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Reply #5: I would say two reasons - touch and seeming reciprocation [View All]

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5. I would say two reasons - touch and seeming reciprocation
Pets are like babies that way, you get to pet them and hold them. With older children and adults there is much less contact, unless you crash into them. Most people you cannot hug and caress the way you can a pet. With a pet you can freely share affection and contact without any of the awkwardness or potential rejection involved in most human relationships. One exception can be a significant other, but those are harder to find than pets and can more often involve conflict and uncertainty where the pet is generally 'old faithful'.

That ties into the reciprocation. The pet will generally not say "get lost, I am playing a video game/reading/watching TV/washing my hair or doing any of 101 activities that are more important than you" or "get away from me you geek" or "geez dad you are embarrassing me, what are people gonna think?". Even if you are ugly and your mother dresses you funny and your jokes are stale and poorly delivered, you generally get a good reception from a pet. They will purr or wag their tail and jump up and down (okay, cats won't (what do people see in them anyway?)) and play fetch or pretend fight or chase. Generally they give the owner/friend the message that "you are awesome. I totally love you."

It's nice to hear that every now and then, or at least fool yourself into thinking you hear it when the dog is really saying "I hope you got me some of those biscuits that I love so much" or "I know you are not gonna eat all of that pizza by yourself" or "get the keys and take me for a ride (or walk (or both))"

Third, I suppose, are opportunities to play and be entertained by antics. Whether just playing around with a string or chasing a ball or wrestling/tearing around with another animal or doing the suppertime or car-ride dance, pets provide hours of non-competetive play and entertainment. Their joy of living rubs off on their owners.
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  I have to post this: PBS Why We Love Cats and Dogs Xicano  Sep-21-09 01:40 AM   #0 
   Thanks. I love my Maru (ma-woo-woo) He is the kindest being I have ever known.  Maru Kitteh   Sep-21-09 02:09 AM   #1 
   K&R  Kitty Herder   Sep-21-09 02:18 AM   #2 
   k/r  ccharles000   Sep-21-09 02:23 AM   #3 
   sweet  Skittles   Sep-21-09 02:28 AM   #4 
   You missed out!  lysosome   Sep-21-09 05:13 AM   #9 
      aw man, my cat Riff Raff  Skittles   Sep-21-09 05:35 AM   #10 
   I would say two reasons - touch and seeming reciprocation  hfojvt   Sep-21-09 02:46 AM   #5 
   That was a very nice post. Thank you for doing it. Very close to 'eye specks.' nt  Obamanaut   Sep-21-09 04:27 AM   #8 
   "Seeming reciprocation"?  aquart   Sep-21-09 07:23 AM   #12 
   What I see in cats  TrogL   Sep-22-09 06:39 PM   #30 
   That is THE best thing about DU.  Jamastiene   Sep-21-09 03:37 AM   #6 
   They ask for very little and give so much in return  BuelahWitch   Sep-21-09 04:11 AM   #7 
   You'll be happy to know that the little fellow you helped bring out of his shell  Mabus   Sep-21-09 07:07 AM   #11 
   Hey! The KuklaPolitans!  elleng   Sep-21-09 07:25 AM   #14 
   I love our 4 legged children...Kitties, we have 3...nt  and-justice-for-all   Sep-21-09 07:25 AM   #13 
   Short vid of cat bathing dog.  Cetacea   Sep-21-09 08:16 AM   #15 
   And horses.  LWolf   Sep-21-09 08:26 AM   #16 
   Ditto  Hawkowl   Sep-22-09 04:48 PM   #25 
   growing up, our dog was never just a 'pet' but a full-fledged family member  Blue_Tires   Sep-21-09 08:34 AM   #17 
   I love my Scottie Maggie beyond words...  Hepburn   Sep-21-09 09:26 AM   #18 
   kick  babydollhead   Sep-21-09 10:48 AM   #19 
   That was a wonderful show. Thanks so much for the link.  DarbyUSMC   Sep-21-09 12:51 PM   #20 
   with dogs, at least, it's simple . . . they return your love ten times over . . . n/t  OneBlueSky   Sep-21-09 03:40 PM   #21 
   Love our critters.  bvar22   Sep-21-09 04:57 PM   #22 
   A must see for furbaby lovers!  OmmmSweetOmmm   Sep-22-09 02:50 PM   #23 
   I love my kitties!  wicket   Sep-22-09 03:00 PM   #24 
   life without my dogs  borelord   Sep-22-09 05:11 PM   #26 
   People care about animals with looks or mannerisms similar to humans...  BlooInBloo   Sep-22-09 05:13 PM   #27 
      I don't know what you're talking about  supernova   Sep-22-09 05:21 PM   #28 
         Kittehs!  BlooInBloo   Sep-22-09 06:33 PM   #29 
 

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