Reply #8: When my parents died, we had cremations. They didn't want a service and we

[roguevalley]

didn't have one. we came to the house and cried together, talked together and felt better. My mom and dad have a place on a shelf with my dog and when I die, we will be tossed into the river together. You don't have to have anything more from the mortuary than a cremation. Anything else you can do at your home. A viewing is a choice, not a requirement. i wish you so much love. I feel so for you. God bless you and your family. Your aunt doesn't care anymore. Don't do fancy or whatever for her. She knows you love her all ready.