Mad_Dem_X
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Thu Jun-25-09 08:38 AM
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| 86. I hate that "husband has the final say" bullsh*t |
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My husband and I are equals in our marriage. When a decision needs to be made, we sit down and discuss it, and if we don't agree, we try to reach a compromise. Sometimes, I realize that he is right; sometimes, he realizes I am right. I loathe the idea that, no matter what the wife says, the husband has the final say. That is complete and utter bullshit. He's your HUSBAND, not your superior or boss, like at work!
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| -Southern Baptists at convention urge women to be submissive to their husbands. |
madfloridian |
Jun-23-09 08:19 PM |
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'cause that works |
lisa58 |
Jun-23-09 08:20 PM |
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fuck this shit. truly. |
roguevalley |
Jun-24-09 02:53 PM |
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I urge women to tell their husbands who try and make them submissive to SLAP THE CRAP OUTTA THEM!!!! |
trueblue2007 |
Jun-24-09 09:42 PM |
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Southern Baptist Convention? Bite me. nt |
JerseygirlCT |
Jun-23-09 08:21 PM |
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Won't be sad to see them go. |
BlooInBloo |
Jun-23-09 08:21 PM |
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When will they order Sarah Palin's husband to take command |
PM Martin |
Jun-23-09 08:21 PM |
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+1 |
SammyWinstonJack |
Jun-24-09 08:23 AM |
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Paul is the most fucked-up dude in the Bible, |
Vickers |
Jun-23-09 08:22 PM |
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Paul was a Roman dog |
DKRC |
Jun-23-09 10:03 PM |
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St. Paul, Friend or Enemy of Women? (Rosemary Radford Ruether) |
struggle4progress |
Jun-24-09 06:13 AM |
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Ah, Saul...the Terrorist of Tarsus. This guy who fundies love |
konnichi wa |
Jun-24-09 07:34 AM |
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Yet fundies pay more attention to his words than Jesus's. |
redqueen |
Jun-24-09 04:36 PM |
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Very good point. |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 09:17 PM |
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Yet his writings are the foundational documents of Chrisitanity. |
Deep13 |
Jun-25-09 09:54 AM |
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I expect the same people who are over on the burqa thread, claiming enslavement is free choice... |
Gwendolyn |
Jun-23-09 08:24 PM |
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I have a theory that the more subjugation of women you see going on, |
MADem |
Jun-23-09 08:24 PM |
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The only reason I posted here |
Ikonoklast |
Jun-25-09 02:03 PM |
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submit to the powerful intellects of these guys |
Mari333 |
Jun-23-09 08:28 PM |
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OR LIKE THESE YAHOOS....... |
trueblue2007 |
Jun-24-09 09:49 PM |
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Oh, Dear God of Sausage and Burritos.... |
givemebackmycountry |
Jun-24-09 10:52 PM |
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Yes, the old doctrine of the "natural slave" |
Warpy |
Jun-23-09 08:30 PM |
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these are the gals who end up in shelters |
Skittles |
Jun-23-09 08:33 PM |
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Douchebags - nt |
Ohio Joe |
Jun-23-09 08:35 PM |
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I want my religion to give me cover when I beat my wife and kids. |
Ikonoklast |
Jun-23-09 08:38 PM |
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pretty much nt |
Deep13 |
Jun-25-09 10:45 AM |
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I going to have to find me one of those Submissive Women. It would be fun to... |
BlueJazz |
Jun-23-09 08:40 PM |
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LOL |
madfloridian |
Jun-23-09 09:03 PM |
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Screw that shit. I want a woman as an equal, a partner. |
RC |
Jun-23-09 08:52 PM |
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You're in good company. That's what Adam wanted too -- long before |
davidwparker |
Jun-23-09 10:02 PM |
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The fact that they're still harping on this indicates lots of fundie women just aren't |
Mist |
Jun-23-09 08:58 PM |
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Was Sarah Palin there as a Keynote Speaker? |
RoadRage |
Jun-23-09 09:11 PM |
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The SBC is pimping a horrific theology. |
Sal316 |
Jun-23-09 09:11 PM |
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Interesting |
texastoast |
Jun-23-09 09:50 PM |
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SBCers take it to the extreme quite often. |
madfloridian |
Jun-23-09 09:52 PM |
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Nympha? |
PSzymeczek |
Jun-26-09 02:46 PM |
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So when will the talibornagain tell Michele Malkin, Laura Ingraham to submit |
muntrv |
Jun-23-09 09:13 PM |
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Deplorable and dark age thinking... |
and-justice-for-all |
Jun-23-09 09:13 PM |
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They're trotting this line out AGAIN? Cuz it worked so well last time... |
politicat |
Jun-23-09 09:49 PM |
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Fuck that submissive bullshit. n/t |
OhioChick |
Jun-23-09 09:51 PM |
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aw maaaan |
8 track mind |
Jun-23-09 10:47 PM |
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Don't care what day of the week they pray |
nadinbrzezinski |
Jun-23-09 09:54 PM |
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That stuff was less offensive |
undeterred |
Jun-23-09 09:59 PM |
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It was meant to be used that way....as wedge stuff to help the right wing win. |
madfloridian |
Jun-23-09 10:11 PM |
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They won short term |
undeterred |
Jun-24-09 12:46 AM |
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I agree. I don't think those wedge issues are working as well now. |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 06:58 PM |
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Welcome to the tradition definition of marriage |
jgraz |
Jun-23-09 10:15 PM |
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How much more regressive can they get? |
sakabatou |
Jun-23-09 10:16 PM |
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Do you really want to know how regressive they can be? |
jemelanson |
Jun-23-09 11:04 PM |
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It's just a whole dispicable world |
hyphenate |
Jun-23-09 10:18 PM |
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These People Are The Republican Base |
The River |
Jun-23-09 10:26 PM |
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Wow, pretty fucking IRONIC-- |
BlancheSplanchnik |
Jun-23-09 10:43 PM |
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So it IS possible to go from intellectual to moron. |
Deep13 |
Jun-25-09 10:46 AM |
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rly! n/t |
BlancheSplanchnik |
Jun-25-09 11:15 AM |
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Rejection of organized religion is WONDERFUL! |
Celtic Merlin |
Jun-23-09 10:51 PM |
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I wish I could recommend your post. |
Mad_Dem_X |
Jun-25-09 08:55 AM |
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Why don't these dudes |
femrap |
Jun-23-09 11:13 PM |
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My urge to southern baptists . . . |
kitkat65 |
Jun-23-09 11:14 PM |
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What's next? |
StarryNite |
Jun-23-09 11:43 PM |
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In a way, some of them do |
DesertRat |
Jun-24-09 12:16 AM |
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Screw that! |
StarryNite |
Jun-24-09 01:20 AM |
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I really just can't help but laugh. |
Vektor |
Jun-24-09 12:34 AM |
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I urge all southern baptists to finally join the fuckin' 21st century! |
Initech |
Jun-24-09 12:41 AM |
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But we know who the men will end up dating!! |
Manifestor_of_Light |
Jun-24-09 03:24 AM |
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Proposed atheism recruiting campaign: "Welcome, disenfranchised SBC women!" (nt) |
Heidi |
Jun-24-09 06:24 AM |
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I'll be submissive when this happens: |
AwakeAtLast |
Jun-24-09 06:25 AM |
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They Are Getting That From The Apostle Paul |
DemocratSinceBirth |
Jun-24-09 06:33 AM |
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When folks cite St Paul to back up their anti-gay bigotry |
Bluenorthwest |
Jun-24-09 07:28 AM |
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The UCC Which Obama Ostensibly Belongs Favors Full Civil Rights For Gays Including Marriage |
DemocratSinceBirth |
Jun-24-09 07:37 AM |
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I was not addressing you |
Bluenorthwest |
Jun-24-09 08:24 AM |
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I Know. I Was Amplifying On What You Said. |
DemocratSinceBirth |
Jun-24-09 10:57 AM |
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I agree with your last sentence |
Dogtown |
Jun-24-09 01:23 PM |
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Titus 2.....should be Tightass Too |
konnichi wa |
Jun-24-09 07:31 AM |
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How come these Bible "literalists" always pick out the submissive bits for women? |
Starry Messenger |
Jun-24-09 07:42 AM |
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I wish NOW would start picketing the SBC and highlight this misogyny |
cap |
Jun-24-09 07:43 AM |
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What do you expect from the American Taliban? |
CanonRay |
Jun-24-09 08:20 AM |
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2 Words for Funduhmentalist Freaks - |
we can do it |
Jun-24-09 08:40 AM |
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Are any of the posters in this thread Southern Baptists? I'd guess not. |
DarbyUSMC |
Jun-24-09 09:15 AM |
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I was raised SBC. There is no excuse for subjugating women. |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 11:22 AM |
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My mother was a Southern Baptist |
PSzymeczek |
Jun-26-09 02:55 PM |
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Training them like dogs. Training them on what |
Ilsa |
Jun-24-09 09:21 AM |
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The SBC just ejected a 2000 member church because they accepted gay members. |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 12:47 PM |
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B21 versus Acts 29...two Baptist factions feuding apparently. |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 04:32 PM |
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Maybe they should urge their GOP governors... |
western mass |
Jun-24-09 04:34 PM |
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I've been telling my husband for years I need to stay home:-) lol.... |
skeewee08 |
Jun-24-09 04:41 PM |
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Love it. |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 05:50 PM |
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Yes, you should have had that luxury... |
FloriTexan |
Jun-26-09 01:30 PM |
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so they say the husband is the god of his household yet that breaks |
KakistocracyHater |
Jun-24-09 07:03 PM |
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fuck the southern baptists |
RainDog |
Jun-24-09 09:20 PM |
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".being abusive, which OF COURSE one of the ways . . ." |
mzteris |
Jun-24-09 09:31 PM |
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More stuff from Ware: Salvation and a woman's "obedient womb" |
madfloridian |
Jun-24-09 10:38 PM |
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So I guess if you're a woman and you can't have children you're pretty much not going to be saved |
cherish44 |
Jun-25-09 07:42 AM |
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Who ever said religion is good for mental health --- ??? |
defendandprotect |
Jun-25-09 01:12 AM |
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This from the Freedom from Religion Foundation |
PSzymeczek |
Jun-26-09 03:02 PM |
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What a bunch of b-holes! |
Joe Bacon |
Jun-25-09 06:55 AM |
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That's EXCELLENT, JOE!!!! |
Manifestor_of_Light |
Jun-26-09 01:37 PM |
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I don't mean to be promoting my own thread, but is a glimpse |
Ilsa |
Jun-25-09 07:50 AM |
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Thanks...I missed your post. |
madfloridian |
Jun-25-09 02:11 PM |
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I hate that "husband has the final say" bullsh*t |
Mad_Dem_X |
Jun-25-09 08:38 AM |
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Iron age tribal thinking. |
Deep13 |
Jun-25-09 11:27 AM |
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Its not the the Baptists |
Bettie |
Jun-25-09 08:39 AM |
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+1 |
Deep13 |
Jun-25-09 10:48 AM |
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Um...I want an adult wife I can count on, not some kind of pet. |
Deep13 |
Jun-25-09 09:50 AM |
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Wow... |
FloriTexan |
Jun-26-09 01:23 PM |
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What a bunch of horse-shit. |
proteus_lives |
Jun-26-09 02:57 PM |
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So... are all SBC males underendowed and insecure? Sad, sad, sad... n/t |
TygrBright |
Jun-26-09 06:40 PM |
#105 |