Reply #62: It's not really something to "agree with"

[noamnety]

My reaction isn't up for debate, any more than yours is. I think it makes more sense to acknowledge that we have different reactions, than to say you "don't agree" with my reaction.

When women find out they have been surveilled, with cameras zooming in on their asses or breasts, often they're upset and feel violated. Even IF they were walking around in public. I wish men could accept that instead of denying it.

There's a difference in viewpoint in general I think (that part can be up for debate, but yours and my reaction follow what the pattern I'm claiming, for what it's worth) where women feel it's an invasion of privacy and offensive, and men feel it's their right to do it.

It's sort of like going under anesthesia for an operation. Women want to know they aren't being groped - even if they are unconscious and not injured in the process, and would not find out. "None the wiser" isn't the standard for women, but it does seem to be the male standard for testing whether behavior is considered acceptable and polite.