Reply #83: have you considered...

[awoke_in_2003]

that the apartment is in his name and she is not able to get one in hers?

on edit: have you also considered that it is her apartment and he will not leave? Have you any idea how mentally abusive some men can be? I had to deal with this with my wifes ex. Cops can only go so far. The only thing that finally got through to him was an ass beating in a dark parking lot.