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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-18-06 02:51 PM
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2. Because most 14 year old boys would jump at the chance.
I'm just wondering if girls are the same?
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  -Question for women. At 14, could you be attracted to a 23 year old man? trumad  Sep-18-06 02:49 PM   #0 
  - Why?  Fierce   Sep-18-06 02:50 PM   #1 
  - Because most 14 year old boys would jump at the chance.  trumad   Sep-18-06 02:51 PM   #2 
  - Doesn't matter what the 14-year-old wants, male or female.  Fierce   Sep-18-06 02:55 PM   #14 
  - OBEY!!! n/t  banjoterror   Sep-18-06 02:58 PM   #23 
  - The Sex drive in all animals over powers good judgment.  heidler1   Sep-18-06 03:24 PM   #41 
  - Oh please, that's ridiculous.  Lindacooks   Sep-18-06 03:36 PM   #46 
     - Hey this keeps happening with humans so face it. If this was not true  heidler1   Sep-18-06 05:00 PM   #86 
     - Yeah, it keeps happening. With STUPID humans.  Lindacooks   Sep-18-06 10:42 PM   #144 
     - Really? Shall we ask Mr. Clinton about that?  Jack Rabbit   Sep-19-06 08:44 PM   #200 
  - I'm sure there are a large number of 14 year olds "infatuated"  etherealtruth   Sep-18-06 03:39 PM   #48 
  - Good response  Truthiness Inspector   Sep-18-06 04:24 PM   #74 
  - And The 14 Yr Old Male Would Do Well To  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Sep-18-06 05:43 PM   #106 
  - Haw haw haw!  Fierce   Sep-18-06 05:46 PM   #107 
  - Exactly. It's about the responsibility for behaving responsibly  JerseygirlCT   Sep-18-06 07:51 PM   #132 
  - It's a good question.  lumberjack_jeff   Sep-18-06 03:52 PM   #57 
     - I totally agree.  Odin2005   Sep-18-06 07:46 PM   #129 
  - why not?  CatWoman   Sep-18-06 02:51 PM   #3 
  - Good answer  trumad   Sep-18-06 02:53 PM   #7 
  - Nah, 23 was an old man when I was 14  Warpy   Sep-18-06 04:04 PM   #67 
  - Oh yes  demnan   Sep-18-06 02:51 PM   #4 
  - You could be attracted but sorry, that's kinda creepy...  devilgrrl   Sep-18-06 02:52 PM   #5 
  - That's what I thought: creepy.  Kire   Sep-18-06 02:56 PM   #16 
  - Because I'm tying it in with the Debra LaFave thread.  trumad   Sep-18-06 02:58 PM   #20 
     - Young girls may clamor for guys in their 20's-they'd be labelled as Sluts  devilgrrl   Sep-18-06 03:12 PM   #29 
     - Sure.  Bornaginhooligan   Sep-18-06 03:16 PM   #35 
     - I guess my point is...  devilgrrl   Sep-18-06 03:48 PM   #52 
     - We can NOT morally evaluate children being attracted to other teens  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 04:34 PM   #77 
        - So I guessing you think Romeo was a monster, then...  Odin2005   Sep-18-06 07:48 PM   #130 
           - In America today, such a Sit would not be the same, and yes  ShortnFiery   Sep-19-06 05:22 AM   #163 
           - Your source for Romeo's age?  raccoon   Sep-19-06 07:55 AM   #171 
              - My English teacher from high school.  Odin2005   Sep-19-06 01:51 PM   #180 
     - Not when I was in high school.  Ariana Celeste   Sep-18-06 03:21 PM   #40 
     - Interesting, because most of the "sluts" I knew never slept with anyone...  devilgrrl   Sep-18-06 03:47 PM   #51 
     - It's still that way ... you can be popular but also date other teens  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 04:40 PM   #78 
     - Or, they'd be labeled as young women who get bored with  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 03:26 PM   #44 
     - That doesn't make it less DEMENTED to the vast majority of parents!  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 04:23 PM   #73 
     - I think calling teens children is insulting towards teens.  Odin2005   Sep-18-06 07:51 PM   #131 
     - Did you get your answer?  Kire   Sep-18-06 08:13 PM   #138 
     - Oh let them live in their sexual attraction-free bubble.  BlooInBloo   Sep-19-06 09:05 PM   #204 
  - Societal bias is ubiquitous, as is our double standard.  greyhound1966   Sep-18-06 03:53 PM   #58 
  - But make no doubt, the EMOTIONAL TRAUMA of an Adult  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 04:45 PM   #80 
     - But the trauma is not a result of the act, it is a result of the reaction  greyhound1966   Sep-18-06 05:18 PM   #98 
        - Oh stop, when an adult has SEX with a young teen child it is NOT  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 07:01 PM   #123 
           - Please re-read reply #58.  greyhound1966   Sep-18-06 11:59 PM   #152 
              - Please read the Statutory RAPE laws.  ShortnFiery   Sep-19-06 05:09 AM   #160 
                 - I guess there's no interest in an actual discussion  greyhound1966   Sep-19-06 10:10 AM   #175 
  - I went to a HS where a teacher married 2 of his students  madmunchie   Sep-18-06 08:12 PM   #137 
  - Yes  wicket   Sep-18-06 02:52 PM   #6 
  - Is this a trick question?  WesDem   Sep-18-06 02:53 PM   #8 
  - Yes it is  Kire   Sep-18-06 08:16 PM   #141 
  - Oh hell yes.  hippiechick   Sep-18-06 02:54 PM   #9 
  - I was going to post this in the other thread...  Bornaginhooligan   Sep-18-06 02:54 PM   #10 
  - yes but the 23 year old man must stay away . nt  southernleftylady   Sep-18-06 02:54 PM   #11 
  - Its a fantasy that doesn't need playing out.  pooja   Sep-18-06 02:54 PM   #12 
  - Yes, of course  supernova   Sep-18-06 02:55 PM   #13 
  - hoo boy  Lilith Velkor   Sep-18-06 02:55 PM   #15 
  - Absolutely.  Ariana Celeste   Sep-18-06 02:56 PM   #17 
  - LOL  CatWoman   Sep-18-06 02:57 PM   #18 
  - I'm 43, and a 14 yo recently made it clear she was attracted to me  AchtungToddler   Sep-18-06 02:57 PM   #19 
  - That's a very mature and thoughtful reaction.  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 05:02 PM   #89 
  - I think that was a brilliant response.  pnwmom   Sep-19-06 10:58 AM   #178 
  - I could be attracted to one....  butterfly77   Sep-18-06 02:58 PM   #21 
  - Don't see what difference my gender makes in giving an answer...  DRoseDARs   Sep-18-06 02:58 PM   #22 
  - Yes and no  meganmonkey   Sep-18-06 02:59 PM   #24 
  - see my answer #142  DemReadingDU   Sep-18-06 09:04 PM   #143 
  - when I was 13, I was attracted to a 36 year old man and seduced by him  helderheid   Sep-18-06 03:01 PM   #25 
  - Oh, I'm sorry that happened to you.  Lindacooks   Sep-18-06 03:37 PM   #47 
     - I am, thanks!  helderheid   Sep-18-06 07:02 PM   #124 
  - Could I, Would I, or Was I?  MamaBear   Sep-18-06 03:06 PM   #26 
  - Seems that 14 year-old girls can be attracted to 73 year-old men even -  smalll   Sep-18-06 04:04 PM   #68 
  - Totally irrelevant question  sandnsea   Sep-18-06 03:10 PM   #27 
  - Best answer I've read!  etherealtruth   Sep-18-06 04:55 PM   #84 
  - DING DING DING DING!!!  helderheid   Sep-18-06 06:10 PM   #120 
  - Yes, very well put  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 07:04 PM   #125 
  - a) Get thee into the lounge  CJCRANE   Sep-18-06 03:11 PM   #28 
  - At 14, I was attracted to 23 year old women.  haruka3_2000   Sep-18-06 03:12 PM   #30 
  - Another Lounge thread...................  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 03:13 PM   #31 
  - Back off!!!  CatWoman   Sep-18-06 03:15 PM   #34 
  - Oh I'm sorry-- was there a point to the 2 sentence OP?  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 03:25 PM   #43 
     - There's a lot of crap in GD, dude  Ariana Celeste   Sep-18-06 03:48 PM   #53 
  - So, hide the thread  Ariana Celeste   Sep-18-06 03:18 PM   #38 
     - Hide it in the Lounge  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 03:25 PM   #42 
        - better yet  CatWoman   Sep-18-06 03:43 PM   #49 
           - So what about that point?  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 03:48 PM   #54 
           - I have a question.  Bornaginhooligan   Sep-18-06 03:49 PM   #56 
           - Was it equal opportunity lack of context?  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 03:55 PM   #62 
              - You dodged the question.  Bornaginhooligan   Sep-18-06 03:56 PM   #64 
                 - No I made a joke  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 04:55 PM   #83 
           - wasn't sure you had one  CatWoman   Sep-18-06 03:56 PM   #66 
           - Hey, don't pawn his irrational anger on the Lounge.  haruka3_2000   Sep-18-06 05:15 PM   #96 
              - "Irrational anger" ? Well it ain't "anger" and the OP is "irrational"  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 05:36 PM   #103 
              - I just think it's pretty crazy how you believe yourself to be the  haruka3_2000   Sep-18-06 05:39 PM   #104 
                 - I have a new ideal  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 05:40 PM   #105 
              - Wait, It's She Right?  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Sep-18-06 05:47 PM   #110 
                 - I honestly don't know.  haruka3_2000   Sep-18-06 05:49 PM   #111 
                    - Whew. Ok.  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Sep-18-06 05:53 PM   #114 
                       - You haven't told your wife your obsession is male?  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 05:55 PM   #115 
                          - Ha! Don't Flatter Yourself. And Responses Like That Belong In The Lounge.  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Sep-18-06 05:58 PM   #116 
  - When I was 16, my boyfriend was 25. I was a mature 16,  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 03:15 PM   #32 
  - you know, I didn't start dating younger men  CatWoman   Sep-18-06 03:16 PM   #36 
  - Same here. And I'm still not sure it was a good idea.  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 03:21 PM   #39 
  - The differences between 14 and 16 are way different  LisaM   Sep-18-06 03:54 PM   #59 
  - Very true. 14, 15, 16, different universes. n/t  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 03:56 PM   #65 
     - Not to most parents. n/t  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 05:00 PM   #88 
        - Most parents can be very tone deaf around their kids sexuality.  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 05:14 PM   #95 
           - Most Parents will call the Police to have An Adult hanging  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 06:57 PM   #122 
              - You bet! And the other side of the equation, helping kids  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 07:23 PM   #127 
                 - Yes - Exactly! Adolescence is a very emotional time aside from the  ShortnFiery   Sep-19-06 05:18 AM   #161 
  - And your parents were "cool" with this relationship?  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 04:47 PM   #82 
     - You know, my mom was an addict and I had been taking care of her  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 05:23 PM   #100 
  - Question: at 23, could you be attracted to a 45 year old man?  patcox2   Sep-18-06 03:15 PM   #33 
  - Actually, one of my best friends in high school married  MamaBear   Sep-18-06 03:49 PM   #55 
     - A marriage is what two people agree to. Hopefully, neither of them  sfexpat2000   Sep-18-06 05:32 PM   #102 
  - Yes and hopefully not.  Sequoia   Sep-18-06 03:18 PM   #37 
  - oh yeah,  notadmblnd   Sep-18-06 03:33 PM   #45 
  - yes, but depends on what you mean by 'attracted'.  QuestionAll...   Sep-18-06 03:45 PM   #50 
  - I was seeing a 21 yr old guy a that age - but was leery of the whole thing  kerry-is-my-prez   Sep-18-06 03:55 PM   #60 
  - I had crushes on actors and singing stars older than that.  Crunchy Frog   Sep-18-06 03:55 PM   #61 
  - I had crushes on actors who were so old  pnwmom   Sep-19-06 11:00 AM   #179 
  - My niece had a relationship with a man who was 10 yrs. her senior when  SoyCat   Sep-18-06 03:56 PM   #63 
  - Of course. Just ask any 14 year old girl who  LibDemAlways   Sep-18-06 04:12 PM   #69 
  - It doesn't matter if I could be or not, if Mr. 23 y.o. has sex with me  ShortnFiery   Sep-18-06 04:15 PM   #70 
  - Sick  qwertyMike   Sep-18-06 04:20 PM   #71 
  - In my experience, 14-year-old girls can get crushes on  Lydia Leftcoast   Sep-18-06 04:22 PM   #72 
  - weeeeell, actually  pansypoo53219   Sep-18-06 04:25 PM   #75 
  - ROTFLMAO  trumad   Sep-18-06 04:56 PM   #85 
  - Good gods, I had the hots for him, too. nt  Blue in Portland   Sep-18-06 11:03 PM   #149 
     - He was hot.  Lilith Velkor   Sep-19-06 07:59 AM   #172 
  - .  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 04:28 PM   #76 
  - When I was 14, I had a mad crush on Richie Hebner.  Bunny   Sep-18-06 04:44 PM   #79 
  - Yes. n/t  Lorien   Sep-18-06 04:46 PM   #81 
  - Dogs will tie with a bitch in heat  sweetheart   Sep-18-06 05:00 PM   #87 
  - A 14 year old girl who has been exposed to 12 years of  SoCalDem   Sep-18-06 05:02 PM   #90 
  - 14 is so impressionable; emotionally immature  sparosnare   Sep-18-06 05:05 PM   #91 
  - Yes.  demgurl   Sep-18-06 05:06 PM   #92 
  - Yes, but I'd have been too scared to be seduced by him  treestar   Sep-18-06 05:09 PM   #93 
  - I suppose no one here is old enough to remember the screaming that  Sapere aude   Sep-18-06 05:10 PM   #94 
  - This all started  H2O Man   Sep-18-06 05:16 PM   #97 
  - "Rap rap rap They call him The Rapper"  omega minimo   Sep-18-06 05:30 PM   #101 
  - Gawd, I hadn't thought about that song in years!  ms liberty   Sep-18-06 05:47 PM   #109 
  - Great Song. Haven't Heard It In A While, But Now It's In My Head.  OPERATIONMINDCRIME   Sep-18-06 05:50 PM   #113 
  - And when Elvis came along... umm...  Imagevision   Sep-18-06 10:49 PM   #146 
  - Hey, love knows no age  Sydnie   Sep-18-06 05:20 PM   #99 
  - Age is irrelevant when it comes to matters of the heart.  lonestarnot   Sep-18-06 05:46 PM   #108 
  - All the time and yes I could have bee seduced by them,  Cleita   Sep-18-06 05:49 PM   #112 
  - Absolutely.  Horse with no Name   Sep-18-06 05:59 PM   #117 
  - Yes and no  ms liberty   Sep-18-06 06:00 PM   #118 
  - Of course  Nikia   Sep-18-06 06:07 PM   #119 
  - Well ya  Raine   Sep-18-06 06:28 PM   #121 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Sep-18-06 07:20 PM   #126 
  - 14 & 23? Sounds like Juliet and Romeo...  Odin2005   Sep-18-06 07:39 PM   #128 
  - I thought Romeo was supposed to be a teenager too, like 16  Bucky   Sep-18-06 07:55 PM   #134 
     - I was told he was in his 20s  Odin2005   Sep-18-06 07:56 PM   #135 
        - According to SparkNotes, he's about 16.  Crunchy Frog   Sep-19-06 06:34 PM   #192 
  - any adult in authority over a child  QuestionAll...   Sep-18-06 07:54 PM   #133 
  - Attraction has little to do with age.....  BlackVelvet04   Sep-18-06 08:05 PM   #136 
  - conquest  QuestionAll...   Sep-18-06 08:14 PM   #139 
  - Yes and no  OzarkDem   Sep-18-06 08:15 PM   #140 
  - Why is the girl always 14??????  DemReadingDU   Sep-18-06 08:58 PM   #142 
  - Because people become sexually mature on average around 14.  Odin2005   Sep-19-06 01:59 PM   #181 
  - Of course!  Lindacooks   Sep-18-06 10:46 PM   #145 
  - don't remember 14 much, but i found guys in their 50s+ attractive at 16  JI7   Sep-18-06 10:52 PM   #147 
  - i could definitely have been attracted...  Scout   Sep-18-06 10:58 PM   #148 
  - Of course.  AZBlue   Sep-18-06 11:33 PM   #150 
  - I went out with a couple of guys in thier...  FormerOstrich   Sep-18-06 11:47 PM   #151 
  - Depends on the 14 year old. Happened to me, sort of.  RevolutionStartsNow   Sep-19-06 12:00 AM   #153 
  - lol....  FormerOstrich   Sep-19-06 12:13 AM   #155 
     - I used to try that excuse with my parents  RevolutionStartsNow   Sep-19-06 01:29 AM   #156 
        - I think we might have a lot in common!  FormerOstrich   Sep-19-06 04:40 AM   #159 
           - Haha....I think we've lived parallel lives...  RevolutionStartsNow   Sep-19-06 08:16 AM   #174 
  - Yes, I probably could. Depends on the man in question. eom  Red Right and BLUE   Sep-19-06 12:07 AM   #154 
  - Yes.  eridani   Sep-19-06 01:55 AM   #157 
  - yes and yes  AtomicKitten   Sep-19-06 04:28 AM   #158 
  - At 14, I was attracted to a 47-year-old man  magellan   Sep-19-06 05:22 AM   #162 
  - OK, spill :)  Bluebear   Sep-19-06 05:23 AM   #164 
     - Okay, I'm well used to people laughing at me about it  magellan   Sep-19-06 05:32 AM   #165 
        - For you, and rock on :)  Bluebear   Sep-19-06 05:33 AM   #166 
        - Thank you! :-)  magellan   Sep-19-06 05:55 AM   #169 
        - Rock on! Everyone loves a freethinker!  lumberjack_jeff   Sep-19-06 10:24 AM   #177 
           - Donny Osmond? Eww!  magellan   Sep-19-06 07:31 PM   #194 
  - Yes, People have.  flordehinojos   Sep-19-06 05:38 AM   #167 
  - But a "very real" and convictable crime here in 21st Century America  ShortnFiery   Sep-19-06 05:43 AM   #168 
     - Your culturally-based biases are showing  Odin2005   Sep-19-06 02:05 PM   #182 
        - Don't bother, there's a different station tuned in over there.  greyhound1966   Sep-19-06 04:34 PM   #190 
  - Sure.  LWolf   Sep-19-06 07:16 AM   #170 
  - Yes, and yes  noonwitch   Sep-19-06 08:01 AM   #173 
  - On behalf of a 14-year-old girl who is a neighbor of mine  slackmaster   Sep-19-06 10:14 AM   #176 
  - When I was 14, I sure as hell was attracted to 23 year old women.  Commie Pinko Dirtbag   Sep-19-06 02:08 PM   #183 
  - Certainly.  bluedeminredstate   Sep-19-06 03:32 PM   #184 
  - could and was  pitohui   Sep-19-06 04:01 PM   #185 
  - I had a friend who was 15 who dated a twenty-something yr old guy  GloriaSmith   Sep-19-06 04:10 PM   #186 
  - Interestingly, my parents  FlaGranny   Sep-19-06 04:19 PM   #187 
  - My 38 year old boyfriend just left me for a 21 year old girl  katamaran   Sep-19-06 04:23 PM   #188 
  - Ouch. It may not feel like it right now, but it's better he showed his  whutgives   Sep-19-06 07:36 PM   #196 
     - Oh.. and she's a fundy Republican too!  katamaran   Sep-19-06 08:58 PM   #201 
  - plenty of 14 year old girls have crushes on young men  orangepeel68   Sep-19-06 04:28 PM   #189 
  - The question is whether an adult should have sex with children.  philosophie_en_rose   Sep-19-06 04:44 PM   #191 
  - Right.  H2O Man   Sep-19-06 07:33 PM   #195 
  - Depends on your definition of "adult" and "child" and what  whutgives   Sep-19-06 07:39 PM   #197 
     - Culture is not an excuse for exploitation  philosophie_en_rose   Sep-19-06 08:41 PM   #199 
        - I think rape is condemed in any culture. Many cultures marry  whutgives   Sep-19-06 09:11 PM   #206 
  - At the age of 15 I went out with a 23 yo for a couple of dates...  wildhorses   Sep-19-06 06:48 PM   #193 
  - Well, I for one...  Sparkly   Sep-19-06 07:43 PM   #198 
  - Yeah  tinfoil tiaras   Sep-19-06 09:02 PM   #202 
  - Why are you asking this?  debbierlus   Sep-19-06 09:04 PM   #203 
  - ONLY under this circumstance:  BrightBlueDot   Sep-19-06 09:08 PM   #205 
  - At 14 I had a 20 yo boyfriend.  laundry_queen   Sep-19-06 09:15 PM   #207 
 

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