| -OK, DU women - am I the only one who gets creeped out by... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 03:11 PM |
#0 |
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My gods, who would defend THAT? |
benburch |
Apr-02-06 03:13 PM |
#1 |
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Lots of stupid adolescent males do |
Warpy |
Apr-02-06 03:33 PM |
#16 |
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I never thought that when I was a teen. |
benburch |
Apr-02-06 04:23 PM |
#40 |
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Well, the operative word was "lots of," and that's something |
Warpy |
Apr-02-06 04:55 PM |
#66 |
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State legislators in a few states |
MountainLaurel |
Apr-02-06 07:42 PM |
#130 |
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Men... |
lumberjack_jeff |
Apr-02-06 09:16 PM |
#156 |
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Creeped out? Yes. Surprised? No. |
Nikki Stone1 |
Apr-02-06 03:13 PM |
#2 |
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Hey! Great pick up line: "Fork it over!" That's a sure-fire winner! |
joemurphy |
Apr-02-06 03:17 PM |
#3 |
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And what you'd win is a big punch in the nose that would knock you flat. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 03:20 PM |
#5 |
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I've stayed out of those threads... |
Jigarotta |
Apr-02-06 03:17 PM |
#4 |
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A woman defends the idea: There is a choice to be made, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 03:22 PM |
#6 |
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In that case, I'd pick the 3rd choice - divorce. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 03:36 PM |
#17 |
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Exactly my point. If she didn't want to have sex with her husband |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 03:46 PM |
#22 |
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Is marriage only about sex, then? |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 03:57 PM |
#27 |
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WOW, that's quite a misrepresentation of my views. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:10 PM |
#33 |
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Because if the partner who is saying no has psychological issues... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 04:27 PM |
#44 |
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No, but I don't want to have a sexless life just because my spouse |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:36 PM |
#49 |
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And that's where it comes down to irreconcilable differences. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 04:46 PM |
#58 |
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Gee, I'm so confused, I thought you said sex shouldn't be the |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:53 PM |
#63 |
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I didn't say sex should be the basis of divorce, I said incompatibility... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 05:09 PM |
#78 |
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Sorry, can't respond to this, you have too many personal |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:13 PM |
#82 |
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I didn't say that evolution of sexuality wasn't complicated. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 05:39 PM |
#98 |
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I simply don't see that hard wiring you speak of, it is a religious choice |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:09 PM |
#119 |
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Actually, women are as hard wired for infidelity and polyandry as men are. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:26 PM |
#122 |
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Polygamy, monogamy, I was not using in terms of gender; |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:36 PM |
#125 |
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That's incorrect. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:46 PM |
#131 |
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Wow, I don't need a man to keep my children alive. That was a few |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:48 PM |
#132 |
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So is fight or flight. Do you still get scared in a dark alley at night? |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:49 PM |
#134 |
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Fight or Flight? What are you referring to? Just because |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:58 PM |
#136 |
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Fight or flight is an evolutionary instinct for self preservation. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:02 PM |
#137 |
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I am a woman, one that has EVOLVED. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 08:10 PM |
#139 |
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We still have residual evolutionary traits even when we don't need them. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:22 PM |
#142 |
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I have evolved past fight or flight, I settle into anxiety then solution. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 08:48 PM |
#148 |
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Your anxiety is CAUSED by fight or flight. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:52 PM |
#150 |
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No, its caused by stress; flight or fight is a response to stress, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 09:09 PM |
#153 |
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A biochemical reaction can't be controlled by after the fact thought. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 09:14 PM |
#155 |
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Then I have evolved past it. I don't feel fight or flight even |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 09:28 PM |
#161 |
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Freezing is evolutionary behavior and part of the fight or flight response |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 09:31 PM |
#163 |
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Based on your opinion, should I assume then, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:41 PM |
#53 |
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When does a partner gain control of MY body, and gain the right to say.. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 04:53 PM |
#62 |
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Wow, I didn't see anything about their being specific acts being |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:57 PM |
#68 |
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Infidelity spells doom for a relationship. Very few marriages can... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 06:04 PM |
#108 |
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I would say this has more to do with social pressure, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:14 PM |
#120 |
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Statistics show that most marriages in which infidelity is a factor do... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:32 PM |
#124 |
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Statistics don't exclude social, familial, and religious pressures. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:38 PM |
#127 |
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OK, and where did religion come from? A vacuum? |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:49 PM |
#133 |
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Fear, Hope, and Churches that wanted money in their coffers. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 08:14 PM |
#140 |
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??? |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:25 PM |
#143 |
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Yes, but your question regarded religion, not evolution. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 08:49 PM |
#149 |
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Sigh. The point I was making is that religion itself is a reflection of.. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:54 PM |
#151 |
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No, it isn't. Its a reflection of men trying to control women. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 09:21 PM |
#158 |
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You misunderstand what I said. I was not defending religion. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 09:24 PM |
#159 |
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I agree with everything you are saying here |
IntiRaymi |
Apr-02-06 07:28 PM |
#123 |
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I agree with due process. And yes, any accusing party must prove their... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:38 PM |
#126 |
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In this case however, the jury suggests that the deciding factor |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 07:41 PM |
#129 |
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That's ridiculous. A lot of men like porn who have sex all the time. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 07:52 PM |
#135 |
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The point is that porn on puter does NOT = rape in most cases, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 08:02 PM |
#138 |
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Porn does not equal rape, but the type of porn can. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:27 PM |
#145 |
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Not a true link either. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 09:02 PM |
#152 |
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And you know that was the only evidence? Aren't you making a big... |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 09:11 PM |
#154 |
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Sex is *a* part of most healthy marriages. |
impeachdubya |
Apr-02-06 04:55 PM |
#65 |
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I think you and I fundamentally agree. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 05:28 PM |
#90 |
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Well, sure. I mean, clearly something's going on. |
impeachdubya |
Apr-02-06 05:59 PM |
#106 |
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I agree. And it's the communication that always seems to break down first |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 06:07 PM |
#110 |
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Correct -the more I read these posts |
malaise |
Apr-02-06 05:35 PM |
#96 |
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Sensible post. |
Iniquitous Bunny |
Apr-02-06 06:47 PM |
#118 |
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HAHAHAHAHA |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 04:45 PM |
# |
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I notice that you say, less sex with spouse, not less sex; so are you |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:47 PM |
#59 |
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I said no such thing -- |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 04:49 PM |
#61 |
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So then you are saying that when one gets married, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:00 PM |
#70 |
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I am saying |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:03 PM |
#73 |
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Fair enough, but if enough Bdays and holidays pass without |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:09 PM |
#77 |
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That is not a marriage-- |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:10 PM |
#81 |
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So faithful implies implicitly that sex is being had by both with |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:15 PM |
#83 |
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Seeking sex outside of marriage is, imo, wrong. Period. |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:23 PM |
#88 |
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EXACTLY! but expecting it within the marriage should be |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:33 PM |
#94 |
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I don't think so. |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 09:36 PM |
#164 |
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I agree with you 100% |
malaise |
Apr-02-06 05:40 PM |
#99 |
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Marriage without a sexual relationship isn't really a marriage.... |
BlackVelvet04 |
Apr-02-06 05:51 PM |
#104 |
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Here's where I have an issue with this: |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 06:15 PM |
#111 |
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I'm not condoning rape. |
BlackVelvet04 |
Apr-02-06 08:26 PM |
#144 |
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We agree in that context. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:33 PM |
#146 |
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I disagree with this -- |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 09:18 PM |
#157 |
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Unless agreed upon ahead of time, a person has |
BlackVelvet04 |
Apr-03-06 08:23 AM |
#167 |
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Wow. Not any marriage I've ever been in. |
impeachdubya |
Apr-02-06 04:57 PM |
#69 |
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I guess it depends... |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:01 PM |
#71 |
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My wife and I were together for a long time before we got married |
impeachdubya |
Apr-02-06 05:18 PM |
#86 |
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Amen! |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:29 PM |
#91 |
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Thanks. :) I think if both people are in for the mutual masturbation |
impeachdubya |
Apr-02-06 05:45 PM |
#101 |
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Best line of the day (at least for me) |
MelissaB |
Apr-02-06 05:48 PM |
#102 |
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Makes sense to me... |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 09:25 PM |
#160 |
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"hand it over OR accept it when he steps out of the marriage for sex" |
BattyDem |
Apr-02-06 03:56 PM |
#26 |
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What you are talking about vs. the article is talking about differ. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:11 PM |
#34 |
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I know that I'm talking about something different than the article .. |
BattyDem |
Apr-02-06 04:16 PM |
#36 |
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No problem, thank you for reconsidering my post. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:18 PM |
#37 |
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Bullshit |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 04:43 PM |
#54 |
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Expecting compromise and cooperation in all marital matters IS |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:45 PM |
#56 |
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Expecting sex on demand is not... |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 04:47 PM |
#60 |
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At no point do I read that this man, nor I, say that sex on demand |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:02 PM |
#72 |
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Then he could divorce her if he wanted too -- |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:07 PM |
#76 |
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Ahh, but now you say marriage should be based on sex, or |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:10 PM |
#80 |
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Infidelity is inexusable, as far as I am concerned. |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:26 PM |
#89 |
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You must be religious, I'm guessing, because you seem to |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:36 PM |
#97 |
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HA! Religious!!! |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 09:47 PM |
#165 |
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I think the general thrust (heh) from what I have read so far is: |
The Straight Story |
Apr-02-06 06:37 PM |
#115 |
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Of course you have a right to expect sex from your |
BlackVelvet04 |
Apr-02-06 05:56 PM |
#105 |
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Even if they say "no"? |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 06:20 PM |
#112 |
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I'm not talking about forcing anybody, I'm talking about the expectation. |
BlackVelvet04 |
Apr-02-06 08:21 PM |
#141 |
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We agree on that. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 08:34 PM |
#147 |
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yeah it's sick |
WindRavenX |
Apr-02-06 03:22 PM |
#7 |
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This is what God made iron skillets for. LOL nt |
Minnesota Libra |
Apr-02-06 03:22 PM |
#8 |
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heheh that's a good one |
DemonGoddess |
Apr-02-06 03:26 PM |
#12 |
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EXACTLY!! nt |
Minnesota Libra |
Apr-02-06 03:27 PM |
#15 |
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What do you think hedgeclippers are made for, beside trimming hedges? |
StopThePendulum |
Apr-02-06 04:35 PM |
#48 |
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'boing'! lol, good one. |
Jigarotta |
Apr-02-06 03:40 PM |
#18 |
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Kegel exercises help for that. |
FormerRepublican |
Apr-02-06 03:43 PM |
#20 |
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thanks! |
Jigarotta |
Apr-02-06 03:53 PM |
#25 |
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Well, you won't believe this, but |
napi21 |
Apr-02-06 03:23 PM |
#9 |
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So, Saying No would mean you're NOT "Pro-Life"... |
neoblues |
Apr-02-06 05:40 PM |
#100 |
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That might have been part of it. They never said. I think it was |
napi21 |
Apr-03-06 12:18 AM |
#166 |
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Trolls maybe? n/t |
Betsy Ross |
Apr-02-06 03:23 PM |
#10 |
| -
Yet they want no birth control???? |
HockeyMom |
Apr-02-06 03:23 PM |
#11 |
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Hey that's ok according to the Religous Right! Isn't that a republican |
sce56 |
Apr-02-06 03:26 PM |
#13 |
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I was certainly creeped out by what he said. |
sheelz |
Apr-02-06 03:27 PM |
#14 |
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I think that I would stab that guy with a fork |
oldcoot |
Apr-02-06 03:41 PM |
#19 |
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It is a complicated subject. |
frustrated_lefty |
Apr-02-06 03:45 PM |
#21 |
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Goodness....look at all the Newbies! |
AnnInLa |
Apr-02-06 03:48 PM |
#23 |
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I've started using those threads to expand my Ignore list. |
BlueIris |
Apr-02-06 03:52 PM |
#24 |
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Me too. I only had to start using it this year, but it's getting longer. |
Cleita |
Apr-02-06 03:58 PM |
#30 |
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I'm getting grossed out by a lot of what I am reading here |
Cleita |
Apr-02-06 03:57 PM |
#28 |
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Same here... |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:09 PM |
#79 |
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I'm not a woman but I find it creepy too. |
MrSlayer |
Apr-02-06 03:58 PM |
#29 |
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It's funny you should mention Mrs Bobbit,....................... |
Minnesota Libra |
Apr-02-06 04:03 PM |
#31 |
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Except Bobbit did that because she wanted more and better sex, |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:21 PM |
#38 |
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No I am not - quite the opposite - Mrs Bobbit was forced........ |
Minnesota Libra |
Apr-02-06 04:23 PM |
#41 |
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Do more research, she bobbed him because he didn't stack up |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:29 PM |
#46 |
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If what you are saying is the "official story" then............... |
Minnesota Libra |
Apr-02-06 04:54 PM |
#64 |
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I approve of self defense, even an iron skillet, but |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 05:06 PM |
#75 |
| -
You sound like a great guy ... |
BattyDem |
Apr-02-06 04:03 PM |
#32 |
| -
On behalf of my gender |
DanCa |
Apr-02-06 04:13 PM |
#35 |
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LOL @ "fork it over" |
upi402 |
Apr-02-06 04:22 PM |
#39 |
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I keep one of these around |
MuseRider |
Apr-02-06 04:23 PM |
#42 |
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OOooohhh, I like that. Kind of gives me the shivers. I think it needs |
poverlay |
Apr-02-06 04:27 PM |
#45 |
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I was trying to be kind. |
MuseRider |
Apr-02-06 04:32 PM |
#47 |
| -
Being married to a beautiful, sexy woman and having a beautiful |
poverlay |
Apr-02-06 04:25 PM |
#43 |
| -
Rock on, brother! |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:22 PM |
#87 |
| -
Men don't like being treated like this either. |
Rosemary2205 |
Apr-02-06 04:36 PM |
#50 |
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Yes. Sorry, gals, but it works both ways -- |
stickdog |
Apr-02-06 04:45 PM |
#57 |
| -
It certainly goes both ways--hell yeah! |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:31 PM |
#92 |
| -
It's our fault, you know -- |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 04:39 PM |
#51 |
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Oh, come on. It's only fair. If women can demand spooning, then why |
stickdog |
Apr-02-06 04:40 PM |
#52 |
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ROFL, thanks for lightening my perspective a bit. |
PetraPooh |
Apr-02-06 04:44 PM |
#55 |
| -
Funny stuff. Where can I find more of that cartoon with the guy on the |
poverlay |
Apr-02-06 04:56 PM |
#67 |
| -
Get Your War On! |
stickdog |
Apr-02-06 05:49 PM |
#103 |
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I loathe spooning, lol... |
Katherine Brengle |
Apr-02-06 05:32 PM |
#93 |
| -
I am with ya sister |
greenbriar |
Apr-02-06 05:04 PM |
#74 |
| -
I think that any man who tries to lord |
hyphenate |
Apr-02-06 05:16 PM |
#84 |
| -
Yes, it does creep me out. |
Iniquitous Bunny |
Apr-02-06 05:17 PM |
#85 |
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I would never ever think about forcing myself apon my wife |
Retired AF Dem |
Apr-02-06 05:35 PM |
#95 |
| -
Our sexlife has dropped off a bit, too.. |
liberalpress |
Apr-02-06 06:24 PM |
#113 |
| -
Anyone who forces themselves on another person should be in jail. |
Iniquitous Bunny |
Apr-02-06 06:36 PM |
#114 |
| -
Well I certainly wouldn't defend a rapist or a man who wants to |
walldude |
Apr-02-06 06:02 PM |
#107 |
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am i the only person who gets creeped out by facile stereo's |
sweetheart |
Apr-02-06 06:05 PM |
#109 |
| -
All I know is |
Justice Is Comin |
Apr-02-06 06:44 PM |
#116 |
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In total Agreement.. It's Misogyny Running Amok ... |
radio4progressives |
Apr-02-06 06:45 PM |
#117 |
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Just say FORK YOU!! |
omega minimo |
Apr-02-06 07:15 PM |
#121 |
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Regressed? We never left those days. |
MountainLaurel |
Apr-02-06 07:41 PM |
#128 |
| -
I guess I've been married so long to a really good guy that I don't relate |
MyPetRock |
Apr-02-06 09:29 PM |
#162 |
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