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Mon Apr-20-09 10:06 AM
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...any evidence that children were raised by abusive parents.
What evidence would there be...of severe physical, emotional or sexual abuse, years later after the crimes have been perpetrated?
Are we really that naive about child abuse?
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Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:13 AM |
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Their parents failed. Your kids are amassing an arsenal of weapons |
LeftinOH |
Apr-20-09 09:16 AM |
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blame the kids |
pnutbutr |
Apr-20-09 09:23 AM |
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There's plenty of blame to go around, from parents to law enforcement |
Heidi |
Apr-20-09 09:32 AM |
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This is one of the myths that is debunked in the book-- |
kiva |
Apr-20-09 09:56 AM |
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I realize that opinion exists, and I also realize that it's documented that Harris and |
Heidi |
Apr-20-09 10:29 AM |
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Your last sentence... |
kiva |
Apr-20-09 10:36 AM |
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A lot of people failed. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:27 AM |
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IIRC, Eric and Dylan each had an older brother who today |
DinahMoeHum |
Apr-20-09 09:40 AM |
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Typical in even horrendously abusive families... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:52 AM |
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Interesting point, although I severely doubt that was the case here |
DinahMoeHum |
Apr-20-09 10:01 AM |
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There is RARELY.... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 10:06 AM |
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Some would argue that it's negligent at the very least to have unsecured weapons |
Heidi |
Apr-20-09 10:34 AM |
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You're calling who naive?? |
DinahMoeHum |
Apr-20-09 11:25 AM |
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So siblings are cookie cutter images of each other |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 09:54 AM |
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I am a "military brat". You're right it is a shitty life for a kid in many ways |
MindPilot |
Apr-20-09 03:33 PM |
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The author manipulated the definition of bullying to fit his hypotheses |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:25 AM |
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Sorry, but they weren't bullied like that. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:32 AM |
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his agenda is relieving the guilt many should feel about bullying others |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:36 AM |
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Believe what you will. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:40 AM |
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Yes, but this author is relying... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:59 AM |
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Believe what you want. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 10:10 AM |
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Then he didn't watch "Bowling for Columbine" |
goddess40 |
Apr-20-09 10:37 AM |
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Read: The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander |
goddess40 |
Apr-20-09 10:40 AM |
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Sociopaths and psychopaths are born that way. |
DevonRex |
Apr-20-09 09:42 AM |
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A neglected aspect of the 'bullying' argument is the actual, physical |
RaleighNCDUer |
Apr-20-09 10:38 AM |
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delete |
LanternWaste |
Apr-20-09 03:17 PM |
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I think there is a lot that we will never know.. |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:27 AM |
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What you saw about the bullying was one of the myths. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:34 AM |
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We're you there to see how they were bullied? |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:42 AM |
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Ok, I understand that you've read this book... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:44 AM |
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The parents aren't innocent. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:57 AM |
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Actually it sounded like Eric was doing the bullying |
stray cat |
Apr-20-09 09:55 AM |
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That's not unusual for a bully to try to create a bubble for themselves |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 10:05 AM |
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Perhaps this book isn't really the end-all truth. |
YOY |
Apr-20-09 10:02 AM |
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They felt the need to change classes by walking outside |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:45 AM |
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Reports? |
stray cat |
Apr-20-09 09:56 AM |
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But they do care about themselves. That is how they learn to function |
DevonRex |
Apr-20-09 09:45 AM |
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Definition of bullying |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 09:47 AM |
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IIRC, isn't this the same author who discovered that the "Christian" targeting meme was false? |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-20-09 09:50 AM |
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yes |
stray cat |
Apr-20-09 09:56 AM |
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Yes. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 10:02 AM |
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could you explain this to me, I've never heard about it |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 10:03 AM |
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From Kiva's article posted just below: |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-20-09 10:17 AM |
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Yes, the myths had something for everyone. |
kiva |
Apr-20-09 10:09 AM |
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Thanks for the link. |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-20-09 10:21 AM |
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That sounds a lot like the initial report |
underpants |
Apr-20-09 10:10 AM |
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Author was NOT there since the beginning as he claims |
goddess40 |
Apr-20-09 10:57 AM |
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Too quick to believe |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 02:14 PM |
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He interviewed an FBI psychologist |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 02:43 PM |
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And what does the FBI know about bullying and it's effects |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 03:13 PM |
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Whatever. nt |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 03:17 PM |
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If the shoe fits... |
Raskolnik |
Apr-20-09 03:56 PM |
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Hard to believe it's been 10 years already.. |
TRUEBELIEVER 66 |
Apr-20-09 02:47 PM |
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yes. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 03:16 PM |
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