Reply #84: I work with several Iranian people in my department

[Mandate My Ass]

as well as people of Near and Far Eastern descent. These people are the first to throw open their homes to Americans than any other co-workers I've ever worked with in my entire life. They take pride in their heritage and provide culinary expertise in a manner that is meant to enhance our own palate, not usurp it.

Their beliefs are kept under the surface unless you actively engage them and seek their opionions, which are respectful and well thought out. Their opinions on Western culture are always couched in the most positive light and they express gratitude for being able to make a contribution here as opportunities in their native land may not be available. The language barrier, which the OP laments is annoying when when use it but attractive when women do so, is very telling IMHO.