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Sun Sep-02-07 04:07 PM
Response to Reply #68 |
| 83. You Are SERIOUSLY Misinformed, And Need to Stop Giving Sexual Advice. |
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Gay men looking for sex in bathrooms - the risky behavior you're talking about - have learned a long, hard lesson throughout the entire AIDS epidemic to practice safe sex. You may regard them as perverted, but they are NOT stupid, and they realize that sex with strangers can be dangerous...so by and large, they take precautions.
Thousands of people get STDs every day from people they know well, or thought they knew well. THOSE are the people not practicing safe sex, because they believed they didn't have to. They are often in for a rude awakening. And, needless to say, gay men engaged in "risky behavior" with other gay men are responsible for zero percent of the unwanted pregnancies in this or any other country. Why you even included that in your argument is puzzling at best.
Lastly, bringing up children's safety in restrooms during a discussion of adult men looking for sex from adult men in restrooms ABSOLUTELY links homosexuality to pedophilia, and you'd have to be incredibly thick not to see that. I've got news for you: your precious son has a much better chance of getting an STD from his first girlfriend than he has of being propositioned by a man in a men's room. Those who bring children into a discussion involving adult gay men are indulging their secret fears that all gay men are child-molesting predators. Deny it all you want; it's ignorant and stupid thinking...not to mention incredibly insulting to the gay community.
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| -Can you imagine how the wives of closeted homosexual men must feel? |
Herman Munster |
Sep-02-07 11:36 AM |
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Rock bottom is when they fall in love with one of them, |
Warpy |
Sep-02-07 11:39 AM |
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Craig married a women with children |
malaise |
Sep-02-07 11:42 AM |
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I don't see how they could have "missed it"... |
ret5hd |
Sep-02-07 11:44 AM |
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Has Mrs. Craig acknolwledged she wasted her life? |
madeline_con |
Sep-02-07 11:29 PM |
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That was the first thought I had. How very sad and what a |
Raven |
Sep-02-07 11:41 AM |
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Oh, come on. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 11:42 AM |
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... |
xchrom |
Sep-02-07 11:51 AM |
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Bravo. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 11:55 AM |
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Love goes on. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:10 PM |
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Indeed. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 12:31 PM |
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You do understand that implicit in the realization is the acknowledgment |
NCevilDUer |
Sep-02-07 12:16 PM |
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And you DO realize there are worse things in the world? (nt) |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:17 PM |
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I guess the rationalization is that worse things can happen so get over it already. |
Katherine Brengle |
Sep-02-07 01:15 PM |
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Try reading the OM. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 02:12 PM |
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My friend Barb just found out her husband has three months to live. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-02-07 12:36 PM |
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And for herself, probably, too. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:48 PM |
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A friend of mine came out not that long ago. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-02-07 12:54 PM |
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Wouldn't allow her? |
madeline_con |
Sep-02-07 11:32 PM |
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Um, hold up there just a minute. This sort of thing destroys |
amitten |
Sep-02-07 01:19 PM |
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Anyone Gullible Enough To Fall For The Right Wing BS |
lligrd |
Sep-02-07 11:43 AM |
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It happened to my cousin |
deadmessengers |
Sep-02-07 11:45 AM |
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Happened to a coworker of mine |
Bjornsdotter |
Sep-02-07 12:47 PM |
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Must be bad for a husband, too, to find out his wife is a lesbian |
treestar |
Sep-02-07 11:45 AM |
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There was a great documentary of a woman pastor who came out |
sfexpat2000 |
Sep-02-07 12:00 PM |
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We fix society |
MuseRider |
Sep-02-07 12:01 PM |
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Speaking for myself, that would've been far easier than 'ordinary' infidelity. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 12:05 PM |
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Good point. |
NCevilDUer |
Sep-02-07 12:19 PM |
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Really? |
quantessd |
Sep-02-07 04:44 PM |
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That presumes something not said. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 11:12 PM |
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Lots worse things than being a man married to a lesbian, too. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:09 PM |
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Because it's oh-so typical of gay men to have anonymous sex at truckstops? |
BlooInBloo |
Sep-02-07 11:47 AM |
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and to bring back home to you god knows what sexually transmitted diseases. |
uppityperson |
Sep-03-07 12:10 AM |
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He married one of his staffers. |
uberblonde |
Sep-02-07 11:51 AM |
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And Why Do We Keep Insisting He Is Gay? |
lligrd |
Sep-02-07 11:52 AM |
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It's the toxic pill in PottyGate ... irrelevant. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 11:57 AM |
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What would be perverted |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:12 PM |
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Their Politics Are Perverted And I Have No Doubt That Their Sex |
lligrd |
Sep-02-07 12:17 PM |
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As far as I know, he has not been accused of abusing his power or molesting pages. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:19 PM |
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Peeping into toilet stalls sounds pretty perverted to me. |
NCevilDUer |
Sep-02-07 12:21 PM |
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Oh, for cryin' out loud. He wasn't charged with that. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:27 PM |
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Think You Are Preaching To The Wrong Crowd |
lligrd |
Sep-02-07 12:53 PM |
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It's perverted behavior |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 01:19 PM |
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YES HE WAS |
TorchTheWitch |
Sep-02-07 01:44 PM |
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Back in the 80's |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 12:29 PM |
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Yes, he was implicated in a page scandal in 1982, which "went away" and |
OmmmSweetOmmm |
Sep-02-07 12:56 PM |
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He can't be a pervert |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 12:21 PM |
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happened to a friend of mine..it was awful when he told her..but all their friends knew.. |
flyarm |
Sep-02-07 11:57 AM |
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Why do you assume he wasn't practicing safe-sex? n/t |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 11:58 AM |
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I've noticed that many assumptions have been made on some threads I have read. |
Link93 |
Sep-02-07 12:09 PM |
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Obviously, you're not alone. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 12:34 PM |
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Welcome to Homophobia Central |
alcibiades_mystery |
Sep-03-07 12:16 AM |
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Well, you know how self-centered and impulsive all those GAYS are. |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:17 PM |
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Yes, they are telling. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 12:40 PM |
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I just want my son to be safe when he uses the men's room. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-02-07 12:55 PM |
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He probably should be on the lookout |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 01:05 PM |
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Trolling for strangers for one-night stand (or less) hookups is never safe behavior. |
BadgerLaw2010 |
Sep-02-07 12:20 PM |
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My question still stands. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 12:42 PM |
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Take it as an insult if you choose to |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 01:04 PM |
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I said nothing about anyone's sexual identity. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 01:11 PM |
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Because it's unsafe behavior |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 01:14 PM |
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What is clear |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 01:16 PM |
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Yeah, that's just what I said |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 01:20 PM |
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Well, then my question still stands: |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 01:26 PM |
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Are you saying 100% of people practice safe sex? |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 01:33 PM |
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No, I was asking you if 100% of people who engage in risky behavior don't practice safe-sex. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 01:41 PM |
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Nobody said that |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 02:00 PM |
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Here's what you said: |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 02:07 PM |
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"notoriously" |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 02:18 PM |
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So the number is not 100%? |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 02:20 PM |
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Because liars and cheaters |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 02:24 PM |
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Condoms have been proven to be an effective means in preventing STDs. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 02:31 PM |
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come on |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 02:36 PM |
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That's not my style. |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 11:32 PM |
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Exactly. |
lligrd |
Sep-02-07 02:41 PM |
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Jack Beck is the shizzit. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-02-07 10:15 PM |
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It's true--JackBeck is that good. |
swimboy |
Sep-02-07 10:27 PM |
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School starts on Tuesday. PRAISE GOD. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-02-07 10:36 PM |
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Dang - Been Doing That All Week (Or Is That Weak) |
lligrd |
Sep-02-07 11:20 PM |
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Debate versus argument. |
JackBeck |
Sep-03-07 12:08 AM |
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You Are SERIOUSLY Misinformed, And Need to Stop Giving Sexual Advice. |
Toasterlad |
Sep-02-07 04:07 PM |
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Please add this to your journal, Toasterlad |
swimboy |
Sep-02-07 10:30 PM |
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Done! |
Toasterlad |
Sep-02-07 11:03 PM |
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What kind of sex was going on in the Minneapolis airport for children to "walk in on"? |
Bluebear |
Sep-02-07 08:12 PM |
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This is the thing that amazes me. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-02-07 10:36 PM |
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I think it's always fair to be concerned about STDs when your partner cheats - |
Katherine Brengle |
Sep-02-07 01:17 PM |
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I'd be less concerned |
JackBeck |
Sep-02-07 01:28 PM |
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I wouldn't. They already lied, right? No room for trust there. |
Katherine Brengle |
Sep-02-07 01:32 PM |
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To insert a bit of levity... |
Withywindle |
Sep-02-07 11:58 AM |
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Did everyone on DU forget that bisexual people exist? |
Beelzebud |
Sep-02-07 12:03 PM |
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Far more exists in our heads and hearts than is routed through our fingers to the keyboard. |
TahitiNut |
Sep-02-07 12:08 PM |
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Probably gong to get flamed, but I doubt that goes over well as a "surprise" either. |
BadgerLaw2010 |
Sep-02-07 12:14 PM |
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I would be surprised if Craig EVER had sex with his wife. |
iamahaingttta |
Sep-02-07 12:17 PM |
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Being bisexual doesn't give you a "get out of cheating" free card. |
Katherine Brengle |
Sep-02-07 01:37 PM |
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Or meeting up with prostitutes |
sandnsea |
Sep-02-07 12:10 PM |
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Yes Goody Sandnsea |
Puglover |
Sep-02-07 02:53 PM |
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Praise God. n/t |
swimboy |
Sep-02-07 10:31 PM |
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I know how it feels because I was one. |
sparosnare |
Sep-02-07 12:31 PM |
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Did you find some empathy for him, eventually? |
Heidi |
Sep-02-07 12:51 PM |
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In Craig's case his wife did have some clue |
dsc |
Sep-02-07 01:03 PM |
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Let's see if I understand this |
chaumont58 |
Sep-02-07 02:31 PM |
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Being married to a closeted gay does seem worse, in many ways. |
quantessd |
Sep-02-07 04:18 PM |
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Can you imagine how the husbands of closeted homosexual women must feel? |
Retired AF Dem |
Sep-02-07 04:10 PM |
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I'd Imagine It's Horrible for Both. |
Toasterlad |
Sep-02-07 04:18 PM |
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Oh, I dunno |
Chovexani |
Sep-02-07 11:13 PM |
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They must feel like suing the gaydar manufacturer |
entanglement |
Sep-03-07 12:28 AM |
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