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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-30-08 10:35 AM
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6. I was wondering if she was talking about the marriage or sex?
I thought it odd that people that religious would talk about marriage that way, but I thought it odd that they'd talk about sex that way too. Still, I assumed sex.
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  -Practicing abstinence, bride and groom have never kissed Liberal_in_LA  Nov-30-08 09:55 AM   #0 
  - Well, at least they practice what they preach.. good luck to them.  glowing   Nov-30-08 10:06 AM   #1 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Nov-30-08 10:07 AM   #2 
  - Knock it off!  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 03:06 PM   #31 
  - Or worse, perhaps. If that could be fathomed possible.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:21 PM   #37 
  - Lately?  lizzy   Nov-30-08 04:56 PM   #49 
  - Well, second today. That much I'm certain of...  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 04:58 PM   #50 
  - Look, I'm Not Trying to Be Mean  Crisco   Nov-30-08 06:28 PM   #87 
  - Oh please.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 06:30 PM   #92 
  - You forgot the other "reasonable" explanation, Jesus' Magic...  LeviathanCrumbling   Nov-30-08 07:46 PM   #99 
  - Or far more reasonable... They were brainwashed into believing their bodies were evil  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 08:01 PM   #108 
  - or they are liars and hypocrites and fuck all the time. The fact that they teach this shit lends  LeviathanCrumbling   Nov-30-08 08:06 PM   #113 
     - True Story  Crisco   Nov-30-08 08:22 PM   #118 
     - It says they've never slept together.  Pharlo   Dec-01-08 09:47 AM   #157 
  - I Considered That  Crisco   Nov-30-08 08:09 PM   #115 
  - Deleted sub-thread  Name removed   Nov-30-08 08:03 PM   #109 
  - They never kissed. But....  quantessd   Dec-01-08 02:18 AM   #124 
  - That is an inference. Not a genuine fact.  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:52 AM   #142 
     - Yes, That's Correct  Crisco   Dec-01-08 08:34 AM   #151 
  - Apparently its in fashion to be intolerant.  undeterred   Nov-30-08 07:42 PM   #97 
  - Or a chump.  Radical Activist   Nov-30-08 05:13 PM   #56 
  - Who's to say she's not the chump?  XemaSab   Nov-30-08 06:04 PM   #69 
  - Probably both are.  Radical Activist   Nov-30-08 06:15 PM   #76 
  - What exactly are you using as a standard to judge them on?  lizzy   Nov-30-08 06:13 PM   #73 
  - Wow. Glad you don't make assinine assumptions based upon stereotypes.  AZBlue   Nov-30-08 07:48 PM   #100 
  - Yes, Because There's So Many Stereotypes To Choose From  Crisco   Nov-30-08 08:15 PM   #116 
     - It is the other way around for this couple.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 08:20 PM   #117 
  - Nothing like casting dispersions on people who are different from you.  Fire_Medic_Dave   Nov-30-08 08:48 PM   #121 
  - My sister went to a wedding like that  gollygee   Nov-30-08 10:09 AM   #3 
  - Very weird IMO  sakabatou   Nov-30-08 07:43 PM   #98 
  - "I don't know how long it'll last, but it'll be great," says a confident Melody LaLuz  PearliePoo2   Nov-30-08 10:28 AM   #4 
  - I was wondering if she was talking about the marriage or sex?  gollygee   Nov-30-08 10:35 AM   #6 
     - Maybe she means the kiss?  Dark   Nov-30-08 10:38 AM   #8 
     - Ah - yeah that could be  gollygee   Nov-30-08 10:38 AM   #9 
        - She is definetly talking about the kiss.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 12:14 PM   #25 
     - The kiss  michreject   Nov-30-08 06:30 PM   #91 
  - They teach abstinence in Chicago PUBLIC Schools? I sincerely hope that the  OmmmSweetOmmm   Nov-30-08 10:35 AM   #5 
  - You can ask the Palin clan about that! nt.  PearliePoo2   Nov-30-08 10:39 AM   #10 
  - I disagree  Bucky   Nov-30-08 02:04 PM   #29 
  - Or it's taught ineffectively. Especially with peer pressure and the media's influence.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:26 PM   #39 
  - 'they made sure they were never alone with each other in a house'? WTF?  Dark   Nov-30-08 10:36 AM   #7 
  - By late 20s you'd think they'd developed some self control.  Liberal_in_LA   Nov-30-08 10:44 AM   #11 
     - Most people do....  PearliePoo2   Nov-30-08 10:53 AM   #13 
     - Or ensuring 0 risks. Extreme, yes, but just as plausible.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:27 PM   #40 
  - Will they hang the bloody sheet on the clothes line? It's traditional.  TahitiNut   Nov-30-08 10:45 AM   #12 
  - Good for them for doing what is important to them. n/t  Bertha Venation   Nov-30-08 10:56 AM   #14 
  - Old joke:  PCIntern   Nov-30-08 11:02 AM   #15 
  - Deleted sub-thread  Name removed   Nov-30-08 11:13 AM   #16 
  - Ha! Won my bet. They AREN'T from Wasilla.  uppityperson   Nov-30-08 11:20 AM   #17 
  - A friend's son who just got married in Sept had never had sex with his fiance  proud2Blib   Nov-30-08 11:23 AM   #18 
  - Like the old saying goes, "it's none of anybody's business".  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 06:02 PM   #67 
  - Self-delete  Crisco   Nov-30-08 06:18 PM   #79 
  - maybe the son's mother was similar to a mother i am aware of  orleans   Dec-01-08 02:36 AM   #125 
  - I call bullshit on that  madokie   Nov-30-08 11:24 AM   #19 
  - Good for them  hendo   Nov-30-08 11:27 AM   #20 
  - Just another example of the psychotic sexual views of this country.  RC   Nov-30-08 12:05 PM   #21 
  - They look happy enough.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 12:12 PM   #24 
  - That's not the point. The point that they don't agree with the most myopic radical DUer *is*.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:52 PM   #48 
  - And should people with credit cards rack up $200k in debt?  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:28 PM   #42 
  - They seem happy. Maybe you should inform them of how miserable they are?  Dreamer Tatum   Nov-30-08 06:26 PM   #86 
  - Unless somebody tells them, how would they know they  lizzy   Nov-30-08 06:46 PM   #94 
  - "Psychotic"? You're kidding, right?  AZBlue   Nov-30-08 07:51 PM   #101 
  - The Duggars  kskiska   Nov-30-08 12:07 PM   #22 
  - yes  shanti   Nov-30-08 06:13 PM   #74 
  - Why do they have to throw their non-sexuality in our faces?  Fuzz   Nov-30-08 12:12 PM   #23 
  - Christians and sex can be humorous.  PufPuf23   Nov-30-08 12:18 PM   #26 
  - PufPuf, interesting link  JulieRB   Nov-30-08 04:14 PM   #34 
  - Nothing would delight me more than these two idiots divorcing because of sexual incompatibility...  skypuddle   Nov-30-08 12:23 PM   #27 
  - How MEAN-SPIRITED! I wish them the best...  Karenina   Nov-30-08 05:52 PM   #61 
  - There's more to life than just sex. Take your cynicism and shove it.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 05:59 PM   #62 
  - Why do you wish for bad things for this couple? In what way have they personally offended you?  KrazyKat   Nov-30-08 06:21 PM   #81 
  - Probably because they have practiced a concept many on DU actively spit on.  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:39 AM   #134 
  - Idiots? Morons?  Dreamer Tatum   Nov-30-08 06:28 PM   #88 
  - They're the "fucking morons"? Really? Have you read your idiotic post?  AZBlue   Nov-30-08 07:52 PM   #102 
  - Just because you are impotent doesn't mean you need to wish it on other people.  Fire_Medic_Dave   Nov-30-08 07:58 PM   #107 
  - WHY? What could you possibly gain from that?  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 08:07 PM   #114 
  - You sound like a very  leftynyc   Dec-01-08 08:05 AM   #145 
  - Terrible hatred you have there. Did they kill your puppy or something? Geeez.  FedUpWithIt All   Dec-01-08 09:44 AM   #156 
  - I wish the happy couple all the best  Bucky   Nov-30-08 01:59 PM   #28 
  - "No kissing...but I'll give you a hand job"  PCIntern   Nov-30-08 02:57 PM   #30 
     - Don't forget the condom. ...Condo-what?  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 03:07 PM   #32 
     - My money's on low sex drive or another issue  JulieRB   Nov-30-08 04:18 PM   #35 
     - If they had low sex drive or no sex drive then they wouldn't be  lizzy   Nov-30-08 05:01 PM   #52 
        - It's impossible for me to understand anyone who claims to love  JulieRB   Nov-30-08 06:47 PM   #95 
     - Right. You hold her down, I'll examine her hands for herpes, warts, cooties, et cetera...  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:28 PM   #41 
  - What kind of deep conversations did they have with chaperoned dating?  readmoreoften   Nov-30-08 03:26 PM   #33 
  - I don't know what conversation they had, but he did a lot of  lizzy   Nov-30-08 06:15 PM   #77 
     - Great then. If she were hiring a butler she'd be set.  gollygee   Nov-30-08 06:18 PM   #80 
        - They knew each other for three years.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 06:22 PM   #82 
           - Oh, I might have read it too quickly  gollygee   Nov-30-08 06:23 PM   #85 
           - So any conversation that's suitable for public consumption. How emotionally intimate.  readmoreoften   Dec-01-08 01:09 AM   #122 
              - Why exactly would you be negotiating sexual assault issues  lizzy   Dec-01-08 02:08 AM   #123 
  - Nice to see cynicism and intolerance is alive and well on DU.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:20 PM   #36 
  - It sure is. But what else is new?  lizzy   Nov-30-08 04:21 PM   #38 
  - Irony is a wonderful thing.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 04:44 PM   #46 
  - Amen, HT--The ability to see things from another person's point of view is virtually absent here.  KrazyKat   Nov-30-08 06:28 PM   #89 
     - Kick.  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 08:05 PM   #110 
     - Very sad indeed. When tolerance becomes inconvenient to their beliefs, it's chucked out the window.  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:38 AM   #133 
  - I would never marry a woman  Confusious   Nov-30-08 04:31 PM   #43 
  - Really, whatever works for you.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 04:58 PM   #51 
  - Is divorce even allowed in most places that have arranged marriages?  gollygee   Nov-30-08 05:02 PM   #53 
     - Did I say it's something to aspire to?  lizzy   Nov-30-08 05:06 PM   #55 
        - No, you just made an invalid comparison  gollygee   Nov-30-08 05:38 PM   #57 
        - no but you tried to imply equivalency  RainDog   Nov-30-08 05:50 PM   #59 
  - And I'd never live with a man  leftynyc   Dec-01-08 08:09 AM   #147 
  - I think this is totally bizarre and completely against human nature.  KzooDem   Nov-30-08 04:36 PM   #44 
  - oops, duplicated  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 06:00 PM   #63 
  - Well, unlike 25% of New York City, I bet those two don't have herpes.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 06:00 PM   #64 
  - I don't see anywhere that it says "everyone needs to engender their values"  AZBlue   Nov-30-08 07:54 PM   #104 
  - It'd be nice if everyone did (not as much infidelity or disease, but...  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:41 AM   #135 
  - aiting can sometimes have a positive or beneficial result...  LanternWaste   Dec-01-08 10:19 AM   #160 
  - How long will it last?  junofeb   Nov-30-08 04:44 PM   #45 
  - The abstinence thing doesn't get me  gollygee   Nov-30-08 04:50 PM   #47 
  - Not just the different interaction when it's two people one-on-one  XemaSab   Nov-30-08 06:14 PM   #75 
  - If living together prior to marriage  lizzy   Dec-01-08 02:43 AM   #126 
  - I don't think it makes any difference whether couples live together as far as divorce rates go  gollygee   Dec-01-08 07:45 AM   #136 
  - I agree, What weirds me in this is  junofeb   Dec-01-08 08:10 AM   #148 
  - Everybody has to start someplace  treestar   Dec-01-08 09:41 AM   #154 
  - Freaks of nature on parade!!!  Karenina   Nov-30-08 05:05 PM   #54 
  - Rude.  AZBlue   Nov-30-08 07:55 PM   #105 
  - to each his/her own  RainDog   Nov-30-08 05:45 PM   #58 
  - Update: The couple got married today. This story was reported on the NATIONAL news  Liberal_in_LA   Nov-30-08 05:51 PM   #60 
  - vomitus-worthy  RainDog   Nov-30-08 06:02 PM   #66 
  - Good response.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 06:04 PM   #70 
     - venereal disease was rampant in Victorian England, too  RainDog   Nov-30-08 06:18 PM   #78 
        - a fair response, VD is hardly new, and world population has skyrocketed since then.  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:46 AM   #138 
  - George Takei and what's-his-name got married too. So frigging what?  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 06:02 PM   #68 
     - My position exactly.  spoony   Dec-01-08 03:54 AM   #129 
  - I don't see this marriage lasting (nm)  lynyrd_skynyrd   Nov-30-08 06:00 PM   #65 
  - I beg to differ.  lizzy   Nov-30-08 06:08 PM   #71 
     - which outlasts even the strongest of sexual compatibility.  HypnoToad   Nov-30-08 06:11 PM   #72 
  - I hate to say it but Kissing has gotten me into trouble more than enough times  LynneSin   Nov-30-08 06:22 PM   #83 
  - Lookit the Freaks! n /t  greyhound1966   Nov-30-08 06:23 PM   #84 
  - Yes this IS quite a thread, isn't it?  Dreamer Tatum   Nov-30-08 06:29 PM   #90 
     - Couldn't agree more!  AZBlue   Nov-30-08 07:56 PM   #106 
     - Stellar.  nothingtoofear   Nov-30-08 08:05 PM   #112 
     - Quite. It shows why DU is truly made of.  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:35 AM   #132 
  - Lol....if I don't get a kiss after the first date, I call it a bust and I'm done.  Evoman   Nov-30-08 06:40 PM   #93 
  - They seem a little hypocritical to me  dansolo   Nov-30-08 07:22 PM   #96 
  - That is a rationalization. A good one, but a rationalization nonetheless.  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:50 AM   #141 
  - Marriage before sex is suspect at best,  Qibing Zero   Nov-30-08 07:53 PM   #103 
  - These days, what HASN'T reached the "political level of doublespeak"?  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:48 AM   #139 
  - Their relationship is their business. But teaching abstinence is a failing proposition,  mondo joe   Nov-30-08 08:05 PM   #111 
  - Wonder if one of them kisses really badly?  cushla_machree   Nov-30-08 08:42 PM   #119 
  - To each his/her own--what do I care? Good luck to them.  book_worm   Nov-30-08 08:45 PM   #120 
  - i certainly would never do anything like that. n/t  orleans   Dec-01-08 02:49 AM   #127 
  - So why is it okay for Conservative Sex-Puritans to "Flaunt" their lifestyles?  impeachdubya   Dec-01-08 03:44 AM   #128 
  - Why not look outside the box...  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:59 AM   #144 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Dec-01-08 04:41 AM   #130 
  - The bride's analogy: "You can't take the car out of the parking lot until you pay for it."  Heidi   Dec-01-08 05:01 AM   #131 
  - I don't like that too  gollygee   Dec-01-08 07:46 AM   #137 
     - I guess it's her business if she wants to consider herself "for sale,"  Heidi   Dec-01-08 08:16 AM   #149 
  - Why does anyone care about their celebacy?  Love Bug   Dec-01-08 07:50 AM   #140 
  - Because the media foists sexuality and relationships (often divorces) every, what, 10 seconds? More,  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 07:57 AM   #143 
     - humans do not need media to have sexual desire  RainDog   Dec-01-08 09:05 AM   #152 
  - "But honey, these genital warts were a gift from Jesus!"  Vickers   Dec-01-08 08:07 AM   #146 
  - I Lol'd  Rebubula   Dec-01-08 09:52 AM   #158 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Dec-01-08 08:18 AM   #150 
  - I had a college roommate like that  OutspokenLiberal   Dec-01-08 09:34 AM   #153 
  - Whatever floats their boat. But presenting it as an ideal for others is wrong.  lumberjack_jeff   Dec-01-08 09:41 AM   #155 
  - To all the heckling jackanapes:  HypnoToad   Dec-01-08 09:53 AM   #159 
 

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