Reply #34: That may be a bad analogy.

[Zueda]

Due to the fact that when I find bad eggs in the fridge it's straight to the garbage bin for me. ;)

I understand where you are coming from though, but I personally have never been in the position as say the biological father of this girl.

I easily see how it could be seen as a crime to let these people walk in the eyes of the victims family. True, many people are able to forgive and I have the utmost regards for people who do. I suspect that my agnostic beliefs play a role in my thought process on issue as these.