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Sun Feb-18-07 11:59 PM
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| 33. No. A-types and goal-setters aren't synonymous. |
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The article I linked is anything BUT A-type. A-types tend to be impatient, aggressive, stressed out and often hostile. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Type_A That article was about pursuing happiness through fulfillment -- hardly an A-type characteristic. Here's more: http://72.14.253.104/search?q=cache:QgdJc-648i4J:www.ho... Zig Ziglar describes people who have goals as: "…happier and healthier and get along better with the folks at home. …these people also have more friends, more peace of mind, more security, and more hope for the future. These factors contribute to a longer and more rewarding life - I've never met a depressed individual who had specific, long-range goals and a plan of action to reach them"http://www.mastersteammortgage.com/index.asp?pgid=58 For those people interested in getting into the real estate investing world, Masters suggests having goals. Goals are what help give people focus, especially in real estate, he said. Several studies conducted throughout the years have proven that people with goals seem happier and also acquired more financial net worth that those without goals, according to Masters.http://www.nolimitscoaching.co.uk/menus/sitemap.asp?spi... Research shows that people who write down goals and regularly review them, feel more in control of their lives, are less stressed and are happier than those that don’t.
I firmly believe that making changes, taking control of your own life and reaching your goals should never be viewed as a chore, or something to be put off until you’ve got enough time to really think about it. With a life coach on your side and supporting you every step of the way, you’ll be amazed what fun and how empowering the whole process can be. You’ll also be surprised at how quickly you begin to see results and how your new positive outlook will affect all aspects of your life.
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| -Want to be happy? |
Az |
Feb-18-07 07:01 PM |
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Interesting |
ayeshahaqqiqa |
Feb-18-07 07:30 PM |
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That's what I thought too |
sleebarker |
Feb-18-07 08:31 PM |
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welcome to DU! |
ayeshahaqqiqa |
Feb-19-07 06:37 AM |
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It's also Christianity |
dmesg |
Feb-19-07 11:44 AM |
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Nah, not so much. |
The Stranger |
Feb-19-07 01:33 PM |
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That heaven/hell thing was not in the New Testament but added |
truedelphi |
Feb-19-07 02:31 PM |
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Changing "The kingdom of heaven" to "heaven as a place you go after death" was a later addition |
dmesg |
Feb-19-07 05:04 PM |
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Well, the hook was fall/redemption, whenever that was installed into the theology. |
The Stranger |
Feb-20-07 10:00 AM |
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it is very Zen Buddhist |
ktlyon |
Feb-19-07 04:10 PM |
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The place where they meet is truly sublime |
tavalon |
Feb-19-07 07:47 AM |
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quit complaining too |
AZDemDist6 |
Feb-18-07 07:39 PM |
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Actually that is covered in the article as well |
Az |
Feb-18-07 07:45 PM |
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that is living in the moment |
ktlyon |
Feb-19-07 04:11 PM |
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yuppers! |
AZDemDist6 |
Feb-20-07 08:26 AM |
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Sounds like Gandhi: |
Delphinus |
Feb-20-07 05:16 PM |
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a kick and a rec and a prayer |
stellanoir |
Feb-18-07 07:48 PM |
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Now if I can just remember to do all this....at the precise moments |
B Calm |
Feb-18-07 07:51 PM |
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Will I look like your avatar? |
The Straight Story |
Feb-18-07 07:57 PM |
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Na |
Az |
Feb-18-07 07:59 PM |
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I'd say it is fortunate they are rare... |
davsand |
Feb-18-07 08:02 PM |
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Very nice, Az. Kicking & recommending. n/t |
I Have A Dream |
Feb-18-07 08:05 PM |
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I completely disagree with #1 |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 08:24 PM |
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Agree with you |
PADemD |
Feb-18-07 08:28 PM |
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You can disagree |
Az |
Feb-18-07 08:31 PM |
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Which studies? Links? |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 08:38 PM |
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Translation please... |
RiverStone |
Feb-18-07 11:38 PM |
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My experience, as someone who started a business |
wildeyed |
Feb-19-07 10:19 AM |
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Thanks for the perspective... |
RiverStone |
Feb-19-07 02:02 PM |
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It would be scarier to do with kids. |
wildeyed |
Feb-19-07 04:49 PM |
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having goals and constantly meeting them can work for a while |
unblock |
Feb-18-07 08:45 PM |
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Having the goal isn't what causes unhappiness. |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 08:55 PM |
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i'm open to the idea that there's a way to do goals "properly" |
unblock |
Feb-18-07 09:03 PM |
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There are a number of things to consider. |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 09:13 PM |
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I understand your point |
NobleCynic |
Feb-18-07 08:48 PM |
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Link? |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 08:59 PM |
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Unfortunately, unless you have a subscription |
NobleCynic |
Feb-18-07 09:15 PM |
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Not everyone’s goals are the same. |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 09:40 PM |
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I believe as it is defined |
NobleCynic |
Feb-18-07 10:04 PM |
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A-type personalities may include people who set goals, but NOT ALL people who set goals are A-types. |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 10:18 PM |
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You are absolutely correct |
NobleCynic |
Feb-18-07 11:19 PM |
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No. A-types and goal-setters aren't synonymous. |
nicknameless |
Feb-18-07 11:59 PM |
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I'm not saying they're synonymous |
NobleCynic |
Feb-19-07 01:03 AM |
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They are NOT “selling something” |
nicknameless |
Feb-19-07 01:24 AM |
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A motivational speaker is most definitely "selling something" |
NobleCynic |
Feb-19-07 01:13 PM |
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You are hopelessly deluded, if you believe a word of what you just wrote. |
nicknameless |
Feb-19-07 05:49 PM |
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Look. You misunderstand each of my arguments, |
NobleCynic |
Feb-20-07 08:46 PM |
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You have yet to post a non-disingenuous reply, save your first one. |
nicknameless |
Feb-20-07 08:59 PM |
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Not getting through at all... |
NobleCynic |
Feb-20-07 09:30 PM |
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The houses being built now are a helluva lot bigger than they were 50 years ago. |
raccoon |
Feb-19-07 10:01 AM |
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Oh please. |
nicknameless |
Feb-19-07 05:52 PM |
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I said in some places houses were way overpriced. nt |
raccoon |
Feb-20-07 08:00 AM |
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The original claim was that people's buying power is greater than it was 50 years ago. |
nicknameless |
Feb-20-07 05:10 PM |
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It needs a better explanation, I believe. |
TahitiNut |
Feb-19-07 12:21 AM |
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Yes. There are a lot of variables here. |
nicknameless |
Feb-19-07 12:59 AM |
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This is, of course, just anecdotal |
dmesg |
Feb-19-07 11:45 AM |
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It’s all anecdotal. |
nicknameless |
Feb-20-07 06:17 PM |
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The human experience is based upon opportunity, not goals |
SimpleTrend |
Feb-19-07 02:56 PM |
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I think it means not obsessing |
ktlyon |
Feb-19-07 04:16 PM |
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i'm really psyched about this whole "positivite psychology" line of research |
unblock |
Feb-18-07 08:43 PM |
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Interesting |
Southpawkicker |
Feb-18-07 09:06 PM |
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Or |
Gregorian |
Feb-18-07 09:15 PM |
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I cannot believe nobody recognized the true essential core of happiness here! |
Gregorian |
Feb-19-07 12:50 PM |
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Love helps lead to happiness. |
Jonathan50 |
Feb-18-07 10:40 PM |
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"Happiness is simply getting enough sleep." |
Lilith Velkor |
Feb-19-07 11:15 AM |
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Very true. |
Blue in Portland |
Feb-20-07 10:03 AM |
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Thanks for this. It helped a lot. Cheers! |
BigBearJohn |
Feb-18-07 11:12 PM |
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Let me recommend a similar philosophy...and it's a cheap book! |
tomreedtoon |
Feb-18-07 11:58 PM |
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Sorry, self delete! (That ol' demon "couldn't post" again.) |
tomreedtoon |
Feb-19-07 12:04 AM |
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I"m surprised the list doesn't have "gratitude" at the #1 position |
renate |
Feb-19-07 01:44 AM |
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Hmm |
undergroundpanther |
Feb-19-07 03:04 AM |
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This all sounds good until you get to your dysfunctional workplace.. |
B Calm |
Feb-19-07 05:36 AM |
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Amen to that |
BluePatriot |
Feb-19-07 11:51 AM |
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Within the first hour at work today I forgot the lessons in the OP. |
B Calm |
Feb-19-07 04:51 PM |
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It's a new day... Maybe it'll be different.... |
B Calm |
Feb-20-07 05:31 AM |
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I get lots of emails about this - apparently happiness involves bigger boobs and a better erection. |
progressoid |
Feb-19-07 07:26 AM |
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Very Zen. |
Boogie |
Feb-19-07 07:31 AM |
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Thanks for posting this, Az! |
Karenina |
Feb-19-07 08:28 AM |
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Hmmm. So the key to happiness is giving up? |
bryant69 |
Feb-19-07 08:32 AM |
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more like "non-attachment" -- eschew "maya" or illusion |
nashville_brook |
Feb-19-07 12:49 PM |
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What about number two? |
Unca Jim |
Feb-19-07 09:39 AM |
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Welcome to DU |
NobleCynic |
Feb-19-07 01:30 PM |
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Interesting ... |
Everybody |
Feb-19-07 09:41 AM |
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So that's why we're all crazy |
NoMoreMyths |
Feb-19-07 09:57 AM |
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I wish I had been less focused on goals when I was younger. |
wildeyed |
Feb-19-07 10:40 AM |
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no worries about global warming, peak oil and the oil wars |
rman |
Feb-19-07 12:25 PM |
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And...... |
demrabble |
Feb-19-07 12:51 PM |
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Another road to happiness... |
cooolandrew |
Feb-19-07 02:39 PM |
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Just had a major cancer scare and major surgery at 42 |
Carni |
Feb-19-07 08:15 PM |
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"Happiness" is ill-defined |
dmesg |
Feb-19-07 10:34 PM |
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I get sad thinking about happiness. Striving for contentment makes me anxious. |
autorank |
Feb-20-07 05:19 AM |
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Agreed. Try doing something nice for someone, just to have done so. |
Peake |
Feb-20-07 08:33 AM |
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