Reply #12: well said...

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and remember, the people to who (whom? i never get that right) you are applying for a job, already have jobs. they probably couldn't fathom what you are going through.

they are looking for folks they can work with. and common, social, friendly customs help assure them that you will be someone they want to work with.

think of it more like trying to get a date. you don't just toss your resume at a pretty girl/handsome guy and expect that to seal the deal. a little confidence, some niceness, pleasantries, etc. go a long way to make a connection.


you are not just applying for a job. you are trying to get that job in the sack...