Reply #78: And my point is blaming the victim is NEVER right.

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And anyone who gives the victims a hard time has to be confronted EVERY single time. And the confrontation has to be done in such a way that they perceive their own limited narrow mindedness or their limited explanation of what they meant and with the intent to educate and enlighten. The abused child becomes the abused adult or the abuser in almost all cases although some actually manage to break the cycle on their own. The cycle must be understood on a fundamental level and the awareness of it must be on a societal level and not just in the courts, the hospitals, or some vague statistical study, etc.