 PM   #37 
                                - Biologically speaking, there's more reason for men...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 01:38 PM   #42 
                                   - and it is a cultural reason why the 20 yr old woman goes for the older male  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 02:00 PM   #44 
                                   - So the issue is that you consider "security" a purely cultural thing.  Silent3   Oct-14-09 02:28 PM   #46 
                                      - it certainly is pretty damn important a female "weight" male age in preg.  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 02:39 PM   #48 
                                      - "i can also make my story as plausible as yours"  Silent3   Oct-14-09 02:56 PM   #51 
                                      - by DEGREES? lol,. now your argument is by degree.  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 03:04 PM   #53 
                                      - My argument has been "by degree" from the start...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 03:38 PM   #56 
                                      - so the old 18 - 25 was to old for man and needed the "hot" (and to argue any of them hot  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 03:52 PM   #59 
                                      - I'll try to pick through the broken sentence structure there...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 04:10 PM   #63 
                                      - talking from prehistoric driving us, life span 18-25, the "old" men (what 25)  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 04:13 PM   #64 
                                      - Can you try using something resembling English grammar...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 04:36 PM   #67 
                                      - btw... if it has nothing to do with desire to have children, kinda sorta switched direction  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 02:57 PM   #52 
                                      - The whole point is that we have behavioral mechanisms that separate...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 03:16 PM   #54 
                                      - because you ignore a part of the arguemnt, promote specifics arguments  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 03:36 PM   #55 
                                      - Which arguments have I ignored?  Silent3   Oct-14-09 03:44 PM   #57 
                                      - you saying women in 30's "near lack" of fertility? how absurd.  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 03:48 PM   #58 
                                      - You pick a specific age, 30...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 03:58 PM   #61 
                                      - all of thirties hardly a specific age. so tell me, when is this near impossible fertilization  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 04:07 PM   #62 
                                      - If I get a chance to find some hard stats...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 04:24 PM   #65 
                                      - *sigh* again all the way around and around again. hell ya now that you are getting old you  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 04:32 PM   #66 
                                      - What matters is the likelihood that such an attraction is reciprocated.  Silent3   Oct-14-09 05:59 PM   #70 
                                      - the general tendencies is to mate same age, and young with young.  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 06:08 PM   #71 
                                      - The general tendency is for males to be at least a year or two older than females.  Silent3   Oct-14-09 06:51 PM   #72 
                                      - big fuckin deal. a year or two or five means squat at this age. geeesh.  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 07:18 PM   #74 
                                      - Whether you think "a year or two or five" means "squat" or not...  Silent3   Oct-14-09 11:00 PM   #77 
                                      - except the old man cant defend and protect the young female so she says wtf... i will  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 11:46 PM   #78 
                                      - Are you capable of arguing subtleties?  Silent3   Oct-15-09 04:17 AM   #80 
                                   - Biologically speaking, one of the reasons why younger females might be attracted to older males...  Gwendolyn   Oct-15-09 02:26 PM   #89 
     - depends on how much $$ is involved  la_chupa   Oct-14-09 01:18 PM   #40 
        - even at $ has nothing to do with attractive. but i get the humor. nt  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 01:35 PM   #41 
  - Ummm, Actually The Post Was Pretty Much Spot On And Is Established Fact.  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Oct-15-09 10:33 AM   #85 
  - It's not nature, that's nurture  Sinti   Oct-14-09 08:58 AM   #11 
  - conditioning. old women like young men too, just not stupid or illusional enough  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 09:01 AM   #13 
     - Yes, and part of that I believe is nature  Sinti   Oct-14-09 09:11 AM   #16 
        - no mre so than if an older woman wanted to preg, would want young. male peaks at 19  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 09:29 AM   #19 
  - Why would someone break that pattern? What motivates a person to act unlike a mammal?  AlienGirl   Oct-14-09 12:44 PM   #32 
  - No, that's social conditioning  treestar   Oct-14-09 12:52 PM   #36 
  - IF men were looking for fertile women, it would be ones with big hips and fat since they would  uppityperson   Oct-14-09 02:37 PM   #47 
  - Finally -- someone needed to make this point  theHandpuppet   Oct-15-09 05:11 AM   #81 
     - That is because I am on everyone's ignore list, except you.  uppityperson   Oct-15-09 01:31 PM   #87 
  - I'm 50 years old and you would not believe the number of young men that chase me  notadmblnd   Oct-14-09 04:47 PM   #68 
  - Wrong, it is our mammal-brain parts  Thothmes   Oct-14-09 07:12 PM   #73 
     - cause those cavechicks were so hot. another, you are so full of shit. nt  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 07:20 PM   #75 
  - gay guys are cast aside at 35 years old, the common cut off  jonnyblitz   Oct-14-09 09:26 AM   #18 
  - I don't think that's true anymore  treestar   Oct-14-09 12:48 PM   #33 
  - I don't think it's just an American thing. nt  raccoon   Oct-14-09 08:51 AM   #5 
  - Them's fightin' words!  Vinnie From Indy   Oct-14-09 08:52 AM   #7 
  - Women suck everywhere, because men have stronger upper torsos and beat us. nt  valerief   Oct-14-09 08:54 AM   #9 
  - only if the woman lets them...they gotta sleep sometime you know.  winyanstaz   Oct-14-09 01:09 PM   #39 
     - The Burning Bed comes to mind. And I don't mean the hot sex kind of bed. nt  valerief   Oct-14-09 03:55 PM   #60 
  - A fifty-year-old woman generally gets much more sympathy than a fifty-year-old man.  BuyingThyme   Oct-14-09 08:54 AM   #10 
  - old men are told to buck up. man up. but then they have been told that all their lives  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 09:00 AM   #12 
  - Yeah.  otherlander   Oct-14-09 09:24 AM   #17 
  - American society doesn't place much value on maturity  lumberjack_jeff   Oct-14-09 10:13 AM   #21 
  - here come the 'its human male nature' crowd piffle. anyway...LOVE YOURSELF  Mari333   Oct-14-09 10:30 AM   #23 
  - Huge Applaud For Your Post!  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Oct-15-09 10:37 AM   #86 
  - Ridiculous Theory.  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Oct-14-09 11:35 AM   #28 
  - No, it's not nonsense.  otherlander   Oct-15-09 10:09 AM   #82 
     - It's Total Nonsense.  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Oct-15-09 10:27 AM   #83 
        - Thank you for explaining my own motives to me.  otherlander   Oct-15-09 02:09 PM   #88 
  - I grew up in Central America.  lunamagica   Oct-14-09 12:34 PM   #31 
  - In the majority of Native American tribes....  winyanstaz   Oct-14-09 01:07 PM   #38 
  - I'll tell you what, Girlfriend  Karenina   Oct-14-09 01:55 PM   #43 
  - solving sexism would solve many of "mankind's" problems... tis true. nt  seabeyond   Oct-14-09 02:02 PM   #45 
  - Many women complain about turning invisible when they turn older  AngryAmish   Oct-14-09 02:39 PM   #49 
  - Women without children are useless to society  REP   Oct-14-09 02:46 PM   #50 
  - They are not useless to society..they are useless as sex objects  winyanstaz   Oct-14-09 09:56 PM   #76 
  - What A Crock LOL  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Oct-15-09 10:30 AM   #84 
  - Years ago, someone dressed up as an older woman to see what  Thickasabrick   Oct-14-09 04:54 PM   #69 
     - I'm able to shave 25 years off my perceived age...  Karenina   Oct-15-09 04:13 AM   #79 

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