Reply #30: Nothing wrong with frilly underwear, but don't count on it to

[JDPriestly]

bring romance if you consider carrying out the garbage, cooking a special meal or fixing a computer every once in a while to be a chore and not a demonstration of love. Both men and women are more turned on by loving gestures of an ordinary sort than superficial romantic gestures without a loving content. The lacey stuff doesn't substitute for love and won't manufacture it if the kindness is not there too.