Reply #85: I know I'm stepping into a shit pile here, but if you weigh 500 lbs.,

[TwilightGardener]

you're not just VERY unhealthy physically, you've also got to have some mental/emotional issues as well. For God's sake, take responsibility for your own mental and physical well-being BEFORE you opt to undertake the responsibility of raising a child (or more children)--there's my offering of common sense for the day.