| 56. Thank you, that is great news. |
|
I hope the police will provide my sister-in-law with the information we so desperately need.
|
| -Need help, my niece is missing. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 01:30 PM |
#0 |
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K & R - I have no answers but let's keep this thread visible. |
helderheid |
Aug-23-07 01:31 PM |
#1 |
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Cell phones can be roughly located if they are on |
slackmaster |
Aug-23-07 01:32 PM |
#2 |
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I'm so sorry, demgurl. |
SeattleGirl |
Aug-23-07 01:33 PM |
#3 |
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Does the boyfriend have a job? Sooner or later he may have to go to work |
SoCalDem |
Aug-23-07 01:34 PM |
#4 |
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Not sure if he has a job but I ..... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 03:35 PM |
#40 |
| -
K&R.... |
Hepburn |
Aug-23-07 01:35 PM |
#5 |
| -
Mom needs to contact the police |
Mz Pip |
Aug-23-07 01:35 PM |
#6 |
| -
They have placed a run away report with them. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 03:40 PM |
#41 |
| -
no specific advice, but best wishes |
northernsoul |
Aug-23-07 01:37 PM |
#7 |
| -
Sorry about your situation. Do you think this 'running away' thing is because of the |
sinkingfeeling |
Aug-23-07 01:39 PM |
#8 |
| -
No, I do not. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 03:48 PM |
#43 |
| -
Have you (or her parents) been able to contact the |
leftynyc |
Aug-23-07 01:40 PM |
#9 |
| -
My sister-in-law contacted the boyfriend, but.... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 03:52 PM |
#45 |
| -
If your sister-in-law is one of the 'bad guys', they'll all lie. |
Dr_eldritch |
Aug-23-07 04:42 PM |
#65 |
| -
Well she certainly has been permissable.... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 05:26 PM |
#79 |
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That does not sound good. Has the husband ever been violent? |
JDPriestly |
Aug-23-07 09:24 PM |
#112 |
| -
The family NEVER gives us a full story..... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 11:09 AM |
#144 |
| -
Radical thought |
Dan |
Aug-23-07 10:01 PM |
#117 |
| -
I wish I could. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 11:20 AM |
#146 |
| -
Leave her another message......... |
shaniqua6392 |
Aug-23-07 01:40 PM |
#10 |
| -
That's wonderful advice |
leftynyc |
Aug-23-07 03:27 PM |
#39 |
| -
Thanks so much... |
shaniqua6392 |
Aug-23-07 04:35 PM |
#61 |
| -
What a beautiful post. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 11:27 AM |
#147 |
| -
start spreading the word through emails and sites like |
soothsayer |
Aug-23-07 01:41 PM |
#11 |
| -
I am passing on this site to my sister-in-law. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 03:57 PM |
#46 |
| -
Yes the cops can trace her through her cell phone |
proud2Blib |
Aug-23-07 01:41 PM |
#12 |
| -
Thank you for this confirmation. I have my husband ..... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 03:58 PM |
#47 |
| -
Don't get yourself into any trouble trying to help out. |
porphyrian |
Aug-23-07 01:41 PM |
#13 |
| -
or if she's depressed or suicidal---worth stepping it up for that |
soothsayer |
Aug-23-07 02:30 PM |
#31 |
| -
Right, good point. (...and right again.) - n/t |
porphyrian |
Aug-23-07 02:40 PM |
#34 |
| -
She could be in danger..... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:05 PM |
#48 |
| -
Yeah, that sounds like a touchy situation. |
porphyrian |
Aug-23-07 05:44 PM |
#83 |
| -
We will be very careful.............. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:19 PM |
#152 |
| -
Good. Good luck, and keep us posted. - n/t |
porphyrian |
Aug-24-07 03:03 PM |
#161 |
| -
Technically you have no standing in the matter |
AikidoSoul |
Aug-23-07 07:43 PM |
#98 |
| -
She has been reported to the police but they seem to have..... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:25 PM |
#154 |
| -
Tracing through the cell phone. |
Xithras |
Aug-23-07 01:44 PM |
#14 |
| -
There was at least mental abuse.... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:10 PM |
#49 |
| -
That begs an important question. |
Xithras |
Aug-23-07 05:05 PM |
#77 |
| -
No, what my husband and I would like is for her to come to our house. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 05:37 PM |
#81 |
| -
Let her know, via message, that she is welcome, you are non-judgemental, and |
uppityperson |
Aug-23-07 07:42 PM |
#97 |
| -
uppity.... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 11:15 AM |
#145 |
| -
It may be a better alternative than psychosis. |
Artiechoke |
Aug-24-07 03:29 AM |
#129 |
| -
Also, you might want to contact Social Services or |
Artiechoke |
Aug-24-07 03:48 AM |
#130 |
| -
Well, I am not so sure his family is that great. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:23 PM |
#153 |
| -
If there was mental abuse |
bluescribbler |
Aug-24-07 12:09 PM |
#149 |
| -
I would not put it past him. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:30 PM |
#155 |
| -
Well described Xithras N/T |
AikidoSoul |
Aug-23-07 07:46 PM |
#99 |
| -
Does her cell phone have a GTM feature? If so, she can be tracked via satellite. |
no_hypocrisy |
Aug-23-07 01:45 PM |
#15 |
| -
k&r |
BlooInBloo |
Aug-23-07 01:45 PM |
#16 |
| -
She can alsobe traced by creditcard purchases, |
pennylane100 |
Aug-23-07 01:47 PM |
#17 |
| -
I'm not sure she, or her boyfriend, have a credit card. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:19 PM |
#51 |
| -
Yes, the cellphone can be located |
jberryhill |
Aug-23-07 01:47 PM |
#18 |
| -
or she may have ditched it knowing it can be traced. |
bananas |
Aug-23-07 01:52 PM |
#20 |
| -
Find the boyfriend and you may find the girl.... |
Blackhatjack |
Aug-23-07 01:51 PM |
#19 |
| -
Yes, the police visited his Grandmother's house. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:21 PM |
#53 |
| -
Be careful doing this |
Sherman A1 |
Aug-23-07 11:06 PM |
#119 |
| -
When Your Child Is Missing: Family Survival Guide |
soothsayer |
Aug-23-07 01:54 PM |
#21 |
| -
THANK YOU SO MUCH, |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:26 PM |
#55 |
| -
Can she receive text messages? IF SO, get one of her friends to text her.... |
Blackhatjack |
Aug-23-07 06:13 PM |
#88 |
| -
You need to get a friend to send her a text message if her phone will receive it.... |
Blackhatjack |
Aug-23-07 09:05 PM |
#108 |
| -
Blackhatjack.... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:39 PM |
#156 |
| -
Big human interest story a few months ago. |
yella_dawg |
Aug-23-07 01:54 PM |
#22 |
| -
Thank you, that is great news. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:28 PM |
#56 |
| -
i remember that story. i was amazed at how quickly they located that boy. n/t |
orleans |
Aug-23-07 04:43 PM |
#66 |
| -
Happened in a recent kidnapping, too |
OzarkDem |
Aug-23-07 04:55 PM |
#73 |
| -
I'm so sorry Demgurl... |
TwoSparkles |
Aug-23-07 01:56 PM |
#23 |
| -
Sparkles, your words mean a lot. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:30 PM |
#57 |
| -
K--I can't really offer advice, but let's keep this kicked up. nt |
blondeatlast |
Aug-23-07 01:59 PM |
#24 |
| -
K &R n/t |
Highway61 |
Aug-23-07 02:02 PM |
#25 |
| -
i thought |
druidity33 |
Aug-23-07 02:06 PM |
#26 |
| -
If ANYONE knows where to look for this, please let me know. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:32 PM |
#58 |
| -
i googled |
druidity33 |
Aug-23-07 06:47 PM |
#89 |
| -
In this case that does NOT appear funny. |
liberaldemocrat7 |
Aug-24-07 04:43 AM |
#131 |
| -
hey sorry |
druidity33 |
Aug-24-07 05:55 AM |
#132 |
| -
Thanks for the warning. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:41 PM |
#157 |
| -
Why Would She Run Away |
Madspirit |
Aug-23-07 02:07 PM |
#27 |
| -
No yelling at all, Lee. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:39 PM |
#63 |
| -
Yup! |
Madspirit |
Aug-23-07 04:44 PM |
#67 |
| -
Thank you. I hope I can find her. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:50 PM |
#72 |
| -
Demgurl...how is it going? |
TwoSparkles |
Aug-24-07 08:33 AM |
#135 |
| -
You're words mean so much.... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 12:46 PM |
#158 |
| -
She's sixteen and ran away with boyfriend |
salinen |
Aug-23-07 02:09 PM |
#28 |
| -
k & r. n/t |
veness |
Aug-23-07 02:11 PM |
#29 |
| -
K & R |
Arkansas Granny |
Aug-23-07 02:12 PM |
#30 |
| -
Most phones have GPS. I don't know how long you have to wait but I think the FBI could |
OmmmSweetOmmm |
Aug-23-07 02:33 PM |
#32 |
| -
Thanks, Sweet. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:40 PM |
#64 |
| -
You're welcomed demgurl and yes, I am the "mommy" to these kitties! Amy is 4 and having a hard time |
OmmmSweetOmmm |
Aug-23-07 06:57 PM |
#92 |
| -
You have two beautiful babies. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 05:11 PM |
#166 |
| -
kicked.. but no advice.. sorry :( |
cbear70 |
Aug-23-07 02:39 PM |
#33 |
| -
There's a National Runaway Hotline, too |
soothsayer |
Aug-23-07 02:41 PM |
#35 |
| -
Thank you!!!!!!!!! |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:45 PM |
#69 |
| -
Been there, wept those tears, lived those fears.Practical advice here... |
Hekate |
Aug-23-07 02:50 PM |
#36 |
| -
Hekate... |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:49 PM |
#71 |
| -
Contact her friends and the boyfriend's family |
GloriaSmith |
Aug-23-07 02:58 PM |
#37 |
| -
The boyfriend has a car but she does not. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 04:57 PM |
#74 |
| -
If you need any extra hands to deal with stuff, let me know. |
knitter4democracy |
Aug-23-07 03:00 PM |
#38 |
| -
I can't help, but kick. |
Katherine Brengle |
Aug-23-07 03:44 PM |
#42 |
| -
I'll say a prayer for her |
mdmc |
Aug-23-07 03:49 PM |
#44 |
| -
Thank you. |
demgurl |
Aug-23-07 05:38 PM |
#82 |
| -
A couple of points... |
The Vinyl Ripper |
Aug-23-07 04:17 PM |
#50 |
| -
keeping kicked |
buddyhollysghost |
Aug-23-07 04:20 PM |
#52 |
| -
Why I love DU: We can rip each other to shreds over social/political issues |
blondeatlast |
Aug-23-07 04:24 PM |
#54 |
| -
Heh, just like a typical family |
OzarkDem |
Aug-23-07 05:01 PM |
#75 |
| -
If you'd really like to do something, start by taking a deep breath... |
Dr_eldritch |
Aug-23-07 04:32 PM |
#59 |
| -
How about tracking her cell phone use online? |
rosesaylavee |
Aug-23-07 04:35 PM |
#60 |
| -
Yep. Most cell plans let you view statements on line. |
Dr_eldritch |
Aug-23-07 04:39 PM |
#62 |
| -
parental nightmare...she's probably fine |
spanone |
Aug-23-07 04:45 PM |
#68 |
| -
I'll have to agree. |
rucky |
Aug-23-07 04:48 PM |
#70 |
| -
Does she, the boyfriend or any of their friends |
OzarkDem |
Aug-23-07 05:03 PM |
#76 |
| -
lots of great ideas in this thread |
welshTerrier2 |
Aug-23-07 05:10 PM |
#78 |
| -
K&R n/m |
frebrd |
Aug-23-07 05:28 PM |
#80 |
| -
Go find a pay phone |
MassDemm |
Aug-23-07 05:47 PM |
#84 |
| -
Great idea! |
MelissaB |
Aug-24-07 10:40 AM |
#143 |
| -
Kick n/t |
bonito |
Aug-23-07 06:05 PM |
#85 |
| -
All the best to you and your family. |
AzDar |
Aug-23-07 06:07 PM |
#86 |
| -
k&r...n/t |
Madspirit |
Aug-23-07 06:13 PM |
#87 |
| -
She's in my prayers... |
djjimz |
Aug-23-07 06:49 PM |
#90 |
| -
I hope she's found soon |
cally |
Aug-23-07 06:51 PM |
#91 |
| -
Maybe one of her friends know(s), or I would keep an eye on any |
stop the bleeding |
Aug-23-07 06:59 PM |
#93 |
| -
kick |
BlueCollar |
Aug-23-07 07:35 PM |
#94 |
| -
If I were you - |
mzteris |
Aug-23-07 07:38 PM |
#95 |
| -
Kick |
seasonedblue |
Aug-23-07 07:42 PM |
#96 |
| -
It's critical to get the cops and phone company to trace before the battery goes dead! |
Liberty Belle |
Aug-23-07 07:50 PM |
#100 |
| -
I **think** a cell phone that's on can be traced. |
Husb2Sparkly |
Aug-23-07 08:12 PM |
#101 |
| -
LAURA RECOVERY CENTER FOR MISSING CHILDREN can help you.... |
texanshatingbush |
Aug-23-07 08:21 PM |
#102 |
| -
Hey, I am so sorry. I hope she is found safe and ready to return home. |
Ilsa |
Aug-23-07 08:30 PM |
#103 |
| -
any update yet? |
pitohui |
Aug-23-07 08:30 PM |
#104 |
| -
Yes please update us when you get a chance |
The Witch |
Aug-23-07 09:29 PM |
#115 |
| -
Keeping it kicked. n/t |
I Have A Dream |
Aug-23-07 09:36 PM |
#116 |
| -
Center for Missing and Exploited Children advice for parents of runaways here |
nytemare |
Aug-23-07 08:31 PM |
#105 |
| -
Call all her friends and their parents. Someone knows where she is. |
MsRedacted |
Aug-23-07 08:36 PM |
#106 |
| -
Good idea. That's probly the best way to go right now. |
AJ9000 |
Aug-23-07 11:45 PM |
#123 |
| -
God help you and your niece's parents. |
Ken Burch |
Aug-23-07 08:49 PM |
#107 |
| -
Thank you, Ken. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 04:16 PM |
#164 |
| -
I don't know if this will help, but... |
Autumn Colors |
Aug-23-07 09:08 PM |
#109 |
| -
Is her boyfriend a good guy? |
JDPriestly |
Aug-23-07 09:19 PM |
#110 |
| -
Good question...... and, is the boyfriend concerned? |
liberalla |
Aug-24-07 06:15 AM |
#133 |
| -
One thing is sure |
SydneyBristow |
Aug-23-07 09:22 PM |
#111 |
| -
I am so sorry. Any idea where they would run to? |
illinoisprogressive |
Aug-23-07 09:25 PM |
#113 |
| -
K&R. I can't imagine what this must be like |
The Witch |
Aug-23-07 09:28 PM |
#114 |
| -
I know who can find her. |
Auntie Bush |
Aug-23-07 10:34 PM |
#118 |
| -
..unless she's with bin laden, then he'll have no freakin' clue. |
soothsayer |
Aug-23-07 11:24 PM |
#121 |
| -
K&R |
Cabcere |
Aug-23-07 11:08 PM |
#120 |
| -
Depending on the capabilities of the cell phone |
AJ9000 |
Aug-23-07 11:43 PM |
#122 |
| -
kicking |
yorkiemommie1 |
Aug-24-07 12:00 AM |
#124 |
| -
Not enough information in the OP. |
Hoof Hearted |
Aug-24-07 12:28 AM |
#125 |
| -
Read the rest of the thread to get a lot more information about the situation. |
Elrond Hubbard |
Aug-24-07 10:17 AM |
#141 |
| -
K&R |
Kiouni |
Aug-24-07 02:31 AM |
#126 |
| -
thinking of you and your niece .... |
shireen |
Aug-24-07 02:46 AM |
#127 |
| -
It sounds to me like you and your husband should take... |
FormerOstrich |
Aug-24-07 03:15 AM |
#128 |
| -
K&R |
drm604 |
Aug-24-07 07:34 AM |
#134 |
| -
K&R for Demgurl and her niece... (nt) |
TwoSparkles |
Aug-24-07 08:34 AM |
#136 |
| -
I'm so sorry demgurl... |
youthere |
Aug-24-07 08:44 AM |
#137 |
| -
Any news yet? - n/t |
porphyrian |
Aug-24-07 08:46 AM |
#138 |
| -
Ditto |
malaise |
Aug-24-07 08:52 AM |
#139 |
| -
kick |
ceile |
Aug-24-07 09:23 AM |
#140 |
| -
Reading the thread, and having had the joy of a verbally abusive stepfather as a teen... |
Elrond Hubbard |
Aug-24-07 10:20 AM |
#142 |
| -
Elrond....... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 05:18 PM |
#169 |
| -
Please keep us informed. |
Elrond Hubbard |
Aug-24-07 08:57 PM |
#178 |
| -
how awful. i am sorry. |
buddhamama |
Aug-24-07 11:28 AM |
#148 |
| -
I'm so sorry, Demgurl.... |
Zookeeper |
Aug-24-07 12:12 PM |
#150 |
| -
Could you please PM me ASAP? |
CraftyGal |
Aug-24-07 12:17 PM |
#151 |
| -
Kicking nt |
blondeatlast |
Aug-24-07 12:59 PM |
#159 |
| -
Another kick. |
Janice325 |
Aug-24-07 01:41 PM |
#160 |
| -
UPDATE FOR ALL WHO ASKED..... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 04:11 PM |
#162 |
| -
Oh no. That's all not good. |
knitter4democracy |
Aug-24-07 04:14 PM |
#163 |
| -
The police are involved and.... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 07:01 PM |
#170 |
| -
PM me if you need help. |
knitter4democracy |
Aug-24-07 08:34 PM |
#176 |
| -
Thank you, that means a lot. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 09:06 PM |
#180 |
| -
I mean it, too. |
knitter4democracy |
Aug-25-07 09:38 AM |
#191 |
| -
THE SITUATION IS WORSE THAN I THOUGHT...... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 05:07 PM |
#165 |
| -
Hang in there, and check back with us when you can and/or need to. - n/t |
porphyrian |
Aug-24-07 05:14 PM |
#168 |
| -
HER PHONE WAS SHUT OFF |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 05:13 PM |
#167 |
| -
Safety and Protection to your beloved niece.... |
Shine |
Aug-24-07 07:04 PM |
#171 |
| -
Thank you. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 07:22 PM |
#173 |
| -
Shut off as in she turned it off or the service has been |
mountainvue |
Aug-24-07 07:33 PM |
#174 |
| -
That was the term my husband used.... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 08:29 PM |
#175 |
| -
I think I would stake out the grandmother's house |
mountainvue |
Aug-24-07 07:15 PM |
#172 |
| -
I think the grandmother IS the way to go......... |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 08:53 PM |
#177 |
| -
sounds like you have a plan. i'm prayin for you |
The Witch |
Aug-24-07 10:29 PM |
#182 |
| -
I used to work with street kids, and every large city has an agency or two |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Aug-24-07 09:06 PM |
#179 |
| -
My husband is putting up posters so I will have him do that. |
demgurl |
Aug-24-07 09:21 PM |
#181 |
| -
Hang in there! Sounds like you're doing the best you can. Do keep us posted. |
soothsayer |
Aug-24-07 11:24 PM |
#184 |
| -
Demgurl... |
TwoSparkles |
Aug-25-07 06:35 PM |
#195 |
| -
K&R |
AZBlue |
Aug-24-07 10:50 PM |
#183 |
| -
k n/t |
twenty4blackbirds |
Aug-25-07 12:11 AM |
#185 |
| -
Checking back in... sorry you haven't found her |
AikidoSoul |
Aug-25-07 12:17 AM |
#186 |
| -
Kick. |
Starbucks Anarchist |
Aug-25-07 12:47 AM |
#187 |
| -
A late night kick |
buddyhollysghost |
Aug-25-07 02:11 AM |
#188 |
| -
Just checking and kicking this. You and your niece are in my thoughts. |
Hekate |
Aug-25-07 02:43 AM |
#189 |
| -
It sounds like this girls took the lesser of evils |
comtec |
Aug-25-07 06:05 AM |
#190 |
| -
Just checking in to see if there is any news. |
Janice325 |
Aug-25-07 09:45 AM |
#192 |
| -
New updated thread here: |
Artiechoke |
Aug-25-07 10:07 AM |
#193 |
| -
Thank you! |
Janice325 |
Aug-25-07 04:28 PM |
#194 |
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