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Sun Nov-30-08 10:45 AM
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| 12. Will they hang the bloody sheet on the clothes line? It's traditional. |
| -Practicing abstinence, bride and groom have never kissed |
Liberal_in_LA |
Nov-30-08 09:55 AM |
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Well, at least they practice what they preach.. good luck to them. |
glowing |
Nov-30-08 10:06 AM |
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Nov-30-08 10:07 AM |
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Knock it off! |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 03:06 PM |
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Or worse, perhaps. If that could be fathomed possible. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:21 PM |
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Lately? |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 04:56 PM |
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Well, second today. That much I'm certain of... |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 04:58 PM |
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Look, I'm Not Trying to Be Mean |
Crisco |
Nov-30-08 06:28 PM |
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Oh please. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 06:30 PM |
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You forgot the other "reasonable" explanation, Jesus' Magic... |
LeviathanCrumbling |
Nov-30-08 07:46 PM |
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Or far more reasonable... They were brainwashed into believing their bodies were evil |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 08:01 PM |
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or they are liars and hypocrites and fuck all the time. The fact that they teach this shit lends |
LeviathanCrumbling |
Nov-30-08 08:06 PM |
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True Story |
Crisco |
Nov-30-08 08:22 PM |
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It says they've never slept together. |
Pharlo |
Dec-01-08 09:47 AM |
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I Considered That |
Crisco |
Nov-30-08 08:09 PM |
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Nov-30-08 08:03 PM |
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They never kissed. But.... |
quantessd |
Dec-01-08 02:18 AM |
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That is an inference. Not a genuine fact. |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:52 AM |
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Yes, That's Correct |
Crisco |
Dec-01-08 08:34 AM |
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Apparently its in fashion to be intolerant. |
undeterred |
Nov-30-08 07:42 PM |
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Or a chump. |
Radical Activist |
Nov-30-08 05:13 PM |
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Who's to say she's not the chump? |
XemaSab |
Nov-30-08 06:04 PM |
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Probably both are. |
Radical Activist |
Nov-30-08 06:15 PM |
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What exactly are you using as a standard to judge them on? |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 06:13 PM |
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Wow. Glad you don't make assinine assumptions based upon stereotypes. |
AZBlue |
Nov-30-08 07:48 PM |
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Yes, Because There's So Many Stereotypes To Choose From |
Crisco |
Nov-30-08 08:15 PM |
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It is the other way around for this couple. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 08:20 PM |
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Nothing like casting dispersions on people who are different from you. |
Fire_Medic_Dave |
Nov-30-08 08:48 PM |
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My sister went to a wedding like that |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 10:09 AM |
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Very weird IMO |
sakabatou |
Nov-30-08 07:43 PM |
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"I don't know how long it'll last, but it'll be great," says a confident Melody LaLuz |
PearliePoo2 |
Nov-30-08 10:28 AM |
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I was wondering if she was talking about the marriage or sex? |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 10:35 AM |
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Maybe she means the kiss? |
Dark |
Nov-30-08 10:38 AM |
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Ah - yeah that could be |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 10:38 AM |
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She is definetly talking about the kiss. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 12:14 PM |
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The kiss |
michreject |
Nov-30-08 06:30 PM |
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They teach abstinence in Chicago PUBLIC Schools? I sincerely hope that the |
OmmmSweetOmmm |
Nov-30-08 10:35 AM |
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You can ask the Palin clan about that! nt. |
PearliePoo2 |
Nov-30-08 10:39 AM |
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I disagree |
Bucky |
Nov-30-08 02:04 PM |
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Or it's taught ineffectively. Especially with peer pressure and the media's influence. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:26 PM |
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'they made sure they were never alone with each other in a house'? WTF? |
Dark |
Nov-30-08 10:36 AM |
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By late 20s you'd think they'd developed some self control. |
Liberal_in_LA |
Nov-30-08 10:44 AM |
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Most people do.... |
PearliePoo2 |
Nov-30-08 10:53 AM |
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Or ensuring 0 risks. Extreme, yes, but just as plausible. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:27 PM |
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Will they hang the bloody sheet on the clothes line? It's traditional. |
TahitiNut |
Nov-30-08 10:45 AM |
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Good for them for doing what is important to them. n/t |
Bertha Venation |
Nov-30-08 10:56 AM |
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Old joke: |
PCIntern |
Nov-30-08 11:02 AM |
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Nov-30-08 11:13 AM |
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Ha! Won my bet. They AREN'T from Wasilla. |
uppityperson |
Nov-30-08 11:20 AM |
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A friend's son who just got married in Sept had never had sex with his fiance |
proud2Blib |
Nov-30-08 11:23 AM |
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Like the old saying goes, "it's none of anybody's business". |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 06:02 PM |
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Self-delete |
Crisco |
Nov-30-08 06:18 PM |
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maybe the son's mother was similar to a mother i am aware of |
orleans |
Dec-01-08 02:36 AM |
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I call bullshit on that |
madokie |
Nov-30-08 11:24 AM |
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Good for them |
hendo |
Nov-30-08 11:27 AM |
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Just another example of the psychotic sexual views of this country. |
RC |
Nov-30-08 12:05 PM |
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They look happy enough. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 12:12 PM |
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That's not the point. The point that they don't agree with the most myopic radical DUer *is*. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:52 PM |
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And should people with credit cards rack up $200k in debt? |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:28 PM |
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They seem happy. Maybe you should inform them of how miserable they are? |
Dreamer Tatum |
Nov-30-08 06:26 PM |
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Unless somebody tells them, how would they know they |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 06:46 PM |
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"Psychotic"? You're kidding, right? |
AZBlue |
Nov-30-08 07:51 PM |
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The Duggars |
kskiska |
Nov-30-08 12:07 PM |
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yes |
shanti |
Nov-30-08 06:13 PM |
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Why do they have to throw their non-sexuality in our faces? |
Fuzz |
Nov-30-08 12:12 PM |
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Christians and sex can be humorous. |
PufPuf23 |
Nov-30-08 12:18 PM |
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PufPuf, interesting link |
JulieRB |
Nov-30-08 04:14 PM |
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Nothing would delight me more than these two idiots divorcing because of sexual incompatibility... |
skypuddle |
Nov-30-08 12:23 PM |
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How MEAN-SPIRITED! I wish them the best... |
Karenina |
Nov-30-08 05:52 PM |
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There's more to life than just sex. Take your cynicism and shove it. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 05:59 PM |
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Why do you wish for bad things for this couple? In what way have they personally offended you? |
KrazyKat |
Nov-30-08 06:21 PM |
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Probably because they have practiced a concept many on DU actively spit on. |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:39 AM |
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Idiots? Morons? |
Dreamer Tatum |
Nov-30-08 06:28 PM |
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They're the "fucking morons"? Really? Have you read your idiotic post? |
AZBlue |
Nov-30-08 07:52 PM |
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Just because you are impotent doesn't mean you need to wish it on other people. |
Fire_Medic_Dave |
Nov-30-08 07:58 PM |
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WHY? What could you possibly gain from that? |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 08:07 PM |
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You sound like a very |
leftynyc |
Dec-01-08 08:05 AM |
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Terrible hatred you have there. Did they kill your puppy or something? Geeez. |
FedUpWithIt All |
Dec-01-08 09:44 AM |
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I wish the happy couple all the best |
Bucky |
Nov-30-08 01:59 PM |
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"No kissing...but I'll give you a hand job" |
PCIntern |
Nov-30-08 02:57 PM |
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Don't forget the condom. ...Condo-what? |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 03:07 PM |
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My money's on low sex drive or another issue |
JulieRB |
Nov-30-08 04:18 PM |
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If they had low sex drive or no sex drive then they wouldn't be |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 05:01 PM |
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It's impossible for me to understand anyone who claims to love |
JulieRB |
Nov-30-08 06:47 PM |
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Right. You hold her down, I'll examine her hands for herpes, warts, cooties, et cetera... |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:28 PM |
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What kind of deep conversations did they have with chaperoned dating? |
readmoreoften |
Nov-30-08 03:26 PM |
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I don't know what conversation they had, but he did a lot of |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 06:15 PM |
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Great then. If she were hiring a butler she'd be set. |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 06:18 PM |
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They knew each other for three years. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 06:22 PM |
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Oh, I might have read it too quickly |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 06:23 PM |
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So any conversation that's suitable for public consumption. How emotionally intimate. |
readmoreoften |
Dec-01-08 01:09 AM |
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Why exactly would you be negotiating sexual assault issues |
lizzy |
Dec-01-08 02:08 AM |
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Nice to see cynicism and intolerance is alive and well on DU. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:20 PM |
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It sure is. But what else is new? |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 04:21 PM |
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Irony is a wonderful thing. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 04:44 PM |
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Amen, HT--The ability to see things from another person's point of view is virtually absent here. |
KrazyKat |
Nov-30-08 06:28 PM |
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Kick. |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 08:05 PM |
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Very sad indeed. When tolerance becomes inconvenient to their beliefs, it's chucked out the window. |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:38 AM |
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I would never marry a woman |
Confusious |
Nov-30-08 04:31 PM |
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Really, whatever works for you. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 04:58 PM |
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Is divorce even allowed in most places that have arranged marriages? |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 05:02 PM |
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Did I say it's something to aspire to? |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 05:06 PM |
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No, you just made an invalid comparison |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 05:38 PM |
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no but you tried to imply equivalency |
RainDog |
Nov-30-08 05:50 PM |
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And I'd never live with a man |
leftynyc |
Dec-01-08 08:09 AM |
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I think this is totally bizarre and completely against human nature. |
KzooDem |
Nov-30-08 04:36 PM |
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oops, duplicated |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 06:00 PM |
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Well, unlike 25% of New York City, I bet those two don't have herpes. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 06:00 PM |
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I don't see anywhere that it says "everyone needs to engender their values" |
AZBlue |
Nov-30-08 07:54 PM |
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It'd be nice if everyone did (not as much infidelity or disease, but... |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:41 AM |
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aiting can sometimes have a positive or beneficial result... |
LanternWaste |
Dec-01-08 10:19 AM |
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How long will it last? |
junofeb |
Nov-30-08 04:44 PM |
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The abstinence thing doesn't get me |
gollygee |
Nov-30-08 04:50 PM |
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Not just the different interaction when it's two people one-on-one |
XemaSab |
Nov-30-08 06:14 PM |
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If living together prior to marriage |
lizzy |
Dec-01-08 02:43 AM |
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I don't think it makes any difference whether couples live together as far as divorce rates go |
gollygee |
Dec-01-08 07:45 AM |
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I agree, What weirds me in this is |
junofeb |
Dec-01-08 08:10 AM |
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Everybody has to start someplace |
treestar |
Dec-01-08 09:41 AM |
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Freaks of nature on parade!!! |
Karenina |
Nov-30-08 05:05 PM |
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Rude. |
AZBlue |
Nov-30-08 07:55 PM |
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to each his/her own |
RainDog |
Nov-30-08 05:45 PM |
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Update: The couple got married today. This story was reported on the NATIONAL news |
Liberal_in_LA |
Nov-30-08 05:51 PM |
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vomitus-worthy |
RainDog |
Nov-30-08 06:02 PM |
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Good response. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 06:04 PM |
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venereal disease was rampant in Victorian England, too |
RainDog |
Nov-30-08 06:18 PM |
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a fair response, VD is hardly new, and world population has skyrocketed since then. |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:46 AM |
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George Takei and what's-his-name got married too. So frigging what? |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 06:02 PM |
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My position exactly. |
spoony |
Dec-01-08 03:54 AM |
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I don't see this marriage lasting (nm) |
lynyrd_skynyrd |
Nov-30-08 06:00 PM |
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I beg to differ. |
lizzy |
Nov-30-08 06:08 PM |
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which outlasts even the strongest of sexual compatibility. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-30-08 06:11 PM |
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I hate to say it but Kissing has gotten me into trouble more than enough times |
LynneSin |
Nov-30-08 06:22 PM |
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Lookit the Freaks! n /t |
greyhound1966 |
Nov-30-08 06:23 PM |
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Yes this IS quite a thread, isn't it? |
Dreamer Tatum |
Nov-30-08 06:29 PM |
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Couldn't agree more! |
AZBlue |
Nov-30-08 07:56 PM |
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Stellar. |
nothingtoofear |
Nov-30-08 08:05 PM |
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Quite. It shows why DU is truly made of. |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:35 AM |
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Lol....if I don't get a kiss after the first date, I call it a bust and I'm done. |
Evoman |
Nov-30-08 06:40 PM |
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They seem a little hypocritical to me |
dansolo |
Nov-30-08 07:22 PM |
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That is a rationalization. A good one, but a rationalization nonetheless. |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:50 AM |
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Marriage before sex is suspect at best, |
Qibing Zero |
Nov-30-08 07:53 PM |
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These days, what HASN'T reached the "political level of doublespeak"? |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:48 AM |
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Their relationship is their business. But teaching abstinence is a failing proposition, |
mondo joe |
Nov-30-08 08:05 PM |
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Wonder if one of them kisses really badly? |
cushla_machree |
Nov-30-08 08:42 PM |
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To each his/her own--what do I care? Good luck to them. |
book_worm |
Nov-30-08 08:45 PM |
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i certainly would never do anything like that. n/t |
orleans |
Dec-01-08 02:49 AM |
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So why is it okay for Conservative Sex-Puritans to "Flaunt" their lifestyles? |
impeachdubya |
Dec-01-08 03:44 AM |
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Why not look outside the box... |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:59 AM |
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Dec-01-08 04:41 AM |
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The bride's analogy: "You can't take the car out of the parking lot until you pay for it." |
Heidi |
Dec-01-08 05:01 AM |
#131 |
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I don't like that too |
gollygee |
Dec-01-08 07:46 AM |
#137 |
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I guess it's her business if she wants to consider herself "for sale," |
Heidi |
Dec-01-08 08:16 AM |
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Why does anyone care about their celebacy? |
Love Bug |
Dec-01-08 07:50 AM |
#140 |
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Because the media foists sexuality and relationships (often divorces) every, what, 10 seconds? More, |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 07:57 AM |
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humans do not need media to have sexual desire |
RainDog |
Dec-01-08 09:05 AM |
#152 |
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"But honey, these genital warts were a gift from Jesus!" |
Vickers |
Dec-01-08 08:07 AM |
#146 |
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I Lol'd |
Rebubula |
Dec-01-08 09:52 AM |
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Dec-01-08 08:18 AM |
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I had a college roommate like that |
OutspokenLiberal |
Dec-01-08 09:34 AM |
#153 |
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Whatever floats their boat. But presenting it as an ideal for others is wrong. |
lumberjack_jeff |
Dec-01-08 09:41 AM |
#155 |
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To all the heckling jackanapes: |
HypnoToad |
Dec-01-08 09:53 AM |
#159 |
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