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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-05-06 04:11 PM
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35. "because you're basically a really smart, really good person"
BINGO!

The whole "us and them" syndrome.

That's what people in this society do best.

I found that out when my son was kidnapped. Receive compassion? NOPE. "What kind of person are you to let that happen?"

Yes, that's exactly what some people (liberal!) said.

The pattern is, they are struck by the pain of the situation, but rather than empathize, and take the risk of worrying whether they could end up in those shoes, they quickly (less than a second) find some reason why the other person "had it coming", which is different from how they are, so they are safe and can be spared worrying.

A neat little psychological trick.

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  -Attitudes about poverty.. undergroundpanther  Sep-04-06 09:19 PM   #0 
  - I would guess the world appears just if you were born into wealth  Selatius   Sep-04-06 09:23 PM   #1 
  - yep we want equality  undergroundpanther   Sep-04-06 09:26 PM   #2 
  - It's sad that poor people and poverty no longer seem to be a priority...  kentuck   Sep-04-06 09:28 PM   #3 
  - Look, economic populism does not sit well with many Democrats  Selatius   Sep-04-06 09:32 PM   #5 
  - Greedy pigs don't wanna share  undergroundpanther   Sep-04-06 09:38 PM   #7 
  - How many politicians are millionaires?  undergroundpanther   Sep-04-06 09:34 PM   #6 
  - Thanks so much, Kentuck! I've been verbally tarred and feathered  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 04:04 PM   #33 
  - More...  undergroundpanther   Sep-04-06 09:29 PM   #4 
  - Sachs has the correct view if the goal is to solve the problem.  lostinacause   Sep-05-06 10:03 AM   #23 
  - In America there is a racial aspect to blame the poor because the face  rosebud57   Sep-04-06 09:40 PM   #8 
  - And they weren't under his control but some county transit agency  sfexpat2000   Sep-05-06 08:41 AM   #15 
     - Exactly, just because you are mayor doesn't mean you are king...  rosebud57   Sep-05-06 10:15 AM   #24 
  - Good discussion!  EstimatedProphet   Sep-04-06 09:42 PM   #9 
  - Absolutely.  Jackpine Radical   Sep-04-06 10:02 PM   #10 
  - Sometimes a so-and-so middle class life is enough to trigger that ideology  Commie Pinko Dirtbag   Sep-05-06 08:19 AM   #11 
  - True, a lot of middle class people believe the "just world" crap.  raccoon   Sep-05-06 08:30 AM   #12 
  - Either that or their minds fall victim to the "scapegoat du jour" ruse.  Commie Pinko Dirtbag   Sep-05-06 08:36 AM   #13 
     - Narcissism!  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 09:26 AM   #18 
  - Fundies definitely buy into, if a person is right with god, the lord  rosebud57   Sep-05-06 10:20 AM   #25 
  - What about the poor-hating ex-poor?  porphyrian   Sep-05-06 08:38 AM   #14 
  - Sometimes  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 09:30 AM   #19 
  - Heh, I like you. - n/t  porphyrian   Sep-05-06 09:31 AM   #20 
     - Thanks  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 09:40 AM   #22 
  - Oprah comes immediately to mind........  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 04:07 PM   #34 
     - It explains why she's so adored by otherwise racist-inclined housewives...  porphyrian   Sep-05-06 05:03 PM   #37 
        - Hadn't thought of it that way before....  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 09:57 PM   #45 
  - But it's easier to just pretend like you have what you have ...  LisaLynne   Sep-05-06 08:44 AM   #16 
  - And when they never face it  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 09:39 AM   #21 
  - "because you're basically a really smart, really good person"  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 04:11 PM   #35 
     - liberals  marions ghost   Sep-05-06 05:37 PM   #39 
        - Yes, we're all a product of a puritan critical society  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 09:22 PM   #42 
  - a few more points...  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 09:13 AM   #17 
  - I'm not sure how making the rich suffer will solve much.  aikoaiko   Sep-05-06 10:43 AM   #26 
  - Remember wehen raygun got Alzhiemers?  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 12:59 PM   #29 
  - Eat the Rich! (jk)  TheFriedPiper   Sep-05-06 10:46 AM   #27 
  - I believe slavery and subjugation are the natural state of life on earth,  Ron_Green   Sep-05-06 11:04 AM   #28 
  - And this is one reason among many  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 01:05 PM   #30 
     - However, I think the good fight is worth fighting,  Ron_Green   Sep-05-06 01:17 PM   #31 
     - Well...  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 06:50 PM   #40 
     - I so understand what you're saying!  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 04:34 PM   #36 
        - Grow a skin?  undergroundpanther   Sep-05-06 07:28 PM   #41 
           - "no heart within that beats warm blood"  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 09:26 PM   #43 
  - I used to believe that a strong muddleclass was very important  bobbolink   Sep-05-06 04:02 PM   #32 
  - I think there's a serious misconception about which class people...  porphyrian   Sep-05-06 05:10 PM   #38 
  - puritains  sweetheart   Sep-05-06 09:31 PM   #44 
  - Excellent discussion  Jcrowley   Sep-05-06 10:09 PM   #46 
  - Economic caste system  Jcrowley   Sep-05-06 10:59 PM   #47 
 

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