pnutbutr
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Mon Apr-20-09 09:23 AM
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The parents may have played a part but ultimately we must lay blame on the kids themselves. They were idiots who acted out a brutal fantasy.
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Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:13 AM |
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Their parents failed. Your kids are amassing an arsenal of weapons |
LeftinOH |
Apr-20-09 09:16 AM |
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blame the kids |
pnutbutr |
Apr-20-09 09:23 AM |
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There's plenty of blame to go around, from parents to law enforcement |
Heidi |
Apr-20-09 09:32 AM |
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This is one of the myths that is debunked in the book-- |
kiva |
Apr-20-09 09:56 AM |
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I realize that opinion exists, and I also realize that it's documented that Harris and |
Heidi |
Apr-20-09 10:29 AM |
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Your last sentence... |
kiva |
Apr-20-09 10:36 AM |
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A lot of people failed. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:27 AM |
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IIRC, Eric and Dylan each had an older brother who today |
DinahMoeHum |
Apr-20-09 09:40 AM |
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Typical in even horrendously abusive families... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:52 AM |
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Interesting point, although I severely doubt that was the case here |
DinahMoeHum |
Apr-20-09 10:01 AM |
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There is RARELY.... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 10:06 AM |
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Some would argue that it's negligent at the very least to have unsecured weapons |
Heidi |
Apr-20-09 10:34 AM |
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You're calling who naive?? |
DinahMoeHum |
Apr-20-09 11:25 AM |
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So siblings are cookie cutter images of each other |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 09:54 AM |
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I am a "military brat". You're right it is a shitty life for a kid in many ways |
MindPilot |
Apr-20-09 03:33 PM |
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The author manipulated the definition of bullying to fit his hypotheses |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:25 AM |
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Sorry, but they weren't bullied like that. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:32 AM |
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his agenda is relieving the guilt many should feel about bullying others |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:36 AM |
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Believe what you will. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:40 AM |
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Yes, but this author is relying... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:59 AM |
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Believe what you want. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 10:10 AM |
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Then he didn't watch "Bowling for Columbine" |
goddess40 |
Apr-20-09 10:37 AM |
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Read: The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander |
goddess40 |
Apr-20-09 10:40 AM |
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Sociopaths and psychopaths are born that way. |
DevonRex |
Apr-20-09 09:42 AM |
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A neglected aspect of the 'bullying' argument is the actual, physical |
RaleighNCDUer |
Apr-20-09 10:38 AM |
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delete |
LanternWaste |
Apr-20-09 03:17 PM |
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I think there is a lot that we will never know.. |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:27 AM |
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What you saw about the bullying was one of the myths. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:34 AM |
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We're you there to see how they were bullied? |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:42 AM |
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Ok, I understand that you've read this book... |
CoffeeCat |
Apr-20-09 09:44 AM |
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The parents aren't innocent. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 09:57 AM |
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Actually it sounded like Eric was doing the bullying |
stray cat |
Apr-20-09 09:55 AM |
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That's not unusual for a bully to try to create a bubble for themselves |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 10:05 AM |
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Perhaps this book isn't really the end-all truth. |
YOY |
Apr-20-09 10:02 AM |
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They felt the need to change classes by walking outside |
Nipper1959 |
Apr-20-09 09:45 AM |
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Reports? |
stray cat |
Apr-20-09 09:56 AM |
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But they do care about themselves. That is how they learn to function |
DevonRex |
Apr-20-09 09:45 AM |
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Definition of bullying |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 09:47 AM |
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IIRC, isn't this the same author who discovered that the "Christian" targeting meme was false? |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-20-09 09:50 AM |
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yes |
stray cat |
Apr-20-09 09:56 AM |
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Yes. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 10:02 AM |
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could you explain this to me, I've never heard about it |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 10:03 AM |
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From Kiva's article posted just below: |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-20-09 10:17 AM |
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Yes, the myths had something for everyone. |
kiva |
Apr-20-09 10:09 AM |
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Thanks for the link. |
riderinthestorm |
Apr-20-09 10:21 AM |
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That sounds a lot like the initial report |
underpants |
Apr-20-09 10:10 AM |
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Author was NOT there since the beginning as he claims |
goddess40 |
Apr-20-09 10:57 AM |
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Too quick to believe |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 02:14 PM |
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He interviewed an FBI psychologist |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 02:43 PM |
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And what does the FBI know about bullying and it's effects |
HelenWheels |
Apr-20-09 03:13 PM |
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Whatever. nt |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 03:17 PM |
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If the shoe fits... |
Raskolnik |
Apr-20-09 03:56 PM |
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Hard to believe it's been 10 years already.. |
TRUEBELIEVER 66 |
Apr-20-09 02:47 PM |
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yes. |
Are_grits_groceries |
Apr-20-09 03:16 PM |
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