Reply #39: I've been there, JW, and you did the absolute right thing...

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Years ago, I had one of the many psycho-bosses-from-hell. Early on, my better instincts were screaming, Get out -- get out now! But I hung on, trying to prove my worth. The boss-from-hell just had this weird, fixed idea of who I was, and part of me tried over and over again to penetrate that armor plate, and show that I was worthy, etc. Meanwhile, my self-esteem was heading into the toilet, and I began having this image of a foolish guy trying to put out a blazing house fire with one bucket of water.

But I finally realized that this was a rigged game, one that I would never be allowed to win, so after 6 months of taking a daily pummeling, I finally quit.

All of which is to say, I know how lousy it is to be in your shoes right now. There is some very sound advice upthread -- speak to your creditors, they will most likely accomodate you.

Try to keep an upbeat attitude -- what you've gone through is stressful and depressing as hell, and it will resonate for awhile.

Even in this economy, I'm confident that you can land another job, and who knows? It just might be with some sane, healthy, interesting and caring individuals.

All good luck to you. Be well and let us know what happens!

Hang in there -- :thumbsup: