Reply #96: Good luck to you. Try not to lecture to the strangers where ever you end up.

[kdpeters]

It was such a lovely post until the last three paragraphs when you started making presumptions and judgments on those of us who've not come to think and decide the same way you do. I realize you were trying to anticipate some of the jerks who can be counted on to offer their own judgments and lectures about your decision, but instead you became the jerk you were looking for. I understand your decision and wish you every happiness even if I haven't made the same decision. I'm not a martyr here. This is my home.