Karenina
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Fri May-08-09 11:28 AM
Response to Reply #28 |
| 36. I became active in those scant few years of FREE SEX!!! |
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Birth control+antibiotics= EXPLORATION+DISCOVERY
I had many fun/not so fun experiences and treasure the knowledge and understanding I gained. By the time I married (auch late) there was truly nothing new under the sun. The idea of the one and only fp I personally find silly. Trust and transparency are the real issues.
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| -Is it unrealistic (or just unnecessary) to expect people to sleep with one person only for life? |
dorkulon |
May-08-09 10:07 AM |
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Both, in my pov, |
elleng |
May-08-09 10:11 AM |
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i was older when i got married. no we arent tired of sleeping iwth each other |
seabeyond |
May-08-09 10:12 AM |
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Aside from procreation, why should people get married? |
MercutioATC |
May-08-09 10:16 AM |
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NO REASON. |
elleng |
May-08-09 01:22 PM |
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I can not imagine not wanting to be with the one you love forever.. |
Winterblues |
May-08-09 10:17 AM |
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ya know |
seabeyond |
May-08-09 10:20 AM |
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That's nice for you, but the question is really about the basic rules of relationships in general. |
dorkulon |
May-08-09 10:21 AM |
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Marriage is about a lot of things, and sex is one of those things. |
Shell Beau |
May-08-09 10:18 AM |
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Since most of the conventions |
Turbineguy |
May-08-09 10:18 AM |
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when sex starts getting old with the same person |
pnutbutr |
May-08-09 10:18 AM |
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Christian marriage is a commitment in many ways. |
theoldman |
May-08-09 10:18 AM |
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Depends on a lot of things... |
MineralMan |
May-08-09 10:19 AM |
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i think it is possible to be with only one person for life. relationships are very complicated t |
ejpoeta |
May-08-09 10:20 AM |
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I understand it's "possible," but is it necessary or even desirable? |
dorkulon |
May-08-09 10:29 AM |
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i don't know. from my perspective, i made a commitment to my husband... |
ejpoeta |
May-08-09 12:12 PM |
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it can be neither and it can be both, depending on the people involved |
fishwax |
May-08-09 10:20 AM |
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Depends on the wants and needs of those involved |
Echo In Light |
May-08-09 10:22 AM |
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If you have your priorities in order... |
Triana |
May-08-09 10:25 AM |
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Improbable |
FarCenter |
May-08-09 10:30 AM |
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As someone said, when it's right, it's right... |
WilmywoodNCparalegal |
May-08-09 10:33 AM |
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There is an evolutionary advantage, for both men and women, |
Occam Bandage |
May-08-09 10:37 AM |
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Good points. |
dorkulon |
May-08-09 10:43 AM |
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seeing how you dont have mass group of women getting impreg by alpha male and having beta male |
seabeyond |
May-08-09 10:46 AM |
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As unrealistic as abstinence only |
Adelante |
May-08-09 10:42 AM |
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I have to admit |
dorkulon |
May-08-09 10:46 AM |
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Believe it or not some people actually do this. If somebody doesn't think they can be faithful |
WI_DEM |
May-08-09 10:45 AM |
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People are different. Monogamy suits some people. It doesn't suit some people. |
salguine |
May-08-09 10:48 AM |
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As someone who was cheated upon ... I fully agree with you. It was no big deal. |
ieoeja |
May-08-09 10:52 AM |
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Obviously your spouse wasn't as committed as you were to your marriage. |
WI_DEM |
May-08-09 10:54 AM |
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Two very good questions nt |
Adelante |
May-08-09 11:04 AM |
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if my hubby cheated on me i wouldnt hate him. i would thank him for the years of being happy |
seabeyond |
May-08-09 11:15 AM |
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Hurting my spouse by sleeping with another person kills the fun of |
Ilsa |
May-08-09 10:57 AM |
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No, I don't think it's natural. It's what people do, or attempt to do. |
krabigirl |
May-08-09 10:57 AM |
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I became active in those scant few years of FREE SEX!!! |
Karenina |
May-08-09 11:28 AM |
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"Open Marriages" - usually end in divorce, from what I have observed. |
yellowcanine |
May-08-09 11:02 AM |
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From what I've observed, "closed" marriages usually end in divorce, too. |
Lyric |
May-08-09 02:43 PM |
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closed ones do as well from my observations. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
May-08-09 02:45 PM |
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Any marriage is defined by the people in it. |
davsand |
May-08-09 11:02 AM |
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Been married for 36 years, we have had our problems, but none involving sex. I think |
madmom |
May-08-09 11:20 AM |
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It isn't for me, but my wife is totally HAWT!!! |
Vickers |
May-08-09 11:21 AM |
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I know it's realistic, because I've seen it. |
Iggo |
May-08-09 11:23 AM |
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I can't imagine sharing a bedroom with someone |
imdjh |
May-08-09 11:29 AM |
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My thoughts: |
LynzM |
May-08-09 12:45 PM |
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That's the stupid thing; marriage is NOT about sex. |
elleng |
May-08-09 01:22 PM |
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The only way infidelity seems to work is if you have a secret "open" marriage, |
Evoman |
May-08-09 01:55 PM |
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It doesn't really matter if you promised to do that |
JerseygirlCT |
May-08-09 02:38 PM |
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No |
Dappleganger |
May-08-09 02:52 PM |
#46 |
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