Reply #241: In reality, on that particular thread it became hard to tell where the hostility was coming from and

[DuaneBidoux]

who it was going to. After a while it seemed a little like one of those cartoon images of a fight where you see this cloud of dust and debris and know something bad is going on inside. Then occasionally you see a claw or a head come flying out before diving back in.

I realized it was a sensitive issue and did begin to feel I didn't have the right to even be discussing it with these people who had obviously suffered a great deal in a way that I could only guess at.